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Daily Reflection Jan 12
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ACCEPTING OUR PRESENT CIRCUMSTANCES Our very first problem is to accept our present circumstances as they are, ourselves as we are, and the people about us as they are. This is to adopt a realistic humility without which no genuine advance can even begin. Again and again, we shall need to return to tha...
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Pictures
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Hi all, thought I'd share a couple pics of my quick trip to Dillard GA. Went to Tallulah Falls. It was great, but way too short.
Ate in the Dillard House Restaurant. They bring out EVERYTHING they have on the menu, they call it Family Style dining, I call it WAY too much food!
Hope...
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Touchy subject in Alcoholics Anonymous?
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I would really like to hear how it's done in other regions. Some of the members (Old & new) feel it is time to define Sobriety in the opening of the meeting. YES, it is not for me to tell others how to work thier program. YES, what someone claims as thier Sobriety date is between them & their H...
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Headed for the Mtns.
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Didn't want anyone to worry or wonder. I'll be heading out early in the AM for a couple days of R&R.
Ya'll take care of each other.
I expect some awesome ES&H posts when I return.
Love and hugs,
Doll
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An update on "Dehydrated Alcohol"
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Hi Everyone,
Just wanted to give you the info. that I do have.
I went to the Doctor on Monday, was given an alternative med. that does not need to be inhaled. My Doctor said she had contacted the Rep about the Med. and discussed the "possible allergic reaction a "Recovering Alco...
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Just a quick update
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Hi folks. I just wanted to get back on board and start posting again. It has been a bit of a rollercoaster since my last posts. Happy, sad, mean, nice, angry, happy, sad, etc... For a few days I wasn't sure AA was in fact for me. Part of it was just that I was thinking...
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could use some help down here
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Preaching, gossip, finger pointing, pontificating, rumors, backstabbing, accusations, denials, lying, yelling, crying, grand standing, insanity, name calling, theatrics, lack of restraint, discrimination, disease disease disease
In short: a "special steering commitee/business/m...
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This sounded really familiar...
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But I kinda thought I should take it out of the Miracles in Progress Recovery house thread. :)
awilliam wrote:
Hi. I need some help. I was sober for about 5 years. Took a hiatus and then came back for another 4 1/2 years. On both occasions, it was easy to quit drinking. It was life that was tou...
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NEED HELP
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Do not know where to begin - the last two days started off great then as the day progressed it just started going bad (for lack of better words right at the moment). I just could not shake awful feelings about the past - I know your likely sitting the...
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I'm not listening!
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Life gives us so much time to collect bizarre thoughts and feelings. - -Claire Weekes
As we go through life, we run into all kinds of negative messages: teasing on the school bus, insulting nicknames, and other put-downs. Pretty soon we may discover that some of these messages stick in our minds,...
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From The Heart
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THE ART OF GIVING
We give of ourselves when
we give gifts of the heart:
love, kindness, joy, understanding,
sympathy, tolerance, forgiveness.
We give of ourselves when
we give gifts of the mind:
ideas, dreams, purposes, ideals,
principles, plans, inve...
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hungry like a wolf for recovery
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TUESDAY , JANUARY 10, 2006
You are reading from the book Twenty-Four Hours a Day - Hardcover (24 Hours) </OA_HTML/ibeCCtpItmDspRte.jsp?item=1096>.
A.A. Thought for the Day
When we were drinking, most of us were full of pride and selfishness. We believed we could handle our own aff...
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TODAY'S GIFT
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Guidance
Days that are rushed and hurried, with very little accomplished, are the most tiring and unhappy. My energy falters and my self-esteem drops. What happened to me? My appointment book is filled, I have too many phone calls to make, and I seem to have lost my ability to say no to famil...
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THE COMING OF FAITH
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IN MY OWN CASE, THE FOUNDATION STONE OF FREEDOM FROM FEAR IS THAT OF FAITH: A FAITH THAT, DESPITE ALL WORDLY APPEARANCES TO THE CONTRARY, CAUSES ME TO BELIEVE THAT I LIVE IN A UNIVERSE THAT MAKES SENSE.
TO ME, THIS MEANS A BELIEF IN A CREATOR WHO IS ALL POWER, JUSTICE, AND LOVE; A GOD WHO INTENDS FOR ME A PU...
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Puzzled......
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Not sure I am in the right place to ask this. I am from the alanon board. My spouse at 6 minutes after midnight said, Happy New Year, and "Oh, One Year Anniversary". [OK, I do not remember if I responded or not.]
All I could do was put my hand to my closed lips, speechless. ...
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hi everyone
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well its been a bit since i posted so just checking in im doing real good, in spite of my mother cancer is taking it course and she is very weak. dont know how long she has left. but not to much we do know that. she told me the other day how proud she was of me for what im trying to do and staying sober. it was...
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Daily Reflection Jan 10
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UNITED WE STAND We learned that we had to fully concede to our innermost selves that we were alcoholics. This is the first step in recovery. The delusion that we are like other people, or presently may be, has to be smashed. