Alcoholics Anonymous

Doll · Doll

Hey man! Are you back? I thought (thought) I saw you.......could have been my imagination! Doll

Bonzo43 · Bonzo43

http://www.beliefnet.com/prayeroftheday/more_prayers.asp?paid=39&faid=76

Phil · Phil

Finding Balance The goal of recovery is balance - that precious middle ground. Many of us have gone from one extreme to another: years of taking care of everyone but ourselves, followed by a time of refusing to focus on anyone's needs but our own. We may have spent years refusing to identify, f...

Doll · Doll

Early in Dec. I had gone to a f2f, my mom called and my son, not knowing she didn't know, told her that I was at AA. I was not yet ready to tell her, if ever, she has a way of taking anything good and turning it into something horrible. So, after much thought, and talking with my sponsor, I f...

Phil · Phil

Patience is the ability to: Sit back and wait for an expected outcome without experiencing anxiety, tension, or frustration. Let go of your need for immediate gratification. Display tolerance, compassion, understanding, and acceptance toward those who are slower than you in developing matu...

Doll · Doll

IT DOESN'T HAPPEN OVERNIGHT We are not cured of alcoholism. What we really have is a daily reprieve contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 85 The most common alcoholic fantasy seems to be: "If I just don't drink, everything will be all right." Once the fog...

reinvented · reinvented

A question to you all, i am new here and this is my first post. I have not had a single drink for 25 months (to the day in three), although i do not step or do meets, i have much knowledge of alcoholism as it runs in my family in a big way... My question is this; during my 25 months alcohol free, i take 2 x 1...

Doll · Doll

Are you feeling better? The "crud" is going around these parts, my son came home from school today with I think the flu. So you take care of you and stay healthy...... Love you Doll

Toni Baloney · Toni Baloney

Hi Everyone, just a little update on my little stuggles I was having getting back into the feeling of belonging when I would go to an AA Meeting: The list was something like this: didn't know anyone, people were not very friendly, did not feel like I fit in, meeting was too clickey...

Phil · Phil

SOME REASONS WHY RELATIONSHIPS DETERIORATE 1. Lack of education in effective communication. We have not been educated in how to communicate openly and honestly. 2. Poor examples - Role models. We learn through imitation. We contain within us much more of our parents? programming than we are aware...

lanchas · lanchas

These are for the people on this board that have children. I'm 18 and both of my parents are As. Here are books that I recommend to read that I have found helpful(I haven't read all of them but I have read 3 of them front to back; I have read only a little bit of 9 of them which includes the 3 ...

Doll · Doll

ACCEPTING OUR PRESENT CIRCUMSTANCES Our very first problem is to accept our present circumstances as they are, ourselves as we are, and the people about us as they are. This is to adopt a realistic humility without which no genuine advance can even begin. Again and again, we shall need to return to tha...

Doll · Doll

Hi all, thought I'd share a couple pics of my quick trip to Dillard GA. Went to Tallulah Falls. It was great, but way too short. Ate in the Dillard House Restaurant. They bring out EVERYTHING they have on the menu, they call it Family Style dining, I call it WAY too much food! Hope...

Miami Sober · Miami Sober

I would really like to hear how it's done in other regions. Some of the members (Old & new) feel it is time to define Sobriety in the opening of the meeting. YES, it is not for me to tell others how to work thier program. YES, what someone claims as thier Sobriety date is between them & their H...

Doll · Doll

Didn't want anyone to worry or wonder. I'll be heading out early in the AM for a couple days of R&R. Ya'll take care of each other. I expect some awesome ES&H posts when I return. Love and hugs, Doll

Toni Baloney · Toni Baloney

Hi Everyone, Just wanted to give you the info. that I do have. I went to the Doctor on Monday, was given an alternative med. that does not need to be inhaled. My Doctor said she had contacted the Rep about the Med. and discussed the "possible allergic reaction a "Recovering Alco...

GregT · GregT

Hi folks. I just wanted to get back on board and start posting again. It has been a bit of a rollercoaster since my last posts. Happy, sad, mean, nice, angry, happy, sad, etc... For a few days I wasn't sure AA was in fact for me. Part of it was just that I was thinking...

