Alcoholics Anonymous

Phil · Phil

Why People Remain in Abusive Alcoholic Relationships The Stockholm Syndrome By Doug Kelley, CH, CSL July 2002 "Alcoholics don’t take spouses—they take hostages." —Diane G. at an Al-Anon meeting Those who have never experienced the turmoil of an abusive relationship find it difficul...

LisaF · LisaF

"Comfort is the one thing you cannot get by looking for it. If you look for truth, you may find comfort in the end; if you look for comfort you will not get either comfort or truth - only soft soap and wishful thinking to begin with and, in the end, despair."-- C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

Quetzal · Quetzal

I have one request: may I never use my reason against truth. - -Elie Wiesel Honesty with ourselves is a great asset in every situation we confront. The skill to look reality square in the face and call it what it is takes us a good distance toward coping with it. However, many of us also have the skill to spi...

barisax · barisax

For the sake of anonymity... I won't say the date or the year. But right around now, this is when I got sober. Not my birthday, not a new years resolution, not a DUI or court order. There's absolutely nothing significant about the date, other than... I went to my first AA meeting. They said k...

cindy · cindy

like i have said before, i was raised in a drinking culture. i have decended from a long line of boozers on both sides of the family....i tried to cut down or quit on my own, it was futile. when i finally came into the doors of aa they truly spoke my "language". the language of the heart....the bi...

Robert · Robert

do you ever get the impression that people ignore you if your having a bad day? When I was doing well and chatty a certain person would talk to me, just recently I have not done very well and make a mistake in a presentation at college this person is being off with me now, I am trying to just relax with it to be h...

Doll · Doll

A PATH TO FAITH True humility and an open mind can lead us to faith, and every A.A. meeting is an assurance that God will restore us to sanity if we rightly relate ourselves to Him. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 33 My last drunk had landed me in the hospital, totally broken. It was then that I was a...

pp17331 · pp17331

Hi everyone, been absent awhile, NORO virus! Yuck! Anyway here's something I want to share because I know the burden will shrink in size. My parents died when I was young. I spent many years in foster care (10). When I was thirteen I moved in with a recovering alcoholic who then adopted me at age seve...

Phil · Phil

Don't argue with an idiot; people watching may not be able to tell the difference. I saw a woman wearing a sweat shirt with "Guess" on it. So I said "Implants?" She hit me. Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants. Marriage changes passio...

Phil · Phil

The Chicago bears musta been snowed in yesterday.....cause they never showed up...in Miami... Coulda been all the rain also...they didnt wanna get their fur wet... Today...the City of Chicago is on fire....and will exsist no more... And thats the news for this morning...from "2 feet of snow...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Whoever is happy will make others happy, too. -- Anne Frank Anne Frank had good reason to be unhappy, full of fear, and deeply discouraged. Years of her life were spent in a small apartment hiding from the Nazis who wanted to destroy her and her family. Yet even in this little hiding place she had happine...

mom to 2 · mom to 2

Hello everyone, I read often and learn alot from this board. I am struggling with a decision. My AH has been in and out of sobriety for 2 years. Really mostly in but the outs are devastating. It seems he overdrank for many years but there were no consequences and now he's mostly sober but one binge-...

TLH · TLH

Easy money. I won $50 from my little brother today because he fell for the hype and felt like he HAD to drink and lose our standing wager on stupidbowl Sunday. (What is that anyways? Why superbowl? What’s so super about it? Why not super “plate”? Super “carafe”? Super salt-shaker? Anyhow- I told him I’d...

Quetzal · Quetzal

You start preparing when you're thirty for the person you'll be at eighty. -- Janice Clark We can't get away from ourselves, at least not entirely. Who we were at ten and twenty and forty and fifty remain as threads in our tapestries. Many of us shudder because some details of our personal...

Doll · Doll

A RALLYING POINT Therefore, Step Two is the rallying point for all of us. "Whether agnostic, atheist, or former believer, we can stand together on this Step. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 33 I feel that A.A. is a God-inspired program and that God is at every A.A. meeting. I see, believe,...

tina · tina

I realize through out my work nite, um kinda hard to explain. I'm pretty easy going and full of life, my co-workers are a great bunch of people to work with. We all have our days and well ya know that goes without saying. I love my job and really dont' complain about much, figure certain things go with t...

