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Hey everybody.
I'm kind of having a hard time today. My Probation officer won't let me go to A.A. because I relapsed with someone from AA and today I'm going CRAZY! I've been to online meetings but I really need to be able to connect with people face to face and talk to them. I've bee...
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Hey up there? Take it for another day!!
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In the face of an obstacle which is impossible to overcome, stubbornness is stupid. --Simone de Beauvoir
Sudden obstacles, barriers in the way of our progress, doors that unexpectedly close, may confuse, frustrate, even depress us. The knowledge that we seldom understand just what is best fo...
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Check in.
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Good morning all.
How is everyone?
Hope your well and sober, bye for now.
Chris.
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need a room
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I'm in NYC and need a room with someone in the rooms, or my own place. Any ideas?
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daily motivator
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Saturday, April 16, 2005
This very day You are rich today to an extent beyond anything you can imagine. The portion of that richness that you do imagine, and accept, and bring to life, is the richness you will experience in this very day.
You have traveled long and far to get to this moment. Every ste...
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King Alcohol
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"King Alcohol and his Prime Minister" circa 1820
Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcoholism
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resentment vs. Anger..
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Opposite of anger is love!! So if I can not find love I am angery!! Opposite of resentment is Acceptance!! If I don't find the love from my anger I am not accepting any love and I will carry around a resentment. I think I get even more confused than understanding the diffeence because Opposite of Fear is Fa...
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Miller raised an interesting point
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He said in reply to a previous post that your friends will not tire of you being "not drunk".
Wrong.
My mates were tired of me being sober.
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New Riders of the Purple Sage
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What a fantastic band.
Especially "Ripple"
Whatever happened to them?
Have been listening to them all night and they just get better.
Did anyone else see Steve Earle on telly tonight?
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Taters
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Click here to meet the family...
http://www.americanbridge.com/taters.htm
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in a nutsell
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A man died, he got to the big room in the sky and was met by st peter, he said to st peter " what is heaven and what is hell"? st peter took the man into a room where there was a big round table on the table was bumdles of food and drink, around the table were lots of people with great big spoons they could lean over a...
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Letting nature take it's course
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The cocoon and the butterfly Once a little boy was playing outdoors and found a fascinating caterpillar. He carefully picked it up and took it home to show his mother. He asked his mother if he could keep it, and she said he could if he would take good care of it. The little boy got a large jar from his mother...
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The Bondage Of Resentments
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...harboring resentment is infinitely grave. For then we shut ourselves off from the sunlight of the spirit.
It has been said, "Anger is a luxury I cannot afford." Does this suggest I egnore this human emotion? I believe not. Before I learned of the A.A. prog...
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A Founder Of AA in Ontario Canada
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This man printed up cards a long time ago, and they are still given out at meetings by his son today. He was sober 50 some years when he passed away. His son is sober 30 years.
I used to think this old guy had a few screws loose, but after being in the programme of AA for a while, I realize the following is what...
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i hate this disease
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i jsut heard of someone who became a statistic after 2 years in a program..29 year old female with 2 young children..if i forget for one minute where i came from and where i could go in the blink of an eye...well its a reality that hits me hard when i hear things like this. Please if you're sittin on the fence...
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Friday
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A.A. Thought for the Day
Terrible things could have happened to any one of us. We never will know what might have happened to us when we were drunk. We usually thought: "That couldn't happen to me." But any one of us could have killed somebody or have been killed ourselves, if we were drunk enough. But f...
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Heres to Women!!
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>>WOMEN'S REVENGE: "Cash, check or charge?" I asked, after folding
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>>woman wished to purchase. As she fumbled for her wallet I noticed a
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>>control for a television set in her purse. "So, do you always carry
>>your TV
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the daily motivator
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Wednesday, April 13, 2005
What it takes You have what it takes to make an ordinary day into a great one that will always be remembered. For what it takes is nothing more than the willingness to live every moment like it will never come again.
