Alcoholics Anonymous

Phil · Phil

The sub-questions are designed to help shed light on the basic question. Read them only if necessary, but don't count them separately. What will eventually happen is that you will have a discussion with yourself; this is only an outline to give your conversation some constructive direction. Thi...

Pytbull · Pytbull

Hi everbody I am a 37 year old male that has been drinking for 25 years,with the very few and far between recreational pharmacutecal.I have never really admitted before that I have a problem only because I never drank everyday.I can go with out but if i have that first beer or drink it will lead to a lo...

Quetzal · Quetzal

. . .we may surprise ourselves by discovering a treasure. Not all secrets are bad. Some secrets are more like unspoken, unacknowledged mysteries than sinister destructive forces. We may quietly know what it is like to be a man or a woman in an intimate relationship, but we may never have told anyo...

ed v · ed v

in volume 3 of the big book page 449 has that wonderful paragraph on acceptance. what page is it on in volume 4? material success follows spiritual progress, it never precedes it. where is this quote found? i think it is in the steps.

Phil · Phil

What is Emotional Shoplifting?Emotional Shoplifting is when you steal truth from yourself and/or fail to disclose truth to another person with whom you have an intimate, personal relationship. Each time you stifle your feelings, you are literally shoplifting, stealing and sabotaging your sel...

Robert · Robert

Hiya. started uni today, felt less "alone" in a crowded room than I thought I would, have the chance to study into alcohol abuse, think I will get a distinction in that bearing in mind I have lots of experience!, do you think I should or would it be better to go for something that is not so close to home like c...

Phil · Phil

We wake up each morning Cobwebs in head Man!! We’re still breathin When we shoulda been dead Four cups of coffee And three smokes on the go Lighting a fire And thinkin of snow It’s 5am What the hell’s goin on Should be in bed Am I sick in the head? Oh well..up and at it And onwa...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I never realized how often I used the words "just" and "only." - Mary Pat K. Adult children [of alcoholics] often live within a framework of shame. One symptom of this is we minimize our achievements, feelings, needs, or opinions. Behind that is our feeling that we aren't and can't do anything spe...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give. -- Winston Churchill As we grow spiritually, we naturally become more generous. It's a quality of a well-developed person. Rather than being anxious over whether we will have enough -- and rather than hungrily seeking more and more...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

What used to seem so difficult now seems so simple. Staying focused in the day and enjoying life is so important to this alchy. This staying sober stuff rocks!!! Developing new friendships with sober people is a wonderful thing. When I go to meetings now I really look forwards to seeing new friends. Ha...

Phil · Phil

Expectations By Robert Burney M.A. "I spent most of my life doing the Serenity prayer backwards, that is, trying to change the external things over which I had no control - other people and life events mostly - and taking no responsibility (except shaming and blaming myself) for my ow...

Phil · Phil

The Language of Letting Go. In recovery, we're learning to let ourselves go! We're learning to be spontaneous. Spontaneity may frighten some of us. We may be afraid of the loss of control involved with spontaneity. We may still be operating under the codependent rules that prohibit spontaneit...

jonibaloni · jonibaloni

We are bound for Oklahoma tomorrow..... Looking forward to a week of R & R, and a BIG FAT steak in cowboy country!!! I will be passing by you, Ryan, and close to Thief... so I will holler out a big AA "YAAAAYYYY!!!!!" out the car window... Hope you two can hear me.. :o) Everyone take care and have...

Wren · Wren

"If you accept a limiting belief, then it will become a truth for you." -- Louise Hay Pick one aspect of your life, e.g. your health, your competence, your prosperity or relationships, and think back to when you were a child. What messages about this subject did you hear from adults at that time tha...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Life is not always what one wants it to be, but to make the best of it as it is, is the only way of being happy. -- Jennie Jerome Churchill We are generally so certain that we know what's best for ourselves. And we are just as often certain that what we think is best will guarantee happiness. Perhaps we sh...

artstudent · artstudent

Hope this isn't an inappropriate place for this. I am an art school student majoring in Metal Arts. My Mother is celebrating her 28th year (half her life) sober and still attends a weekly meeting. I have an assignment in class, basically to make a "bank" to hold a conceptual currency. I want to make some...

