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Pain the gift nobody wants
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I purchased a book today called Pain the gift nobody wants, It opens with a story of the early death of a child with a rare neurological dysfunction that made her insensitive to pain.
I was reading it and it was a good read then this sentance jumped out at me:
"Such conditions as Leprosy, diabetes, al...
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Cafeteria Style
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March 27, 2006 ~ Sometimes, an AA member will talk about taking the various parts of the program in cafeteria style -- selecting what he likes and letting alone what he does not want. Maybe others will come along and pick up the unwanted parts -- or maybe that member himself will go back later and take som...
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*Step Six*
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"Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of Character."     &...
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Hafta look at this one..each and every day....
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Don't Quit
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, When the road you're trudging seems all uphill, When the funds are low and the debts are high, And you want to smile, but you have to sigh, When care is pressing you down a bit, Rest, if you must, but do not quit.
Life is queer with its twists and tu...
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Morning everyone
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Have done a Grattitude list and asked for guidance for today.
Didnt sleep too well last night, got to sleep about 3 and woke again at 8 , do not know what to do with myself I am that much in pain.
Had to crack my back and hips back into place and thought it was going to snap in two!
Really fed up!
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Affirmations
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I may not be there yet, but I'm closer than I was yesterday.
When your dreams turn to dust, vacuum.
Difficult things take a long time, impossible things a little longer.
There is more to life, than increasing its speed.
Thinking with ones heart will give the right answers to the questions.
T...
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I have missed you all
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Hello there.
I am so glad to be back.
My computer broke about a week ago and I have not been able to post here!
This forum and the rooms are all I have got.
I am a little bit emotional today but not too bad ,I guess it does not help that I am in really bad pain.
I would be really pleased to hear from you
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March 26 AA daily Reflection
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THE TEACHING IS NEVER OVER
Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us a...
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Music that helps you relax, concentrate etc?
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I have a very wide range when it comes to music. i love Eminem.. I also love Maria Callas... I also love Korn etc.. My fav band is prob No Doubt .. i also like chart stuff.. There isnt much i dont like..
At the moment i cant stop listening to Evanesence - Fallen (albumn).. I know its a re...
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hey all
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not much new here, just waiting for spring so get my garden going again. tomatos and potatos mainly. i found a site that gives my sober heart beats 37,625,583. and counting, i hope!! take care all wagon
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Ok.. so im back
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Hi everyone.
Well i got away as planned friday straight from work. Traffic and weather was a bitch.. had a few stops on the way, took about 6 hours or more to get there.. had my brewers yeast and kalms and wasnt doing to bad.. Parked up at around 9ish pm i spose.. read some stuff from Staying...
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A few thoughts for Sunday..and have a good day eh?
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Emotional Availability is probably one of the key factors in establishing and maintaining healthy relationships. WE are emotionally unavailable in a relationship when we are afraid. We want true love but are terrified of how it may hurt us, how it may recreate some painful experience, how we may be...
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Father Leo's Daily Meditation -Mar 26
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TEACHING "The art of teaching is the art of assisting discovery." -- Mark Van Doren I have a need of a "sponsor" in my life. Somebody I turn to when I have problems, when I am confused or in pain, when I simply need to talk, when I feel lonely or when I am about to make a major change in my life. Every addict need...
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4th Step helper
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Never used this myself but some may find it helpful.
You'll need to download the latest version of Adobe Reader as it's a .pdf
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I'm supposed to get a topic e-mail
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Hi all
I'm supposed to get a topic e-mail every day but haven't been getting any for over a week. Just woundering if something is wrong.
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AA Speaker Tapes
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Hi hope all is well
I just wanted to share a web-site I found to download AA speaker tapes. I downloaded all 8 tapes of Joe and Charlie. http://www.elmoware.com/spktapes.htm Hope this is new news for someone. Thanks
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March 25 AA Daily Reflection
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A FULL AND THANKFUL HEART
I try hard to hold fast to the truth that a full and thankful heart cannot entertain great conceits. When brimming with gratitude, one's heartbeat must surely result in outgoing love, the finest emotion that we can ever know.
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The Serenity Prayer (long version)
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God,
Grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference,
Living one day at a time, enjoying one moment at a time, accepting hardship as a pathway to peace, taking this sinful world as it is, not as I would...
