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Dealing With Failure
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Many times when bad things happen to us, part of our initial emotional response is to start weeping inside because we are hurting. That hurt may be prolonged, at times totally over-shadowing any significant lesson we can learn from such unfortunate situations. We always forget that the re...
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A Gentle Path thru the 12 Steps?
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Hi All,
This Post is about trying to find the lst Edition of this Book, I have been on eBay, Book Stores, etc.
In the 1st Edition, there is a Poem written, prior to doing the Fourth Step, it is a very powerful poem, and so beautifully written.
I gave away my copy, and when I replaced it, I...
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from 'Came to Believe'
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"AA is a spiritual program and a spiritual way of life. Even the first half of the First Step, 'We admitted we were powerless over alcohol,' is a spiritual experience. An AA member needs more than physical capabilities; he needs the use of his full faculties as a human being to hear the message, t...
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the truth :(
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hi again,
only little old me, just thought i had to say coz i feel like cr**.
i have drunk the past 3 nights...(self medication) here i come :(
i hope not, just a slip i am praying for.
i have had the WORST 5 months contained within the worst 7 years of my entire life, and i cracked.
have an...
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TODAY'S GIFT
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Always think of what you have to do as easy and it will become so. --Emile Corie
How we think about the activities before us is very important. If we think cleaning the garage is hard, dirty, and no chance for fun, that's just how it will feel. We'll be tired before we even begin. However, if we approac...
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TODAY'S THOUGHT
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The older you get the more you realize that kindness is synonymous with happiness. --Lionel Barrymore
Once in a while, we forget about the kind things people have done for us. Do we remember the next-door neighbor who helped us get our kite out of a tree, or the brother who helped us finish a proje...
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Thursday Night
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A life without love in it ...is like a heap of ashes ....upon a deserted hearth -- with the fire dead, the
laughter stilled, and the light extinguished. - Frank P. Tebbetts
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If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
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Ever...
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Welcome Wren
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Hi Wren,
I was reading one on your responses, and was very touched by your story, and just wanted to Welcome you here.
I read your Profile, and have to say, I also share your feelings of it being a new day in Sobriety, everyday, ever little 24 hour day. Even when they feel like very Long 24 hours....
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Thanks
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I just wanted to say that I know without any doubt, that, if I had not found this site, I would not have survived much more than another year. The unmistakeable pains in my upper right abdomen were getting worse, and I was struggling with getting back to where I knew I needed to be in AA.
As I...
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hi
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i am thinking maybe i haven't come to the right place?, have i scared you off?
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feeling let down
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i know it's earlie days but i stil feel let down....
too much a girl!!!!!!
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Just sharing something..that this kid..has to read every day..
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DON'T QUIT!
When things go wrong as they sometimes will When the road you're trudging seems all up hill When the funds are low and the debts are high And you want to smile, but you have to sigh When care is pressing you down a bit Rest, if you must, but don't you quit. Life is queer, with its twists and t...
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Being open
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Being open
Sometimes we think we're supposed to have more recovery under our belts. Perhaps we feel the need to impress our peers with our success in staying off mind-altering chemicals. But perhaps we are really just trying to convince ourselves. We know how difficult recovery is, and s...
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nickel - dime aggravaation
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March 9 Small Things
"In the past, we made simple situations into problems; we made mountains out of molehills."Basic Text, p. 87
Making mountains out of molehills seems to be our specialty. Have you heard it said that to an addict, a flat tire is a traumatic event? Or how about those of us who for...
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BB Quote
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"Cling to the thought that, in God's hands, the dark past is the greatest possession you have—the key to life and happiness for others. With it you can avert death and misery for them." ~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, The Family Afterward, pg. 124~
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reaching out
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WHO'S SITTING NEXT TO YOU? I know who you are. You are "X" who attend the ABC Meeting at the XYZ Club where AA's meet in Anywhere, USA. I saw you there the other night at the eight o'clock meeting. I don't know how long you've been sober, but I know you've been coming around for a while because you spoke to a lo...