Toni Baloney · Toni Baloney

Good Morning, Last week I saw a Doctor about now being Allergic to the full spectrum of Antibiotics. I was under the impression that if you had allergy testing done, they would be able to tell you, which antibiotic you were the least allergic to. That turned out, not to be the case. ...

Robert · Robert

hey folks, man Im not used to this motivate yourself business, I am used to someone cracking the whip, any suggestions for motivation? getting my butt out of bed before 11 in the morning would be a great start!, im skint so cant afford a motivation book but if you have any tips etc please assist! I have sor...

jonibaloni · jonibaloni

For the past few days I have been a little more reflective than usual. I was asked to lead a meeting this past Saturday, and then a different one tomorrow night. While I don't generally think too much about it, I did get taken back to some realizations about the old me, as I listened to a friend's story last...

Phil · Phil

The Language of Letting Go. Before recovery, my relationships were lousy. I didn't do very well on my job. I was enmeshed in my dysfunctional family. But at least I knew what to expect! --Anonymous I want the second half of my life to be as good as the first half was miserable. Sometimes, I'...

John · John

Hi everyone, I haven't meant to be neglectful of the site or message boards lately, but I have had to be due to two deaths in my family that took place last Sunday. Two of my aunts were murdered in Fort Myers, Fla. September 10th, 2006. It appears that one was killed at approxiately 3 pm,...

jonibaloni · jonibaloni

Where do I start.... My husband and I were talking on the phone while he was at work.. we were discussing our vacation coming this Wednesday and we were talking about the money I have saved for it. My husband FREAKED out and said he didn't understand why we didn't have more saved... I do all the finances...

Wren · Wren

"It is the mind that makes one wise or ignorant, bound or emancipated." -- Sri Ramakrishna Zen distinguishes big mind from small mind. Big mind identifies with its process, is impersonal and participates universally. Big mind is unlimited possibilities, deeper understanding, forgiveness...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Love involves a willingness to suffer and to be inconvenienced. -- Lewis F. Presnall The act of loving another broadens our understanding of the human condition and often pinches our egos. Indeed, one of the greatest gifts, though not necessarily cherished, which is granted through loving...

Robert · Robert

Boy thats a tricky one, I thought I was self centred, but boy! my partner is another story, anything I do, she questions how it will affect her, I am starting uni, but there is a condition that when I finish I must get a job and pay for her to have babies and not to have to work, I know that sounds really bad of me...

SheIsSober · SheIsSober

I went to my meeting tonight and it was a wonderful one about overcoming fears, which really carries over into so many parts of life. After the meeting, we were all talking and a guy brought up sponsorship in regards to me. Before I knew it, he had a lady at my side, suggesting that I call her a...

Phil · Phil

by Kali Munro, M.Ed., Do you have trouble saying NO? Do you do things for other people but almost never ask anybody to do things for you? You may be a people pleaser. People pleasers think of other people’s needs before their own. They worry about what other people want, think, or need, and spend a lo...

Doll · Doll

I'm headed out this morning for the Grand Canyon! Be back next weekend........Ya'll keep on keeping on.........Love and peace to all. Jen

Sober Jack · Sober Jack

Hi everybody, I come from the sunny city of Dubai. We have a lovely fellowship which is evergrowing. The UAE has much to offer. Most of that I have enjoyed recently in the past year and a half of sobriety. Before that, I knew nothing of the beautiful city I lived in. Deja vu? LOL. I do that a l...

beachbaby · beachbaby

Tonight I went out with some AA folks after the mtg. We went downtown and listened to bands....bands in bars that is. Well, I must say I faked my good time as I was anxious as hell. Such a reminder that when I would go to these places, I would hurry to start drinking to relieve my social anxiousness. As lon...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Go easy. You may have to push forward, but you don't have to push so hard. Go in gentleness, go in peace. Do not be in so much of a hurry. At no day, no hour, no time are you required to do more than you can do in peace. Frantic behaviours and urgency are not the foundation for our new way of life. Do not b...