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"Selfish"?
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I Wish For You.....
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Comfort on difficult days, Smiles when sadness intrudes, Rainbows to follow the clouds, Laughter to kiss your lips, Sunsets to warm your heart, Gentle hugs when spirits sag, Friendships to brighten your being, Beauty for your eyes to see, Confidence for when you doubt, Faith so that you can believe...
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Making Amends
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Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others. --Step Nine
When we make amends we need to be clear about what we're apologizing for and the best way to say we're sorry. What we are really doing with our amends is taking respon...
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from "Came to Believe"
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Is sobriety all that we can expect of a spiritual awakening? No, sobriety is only a bare beginning; it is only the first gift of the first awakening. If more gifts are to be received, our awakening has to go on. As it does go on, we find that bit by bit we can discard the old life - the one that did not work - for a...
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Accepting what is...
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All human problems arise from not accepting whatever is. As the serenity Prayer says, "Lord, grant me the courage to change what I can change, accept what I cannot and the wisdom to tell the difference...."
Even things which may be changed can be changed faster and easier when we first ac...
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HELLO AGAIN ALL ;o)
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HI ALL,
I AM SORRY THAT I POSTED IN THE WAY THAT I DID AND THEN DIDN'T COME BACK TO REPLY TO YOU ALL, BUT I HAD TO HAVE MY PUTER RE-CONFIGERD OR SOMETHING! AND I DON'T KNOW HOW TO WORK IT NOW!!
EVERYTHING GOT DUMPED.
ANTWAY I AM FEELING MUCH BETTER, I THINK IT IS MUCH TO DO WITH TH...
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as Bill sees it
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from 'as Bill sees it', p. 123
"When alcoholism strikes, very unnatural situations may develop which work against marriage partnership and compatiible union. If the man is affected, the wife must become the head of the house, often the breadwinner. As matters get worse, the husband becomes a sic...
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NOT SO SCARED TODAY
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Hi Everyone,
Just wanted to say that this morning, I woke up feeling a lot better.
Even after I wrote about it yesterday, watching the three people I had mentioned, speaking of their individual Relapses, I could not shake the over all feeling of "Feeling Scared" yesterday. Maybe it had som...
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Working on my fourth step
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Hello everyone, I hope today is a good day for you all.
I am working on my fourth step and I have come to the sex inventory part. I am struggling with this. I guess I'm not sure what exactly I am supposed to do...My sponsor gave me some suggestions and I will call her again later today but I was...
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Forgiveness Is Letting Go Of Pain
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And accepting what has happened, Because it will not change. Forgiveness is dismissing The blame. Choices were made that Caused the hurt; We each could have chosen Differently, But we didn't Forgiveness is looking At the pain, Learning the lessons It has produced, And understanding What we have le...
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March 24 AA Daily Reflection
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ACTIVE, NOT PASSIVE
Man is supposed to think, and act. He wasn't made in God's image to be an automaton.     &nb...
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Hope everyone has a good weekend.
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Well i did drink last night.. but i managed to put my last drink down halfway through it and crawl into bed and i do feel better for that..
Im off to wales straight from work today and coming back sunday.. Iv got my new tent to try out and make sure thats ok and get some sea fishing done... and possibl...
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Deep Drunk Thoughts
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Maybe not totally appropriate but my warped sense of humor finds these funny.
Booze related Deep Thoughts from Jack Handy:
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Is there anything more beautiful than a beautiful, beautiful flamingo, flying across in front of a beautiful sunset? And he's ca...
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Sponsors and Sponsorship
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Sponsors and sponsorship.
There is an official AA pamphlet on sponsorship that is usually available in the literature collection of most AA meetings. It may also be requested from the local AA Central Office.
Virtually all AA meetings and members recommend that newcomers obtain an AA spons...
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Desperation, Hope and a Higher Power
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Three ingredients that contributed to me getting sober and finding recover. The gift of desperation, to be alive and to live, sick and tired of being sick and tired, and wanting to live my life differently, having a new life to live. And at my first meeting I felt that flicker of hope. Hoping that this wa...
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H.O.W. it was explained to me
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Honesty, Open-mindedness, and Willingness are the three essentials to an alcoholic in recovery.
