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meetings
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HI ALL,
I DON'T WANNA SOUND DIMM EVENTHOUGH I KNOW I AM ABOUT TO!
I KNOW THAT THIS SITE SAYS YOU HAVE ON-LINE MEETINGS, BUT I HAVE NEVER SEEN ANYONE IN THERE, IS IT JUST ME OR DO YOU ALL NOT TAKE PART IN THAT????
I WENT IN THERE LAST SEPTEMBER AND THERE WERE TWO PEOPLE IN THERE BUT NEV...
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I need someone to talk to
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I am actually in need of al anon. Can someone please guide me.
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I feel so low
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Just right now I feel so very low like life is worth nothing I have two beautiful kids and every day I think I will live just for them and then they start hitting me or playing up by throwing things and I feel helpless again. At the moment I am truly finding it hard to live life on lifes terms and I desper...
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The Very Scary Statistics
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Hi to all,
Just want to make a Post about the Gratitude I feel today. The first thing that i feel Grateful for is that I am in Recovery, going to meetings, even when I don't like them, not liking a meeting is really not the point of going to a meeting. (Thank you, Rick)
Well today the meeting I went...
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Acceptance
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Acceptance
Our basic recovery concept that never loses its power to work miracles is the concept called acceptance.
We do not achieve acceptance in a moment. We often have to work through a mirage of feelings - sometimes anger, outrage, shame, self-pity, or sadness. But if acceptance is our g...
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I DON'T want a drink & I should!!!
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Thank God MY craving has been lifted. You want to talk about a "reason" to drink. My 15 yr old is facing JAIL time in just a few short days. He made some bad choices, he put himself in the situation. I MUST accept the outcome. I MUST believe nothing happens in God's world by mistake. I MU...
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hey toni
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I think Rick and I are trying to get into chat,,, want to join us?
when you try to get in now.. u have to click on the little box that says to 'run' something.
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THANKS AMANDA
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GOTTA RUN GOT SOME THINGS TO DO AND HAVE TO DRIVE TO MAKE COFFEE FOR A NOON MEETING.ITRIED TO GET ON CHAT**A NO GO** JUST A CLICK AND NO LINK.
I WAS ON THE PHONE EARLIER, WHEN U ASKED TO GO TO CHAT.
I ALSO RELPIED TO YOUR P MESSAGE
THANKS
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GOOD MORNING AMANDA
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I SEE U ONLINE NOW
HAVE A GOOD DAY
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think
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Thought For The Day:
"I'd rather hunt with Cheney than ride with Kennedy."
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Three Men being served 3 Beers
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Three men sat down at a bar, each ordered a beer. One was a very light drinker, the second man was a heavy drinker, and the third man was a raging Alcoholic.
It was an outdoor cafe, and within minutes, there was a fly sitting on top of each beer.
In looking at their beers, the first man, looked,...
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Daily Reflections Feb 17
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THE LOVE IN THEIR EYES Some of us won't believe in God, others can't, and still others who do not believe that God exists have no faith whatever He will perform this miracle. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 25 It was the changes I saw in the new people who came into the Fellowship that helped me lose...
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Patience And Tolerance
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Patience and Tolerance
By Margaret Ann Lembo
According to Random House Dictionary, tolerance is “1. a liberal spirit toward opinions and practices that differ from one’s own; 2. the power to endure or resist discomfort or hardship.” To tolerate is “1. to allow without hindrance.”...
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Welcome ! Rob
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hi Rob,
I have noticed that you have been checking us out here. And the Good news that you did not go out to get some more liquor, is A GREAT BIG DEAL.
The only REQUIREMENT for becoming a member of Alcoholics Anonymous, is a DESIRE to quit drinking. I get the feeling you are coming to that c...
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Are u perfect ?
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It is always a mistake not to close one's eyes, whether to forgive or to look better into oneself. --Maurice Maeterlinck
It is easy to look outward and find faults with the world and people around us. We criticize family members or complain about our friends. We always notice disease in the tree...
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BB quote
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"When we retire at night, we constructively review our day. Were we resentful, selfish, dishonest or afraid? Do we owe an apology? Have we kept something to ourselves which should be discussed with another person at once? Were we kind and loving toward all? What could we have done better? Were we thin...
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today's thought
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Shame-filled people feel that something is wrong at their very core. It is a sense of being bad . . .. --Susan Kwiecien
Nobody is rotten to the core. Whenever we start to believe we are bad all the way through, we can picture good things we have done, days when someone else was happy to be with us, and...