Doll · Doll

A GLORIOUS RELEASE "The minute I stopped arguing, I could begin to see and feel. Right there, Step Two gently and very gradually began to infiltrate my life. I can't say upon what occasion or upon what day I came to believe in a Power greater than myself, but I certainly have that belief now. To...

Kazza · Kazza

Hi all, I'm new to this forum stuff but not to AA. I have been sober, a day at a time, for quite a number of days now!!!! Visited California (Santa Barbara) last October and got myself to a few meetings - was blown away by the love and sense of belonging - can go anywhere in the world and find friends who un...

sheilasdad · sheilasdad

This was in another thread here. "In the past 6 months I went to a AA meeting and there was nothing but losers and drug addicts," Wow. That's a statement...Anyway... When I was in my early twenties and full of the infinite wisdom that consumes many of us in that deluded stage, my younger...

LisaF · LisaF

So I've been in Nebraska 2 weeks and have only made it to one meeting... things have been so busy since I got here, and we have to go into town to get to meetings... my boyfriend says it's hard to get to many meetings living out here on a farm. Hopefully I can get to one soon, I really need to get a sp...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We should be careful to get out of an experience only the wisdom that is in it - and stay there, lest we be like the cat that sits down on a hot stove lid. She will never sit down on a hot stove lid again... but also, she will never sit down on a cold one any more. -- Mark Twain "Last night I asked for help, but...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Differences . . . with no hidden cutting edge. The respect and dignity a couple show each other set the table from which they are nourished for all other activities in their lives. Any feeling can be expressed in respectful or disrespectful ways. Anger is one of the most difficult to express respectfu...

RyanS · RyanS

Whiners Anonymous Whiners Anonymous Help (WAH!) Do you whine, complain, or snivel? Are you a grumpy old fart? Do you seek out others in taverns or internet chat rooms to whine about things? Do people ever tell you to "like it or lump it"? Are you asked, "What are you crying about?"...

Phil · Phil

Randy, the painter, often thinned his paint to make it go further. The Baptist Church decided to restore its biggest building. Randy put in a low bid and got the job. He bought the paint, and, yes, thinned it with turpentine. Well, Randy was painting away, the job nearly completed, when suddenly ther...

Sick of being sick · Sick of being sick

"... whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and the one who humbles himself will be exalted." -Matthew 23:12 "In his parable about the Pharisee and the tax collector praying in the temple, Jesus is stressing the importance of a humble heart when it comes to prayer. At the same tim...

Robert · Robert

some nice calming classical music for when my mum comes over for tea

Phil · Phil

Authentic, legitimate guilt is the feeling or thought that what we did is not okay. It indicates that our behavior needs to be corrected or altered, or an amend needs to be made. Shame is an overwhelming negative sense that who we are isn't okay. Shame is a no-win situation. We can change our behavi...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Next year I'm going to be better than I am now, but today I'm the best I can be. It is quite possible to waste a lot of time and energy trying to make impossible changes. Many of us, inspired by the dynamics of the program and driven more by enthusiasm than prudence, strike out on missions that cann...

Laura · Laura

Hello, I've been coming to this forum for a little less than two weeks. I wrote my first post a little over a week ago and have appreciated reading and responding since. It's been just about four days since I last had a drink. I know I still need to go to meetings. I'm still so scared. For the fi...

Sick of being sick · Sick of being sick

"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned." Siddhartha Gautama Buddha

Doll · Doll

FILLING THE VOID We needed to ask ourselves but one short question. "Do I now believe, or am I even willing to believe, that there is a Power greater than myself?" As soon as a man can say that he does believe, or is willing to believe, we emphatically assure him that he is on his way. ALCOHOLICS...

RyanS · RyanS

Avoiding a Critical Spirit Kevin Offner, InterVarsity graduate staff One of the vices I hate acknowledging in me is a critical spirit. I want to put the best spin on myself, of course, so I give this poisonous quality nice names like “reflection,” and “being properly analytical.” Here are a few sn...

kbstandup · kbstandup

Ok I've been sober for about 36 days now.... I'm going to be 100% honest with this. At first it seemed really neat to be sober, I thought clear and started to manage a little in my life, I felt good and seen hope. I don't know if this is normal but I have got the biggest fear of being around people...