Phil · Phil

by Ananda Abhaya Karuna There are some things which we need to consider before we decide whether or not we want to forgive another. Forgiveness is a choice that must be freely made if the act is to have any value at all. It is not meant to be an act of kindness to the person who is forgiven, but to the...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

At our 12&12 meeting we did the 7th tradition last night. Verrrrry interesting. Needless to say I was a little irritated with this one. Statistics show that all our $$$ we put in baskets around the world go to AA as a whole. We support our own meetings and that's pretty much it. One of the ole' timer...

HappyMe · HappyMe

Just wanted to say hi. I've been going to a lot of meetings over the last few weeks and am doing okay. I found someone who I want to ask to be my sponsor. She sees me wanting to rush through recovery and will help me slow down. Baby steps. I read somewhere about a bridge be...

Doll · Doll

FREEDOM FROM FEAR When, with God's help, we calmly accepted our lot, then we found we could live at peace with ourselves and show others who still suffered the same fears that they could get over them, too. We found that freedom from fear was more important than freedom from want. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELV...

Quetzal · Quetzal

A big shot is just a little shot who kept on shooting. -- Zig Ziglar Consider these words of Calvin Coolidge: "Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb....

jeannie · jeannie

I have to resign from my part time job today as to move on to a full time job. Will let you know more later. Just about enough to make a person want to drink - BUT I am not going to - even if my ass falls off. Later - Jeannie

jonibaloni · jonibaloni

I just wanted you to know how appreciated and loved you are on this board. I miss your posts, your wisdom and your fun when you are on hiatus. Just thought you'd like to know. Joni

HDoggie · HDoggie

Maybe it's the new antidepressant working well for me, but I swear I feel so much better. I hated being a martyr. Boo hoo! Poor me! I'm an alcoholic! Waaah! I got so sick of hearing myself whine. Maybe I'm getting closer to acceptance. I don't know...

My Role as an AA member · jonibaloni

Stay sober, One Day at a Time. Share my Experience, Strength and Hope with another Alcoholic. Help another find his/her way through the 12 Steps. Help keep the meetings going, in whatever way I am able to. Keep my side of the street clean. Keep it simple. Have Patience, Love and T...

jonibaloni · jonibaloni

Nothing further....

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

I heard someone say they were a grateful alcoholic tonight. A grateful alcoholic? I've heard people say they are grateful recovering alcoholics before. I can kind of accept that, but a grateful alcoholic? F**K THAT! I could never be grateful for the pain and hurt I've inflicted upon people...

Phil · Phil

"AA 12 STEPS IN REVERSE! 1. I declare my complete control over alcohol and everything else; and further declare that my life is in perfect order 2. I recognize no power as great as I am; nor any person as smart as I am, and if you don't like it come outside 3. I made a decision to run my life and everyone else's...

Doll · Doll

Today is September 16, 2006 A Great Day for Recovery! DENIAL "The worst vice of the fanatic is his sincerity." -- Oscar Wilde The disease of alcoholism is "cunning, baffling and powerful", and it manipulates us to believe "the lie". There is a point that we reach in our disease whe...

RyanS · RyanS

Scott · Scott

I'm finding that my biggest pitfall in attempting to get my drinking problem under control is that I just really, really, really like drinking! I realize that's nothing profound, but I just am having a very hard time staying focused on sobriety. I'm very much a health nut...I don't smoke, I l...

Doll · Doll

A NEW LIFE Yes, there is a substitute and it is vastly more than that. It is a fellowship in Alcoholics Anonymous . . . . Life will mean something at last. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 152 Life is better without alcohol. A.A. and the presence of a Higher Power keeps me sober, but the grace of God does even bette...

Quetzal · Quetzal

All of my life I been like a doubled up fist... poundin', smashin', drivin' - now I'm going to loosen these doubled up hands and touch things easy with them. --Tennessee Williams Everyone has many sides. Some sides are highly developed and other sides aren't at all. We need not fear turning to a new...

SheIsSober · SheIsSober

Hey all! I went to my AA group and the guy who tried to kiss me was there again. My dad stayed right by my side the whole time and at the end, I went up to the leader of the group and asked if we could talk. I told him that I didn't want to make a fuss over it, but explained that he was out of line....

Robert · Robert

Hi there, still Sober today, but feeling lonely, I only have 3 days of full time work left wer hoo! but feeling a bit down, i see people enjoying a drink! and I feel like an alien to them. I dont want to drink , but i feel like I ought to as a student, ,,,,,,,,i know thats madness.