You have what it takes to transform small, easily performe...
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Have a good Thursday all
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Only those who dare, truly live. --Ruth P. Freedman
We receive from life, from every experience, from each interaction according to what we have given. When we commit ourselves fully to an experience, it will bless us. When we give ourselves wholly to any moment, our awareness of reality will be...
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HOW IT WORKS
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How It Works
Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are suc...
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Meetings
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Hi All,
When I got sober 14 years ago I went to about 4-5 meetings a week for the first 5 years or so.
Lately I've found myself struggling with meetings and getting to them seems to require a great effort. I think it's partially because I'm bored with local meetings which seem very monotonous. Th...
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Hello Everyone.
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I just kind of wanted to introduce myself. I'm new to this site (was introduced to it by a fellow alcoholic) but not new to A.A. I'm sixteen and I've read a lot of good posts on here so far. I just got a minor consumption and my probation officer won't let me to go any A.A. meetings becaus...
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Relaxation Technique that Works!
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I posted a Relaxation Technique that really works on the Alanon board. :aw: 
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April 13, 2005- we only live it once
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I am clean and sober, but i swear i feel hungover!! Could it be an emotional hangover? I've been working at a job now for exactly 2 months, that in itself is an accomplishment. Before that i didn't work for 3 years, i lived on the streets basically, lost in actice addiction. Clearly trying to run fr...
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As We Begin A New Day
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The world is a wheel always turning. Those who are high go down low, and those who've been low go up higher. --Anzia Yezierska
Everything changes. Nothing stays the same. And letting go of the way things are, anticipating instead what they might become, frees us to live each moment more fully.
T...
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the Mayo Jar
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When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar...and the coffee... A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large, empty mayonnaise...
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Hello
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I came to know about AA through MIRC in 1997. A person I met on MIRC took me to my second AA meeting 12/27/97. My first AA meeting was in 1981. At that time my life was manageble. lol. I have been sober since 12/25/00. I got to alot of face to face meetings and am involved in some service work. I find that...
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Just for fun...
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One night I had a wondrous dream, one set of footprints there were seen
The footprints of my precious Lord, But mine were not along the shore.
But then some strange prints appeared, And I asked the Lord, "What have we here?
Those prints are large and round and neat, But Lord, they are too big for fee...
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Giving Up Insanity-April 12
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...were alcohol has been involved, we have been strangely insane.
Alcoholism required me to drink, whether I wanted to or not. Insanity dominated my life and was the essence of my disease. It robbed me of the freedom of choice over drinking and, therefore, rob...
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just could use some advice...
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I don't really know exactly what to do...most of the time I don't feel like I have an alcohol problem..of course i'm sober when I decide these things. I'm not someone who drinks everyday but I'm becoming increasingly worried about what happens when I do drink. I swore to myself a few months ago I'd only d...
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Hey Cabbagehead?
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You gettting married my freind? Are you out of your skull? hehehe
Hey Buddy. Im kidding with yu. Wishing you all the best, and happiness to come.
One day at a time.
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Where is Cabbagehead?
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It's been a while since our mate Cabbagehead rocked in to wish us a great day.
...maybe he is ordering his suit for the wedding or sumpthin.
You still around mate?
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Allison-big book web page
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I hope that this helps; http://www.recovery.org/aa/bigbook/ww/ just click on save it in your favorites for the future.
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Tuesday
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A.A. Thought for the Day
This sober world is a pleasant place for an alcoholic to live in. Once you've got out of your alcoholic fog, you find that the world looks good. You find real friends in A.A. You get a job. You feel good in the morning. You eat a good breakfast and you do a good day's work at home or ou...
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All in a days work
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Today I have woken up early, which is kinda extraordinary, and I have been greated by 3 "Whatcha doing up?"'s so far...
I've been out and fed the critters early and they are all in shock. The donks flat out refused to come down, because I spose they figured just cos I was up, doesn't mean they have to be. N...