Wren · Wren

Shake Your Tail Feathers Most of us express our distinctiveness in many ways throughout our lives. Although, as we proudly share our offbeat traits and preferences with the world, we take great pains to downplay those eccentricities we ourselves deem odd. Instead of living lives colored by these q...

MorganSS · MorganSS

Ive been married for a little over a month, my beautiful wife is SO understanding... I had cut back my drinking for over a year but recently she found a bottle of vodka that I was hiding, she caught me redhanded and I admitted to sneaking shots almost on a daily basis. I love this woman with all my heart and...

cindy · cindy

despite all we can say, many who are real alcoholics are not going to believe they are in that class. by every form of self-deception and experimentation, they will try to prove themselves exceptions to the rule, therefore nonalcoholic. if anyone who is showing inability to control his drinking can...

Doll · Doll

I found this beautiful winter poem and thought it might be a comfort to you. It was to me, and it's very well written. ENJOY! " WINTER " a poem by Abigail Elizabeth McIntyre " SHIT It's Cold ! " The End

Doll · Doll

RESCUED BY SURRENDERING Characteristic of the so-called typical alcoholic is a narcissistic egocentric core, dominated by feelings of omnipotence, intent on maintaining at all costs its inner integrity.... Inwardly the alcoholic brooks no control from man or God. He, the alcoholic, is and mus...

Wren · Wren

Be strong and of good courage; be not frightened, neither be dismayed----Joshua 1:9 It has been said when we are at the end of our rope, we can do one of three things: let go, tie a knot and hang on, or splice the rope and begin again. Whenever we feel there's nowhere to go but down and nobody to turn to...

abcd · abcd

or how much did you used to drink per day? I used to drink a 40 oz. a night, and then drink heavily when going out or on weekends. Now, I hardly I drink beer, and drink vodka. I've came down from a 1/2 liter a day to 1/4 liter a day. I usually mix with sprite, lemonade, cranberry juice, etc.. I start drin...

Rinder · Rinder

Hello, I made the mistake of stopping by MB today and read the posts to my thread... Oh, how that hurt my heart...just not being understood, by it appears to be condemned for my choice... All this time I felt that I had friends who supported me there...it was just dishearting... Someone sa...

MorganSS · MorganSS

Ive been married for a little over a month, my beautiful wife is SO understanding... I had cut back my drinking for over a year but recently she found a bottle of vodka that I was hiding, she caught me redhanded and I admitted to sneaking shots almost on a daily basis. I love this woman with all my hea...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

Just wanted to drop in and say hello to my sober MIP family! Life is good today. It's kind of weird. I went from being a single recovering alchy to having a girlfriend with three kids. We're talking about getting a place together in March. Things just keep getting more and more interesting bein...

pp17331 · pp17331

Hi I'm new to the online forum I posted yesterday and received no response. I figured I must be doing it wrong. I posted as a reply. This is under new posting. Anyway I just typed out my whole deal and erased it, I'm tired. Just want to say it's been a month with no alcohol, not because I wanted t...

deedee · deedee

Hi Everyone, I am a grateful recovering alchoholic. I have been sober for almost 16 years now. I haven't been to a meeting in a long time, but I work the steps everyday. I am here because I need to share and get some advice on getting out of a bad marriage. I am married to a very controlling man who is an en...

Doll · Doll

OUR COMMON WELFARE COMES FIRST The unity of Alcoholics Anonymous is the most cherished quality our Society has. . . . We stay whole, or A.A. dies. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 129 Our Traditions are key elements in the ego deflation process necessary to achieve and maintain sobriety in Alco...

Quetzal · Quetzal

It's not enough to talk to plants, you also have to listen. -- David Bergman Plants grow best when we pay attention to them. That means watering, touching them, putting them in places where they will receive good light. They need people around them to notice if they are drooping at the edges or look...

Phil · Phil

The Language of Letting Go. "There's a good trick that people in dysfunctional relationships use," said one recovering woman. "The other person does something inappropriate or wrong, then stands there until you feel guilty and end up apologizing." It's imperative that we stop feeling so gui...

Doll · Doll

One of my favorites. I like to post it every now and again to remind myself I never have to be alone again because for sooooo long I thought there was no hope, then, I found others just like me......Jen ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ An alcoholic fell in a hole and couldn't get out. A businessman...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Thou shalt not should thyself.-- Anonymous When someone tells us we should do something, do we want to do it, or do we feel mad that someone else is telling us what we want to do? Sometimes we forget that these messages are not our own, but are the desires of others. It's important to listen to what we t...

