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Relationships
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There are times in all relationships when things don't run smoothly. Often, this is because people have conflicting expectations, are distracted with other issues, or have difficulty expressing what is on their minds in ways that other people can really hear and understand what is being said. Som...
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Wednesday
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One has to grow up with good talk in order to form the habit of it. --Helen Hayes
Our habits, whatever they may be, were greatly influenced, if not wholly formed, during childhood. We learned our behavior through imitation, imitation of our parents, our siblings, our peer group. But we need not be...
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Hurried and worried
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Hurried and worried until we're buried And there's no curtain call, Life's a very funny proposition, after all. --George M. Cohan
Often, when we involve ourselves in a whirlwind of activities, plans, and expectations, we push ourselves so hard that we don't derive any satisfaction from suc...
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AA Thought For Today
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A.A. Thought for the Day
The satisfaction you get out of living a sober life is made up of a lot of little things, but they add up to a satisfactory and happy life. You take out of life what you put into it. So I'd say to people coming into A.A.: "Don't worry about what life will be like without liquor. Just h...
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Hi all,
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just thought I'd ask for you's to say a prayer for my mom...she's getting tested for cancer today...i lost my gramma to cancer in '85, she was 57....my mom is 58 this year...I've only recently started communicating with my mom again...a gift of recovery...and to think of losing her now that i'm on the r...
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BB quote
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Let no alcoholic say he cannot recover unless he has his family back. This just isn't so. In some cases the wife will never come back for one reason or another. Remind the prospect that his recovery is not dependent upon people. It is dependent upon his relationship with God. We have seen men get well who...
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Brothers in our defects-april 19
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We recovered alcoholics are not so much brothers in virtue as we are brothers in our defects, and in our common strivings to over come them.
The identification that one alcoholic has with another is mysterious, spititual--almost incoprehensible. But it is there. I "feel" it. ...
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Tuesday
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In the process of defining myself, I have a tendency to set up rules and boundaries and then forget that rules are made to be broken, as are boundaries to be expanded and crossed. --Kathleen Casey Theisen
Recovery has given us the freedom to address life honestly, with forethought and a certainty...
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step 6-7
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i spent 5 months in treatment and while there i completed step 5...my step 4 was a series of 247 questions...yukky...i did my step 5 with a female priest who had never done a step 5 before...so i'm not really sure if my step 5 was all that it could have been...needless to say i've been on 6-7 since november a...
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Psst..Phil....anybody
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Are any of these a problem for the alcoholic? Perfectionism, Procrastination, Paralyisis,
I can see where perfectionism could be if an alcoholic feels in their thinking they could never be enough while growing up, etc. How about the other two?
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Yesterday is over.
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Yesterday is over.
It is a fact of life that what is old dies to make way for what is new. Endings are often painful - we mourn the death of a relationship, we regret leaving a familiar neighborhood, we don't like to say good-bye.
Endings, though, give us the chance to begin ag ain.Anew frien...
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A Freind, No More
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Dear Alcohol, > >> > >>First & foremost, let me tell you that I'm a huge fan of yours. > >> > >>As my friend, you always seem to be there when needed. The perfect > >>post-work > >>cocktail, a beer at the game, and you're even around in the &...
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hello everyone
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Went to the Biltmore Estates this weekend, my husband played with his friends band. Never made it to the castle but it is so beautiful. He played at the vineyard on the estate and it was really sweet.
It is so nice to be able to go to a place that is all about wine and be able to be comfortable....
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How Can I Stop Drinking?
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Hello everyone. I'm new here to this forum and want to stop drinking. I've never gone to a meeting or talked with anyone regarding this except my lovely wife and my father both of whom are supportive but may not understand how much of a struggle this is for me.
I've tried to stop in the past...
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Good evening Sunday
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Didnt have any words to share, but Im here, reading the board and sucking up the wisdom. I hope every one has had a wonderfull day.
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The AA program
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The relative success of the A.A. program seems to be due to the fact that an alcoholic who no longer drinks has an exceptional faculty for "reaching" and helping an uncontrolled drinker.
In simplest form, the A.A. program operates when a recovered alcoholic passes along the story of his or her own p...