When I first came into the program I was told this. I remember thinking that doesn't sound so hard. I didn't really have a god to believe in and when it came to god of my understanding I was stumped. So muc...
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A couple of questions please..
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Hi.. just a few questions really
What does IC stand for?.. might be being dumb but i ent figured it yet..
What does a sponsor do? I really dont know anything about this i dont think at the mo i want anyone to sponsor me. but at mo i have no real idea of what a sponsor does.. etc.. the guy who arranged...
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SCARY* RELAPSE*
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Hi Every one,
Went to a meeting yesterday, attendance was real small, only about 12 people showed for this meeting, which was very unusual.
But what was also unusual, were that there were three people in this Meeting, that had Relapsed.
When they introduced themselves, the Secretary asked ar...
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yes it does feel good to CRY
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You are reading from the book Today's Gift </OA_HTML/ibeCCtpItmDspRte.jsp?item=2121>.
It feels so good to cry. . . . --Susan Cygnet
Some of us were taught that it's bad to express our feelings directly--crying, wailing, jumping up and down for joy--that it's good manners to talk s...
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Some Stuff re Anxiety...
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Grief is a tidal wave that over takes you, smashes down upon you with unimaginable force, sweeps you up into its darkness, where you tumble and crash against unidentifiable surfaces, only to be thrown out on an unknown beach, bruised, reshaped... Grief will make a new person out of you, if it doesn't k...
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Welcome Iffer
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Iffer, I just read your post to Rob's post below and want to say welcome to MIP. I'm glad you are here. Congratulations on your 3 and a half months sober. Keep coming back .
(((Hugs)))
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STRONG material---something i had to accept
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God's Gift
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Our relationship with our Higher Power is a two-way street. In prayer, we speak and God listens. When we meditate, we do our best to listen for the will of our Higher Power. We know that we are responsible for our part of the relationship. If we do not pray and listen, we shut our Higher P...
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today's gift
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The sad truth is that most evil is done by people who never make up their minds to be either good or evil. --Hannah Arendt
How often have we found ourselves in a predicament and innocently said, "How did I get into this?" When someone has been injured by our actions because we failed to think about t...
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feelings
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It feels so good to cry. . . . --Susan Cygnet
Some of us were taught that it's bad to express our feelings directly--crying, wailing, jumping up and down for joy--that it's good manners to talk softly, slowly, and politely and to sit still.
But what happens to our feelings when we sit still? If t...
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JUST TURNED 21! GOING CRAZY
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this is my first post on this board. I turned 21 a week ago and also got my one year two days ago. The past few days have been a freaking head trip. I have worked through all the steps (and try to do so on a continual basis), have a sponsor, make meetings and even visit a halfway house for 12 step work.&nb...
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March 23 AA Daily Reflection
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  We have seen the truth again and again: "Once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic." . . . If we are planning to stop drinking, there must be no reservation of any...
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Ohhhh--This is a difficult one...
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The 12-Step Program for Internet Addicts
1) I will have a cup of coffee in the morning and read my newspaper like I use to.
2) I will eat breakfast with a knife and fork and not with one hand typing.
3) I will get dressed before noon.
4) I will make an attempt to clean the house, w...
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Recovery Poem
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This was sent to me from another A/A community I belong to, hope it brings some peace to others as it did me.
I feel like a child lost in a crowd, my mind is spining, I think about leaving, I think about runnning. This disease of mine is so very cunning.
It's talking to me,&nb...
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defective thinker
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I wish I could just turn my brain off for a little while. These last couple of days have been tough for me. I'm staying sober. Sometimes I feel like that should be enough. Last night we talked about dealing with the " wreckage of the past. " I guess that's part of what's getting to me. I lost my g...
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Some funny, some serious, all true!
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http://www.frontiernet.net/~jlbeam/specials/life/life.htm
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Hi Rob
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Hi there Rob, hope you have managed another meeting or will do. Hope things are looking up for you. Trudi.
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Just For Today...Phil, anyone
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On the Alanon board, I posted Just for Today....It is written on our alanon bookmarks we distribute. If you're interested in reading it there, or you are proficient and "click, copy and paste" to the AA side, go for it.
It sure helps me thing about One Day Only!  &n...
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