Miami Sober · Miami Sober

Preaching, gossip, finger pointing, pontificating, rumors, backstabbing, accusations, denials, lying, yelling, crying, grand standing, insanity, name calling, theatrics, lack of restraint, discrimination, disease disease disease In short: a "special steering commitee/business/m...

TLH · TLH

But I kinda thought I should take it out of the Miracles in Progress Recovery house thread. :) awilliam wrote: Hi. I need some help. I was sober for about 5 years. Took a hiatus and then came back for another 4 1/2 years. On both occasions, it was easy to quit drinking. It was life that was tou...

jeannie · jeannie

Do not know where to begin - the last two days started off great then as the day progressed it just started going bad (for lack of better words right at the moment). I just could not shake awful feelings about the past - I know your likely sitting the...

ZuZu · ZuZu

Life gives us so much time to collect bizarre thoughts and feelings. - -Claire Weekes As we go through life, we run into all kinds of negative messages: teasing on the school bus, insulting nicknames, and other put-downs. Pretty soon we may discover that some of these messages stick in our minds,...

Phil · Phil

THE ART OF GIVING We give of ourselves when we give gifts of the heart: love, kindness, joy, understanding, sympathy, tolerance, forgiveness. We give of ourselves when we give gifts of the mind: ideas, dreams, purposes, ideals, principles, plans, inve...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

TUESDAY , JANUARY 10, 2006 You are reading from the book Twenty-Four Hours a Day - Hardcover (24 Hours) </OA_HTML/ibeCCtpItmDspRte.jsp?item=1096>. A.A. Thought for the Day When we were drinking, most of us were full of pride and selfishness. We believed we could handle our own aff...

Rick · Rick

Guidance Days that are rushed and hurried, with very little accomplished, are the most tiring and unhappy. My energy falters and my self-esteem drops. What happened to me? My appointment book is filled, I have too many phone calls to make, and I seem to have lost my ability to say no to famil...

Rick · Rick

IN MY OWN CASE, THE FOUNDATION STONE OF FREEDOM FROM FEAR IS THAT OF FAITH: A FAITH THAT, DESPITE ALL WORDLY APPEARANCES TO THE CONTRARY, CAUSES ME TO BELIEVE THAT I LIVE IN A UNIVERSE THAT MAKES SENSE. TO ME, THIS MEANS A BELIEF IN A CREATOR WHO IS ALL POWER, JUSTICE, AND LOVE; A GOD WHO INTENDS FOR ME A PU...

wallsal55 · wallsal55

Not sure I am in the right place to ask this. I am from the alanon board. My spouse at 6 minutes after midnight said, Happy New Year, and "Oh, One Year Anniversary". [OK, I do not remember if I responded or not.] All I could do was put my hand to my closed lips, speechless. ...

wagon · wagon

well its been a bit since i posted so just checking in im doing real good, in spite of my mother cancer is taking it course and she is very weak. dont know how long she has left. but not to much we do know that. she told me the other day how proud she was of me for what im trying to do and staying sober. it was...

Doll · Doll

UNITED WE STAND We learned that we had to fully concede to our innermost selves that we were alcoholics. This is the first step in recovery. The delusion that we are like other people, or presently may be, has to be smashed. Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 30 I came to Alcoholics Anonymous becau...

Phil · Phil

Negative self-scripts are the: Negative beliefs you have about yourself and of which you remind yourself daily.Negative statements about yourself which sprinkle your everyday conversation. Self-deprecating remarks that influence your behavior or beliefs. Negative descriptions give...

Rick · Rick

The distance doesn't matter; only the first step is difficult. --Mme. du Deffand Life continually presents us with opportunities for achieving what we desire. Only the first step is difficult. Each time we sense the possibility of a new direction in our lives, we are being given a chan...

Phil · Phil

You feel the way you do right now because of the thoughts you are thinking at this moment. --David D. Burns Good thoughts are like bright colors in a painting. Negative thoughts are dark and dreary and drab. Each day we paint pictures of our own lives with our thoughts. If we step back and look at th...