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More song lyrics (newer music)
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BE FREE by Papa Roach
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I woke up and I feel like shit
I don't remember last night-I'm getting sick of this
I hit the bottle when I got off stage
I got piss drunk stupid and I went in a rage
I think I mighta got in a fight-because my knuck...
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24 hrs a day - mar 8
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We must go to AA meetings regularly. We must learn to think differently. We must change from alcoholic thinking to sober thinking. We must re-educate our minds. We must try to help other alcoholics. We must cooperate with God by spending at least as much time and energy on the AA program as we did on drin...
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GETTING STARTED
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There is no such thing as a long piece of work, except one that you dare not start. --Charles Baudelaire
A big assignment can be scary to face. We may start to think that how we do on the assignment will determine if we're good or bad people. The more we think about it, the harder that task seems. The k...
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Just want to say Welcome...
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Welcome to Elli, Mikey and Hugger...I know some of you have been around for awhile...just not posting. Hope you will continue to share your experience, strength and hope with us. And if I missed anyone I'm sorry, just quickly catching up on the board before going to bed.
Today was a good day, I stayed...
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Hi Amanda
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Where u at girl ?
I'll come right over get that apt done with ya.
Maybe u could kick my butt and i'd do my taxes ?? Ya think ?
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Have had 2 or 3 inquiries about this stuff..
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Types of emotional / physical / verbal abuse common in people with BPD:
DOMINATION / CONTROL: The internal chaos of the person with BPD's emotions often gives them a desperate need to control external events, situations and people. (The internal world is so out of control - so external control g...
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Step 10
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"Continued to take personal inventory and when wrong promply admitted it".
The last week was a week full of personal discovery for me.
I had been registering my own concerns with the manner of communcation "Break-downs", that I was seeing on this Board, and was told that this a Board is&nb...
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Relationship Expectations
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The Truth About Relationship Expectations
Larry James
Blaming others for the pain we feel each time someone fails to live up to our expectations is no different than burning our tongue on coffee that's too hot to swallow, and then calling our cup an idiot! - Guy Finl...
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Denial
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Total surrender is an alien concept for most non-recovering people to accept. That a Higher Power, a Power greater than ourselves, that God could take us through the dark rapids of life safely if we agreed to let go of our own self-will is not an easy principle to adopt. Acting on this principle is, howe...
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I kinda want more drink...
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Well i had my usual 4 Skoll Supers (9%) and that was a while ago.. i want another drink.. .. hmm.. the offlicense is open for another 36 minutes.. .... if i buy another drink tomorrow will be a nightmare..
Iv already taken a ONE A NIGHT NYTOL (sleeping tablet aid)... and im feeling really sleepy.. .. but...
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AA Grapevine, June 1973
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Long, but good reading. This is Dr. Bob's last major talk given in Detroit, Michigan in December 1948, transcribed from tape. Although a good many of you have heard or have read about the inception of A.A., probably there are some who haven't. From that brief story, there are thin...
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SOBERITY IS A GIFT
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Sobriety is a big gift box with a hundred little packages inside to unwrap. - Oscar Morris
Sobriety is its own reward and then some. Sobriety is a condition of openness and receptivity to the treasure of life. It is the ability to view the world through gentler glasses and hear our fellows...
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day by day - mar. 7
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God's love is so encompassing, so all-powerful, that is surpasses our understanding. Doubtless, the reason many have turned away from our fellowship is an inability to accept that love. "What's in it for them? Why do they want to love me?"
Maybe these words were once ours. But as we apply our...
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TODAY'S THOUGHT
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Laughter by definition is healthy. --Doris Lessing
A hearty laugh can warm a cold room and make our spirits soar. But many of us are afraid to laugh, especially when we make mistakes. We think we're supposed to be perfect, and we don't allow ourselves to make mistakes. However, we're not a mold p...
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Music and Lyrics (ol' fun stuff)
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Every Breath You Take ~ Police
Every breath you take Every move you make Every bond you
break Every step you take I'll be watching you Every single
day Every word you say Every game you play Every night you say
I'll be watching you O can't you see You belong to me
How my poor heart aches W...