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	An Article re: Alcoholic Relationships (Preview) Why People Remain in Abusive Alcoholic Relationships The Stockholm Syndrome By Doug Kelley, CH, CSL July 2002 "Alcoholics don’t take spouses—they take hostages." —Diane G. at an Al-Anon meeting Those who have never experienced the turmoil of an abusive relationship find it difficul...	Phil	1	499	Feb 8, 2007 by jeannie
	quote on comfort (Preview) "Comfort is the one thing you cannot get by looking for it. If you look for truth, you may find comfort in the end; if you look for comfort you will not get either comfort or truth - only soft soap and wishful thinking to begin with and, in the end, despair."-- C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity	LisaF	1	361	Feb 8, 2007 by RyanS
	Honesty with Ourselves (Preview) I have one request: may I never use my reason against truth. - -Elie Wiesel Honesty with ourselves is a great asset in every situation we confront. The skill to look reality square in the face and call it what it is takes us a good distance toward coping with it. However, many of us also have the skill to spi...	Quetzal	2	460	Feb 7, 2007 by destinydreamer
	Anniversary (Preview) For the sake of anonymity... I won't say the date or the year. But right around now, this is when I got sober. Not my birthday, not a new years resolution, not a DUI or court order. There's absolutely nothing significant about the date, other than... I went to my first AA meeting. They said k...	barisax	4	379	Feb 7, 2007 by destinydreamer
	why i love AA (Preview) like i have said before, i was raised in a drinking culture. i have decended from a long line of boozers on both sides of the family....i tried to cut down or quit on my own, it was futile. when i finally came into the doors of aa they truly spoke my "language". the language of the heart....the bi...	cindy	6	375	Feb 7, 2007 by Sick of being sick
	those off days (Preview) do you ever get the impression that people ignore you if your having a bad day? When I was doing well and chatty a certain person would talk to me, just recently I have not done very well and make a mistake in a presentation at college this person is being off with me now, I am trying to just relax with it to be h...	Robert	9	388	Feb 7, 2007 by RyanS
	Daily Reflections Feb 7 (Preview) A PATH TO FAITH True humility and an open mind can lead us to faith, and every A.A. meeting is an assurance that God will restore us to sanity if we rightly relate ourselves to Him. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 33 My last drunk had landed me in the hospital, totally broken. It was then that I was a...	Doll	1	417	Feb 7, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Off my chest (Preview) Hi everyone, been absent awhile, NORO virus! Yuck! Anyway here's something I want to share because I know the burden will shrink in size. My parents died when I was young. I spent many years in foster care (10). When I was thirteen I moved in with a recovering alcoholic who then adopted me at age seve...	pp17331	8	353	Feb 7, 2007 by TLH
	Canuck thoughts for the day... (Preview) Don't argue with an idiot; people watching may not be able to tell the difference. I saw a woman wearing a sweat shirt with "Guess" on it. So I said "Implants?" She hit me. Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants. Marriage changes passio...	Phil	7	421	Feb 7, 2007 by Wren
	They never showed up eh... (Preview) The Chicago bears musta been snowed in yesterday.....cause they never showed up...in Miami... Coulda been all the rain also...they didnt wanna get their fur wet... Today...the City of Chicago is on fire....and will exsist no more... And thats the news for this morning...from "2 feet of snow...	Phil	10	442	Feb 7, 2007 by TLH
	Happiness (Preview) Whoever is happy will make others happy, too. -- Anne Frank Anne Frank had good reason to be unhappy, full of fear, and deeply discouraged. Years of her life were spent in a small apartment hiding from the Nazis who wanted to destroy her and her family. Yet even in this little hiding place she had happine...	Quetzal	1	367	Feb 7, 2007 by cindy
	in and out of sobriety?! (Preview) Hello everyone, I read often and learn alot from this board. I am struggling with a decision. My AH has been in and out of sobriety for 2 years. Really mostly in but the outs are devastating. It seems he overdrank for many years but there were no consequences and now he's mostly sober but one binge-...	mom to 2	4	439	Feb 7, 2007 by cindy