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The masks we wear
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Who am I?
Don't be fooled by me. Don't be fooled by the face I wear, For I wear a mask, I wear a thousand masks. Masks that I am afraid to take off. But none of them are me. But don't be fooled. I give you the impression that I am secure, That all is sunny and unruffled with me, Within as well a...
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Insurance
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A.A. Thought for the Day
Every time we go to an A.A. meeting, every time we say the Lord's prayer, every time we have a quiet time before breakfast, we're paying a premium on our insurance against taking that first drink. And every time we help another alcoholic, we're making a large payment on our dri...
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Letting go and Freedom
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To oppose something is to maintain it. --Ursula K. LeGuin
Most of our struggles are with other persons or perhaps situations we want to change. We discover that our continual opposition adds fuel to the fires (at least our own internal ones). But can we turn our backs when we feel justified in our o...
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just a little share
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When you meet a sober alcoholic You meet a hero. His mortal enemy slumbers within him; He can never outrun his disability. He makes his way through a world of alcohol abuse, In an environment that does not understand him. Society, puffed up with shameful ignorance, Looks on him with contempt, As if he w...
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Things that really confuse me.
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If you can't drink and drive, why do you need a driver's license to buy liquor, and why do bars have parking lots?
How does the guy who drives the snowplow get to work in the mornings?
If 7-11 is open 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, why are there locks on the doors? If nothing ever sticks to TEFLON, how do t...
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Alcohol...an effective solvent
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Alcohol...... An Effective Solvent By Jennifer and Kelly
Alcohol is a product of amazing versatility. It will remove stains from designer clothes.
It will also remove the clothes off you back. If by chance it is used in sufficient quantity, Alcohol will remove furniture fro...
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In God's Hands
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This is from page 2 of "As Bill See's It" The A.A. Way of Life(selected writings of A.A.'s co-founder)
When we look back, we realize that the things which came to us when we put ourselves in God's hands were better than anything we could have planned.
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Hey Nic ole Gal:)
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I just hafta keep an open mind with everything and not get wrapped up in others beleifs. and I do that with respect.
We take what we want to, for us, and leave the rest. We do what we can for newcommers and show them, that there is a better way.
I know there is a Higher Power, and mine is spiritual. If other...
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Dancing the Can Can or Stan Stan
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Recent comments have reminded me of me quite a few years ago... the high handed approach...pretending I had it all sussed, with a few wobbly months under my belt that I insisted warranted my use of the word "recovery".... Prattling on with crap, but not prepared to go the hard yards and actually DO what...
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Fear Of The Unknown
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I can stand what I know. It's what I don't know that frightens me. --Frances Newton
Fear of the unknown, often referred to as free-floating anxiety, catches up to us on occasion. But it needn't. The program offers us strength whenever we need it, and faith diminishes all fear. It is said that fear c...
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the Lord is my sponsor
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The Lord is My Sponsor The Lord is my sponsor, I shall not want. He maketh me go to many meetings. He leadeth me to sit back, relax and listen with an open mind. He restoreth my soul, my sanity and health. He leadeth me in paths of serenity and fellowship for my sake. He teacheth me to think, take it easy, to li...
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Saturday night...
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Just checking in, I just got home from an Alcoholics for Christ meeting, it was really good. It has been great learning the 12 Steps though scripture,how God fits in to the scheme of my recovery, how I can use my faith in it too.
One of the scriptures tonight was Isaiah 1:5&6- Why shou...
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Old Age
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As soon as I wake up, Will Power helps me get out of bed. Then I go see John. Then Charlie Horse comes along and when he's here he takes a lot of my attention. When he leaves, Arthur Ritis shows up and stays the rest of the day. He doesn't like to stay in one place very long so he takes me from joint to joint. After...
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Hey everybody.
I'm kind of having a hard time today. My Probation officer won't let me go to A.A. because I relapsed with someone from AA and today I'm going CRAZY! I've been to online meetings but I really need to be able to connect with people face to face and talk to them. I've bee...
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Hey up there? Take it for another day!!