Doll · Doll

AN ACT OF PROVIDENCE It is truly awful to admit that, glass in hand, we have warped our minds into such an obsession for destructive drinking that only an act of Providence can remove it from us. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 21 My act of Providence, (a manifestation of divine care and directio...

GammyRose · GammyRose

It's great to see you back.I've really missed you posting. There are several missing in action right now. Hope to see them back soon. How did the hunting trips go?Have a great sober 24 !

(((Hugs))) GammyRose

Rick · Rick

Whatever happens at all, happens as it should. --Marcus Aurelius Antoninus Newcomer I came to this meeting, but I don't know if I belong here. I just don't know. Sponsor We have a saying: Nobody gets here by mistake. For many of us, this means that something inside us knows we need hel...

Chrisb · Chrisb

Hope all of you had a good night and got plenty of rest.I'm up getting the wife and kid off to work and school. Am looking forward to an eventful day. Ya'll take care and see ya's after while. Your Brother in AA, Chris B.

Phil · Phil

To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another. To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequen...

Phil · Phil

Maturity in Relationships by Larry James LoveNote. . . To be capable of real love means becoming mature, with realistic expectations of the other person. It means accepting responsibility for our own happiness or unhappiness, and neither expecting the other person to make us ha...

Doll · Doll

When I "joined" AA last year I heard it said many, many times, "stick with the winners" So that's what I decided to do. I made enough meetings to try to figure out just who the winners are. It took a while, but a couple months back, the winners began to want to be around me also and we have become very cl...

Chrisb · Chrisb

Hope you folks decide to stay and add your experiance, strength and hope to this forum.

JM45 · JM45

I was sent the link to this song and had to pass it on, Song is called "Shot Of Grace" http://www.michaelgresham.com/ShotOfGrace.mp3

ZuZu · ZuZu

Hi to you all! I have been hanging around and perusing this site for several weeks. Grateful to have found ya’ll before the holidays! I have left a response to a couple of posts, but I figure it is time for me to step up to the plate and introduce myself. I have only now found...

Jimbo06 · Jimbo06

yes. i accept this program, i accept my sponsor, i accept bad days and good days, i am in acceptance because it is a better way of life. it brings joy to me when i let go and let God. Acceptance for me is going to be the success of this program, and that is a lifetime. ty my aa family and my intermediate family...

recovering jb · recovering jb

Thought I'd drop a line here to say hello, wherever you may be! I hope you are having relaxing and fulfilling weekends. As for me, I am well. I just finished a fifth step with my sponsor- I have done one before, but I think he gave me some new perspectives- Like I often muse that if it were not for my pic...

Phil · Phil

Vulnerability Some of us may have made a decision that no one was ever going to hurt us again. We may automatically go on "feelings freeze mode" when faced with emotional pain. Or, we may terminate a relationship the first time we feel hurt. Hurt feelings are a part of life, relationships, and reco...

Doll · Doll

DO I HAVE A CHOICE? The fact is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so-called willpower becomes practically nonexistent. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.24 My powerlessness over alcohol does not cease when I quit drinking. In sobriety I still have no c...

Phil · Phil

Dealing with Painful Feelings Feelings of hurt or anger can be some of the most difficult to face. We can feel so vulnerable, frightened, and powerless when these feelings appear. And these feelings may trigger memories of other, similar times when we felt powerless. Sometimes, to gain a sen...

Doll · Doll

"As a cure for worrying, work is better than whiskey." - Thomas Edison "Sit all day in a moping posture, sigh, and reply to everything with a dismal voice, and your melancholy lingers." - William James "The optimist goes to the window every morning and says, 'Good morning, God.' The pessimist goes to t...

Doll · Doll

Well, I've decided this guy is worth taking a chance on. He's Sweet, caring, kind, tenderhearted, funny, a gentleman and OH sooooo good looking (that never hurts) ! My sobriety comes first, the rest will follow. Thanks for the support. Love...

Doll · Doll

Half measures availed us nothing. We stood at the turning point. We asked His protection and care with complete abandon. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 59 Every day I stand at turning points. My thoughts and actions can propel me toward growth or turn me down the road to old habi...