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	Am I An Alcoholic??? (Preview) The sub-questions are designed to help shed light on the basic question. Read them only if necessary, but don't count them separately. What will eventually happen is that you will have a discussion with yourself; this is only an outline to give your conversation some constructive direction. Thi...	Phil	2	607	Sep 22, 2006 by Phil
	Introducing my self (Preview) Hi everbody I am a 37 year old male that has been drinking for 25 years,with the very few and far between recreational pharmacutecal.I have never really admitted before that I have a problem only because I never drank everyday.I can go with out but if i have that first beer or drink it will lead to a lo...	Pytbull	9	628	Sep 22, 2006 by Quetzal
	Surprising Ourselves (Preview) . . .we may surprise ourselves by discovering a treasure. Not all secrets are bad. Some secrets are more like unspoken, unacknowledged mysteries than sinister destructive forces. We may quietly know what it is like to be a man or a woman in an intimate relationship, but we may never have told anyo...	Quetzal	1	576	Sep 22, 2006 by Phil
	pls answer 2 questions (Preview) in volume 3 of the big book page 449 has that wonderful paragraph on acceptance. what page is it on in volume 4? material success follows spiritual progress, it never precedes it. where is this quote found? i think it is in the steps.	ed v	7	684	Sep 22, 2006 by Quetzal
	Emotional Shoplifting (Preview) What is Emotional Shoplifting?Emotional Shoplifting is when you steal truth from yourself and/or fail to disclose truth to another person with whom you have an intimate, personal relationship. Each time you stifle your feelings, you are literally shoplifting, stealing and sabotaging your sel...	Phil	1	592	Sep 22, 2006 by Quetzal
	New start today (Preview) Hiya. started uni today, felt less "alone" in a crowded room than I thought I would, have the chance to study into alcohol abuse, think I will get a distinction in that bearing in mind I have lots of experience!, do you think I should or would it be better to go for something that is not so close to home like c...	Robert	10	591	Sep 21, 2006 by Phil
	The Suns a commin up... (Preview) We wake up each morning Cobwebs in head Man!! We’re still breathin When we shoulda been dead Four cups of coffee And three smokes on the go Lighting a fire And thinkin of snow It’s 5am What the hell’s goin on Should be in bed Am I sick in the head? Oh well..up and at it And onwa...	Phil	2	512	Sep 21, 2006 by Phil
	"just" and "only" (Preview) I never realized how often I used the words "just" and "only." - Mary Pat K. Adult children [of alcoholics] often live within a framework of shame. One symptom of this is we minimize our achievements, feelings, needs, or opinions. Behind that is our feeling that we aren't and can't do anything spe...	Quetzal	2	665	Sep 21, 2006 by Quetzal
	We make a living by what we get ... (Preview) We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give. -- Winston Churchill As we grow spiritually, we naturally become more generous. It's a quality of a well-developed person. Rather than being anxious over whether we will have enough -- and rather than hungrily seeking more and more...	Quetzal	0	578	Sep 20, 2006 by Quetzal
	Taking life as it comes (Preview) What used to seem so difficult now seems so simple. Staying focused in the day and enjoying life is so important to this alchy. This staying sober stuff rocks!!! Developing new friendships with sober people is a wonderful thing. When I go to meetings now I really look forwards to seeing new friends. Ha...	soberdrunk	3	591	Sep 20, 2006 by Quetzal
	Ohhhhh Yaaaaaa... (Preview) Expectations By Robert Burney M.A. "I spent most of my life doing the Serenity prayer backwards, that is, trying to change the external things over which I had no control - other people and life events mostly - and taking no responsibility (except shaming and blaming myself) for my ow...	Phil	0	556	Sep 20, 2006 by Phil
	Spontaneity (Preview) *The Language of Letting Go*. In recovery, we're learning to let ourselves go! We're learning to be spontaneous. Spontaneity may frighten some of us. We may be afraid of the loss of control involved with spontaneity. We may still be operating under the codependent rules that prohibit spontaneit...	Phil	0	525	Sep 20, 2006 by Phil