	This sobriety stuff is pretty fricken cool!! (Preview) Easy money. I won $50 from my little brother today because he fell for the hype and felt like he HAD to drink and lose our standing wager on stupidbowl Sunday. (What is that anyways? Why superbowl? What’s so super about it? Why not super “plate”? Super “carafe”? Super salt-shaker? Anyhow- I told him I’d...	TLH	5	393	Feb 6, 2007 by Laura
	Today Is A Clean Slate (Preview) You start preparing when you're thirty for the person you'll be at eighty. -- Janice Clark We can't get away from ourselves, at least not entirely. Who we were at ten and twenty and forty and fifty remain as threads in our tapestries. Many of us shudder because some details of our personal...	Quetzal	1	403	Feb 6, 2007 by Laura
	Daily Reflections Feb 6 (Preview) A RALLYING POINT Therefore, Step Two is the rallying point for all of us. "Whether agnostic, atheist, or former believer, we can stand together on this Step. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 33 I feel that A.A. is a God-inspired program and that God is at every A.A. meeting. I see, believe,...	Doll	1	1374	Feb 6, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Case sensitive (Preview) I realize through out my work nite, um kinda hard to explain. I'm pretty easy going and full of life, my co-workers are a great bunch of people to work with. We all have our days and well ya know that goes without saying. I love my job and really dont' complain about much, figure certain things go with t...	tina	6	385	Feb 6, 2007 by jeannie
	Daily Reflections Feb 5 (Preview) A GLORIOUS RELEASE "The minute I stopped arguing, I could begin to see and feel. Right there, Step Two gently and very gradually began to infiltrate my life. I can't say upon what occasion or upon what day I came to believe in a Power greater than myself, but I certainly have that belief now. To...	Doll	2	524	Feb 6, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Greetings from the UK (Preview) Hi all, I'm new to this forum stuff but not to AA. I have been sober, a day at a time, for quite a number of days now!!!! Visited California (Santa Barbara) last October and got myself to a few meetings - was blown away by the love and sense of belonging - can go anywhere in the world and find friends who un...	Kazza	7	341	Feb 5, 2007 by Zster
	AA for Losers? We Think Not! (Preview) This was in another thread here. "In the past 6 months I went to a AA meeting and there was nothing but losers and drug addicts," Wow. That's a statement...Anyway... When I was in my early twenties and full of the infinite wisdom that consumes many of us in that deluded stage, my younger...	sheilasdad	11	1949	Feb 5, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	not enough meetings (Preview) So I've been in Nebraska 2 weeks and have only made it to one meeting... things have been so busy since I got here, and we have to go into town to get to meetings... my boyfriend says it's hard to get to many meetings living out here on a farm. Hopefully I can get to one soon, I really need to get a sp...	LisaF	10	451	Feb 5, 2007 by tina
	The Wisdom In An Experience (Preview) We should be careful to get out of an experience only the wisdom that is in it - and stay there, lest we be like the cat that sits down on a hot stove lid. She will never sit down on a hot stove lid again... but also, she will never sit down on a cold one any more. -- Mark Twain "Last night I asked for help, but...	Quetzal	0	342	Feb 5, 2007 by Quetzal
	Differences (Preview) Differences . . . with no hidden cutting edge. The respect and dignity a couple show each other set the table from which they are nourished for all other activities in their lives. Any feeling can be expressed in respectful or disrespectful ways. Anger is one of the most difficult to express respectfu...	Quetzal	3	289	Feb 4, 2007 by TLH
	WAH (Preview) Whiners Anonymous Whiners Anonymous Help (WAH!) Do you whine, complain, or snivel? Are you a grumpy old fart? Do you seek out others in taverns or internet chat rooms to whine about things? Do people ever tell you to "like it or lump it"? Are you asked, "What are you crying about?"...	RyanS	5	386	Feb 4, 2007 by RyanS
	On The Lighter Side..:) (Preview) Randy, the painter, often thinned his paint to make it go further. The Baptist Church decided to restore its biggest building. Randy put in a low bid and got the job. He bought the paint, and, yes, thinned it with turpentine. Well, Randy was painting away, the job nearly completed, when suddenly ther...	Phil	5	407	Feb 4, 2007 by Laura