Miami Sober · Miami Sober

Hi, i'm new here. I could use a little advice please. One of our members has recently gone out. 2 months ago I was shocked to see him, very much under the influence, chairing a meeting. I called him on it and much drama has happened since then. 2 nights ago I walked into a meeting to see him at the podium and I l...

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	CabbageheadChris ??? (Preview) Hey man! Are you back? I thought (thought) I saw you.......could have been my imagination! Doll	Doll	1	770	Jan 13, 2006 by Cabbageheadchris
	23rd Psalm 4 Recovering Alcoholics (Preview) http://www.beliefnet.com/prayeroftheday/more_prayers.asp?paid=39&faid=76	Bonzo43	2	884	Jan 13, 2006 by ZuZu
	Balance (Preview) Finding Balance The goal of recovery is balance - that precious middle ground. Many of us have gone from one extreme to another: years of taking care of everyone but ourselves, followed by a time of refusing to focus on anyone's needs but our own. We may have spent years refusing to identify, f...	Phil	7	795	Jan 13, 2006 by Phil
	grrrrr - arrggghhhh - OMG! (Preview) Early in Dec. I had gone to a f2f, my mom called and my son, not knowing she didn't know, told her that I was at AA. I was not yet ready to tell her, if ever, she has a way of taking anything good and turning it into something horrible. So, after much thought, and talking with my sponsor, I f...	Doll	10	885	Jan 13, 2006 by Doll
	Patience? What the "H" is that??!! (Preview) *Patience is the ability to:* Sit back and wait for an expected outcome without experiencing anxiety, tension, or frustration. Let go of your need for immediate gratification. Display tolerance, compassion, understanding, and acceptance toward those who are slower than you in developing matu...	Phil	8	1486	Jan 13, 2006 by Doll
	Daily Reflection Jan 13 (Preview) IT DOESN'T HAPPEN OVERNIGHT We are not cured of alcoholism. What we really have is a daily reprieve contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 85 The most common alcoholic fantasy seems to be: "If I just don't drink, everything will be all right." Once the fog...	Doll	1	729	Jan 13, 2006 by rosie light shines
	Newbie here... 25 months sober? (Preview) A question to you all, i am new here and this is my first post. I have not had a single drink for 25 months (to the day in three), although i do not step or do meets, i have much knowledge of alcoholism as it runs in my family in a big way... My question is this; during my 25 months alcohol free, i take 2 x 1...	reinvented	9	1111	Jan 13, 2006 by GammyRose
	Heeyyy Gammy ? (Preview) Are you feeling better? The "crud" is going around these parts, my son came home from school today with I think the flu. So you take care of you and stay healthy...... Love you Doll	Doll	1	700	Jan 13, 2006 by GammyRose
	I am finally back into meeting!!!! (Preview) Hi Everyone, just a little update on my little stuggles I was having getting back into the feeling of belonging when I would go to an AA Meeting: The list was something like this: didn't know anyone, people were not very friendly, did not feel like I fit in, meeting was too clickey...	Toni Baloney	5	772	Jan 13, 2006 by Phil
	Relationship Deterioration (Preview) SOME REASONS WHY RELATIONSHIPS DETERIORATE 1. Lack of education in effective communication. We have not been educated in how to communicate openly and honestly. 2. Poor examples - Role models. We learn through imitation. We contain within us much more of our parents? programming than we are aware...	Phil	2	2353	Jan 12, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Helpful Books (Preview) These are for the people on this board that have children. I'm 18 and both of my parents are As. Here are books that I recommend to read that I have found helpful(I haven't read all of them but I have read 3 of them front to back; I have read only a little bit of 9 of them which includes the 3 ...	lanchas	0	734	Jan 12, 2006 by lanchas
	Daily Reflection Jan 12 (Preview) ACCEPTING OUR PRESENT CIRCUMSTANCES Our very first problem is to accept our present circumstances as they are, ourselves as we are, and the people about us as they are. This is to adopt a realistic humility without which no genuine advance can even begin. Again and again, we shall need to return to tha...	Doll	1	702	Jan 12, 2006 by rosie light shines