	~~~~~Bon Voyage~~~~~ (Preview) We are bound for Oklahoma tomorrow..... Looking forward to a week of R & R, and a BIG FAT steak in cowboy country!!! I will be passing by you, Ryan, and close to Thief... so I will holler out a big AA "YAAAAYYYY!!!!!" out the car window... Hope you two can hear me.. :o) Everyone take care and have...	jonibaloni	4	532	Sep 19, 2006 by RyanS
	The Past in the Present~Higher Awareness (Preview) "If you accept a limiting belief, then it will become a truth for you." -- Louise Hay Pick one aspect of your life, e.g. your health, your competence, your prosperity or relationships, and think back to when you were a child. What messages about this subject did you hear from adults at that time tha...	Wren	4	573	Sep 19, 2006 by Wren
	Life is not always what one wants it to be (Preview) Life is not always what one wants it to be, but to make the best of it as it is, is the only way of being happy. -- Jennie Jerome Churchill We are generally so certain that we know what's best for ourselves. And we are just as often certain that what we think is best will guarantee happiness. Perhaps we sh...	Quetzal	1	675	Sep 19, 2006 by Phil
	Need insight (Preview) Hope this isn't an inappropriate place for this. I am an art school student majoring in Metal Arts. My Mother is celebrating her 28th year (half her life) sober and still attends a weekly meeting. I have an assignment in class, basically to make a "bank" to hold a conceptual currency. I want to make some...	artstudent	4	507	Sep 19, 2006 by Wren
	Just a little FREAKED Out!!!! (Preview) Good Morning, Last week I saw a Doctor about now being Allergic to the full spectrum of Antibiotics. I was under the impression that if you had allergy testing done, they would be able to tell you, which antibiotic you were the least allergic to. That turned out, not to be the case. ...	Toni Baloney	7	568	Sep 19, 2006 by wandajf
	lazy (Preview) hey folks, man Im not used to this motivate yourself business, I am used to someone cracking the whip, any suggestions for motivation? getting my butt out of bed before 11 in the morning would be a great start!, im skint so cant afford a motivation book but if you have any tips etc please assist! I have sor...	Robert	3	511	Sep 19, 2006 by Wren
	Who WAS that girl?......... (Preview) For the past few days I have been a little more reflective than usual. I was asked to lead a meeting this past Saturday, and then a different one tomorrow night. While I don't generally think too much about it, I did get taken back to some realizations about the old me, as I listened to a friend's story last...	jonibaloni	2	585	Sep 19, 2006 by Quetzal
	Letting The Good Stuff Happen... (Preview) *The Language of Letting Go. Before recovery, my relationships were lousy. I didn't do very well on my job. I was enmeshed in my dysfunctional family. But at least I knew what to expect! --Anonymous* I want the second half of my life to be as good as the first half was miserable. Sometimes, I'...	Phil	0	584	Sep 18, 2006 by Phil
	Family Deaths (Preview) Hi everyone, I haven't meant to be neglectful of the site or message boards lately, but I have had to be due to two deaths in my family that took place last Sunday. Two of my aunts were murdered in Fort Myers, Fla. September 10th, 2006. It appears that one was killed at approxiately 3 pm,...	John	9	861	Sep 18, 2006 by zoomie
	Wierd night gone good......... (Preview) Where do I start.... My husband and I were talking on the phone while he was at work.. we were discussing our vacation coming this Wednesday and we were talking about the money I have saved for it. My husband FREAKED out and said he didn't understand why we didn't have more saved... I do all the finances...	jonibaloni	3	658	Sep 18, 2006 by cooncatbob
	Big Minds, Small Minds (Preview) "It is the mind that makes one wise or ignorant, bound or emancipated." -- Sri Ramakrishna Zen distinguishes big mind from small mind. Big mind identifies with its process, is impersonal and participates universally. Big mind is unlimited possibilities, deeper understanding, forgiveness...	Wren	1	512	Sep 18, 2006 by Phil
	Love involves a willingness (Preview) Love involves a willingness to suffer and to be inconvenienced. -- Lewis F. Presnall The act of loving another broadens our understanding of the human condition and often pinches our egos. Indeed, one of the greatest gifts, though not necessarily cherished, which is granted through loving...	Quetzal	4	543	Sep 18, 2006 by thief