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Daily Reflections Feb 16
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COMMITMENT Understanding is the key to right principles and attitudes, and right action is the key to good living. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 125 There came a time in my program of recovery when the third stanza of the Serenity Prayer -- "The wisdom to know the difference" -- became indeli...
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A Better Day!
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Well I woke up, and my first thought was that I needed to do a 10th step here on MIP. Felt I should have kept all that misery to myself.
But I don' really understand a lot the Program, and that's a good thing. I do know that "no matter what" I did not drink through those "Black out emotions" tha...
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I want a drink
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Well, here it is again,,, snuck up on me this time,, but now I recognize the triggers. I thought I was getting through the day alright,,, well,,, maybe I am, but not without the urge to drink. I don't know... reasons? Valentine's Day alone, worki...
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To: TRUDI
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Hi Trudi,
Just want to say Hi, and hope that today is a better day for you.
Seems like a Great Big Black Clowd went by yesterday, for a lot of us, and hope it has passed by, and stays away.
Were you able to go to a meeting yesterday?, and get some time for yourself??
Love, Toni
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Man and Wife
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A man and his wife are dining at a table in a plush restaurant, and the husband keeps staring at a drunken lady swigging her gin as she sits alone at a nearby table. The wife asks, "Do you know her?" "Yes," sighs the husband, "She's my ex-wife. She took to drinking right after we divorced seven y...
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Today's gift
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God is not a cosmic bellboy. --Harry Emerson Fosdick
We have to laugh when we look back at the times we treated God like our servant. Who did we think we were, ordering God to do something for us? But we got away with it. God even did some of the things we asked.
Now we know that our Higher Powe...
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Coping with Grief
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Hi There everyone.
Today is a day where I can honestly say I feel like a Mack Truck ran into me, head on.
I think because it is Valentine's day, I have been missing my little Annie Pie, my cat of over 15 years.
I don't like Grief, as a matter of Fact, I friggen hate it. I do not understand wh...
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Getting started
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I've just made the decision to start aa. I'm at the bottom and see little light ahead. Alcohol is running my life and I realize I'm no longer able to control my world. I have found a local chapter that I want to visit and frankly I'm scared to death. I know there are others here that have been where I am.
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Daily Reflections Feb 15
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TAKING ACTION Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being fulfilled among us--sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They will always materialize if we work for them. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 84 One of the most important things A.A. has given me, in addition to freedom from booze,...
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Daily Reflections Feb 14
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EXPECTATIONS vs. DEMANDS Burn the idea into the consciousness of every man that he can get well regardless of anyone. The only condition is that he trust in God and clean house. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 98 Dealing with expectations is a frequent topic at meetings. It isn't wrong to expect progress of...
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acronyms
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Some helpful acronyms for today:
F.I.N.E. [I'm] Frustrated, Insecure, Neurotic, Emotional
F.E.A.R. Face Everything And Recover
N.U.T.S. Not Using The Steps
E.G.O. Edging God Out
D.E.N.I.A.L. Don't Even Notice I Am Lying
H.A.L.T. [Don't get too] Hungry, Angry, Lone...
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HAPPY LOVE DAY!!!
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hi guys
happy LOVE DAY to all!!! well the worst work in my house re-decor is over and i feel like rigormortis is setting in my tired body!!!
i checked my pulse this am to see if i was still alive!!!
the place (floors) looks great!!! i'll tell ya, i was...
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beer drinking chart
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BEER TROUBLESHOOTING CHART
SYMPTOM
 
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Feet cold and wet.
Glass being held at incorrect angle.
Rotate glass so t...
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So There!
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AA on Toast
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AA on Toast February 1956 AA Grapevine This is what I told Joe: "There are no musts in AA. Take it cafeteria style -- take it your own way. Don't worry about the spiritual part of the program. Take the First Step, but never mind the rest of them right now. Just stay away from the first drink for twen...
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It Just would not Post
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Well, something strange happenend this morning.
I went into Start a new Topic, made a Valentines Day little Post with little hearts all over the page, lost that one, and tried doing it again, lost that one too.
So, the other day when I read the Post on "Does Anyone Else Hate Valentines Day?"&...