	Pictures (Preview) Hi all, thought I'd share a couple pics of my quick trip to Dillard GA. Went to Tallulah Falls. It was great, but way too short. Ate in the Dillard House Restaurant. They bring out EVERYTHING they have on the menu, they call it Family Style dining, I call it WAY too much food! Hope...	Doll	2	747	Jan 12, 2006 by Rick
	Touchy subject in Alcoholics Anonymous? (Preview) I would really like to hear how it's done in other regions. Some of the members (Old & new) feel it is time to define Sobriety in the opening of the meeting. YES, it is not for me to tell others how to work thier program. YES, what someone claims as thier Sobriety date is between them & their H...	Miami Sober	7	831	Jan 12, 2006 by Rick
	Headed for the Mtns. (Preview) Didn't want anyone to worry or wonder. I'll be heading out early in the AM for a couple days of R&R. Ya'll take care of each other. I expect some awesome ES&H posts when I return. Love and hugs, Doll	Doll	6	695	Jan 11, 2006 by rosie light shines
	An update on "Dehydrated Alcohol" (Preview) Hi Everyone, Just wanted to give you the info. that I do have. I went to the Doctor on Monday, was given an alternative med. that does not need to be inhaled. My Doctor said she had contacted the Rep about the Med. and discussed the "possible allergic reaction a "Recovering Alco...	Toni Baloney	2	1218	Jan 11, 2006 by rosie light shines
	Just a quick update (Preview) Hi folks. I just wanted to get back on board and start posting again. It has been a bit of a rollercoaster since my last posts. Happy, sad, mean, nice, angry, happy, sad, etc... For a few days I wasn't sure AA was in fact for me. Part of it was just that I was thinking...	GregT	6	865	Jan 11, 2006 by Doll
	could use some help down here (Preview) Preaching, gossip, finger pointing, pontificating, rumors, backstabbing, accusations, denials, lying, yelling, crying, grand standing, insanity, name calling, theatrics, lack of restraint, discrimination, disease disease disease In short: a "special steering commitee/business/m...	Miami Sober	9	1181	Jan 11, 2006 by Doll
	This sounded really familiar... (Preview) But I kinda thought I should take it out of the Miracles in Progress Recovery house thread. :) awilliam wrote: Hi. I need some help. I was sober for about 5 years. Took a hiatus and then came back for another 4 1/2 years. On both occasions, it was easy to quit drinking. It was life that was tou...	TLH	10	803	Jan 11, 2006 by amanda2u2
	NEED HELP (Preview) Do not know where to begin - the last two days started off great then as the day progressed it just started going bad (for lack of better words right at the moment). I just could not shake awful feelings about the past - I know your likely sitting the...	jeannie	8	728	Jan 11, 2006 by jeannie
	I'm not listening! (Preview) *Life gives us so much time to collect bizarre thoughts and feelings. - -Claire Weekes* As we go through life, we run into all kinds of negative messages: teasing on the school bus, insulting nicknames, and other put-downs. Pretty soon we may discover that some of these messages stick in our minds,...	ZuZu	5	815	Jan 11, 2006 by jeannie
	From The Heart (Preview) THE ART OF GIVING We give of ourselves when we give gifts of the heart: love, kindness, joy, understanding, sympathy, tolerance, forgiveness. We give of ourselves when we give gifts of the mind: ideas, dreams, purposes, ideals, principles, plans, inve...	Phil	1	768	Jan 11, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	hungry like a wolf for recovery (Preview) *TUESDAY , JANUARY 10, 2006 You are reading from the book Twenty-Four Hours a Day - Hardcover (24 Hours) </OA_HTML/ibeCCtpItmDspRte.jsp?item=1096>.* A.A. Thought for the Day** When we were drinking, most of us were full of pride and selfishness. We believed we could handle our own aff...	rosie light shines	7	777	Jan 11, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	TODAY'S GIFT (Preview) Guidance Days that are rushed and hurried, with very little accomplished, are the most tiring and unhappy. My energy falters and my self-esteem drops. What happened to me? My appointment book is filled, I have too many phone calls to make, and I seem to have lost my ability to say no to famil...	Rick	0	748	Jan 11, 2006 by Rick