	working the program at home (Preview) Boy thats a tricky one, I thought I was self centred, but boy! my partner is another story, anything I do, she questions how it will affect her, I am starting uni, but there is a condition that when I finish I must get a job and pay for her to have babies and not to have to work, I know that sounds really bad of me...	Robert	7	564	Sep 18, 2006 by Robert
	I got a temp. sponsor!!! (Preview) I went to my meeting tonight and it was a wonderful one about overcoming fears, which really carries over into so many parts of life. After the meeting, we were all talking and a guy brought up sponsorship in regards to me. Before I knew it, he had a lady at my side, suggesting that I call her a...	SheIsSober	4	540	Sep 18, 2006 by RyanS
	People Pleasing...Having Trouble Saying No? (Preview) by Kali Munro, M.Ed., Do you have trouble saying NO? Do you do things for other people but almost never ask anybody to do things for you? You may be a people pleaser. People pleasers think of other people’s needs before their own. They worry about what other people want, think, or need, and spend a lo...	Phil	3	628	Sep 18, 2006 by Phil
	Vacation (Preview) I'm headed out this morning for the Grand Canyon! Be back next weekend........Ya'll keep on keeping on.........Love and peace to all. Jen	Doll	2	518	Sep 17, 2006 by cooncatbob
	Greetings (Preview) Hi everybody, I come from the sunny city of Dubai. We have a lovely fellowship which is evergrowing. The UAE has much to offer. Most of that I have enjoyed recently in the past year and a half of sobriety. Before that, I knew nothing of the beautiful city I lived in. Deja vu? LOL. I do that a l...	Sober Jack	4	628	Sep 17, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Social Anxiety tonight (Preview) Tonight I went out with some AA folks after the mtg. We went downtown and listened to bands....bands in bars that is. Well, I must say I faked my good time as I was anxious as hell. Such a reminder that when I would go to these places, I would hurry to start drinking to relieve my social anxiousness. As lon...	beachbaby	4	533	Sep 17, 2006 by beachbaby
	Going Easy (Preview) Go easy. You may have to push forward, but you don't have to push so hard. Go in gentleness, go in peace. Do not be in so much of a hurry. At no day, no hour, no time are you required to do more than you can do in peace. Frantic behaviours and urgency are not the foundation for our new way of life. Do not b...	Quetzal	1	556	Sep 17, 2006 by jonibaloni
	Forgiveness Among The Unforgiven (Preview) by Ananda Abhaya Karuna There are some things which we need to consider before we decide whether or not we want to forgive another. Forgiveness is a choice that must be freely made if the act is to have any value at all. It is not meant to be an act of kindness to the person who is forgiven, but to the...	Phil	1	668	Sep 17, 2006 by jonibaloni
	7th Tradition? (Preview) At our 12&12 meeting we did the 7th tradition last night. Verrrrry interesting. Needless to say I was a little irritated with this one. Statistics show that all our $$$ we put in baskets around the world go to AA as a whole. We support our own meetings and that's pretty much it. One of the ole' timer...	soberdrunk	4	584	Sep 17, 2006 by jonibaloni
	Hi everyone (Preview) Just wanted to say hi. I've been going to a lot of meetings over the last few weeks and am doing okay. I found someone who I want to ask to be my sponsor. She sees me wanting to rush through recovery and will help me slow down. Baby steps. I read somewhere about a bridge be...	HappyMe	4	548	Sep 17, 2006 by Quetzal
	Daily Reflections Sept 17 (Preview) FREEDOM FROM FEAR When, with God's help, we calmly accepted our lot, then we found we could live at peace with ourselves and show others who still suffered the same fears that they could get over them, too. We found that freedom from fear was more important than freedom from want. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELV...	Doll	0	479	Sep 17, 2006 by Doll
	The ability to persevere ... (Preview) A big shot is just a little shot who kept on shooting. -- Zig Ziglar Consider these words of Calvin Coolidge: "Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb....	Quetzal	2	570	Sep 16, 2006 by RyanS