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Life is...
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Drawing without an eraser
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Have A Great Monday My Freinds
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An element of recovery is learning that we deserve success, the good things that come to us, and also that pain is a reality. We have the strength to deal with that pain without medicating, and it will pass. --Dudley Martineau
Many of us didn't understand the changing variables in being human. Our...
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time
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Each day we awaken to a full account, a deposit made of 86,400 seconds in a day. Each night the account is depleted, no carry over into tomorrow, no overdrafts. What we do with our Time bank is up to us. Make each moment count!!! Have a great sober day, stay safe and smilin'!!!!!
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nic mainly-everyone else too
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on a very serious note, I read your thread to the reading of the day and my opinion.
I really identified with your story, I was teased as a kid, sexually abused, and raped (during my addiction). I just mean to say that I need to take responsibility for the outcomes to situations. I can't le...
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"Toleration
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is the greatest gift of the mind"
Hellen Keller
I think about this quote as often as possible. I need to as I sometimes have very little of this precious commodity. Sometimes, I want others to do what I want, when I want it - still. This is old behavior, unhealthy for my own mind. Being intolerant no lo...
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the day we finally "get it"
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The day we finally get it!!!!! The Awakening A time comes in your life when you finally get it... When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks, and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out - ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. And, like a child...
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A Word To Drop: "BLAME" 4-11
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To see how erratic emotions victimized us often took a long time. We could perceive them quickly in others, but only slowly in ourselves. First of all, we had to admit that we had many of these defects, even though such disclosures were painful and humiliating. Where other people...
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Hey Amanda...
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I'm glad you checked in , I miss you when you don't. How are things going in your life? Have you started gardening yet? I've been doing a little at my house and the church.
You are right about the 11th and 12th step, that's when God is leading and guiding me.He has blessed me so that I can be a blessing to oth...
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For Certain Eyes only
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Oookay...I can't find any direct emails, but I would particularly like to pass this on to Phil, Stan and Cabbagehead. There may also be others who find this amusing...BUT...there may be some who do not.
Soooooo, all those who are easily offended by the development of the English lang...
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Glimmer of hope
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My wife and kids just stopped by. On their way back from the horse arena to where they are staying. They left 12 days ago and had no real reason to stop in tonight other than to say Hi.
It was wonderfull seeing them. They are full of bitterness and I know it may take a long time, but Im praying to God to soften...
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for the women,ok,you men can look too...
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My sponsor emailed this to me...thought you all would get a chuckle out of it!
20 ways for women to tell if they've had too much to drink
1. I have absolutely no idea where my purse is
2. I truly believe that dancing with my arms in the air and wiggling my butt while yelling "WHOO HOO" is the sexiest dan...
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HI GIRLS....
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Having one of thoes days. my husband is a trumpet player, he plays in this blues band. He and I are going on three years this year. I went to one of his gigs last night and stayed up past 2a which is a big deal when you get used to 10p as a bed time. I don't know how i used to do it. I mean p...
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Wendy...wantneeda
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Hi Wendy, Just read your post below. I will be praying for you and your Mom.It would be tough to be so far away from a loved one who is sick, God can see you through this. I am praying you make that 10 months, go to a meeting,call your sponsor or someone in the program, post here, but don't pick up a drink. This t...
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Happy Friday:)
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Hey Guys:) They have computers out here. Was starting to go into withdrawals.hehehe
And no. Rick and Miller and Stan arent with me. If they were, wede all likely be having bar fights sober. hehehe
Nice country on the East Coast of Canada. Slower pace than most places==takes some adjusting, every...
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Hey miller....
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Way to go , congrates on your 10 days. Were you able to get in touch with your sponsor? Was it Cheri who ask if you had a list of numbers from your meeting? Do you?Anyway, the Grace of God is always with us , I just have to remember to allow it to work in my life.
(((Hugs)))
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