	THE COMING OF FAITH (Preview) IN MY OWN CASE, THE FOUNDATION STONE OF FREEDOM FROM FEAR IS THAT OF FAITH: A FAITH THAT, DESPITE ALL WORDLY APPEARANCES TO THE CONTRARY, CAUSES ME TO BELIEVE THAT I LIVE IN A UNIVERSE THAT MAKES SENSE. TO ME, THIS MEANS A BELIEF IN A CREATOR WHO IS ALL POWER, JUSTICE, AND LOVE; A GOD WHO INTENDS FOR ME A PU...	Rick	1	722	Jan 11, 2006 by Rick
	Puzzled...... (Preview) Not sure I am in the right place to ask this. I am from the alanon board. My spouse at 6 minutes after midnight said, Happy New Year, and "Oh, One Year Anniversary". [OK, I do not remember if I responded or not.] All I could do was put my hand to my closed lips, speechless. ...	wallsal55	5	910	Jan 10, 2006 by GammyRose
	hi everyone (Preview) well its been a bit since i posted so just checking in im doing real good, in spite of my mother cancer is taking it course and she is very weak. dont know how long she has left. but not to much we do know that. she told me the other day how proud she was of me for what im trying to do and staying sober. it was...	wagon	5	732	Jan 10, 2006 by rosie light shines
	Daily Reflection Jan 10 (Preview) UNITED WE STAND We learned that we had to fully concede to our innermost selves that we were alcoholics. This is the first step in recovery. The delusion that we are like other people, or presently may be, has to be smashed. Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 30 I came to Alcoholics Anonymous becau...	Doll	1	1213	Jan 10, 2006 by rosie light shines
	On The Upside (Preview) *Negative self-scripts are the:* Negative beliefs you have about yourself and of which you remind yourself daily.Negative statements about yourself which sprinkle your everyday conversation. Self-deprecating remarks that influence your behavior or beliefs. Negative descriptions give...	Phil	1	779	Jan 10, 2006 by rosie light shines
	Today's gift (Preview) *The distance doesn't matter; only the first step is difficult. --Mme. du Deffand* Life continually presents us with opportunities for achieving what we desire. Only the first step is difficult. Each time we sense the possibility of a new direction in our lives, we are being given a chan...	Rick	0	643	Jan 10, 2006 by Rick
	Tuesday (Preview) *You feel the way you do right now because of the thoughts you are thinking at this moment. --David D. Burns* Good thoughts are like bright colors in a painting. Negative thoughts are dark and dreary and drab. Each day we paint pictures of our own lives with our thoughts. If we step back and look at th...	Phil	0	708	Jan 10, 2006 by Phil
	Daily Reflection Jan 9 (Preview) AN ACT OF PROVIDENCE It is truly awful to admit that, glass in hand, we have warped our minds into such an obsession for destructive drinking that only an act of Providence can remove it from us. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 21 My act of Providence, (a manifestation of divine care and directio...	Doll	1	1009	Jan 9, 2006 by Bonzo43
	Hi Rick... (Preview) It's great to see you back.I've really missed you posting. There are several missing in action right now. Hope to see them back soon. How did the hunting trips go?Have a great sober 24 ! (((Hugs))) GammyRose	GammyRose	2	715	Jan 9, 2006 by Rick
	AS IT SHOULD BE (Preview) *Whatever happens at all, happens as it should. --Marcus Aurelius Antoninus* Newcomer I came to this meeting, but I don't know if I belong here. I just don't know. Sponsor We have a saying: Nobody gets here by mistake. For many of us, this means that something inside us knows we need hel...	Rick	2	731	Jan 9, 2006 by Rick
	Good Morning (Preview) Hope all of you had a good night and got plenty of rest.I'm up getting the wife and kid off to work and school. Am looking forward to an eventful day. Ya'll take care and see ya's after while. Your Brother in AA, Chris B.	Chrisb	2	624	Jan 9, 2006 by GammyRose
	To Let Go.... (Preview) To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another. To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequen...	Phil	4	970	Jan 9, 2006 by Rick
	Maturity (Preview) Maturity in Relationships by Larry James *LoveNote. . .* To be capable of real love means becoming mature, with realistic expectations of the other person. It means accepting responsibility for our own happiness or unhappiness, and neither expecting the other person to make us ha...	Phil	2	1208	Jan 9, 2006 by Phil