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In the face of an obstacle which is impossible to overcome, stubbornness is stupid. --Simone de Beauvoir
Sudden obstacles, barriers in the way of our progress, doors that unexpectedly close, may confuse, frustrate, even depress us. The knowledge that we seldom understand just what is best fo...
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Check in.
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Good morning all.
How is everyone?
Hope your well and sober, bye for now.
Chris.
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need a room
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I'm in NYC and need a room with someone in the rooms, or my own place. Any ideas?
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daily motivator
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Saturday, April 16, 2005
This very day You are rich today to an extent beyond anything you can imagine. The portion of that richness that you do imagine, and accept, and bring to life, is the richness you will experience in this very day.
You have traveled long and far to get to this moment. Every ste...
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King Alcohol
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"King Alcohol and his Prime Minister" circa 1820
Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alcoholism
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resentment vs. Anger..
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Opposite of anger is love!! So if I can not find love I am angery!! Opposite of resentment is Acceptance!! If I don't find the love from my anger I am not accepting any love and I will carry around a resentment. I think I get even more confused than understanding the diffeence because Opposite of Fear is Fa...
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Miller raised an interesting point
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He said in reply to a previous post that your friends will not tire of you being "not drunk".
Wrong.
My mates were tired of me being sober.
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New Riders of the Purple Sage
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What a fantastic band.
Especially "Ripple"
Whatever happened to them?
Have been listening to them all night and they just get better.
Did anyone else see Steve Earle on telly tonight?
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Taters
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Click here to meet the family...
http://www.americanbridge.com/taters.htm
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in a nutsell
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A man died, he got to the big room in the sky and was met by st peter, he said to st peter " what is heaven and what is hell"? st peter took the man into a room where there was a big round table on the table was bumdles of food and drink, around the table were lots of people with great big spoons they could lean over a...
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Letting nature take it's course
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The cocoon and the butterfly Once a little boy was playing outdoors and found a fascinating caterpillar. He carefully picked it up and took it home to show his mother. He asked his mother if he could keep it, and she said he could if he would take good care of it. The little boy got a large jar from his mother...
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The Bondage Of Resentments
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...harboring resentment is infinitely grave. For then we shut ourselves off from the sunlight of the spirit.
It has been said, "Anger is a luxury I cannot afford." Does this suggest I egnore this human emotion? I believe not. Before I learned of the A.A. prog...
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A Founder Of AA in Ontario Canada
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This man printed up cards a long time ago, and they are still given out at meetings by his son today. He was sober 50 some years when he passed away. His son is sober 30 years.
I used to think this old guy had a few screws loose, but after being in the programme of AA for a while, I realize the following is what...
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i hate this disease
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i jsut heard of someone who became a statistic after 2 years in a program..29 year old female with 2 young children..if i forget for one minute where i came from and where i could go in the blink of an eye...well its a reality that hits me hard when i hear things like this. Please if you're sittin on the fence...
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Friday
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A.A. Thought for the Day
Terrible things could have happened to any one of us. We never will know what might have happened to us when we were drunk. We usually thought: "That couldn't happen to me." But any one of us could have killed somebody or have been killed ourselves, if we were drunk enough. But f...
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Heres to Women!!
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>>WOMEN'S REVENGE: "Cash, check or charge?" I asked, after folding
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>>woman wished to purchase. As she fumbled for her wallet I noticed a
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the daily motivator
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Wednesday, April 13, 2005
What it takes You have what it takes to make an ordinary day into a great one that will always be remembered. For what it takes is nothing more than the willingness to live every moment like it will never come again.
You have what it takes to transform small, easily performe...
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Have a good Thursday all
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Only those who dare, truly live. --Ruth P. Freedman
We receive from life, from every experience, from each interaction according to what we have given. When we commit ourselves fully to an experience, it will bless us. When we give ourselves wholly to any moment, our awareness of reality will be...
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HOW IT WORKS
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How It Works
Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are suc...
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Meetings
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Hi All,
When I got sober 14 years ago I went to about 4-5 meetings a week for the first 5 years or so.
Lately I've found myself struggling with meetings and getting to them seems to require a great effort. I think it's partially because I'm bored with local meetings which seem very monotonous. Th...
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