	Honest humility (Preview) "... whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and the one who humbles himself will be exalted." -Matthew 23:12 "In his parable about the Pharisee and the tax collector praying in the temple, Jesus is stressing the importance of a humble heart when it comes to prayer. At the same tim...	Sick of being sick	0	315	Feb 3, 2007 by Sick of being sick
	can any 1 reccommend (Preview) some nice calming classical music for when my mum comes over for tea	Robert	12	511	Feb 3, 2007 by sheilasdad
	Rejecting Shame... (Preview) Authentic, legitimate guilt is the feeling or thought that what we did is not okay. It indicates that our behavior needs to be corrected or altered, or an amend needs to be made. Shame is an overwhelming negative sense that who we are isn't okay. Shame is a no-win situation. We can change our behavi...	Phil	1	397	Feb 3, 2007 by Laura
	Today I'm The Best I Can Be (Preview) Next year I'm going to be better than I am now, but today I'm the best I can be. It is quite possible to waste a lot of time and energy trying to make impossible changes. Many of us, inspired by the dynamics of the program and driven more by enthusiasm than prudence, strike out on missions that cann...	Quetzal	3	410	Feb 3, 2007 by Laura
	Laura's Update (Preview) Hello, I've been coming to this forum for a little less than two weeks. I wrote my first post a little over a week ago and have appreciated reading and responding since. It's been just about four days since I last had a drink. I know I still need to go to meetings. I'm still so scared. For the fi...	Laura	8	454	Feb 3, 2007 by Laura
	Anger management (circa 500 BC) (Preview) "Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned." Siddhartha Gautama Buddha	Sick of being sick	4	403	Feb 3, 2007 by Phil
	Daily Reflections Feb 3 (Preview) FILLING THE VOID We needed to ask ourselves but one short question. "Do I now believe, or am I even willing to believe, that there is a Power greater than myself?" As soon as a man can say that he does believe, or is willing to believe, we emphatically assure him that he is on his way. ALCOHOLICS...	Doll	2	505	Feb 3, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Ouch (Preview) *Avoiding a Critical Spirit* Kevin Offner, InterVarsity graduate staff One of the vices I hate acknowledging in me is a critical spirit. I want to put the best spin on myself, of course, so I give this poisonous quality nice names like “reflection,” and “being properly analytical.” Here are a few sn...	RyanS	16	414	Feb 3, 2007 by amanda2u2
	Man Need Some Responses (Preview) Ok I've been sober for about 36 days now.... I'm going to be 100% honest with this. At first it seemed really neat to be sober, I thought clear and started to manage a little in my life, I felt good and seen hope. I don't know if this is normal but I have got the biggest fear of being around people...	kbstandup	6	670	Feb 3, 2007 by Laura
	Like Nobody's Watching~OM (Preview) Shake Your Tail Feathers Most of us express our distinctiveness in many ways throughout our lives. Although, as we proudly share our offbeat traits and preferences with the world, we take great pains to downplay those eccentricities we ourselves deem odd. Instead of living lives colored by these q...	Wren	3	415	Feb 3, 2007 by timverton
	UPDATE (Preview) Ive been married for a little over a month, my beautiful wife is SO understanding... I had cut back my drinking for over a year but recently she found a bottle of vodka that I was hiding, she caught me redhanded and I admitted to sneaking shots almost on a daily basis. I love this woman with all my heart and...	MorganSS	4	367	Feb 2, 2007 by Ironman
	chapter 3 'big book' page 31 (for the new ones) (Preview) despite all we can say, many who are real alcoholics are not going to believe they are in that class. by every form of self-deception and experimentation, they will try to prove themselves exceptions to the rule, therefore nonalcoholic. if anyone who is showing inability to control his drinking can...	cindy	1	6079	Feb 2, 2007 by Ironman
	Winter poem (Preview) I found this beautiful winter poem and thought it might be a comfort to you. It was to me, and it's very well written. ENJOY! " WINTER " a poem by Abigail Elizabeth McIntyre " SHIT It's Cold ! " The End	Doll	1	363	Feb 2, 2007 by Phil
	Daily Reflections Feb 2 (Preview) RESCUED BY SURRENDERING Characteristic of the so-called typical alcoholic is a narcissistic egocentric core, dominated by feelings of omnipotence, intent on maintaining at all costs its inner integrity.... Inwardly the alcoholic brooks no control from man or God. He, the alcoholic, is and mus...	Doll	1	7240	Feb 2, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Night Light (Preview) Be strong and of good courage; be not frightened, neither be dismayed----Joshua 1:9 It has been said when we are at the end of our rope, we can do one of three things: let go, tie a knot and hang on, or splice the rope and begin again. Whenever we feel there's nowhere to go but down and nobody to turn to...	Wren	0	293	Feb 2, 2007 by Wren