	Some sicker than others (Preview) When I "joined" AA last year I heard it said many, many times, "stick with the winners" So that's what I decided to do. I made enough meetings to try to figure out just who the winners are. It took a while, but a couple months back, the winners began to want to be around me also and we have become very cl...	Doll	14	942	Jan 8, 2006 by Bonzo43
	Welcome Newcomers and Guests (Preview) Hope you folks decide to stay and add your experiance, strength and hope to this forum.	Chrisb	1	1179	Jan 8, 2006 by Bonzo43
	Inspirational Song (Preview) I was sent the link to this song and had to pass it on, Song is called "Shot Of Grace" http://www.michaelgresham.com/ShotOfGrace.mp3	JM45	0	596	Jan 8, 2006 by JM45
	Introductions (Preview) Hi to you all! I have been hanging around and perusing this site for several weeks. Grateful to have found ya’ll before the holidays! I have left a response to a couple of posts, but I figure it is time for me to step up to the plate and introduce myself. I have only now found...	ZuZu	8	693	Jan 8, 2006 by ZuZu
	acceptance (Preview) yes. i accept this program, i accept my sponsor, i accept bad days and good days, i am in acceptance because it is a better way of life. it brings joy to me when i let go and let God. Acceptance for me is going to be the success of this program, and that is a lifetime. ty my aa family and my intermediate family...	Jimbo06	4	845	Jan 8, 2006 by Bonzo43
	Hey all- weekend update (Preview) Thought I'd drop a line here to say hello, wherever you may be! I hope you are having relaxing and fulfilling weekends. As for me, I am well. I just finished a fifth step with my sponsor- I have done one before, but I think he gave me some new perspectives- Like I often muse that if it were not for my pic...	recovering jb	4	701	Jan 8, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Sunday (Preview) Vulnerability Some of us may have made a decision that no one was ever going to hurt us again. We may automatically go on "feelings freeze mode" when faced with emotional pain. Or, we may terminate a relationship the first time we feel hurt. Hurt feelings are a part of life, relationships, and reco...	Phil	4	718	Jan 8, 2006 by Phil
	Daily Reflection Jan 8 (Preview) DO I HAVE A CHOICE? The fact is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so-called willpower becomes practically nonexistent. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.24 My powerlessness over alcohol does not cease when I quit drinking. In sobriety I still have no c...	Doll	1	1222	Jan 8, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	from "The Language Of Letting Go" (Preview) Dealing with Painful Feelings Feelings of hurt or anger can be some of the most difficult to face. We can feel so vulnerable, frightened, and powerless when these feelings appear. And these feelings may trigger memories of other, similar times when we felt powerless. Sometimes, to gain a sen...	Phil	2	1198	Jan 7, 2006 by Phil
	Quotes (Preview) "As a cure for worrying, work is better than whiskey." - Thomas Edison "Sit all day in a moping posture, sigh, and reply to everything with a dismal voice, and your melancholy lingers." - William James "The optimist goes to the window every morning and says, 'Good morning, God.' The pessimist goes to t...	Doll	3	908	Jan 7, 2006 by JohnV
	Personal Update..... (Preview) Well, I've decided this guy is worth taking a chance on. He's Sweet, caring, kind, tenderhearted, funny, a gentleman and OH sooooo good looking (that never hurts) ! *My sobriety comes first, the rest will follow.* Thanks for the support. Love...	Doll	5	908	Jan 7, 2006 by Doll
	Daily Reflection Jan 7 (Preview) Half measures availed us nothing. We stood at the turning point. We asked His protection and care with complete abandon. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 59 Every day I stand at turning points. My thoughts and actions can propel me toward growth or turn me down the road to old habi...	Doll	1	758	Jan 7, 2006 by Toni Baloney
	Under the influence at the podium (Preview) Hi, i'm new here. I could use a little advice please. One of our members has recently gone out. 2 months ago I was shocked to see him, very much under the influence, chairing a meeting. I called him on it and much drama has happened since then. 2 nights ago I walked into a meeting to see him at the podium and I l...	Miami Sober	15	979	Jan 7, 2006 by Toni Baloney
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