	Resigning (Preview) I have to resign from my part time job today as to move on to a full time job. Will let you know more later. Just about enough to make a person want to drink - BUT I am not going to - even if my ass falls off. Later - Jeannie	jeannie	7	554	Sep 16, 2006 by Phil
	To Phil...... (Preview) I just wanted you to know how appreciated and loved you are on this board. I miss your posts, your wisdom and your fun when you are on hiatus. Just thought you'd like to know. Joni	jonibaloni	6	571	Sep 16, 2006 by buckeyebear
	Sick of being a martyr! (Preview) Maybe it's the new antidepressant working well for me, but I swear I feel so much better. I hated being a martyr. Boo hoo! Poor me! I'm an alcoholic! Waaah! I got so sick of hearing myself whine. Maybe I'm getting closer to acceptance. I don't know...	HDoggie	7	1848	Sep 16, 2006 by HDoggie
	My Role as an AA member (Preview) Stay sober, One Day at a Time. Share my Experience, Strength and Hope with another Alcoholic. Help another find his/her way through the 12 Steps. Help keep the meetings going, in whatever way I am able to. Keep my side of the street clean. Keep it simple. Have Patience, Love and T...	jonibaloni	0	564	Sep 16, 2006 by jonibaloni
	SUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Preview) Nothing further....	jonibaloni	5	611	Sep 16, 2006 by jonibaloni
	Grateful Alcoholic? (Preview) I heard someone say they were a grateful alcoholic tonight. A grateful alcoholic? I've heard people say they are grateful recovering alcoholics before. I can kind of accept that, but a grateful alcoholic? F**K THAT! I could never be grateful for the pain and hurt I've inflicted upon people...	soberdrunk	4	578	Sep 16, 2006 by Doll
	Remember when..... (Preview) "AA 12 STEPS IN REVERSE! 1. I declare my complete control over alcohol and everything else; and further declare that my life is in perfect order 2. I recognize no power as great as I am; nor any person as smart as I am, and if you don't like it come outside 3. I made a decision to run my life and everyone else's...	Phil	3	597	Sep 16, 2006 by Quetzal
	Meditation & Reflection Sept 16 (Preview) Today is September 16, 2006 A Great Day for Recovery! DENIAL "The worst vice of the fanatic is his sincerity." -- Oscar Wilde The disease of alcoholism is "cunning, baffling and powerful", and it manipulates us to believe "the lie". There is a point that we reach in our disease whe...	Doll	2	653	Sep 16, 2006 by Phil
	AAAAAAAAAHHHHHGGG!!! (Preview)	RyanS	13	669	Sep 15, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	How do you stay focused on sobriety? (Preview) I'm finding that my biggest pitfall in attempting to get my drinking problem under control is that I just really, really, really like drinking! I realize that's nothing profound, but I just am having a very hard time staying focused on sobriety. I'm very much a health nut...I don't smoke, I l...	Scott	10	1550	Sep 15, 2006 by jonibaloni
	Reflections Sept 15 (Preview) A NEW LIFE Yes, there is a substitute and it is vastly more than that. It is a fellowship in Alcoholics Anonymous . . . . Life will mean something at last. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 152 Life is better without alcohol. A.A. and the presence of a Higher Power keeps me sober, but the grace of God does even bette...	Doll	0	486	Sep 15, 2006 by Doll
	All of my life ..... (Preview) All of my life I been like a doubled up fist... poundin', smashin', drivin' - now I'm going to loosen these doubled up hands and touch things easy with them. --Tennessee Williams Everyone has many sides. Some sides are highly developed and other sides aren't at all. We need not fear turning to a new...	Quetzal	0	560	Sep 15, 2006 by Quetzal
	All taken care of! (Preview) Hey all! I went to my AA group and the guy who tried to kiss me was there again. My dad stayed right by my side the whole time and at the end, I went up to the leader of the group and asked if we could talk. I told him that I didn't want to make a fuss over it, but explained that he was out of line....	SheIsSober	2	590	Sep 14, 2006 by jonibaloni
	Hi (Preview) Hi there, still Sober today, but feeling lonely, I only have 3 days of full time work left wer hoo! but feeling a bit down, i see people enjoying a drink! and I feel like an alien to them. I dont want to drink , but i feel like I ought to as a student, ,,,,,,,,i know thats madness.	Robert	5	548	Sep 14, 2006 by Robert
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