	Do I drink too much? (How much do you drink a day?) (Preview) or how much did you used to drink per day? I used to drink a 40 oz. a night, and then drink heavily when going out or on weekends. Now, I hardly I drink beer, and drink vodka. I've came down from a 1/2 liter a day to 1/4 liter a day. I usually mix with sprite, lemonade, cranberry juice, etc.. I start drin...	abcd	11	564	Feb 2, 2007 by Laura
	Ironman (Preview) Hello, I made the mistake of stopping by MB today and read the posts to my thread... Oh, how that hurt my heart...just not being understood, by it appears to be condemned for my choice... All this time I felt that I had friends who supported me there...it was just dishearting... Someone sa...	Rinder	5	370	Feb 1, 2007 by Rinder
	Im glad I found this place, I need to talk... (Preview) Ive been married for a little over a month, my beautiful wife is SO understanding... I had cut back my drinking for over a year but recently she found a bottle of vodka that I was hiding, she caught me redhanded and I admitted to sneaking shots almost on a daily basis. I love this woman with all my hea...	MorganSS	21	577	Feb 1, 2007 by MorganSS
	Hey Family (Preview) Just wanted to drop in and say hello to my sober MIP family! Life is good today. It's kind of weird. I went from being a single recovering alchy to having a girlfriend with three kids. We're talking about getting a place together in March. Things just keep getting more and more interesting bein...	soberdrunk	6	353	Feb 1, 2007 by RyanS
	Kerri's introduction (Preview) Hi I'm new to the online forum I posted yesterday and received no response. I figured I must be doing it wrong. I posted as a reply. This is under new posting. Anyway I just typed out my whole deal and erased it, I'm tired. Just want to say it's been a month with no alcohol, not because I wanted t...	pp17331	11	512	Feb 1, 2007 by Ironman
	Hi-New To This Board But Not to AA (Preview) Hi Everyone, I am a grateful recovering alchoholic. I have been sober for almost 16 years now. I haven't been to a meeting in a long time, but I work the steps everyday. I am here because I need to share and get some advice on getting out of a bad marriage. I am married to a very controlling man who is an en...	deedee	6	385	Feb 1, 2007 by tina
	Daily Reflections Jan 31 (Preview) OUR COMMON WELFARE COMES FIRST The unity of Alcoholics Anonymous is the most cherished quality our Society has. . . . We stay whole, or A.A. dies. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 129 Our Traditions are key elements in the ego deflation process necessary to achieve and maintain sobriety in Alco...	Doll	1	508	Feb 1, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Listening (Preview) It's not enough to talk to plants, you also have to listen. -- David Bergman Plants grow best when we pay attention to them. That means watering, touching them, putting them in places where they will receive good light. They need people around them to notice if they are drooping at the edges or look...	Quetzal	2	329	Feb 1, 2007 by cindy
	Letting Go Of Guilt (Preview) The Language of Letting Go. "There's a good trick that people in dysfunctional relationships use," said one recovering woman. "The other person does something inappropriate or wrong, then stands there until you feel guilty and end up apologizing." It's imperative that we stop feeling so gui...	Phil	1	408	Feb 1, 2007 by deedee
	No longer alone since finding AA and MIP (Preview) One of my favorites. I like to post it every now and again to remind myself I never have to be alone again because for sooooo long I thought there was no hope, then, I found others just like me......Jen ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ An alcoholic fell in a hole and couldn't get out. A businessman...	Doll	3	333	Feb 1, 2007 by pp17331
	Freeing Ourselves of 'Shoulds' (Preview) Thou shalt not should thyself.-- Anonymous When someone tells us we should do something, do we want to do it, or do we feel mad that someone else is telling us what we want to do? Sometimes we forget that these messages are not our own, but are the desires of others. It's important to listen to what we t...	Quetzal	3	396	Jan 31, 2007 by Phil
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