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Making Amends
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Hey-
Anyone want to share on how they went about making amends? My sponsor suggested making sure I do this the "AA way"- So I figured I would ask to get some input-
Thanks,
Joel
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yes, the SWEETNESS of surrender
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Surrender
Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God, as we understood Him. --Step Three of Al Anon
Surrendering to a Power greater than ourselves is how we become empowered.We become empowered in a new, better, more effective way than we believed possible.Doors op...
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Good Morning, God! HP!
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This is an AA prayer, (but I cut 2 sentences out of it--to fit my Alanon program).
Good Morning, God!  
Thank you for this day! As I consider my plans for this day, Let m...
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Wednesday
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Little Things In Life
Too often we don't realize what we have until it is gone; Too often we wait too late to say "I'm sorry -- I was wrong."
Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones we hold dearest to our hearts; And we allow foolish things to tear our lives apart.
Far too many times we let unimportant th...
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AARRRGGGHHHH !!!
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Can this day get any better!!! Thru all of this other "stuff" I have now managed to break a tooth in HALF that I was supposed to have a root canal on Friday. Guess the good news is now I don't need the root canal!!! Sure does hurt, though!
Here's what I really need some help with......
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Always There
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ALWAYS THERE Happiness does not depend on whether or not you always get your way. However, when you do choose happiness, events will more often go your way. You do not need to accumulate a lot of things before you can be happy. Yet when you are happy, you'll open yourself up to all kinds of new abundance. H...
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Live and Let Live and Acceptance
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LIVE AND LET LIVE
The fight is over when we have surrendered.
We don't need to announce our judgments and opinions to the world or to the people in our life's. We don't need to debate any issue about anything with anyone. Provided we know our own truth and find it to be a tru...
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Reprieve...
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It is easy to let up on the spiritual program of action and rest on our laurels. We are headed for trouble if we do, for alcohol is a subtle foe. We are not cured of alcoholism. What we really have is a daily reprieve contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition. Every day is a day when we must car...
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everyday folks
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It's truly an everyday thing this sobriety. I'm a white chipper with 2 meetings and my 1st iop today. I'd like to read some good stories and encouraging disclosure here. 1 week sober and feeling better physically. This journey will be long for me but I WILL succeed. Gonna hit the steps hard today. Gimme...
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AA Big Book Trivia ??
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What does it say in the AA Big Book on page 132, 16 lines from the top, 16 lines from the bottom, two words to the left, and two words to the right... smack dab in the middle of the page?
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Sobriety Wiggle
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John's (aka OP_Present) version of da Sobriety Wiggle!
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Inspirational Page...turn it over
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www.wandascountryhomeinspirational.com/butterflyfree/ Type in if link doesn't work.
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What Power Do We Have?
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So we think cheerfulness and laughter make for usefulness. Outsiders are sometimes shocked when we burst into merriment over a seemingly tragic experience out of the past. But why shouldn't we laugh? We have recovered, and have been given the power, the power to help others.
*AA Big Book ch...
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Step 12 -
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"Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs."
What is 'the message'?
How do we 'practice these principles in all our affairs'?
What are the 'principles' we are supposed to be pr...
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What is the Foundation Stone of Recovery?
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"Helping others is the foundation stone of your recovery. A kindly act once in a while isn't enough. You have to act the Good Samaritan every day, if need be."
*AA Big Book, Chapter "Working With Others" pg 97
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giving over the problem and letting it STAY there
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A.A. Thought for the Day
There are two important things we have to do if we want to get sober and stay sober. First, having admitted that we're helpless before alcohol, we have to turn our alcoholic problem over to God and trust Him to take care of it for us. This means asking Him every morning for the s...
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Dear God!!
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here is a prayer from me to group
"Dear God, i ask U to shine your loving light over all of us in recovery AND those who are not and needing to be here and enable us to focus on recovery and compassion and love for all--- i ask U to put to rest the dark forces that try t...
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Tuesday
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Each Day a New Beginning.
Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands. --Anne Frank
We must take responsibility for ourselves, for who we become, for how we live each day. The temptation to blame o...
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What our we all here for????
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Myself,,,Sharing and an up-lifting of spirit,,learning, and last but not least,,,Living sober one day at a time,,,
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