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Cool article I just found-link
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http://www.beliefnet.com/story/46/story_4696_1.html
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Today's Thought 2/14
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Loving others begins with respect
So many books have been written on how to love that many of us assume we don't know how and maybe will never learn. We can simplify the process, however, by focusing on the Golden Rule. For starters, we can treat others as respectfully as we'd like to be treated. Peo...
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iT'S BETTER TO GIVE
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When a person is concerned only with giving, there is no anxiety. --Gerald Jampolsky
Whatever we give away returns to us, manifold. When we show love or understanding, when we are gentle or express genuine concern, usually the same will come right back to us. Perhaps not in kind, maybe n...
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Intro
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Hello:
I am here because I need some place to go for support and inspiration. I was sober 2 years, but began to drink again. I now live in a small town where I truly can't go to meetings because of my profession... won't go into that here. I really need an online meeting and perhaps some time soon a sponsor...
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Daily Reflections Feb 13
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WE CAN'T THINK OUR WAY SOBER To the intellectually self-sufficient man or woman, many A.A.'s can say, "Yes, we were like you--far too smart for our own good.... Secretly, we felt we could float above the rest of the folks on our brain power alone." AS BILL SEES IT, p. 60 Even the most brilliant mind is no d...
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What does the word "Winner" mean to you
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Hi everyone,
This has been something that has been bugging me for a couple of days and would love to get some feed-back.
I personally don't care for the saying "Stick with the Winners" because I have never understood what, exactly, it means.
Who represents the winners???? who are they, a...
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"good" in a Christian way
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When we seek to be "good" in a Christian way, we usually think of giving--after all, God has given so much to us. But in the Bible, that's not all there is to goodness. The Bible's examples of goodness come in two ways. We tend to focus on God's goodness as a sudden blessing, an undeserved gen...
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progress report
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well, I'm still at it,,, and progress is being made,,, however slowly. I feel like this is kind of analagous to my recovery journey in general. I've done a little bit as often as I can in the bedroom. An hour one day, and then my shoulder hurts for a couple of days and goes numb, so I have...
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our problems
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Oh, a trouble's a ton, or a trouble's an ounce, Or a trouble is what you make it, And it isn't the fact that you're hurt that counts, But only how you take it. --Edmund Vance Cooke
Once, a woman decided to throw a problem-exchange party. As guests arrived, they shed all their personal problems and t...
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hi every one
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ok just wanted to say hi to everyone let you all know im doing ok. the funneral wasnt thatfun but it was certainly a tribute to her life and was beautifull.now im stuck in a hotell room another day with the wife and kidds (which is a great thing by the way)the wife and i have had a lott of time to alk about thing...
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Hmmmmmm part 2
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Hi again all,
firstly thankyou all that replyed to my recent post.
I have just thought of something and was wondering if anyone here can answer my question???????
I have come to belive/understand that the main reason I drank was because I was so unhappy with my life (depressed) , parent...
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is it my puter? or this site?
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I don't know.. the stuff is only loading halfway, and not really working right. Is it me? or are other people having problems right now too?
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Defect--?
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Reflection for the Day
Since I came to The Program, I've begun to recognize my previous inability to form a true partnership with another person. It seems that my egomania created two disastrous pitfalls. Either I insisted upon dominating the people I knew, or I depended on them far too mu...
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Humility
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Dr. Bob defining humility: On his desk, Dr. Bob had a plaque defining humility: "Perpetual quietness of heart. It is to have no trouble. It is never to be fretted or vexed, irritable or sore; to wonder at nothing that is done to me, to feel nothing done against me. It is to be at rest when nobody praises me,...
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Daily Reflections Feb 12
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"THE ROOT OF OUR TROUBLES" Selfishness--self-centeredness! That, we think, is the root of all our troubles. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 62 How amazing the revelation that the world, and everyone in it, can get along just fine with or without me. What a relief to know that people, places and things will...
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True!
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Hi all, found this on a internet search (Lazy B@*&**d just copied and pasted!)
There is a place I go to It's called Oblivion, An easy place to get to Go right ahead and carry on. The thing is, I have no recall Of what goes on in there, Im left with occasional flashbacks and a feeling of desp...
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Love this part of Step 12
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Page 112, Step Twelve, second Paragraph:
"Furthermore, how shall we come to terms with seeming failure of success? Can we now accept and adjust to either without despair or pride? Can we accept poverty, sickness, loneliness, and bereavement with courage and serenity? Can we ste...
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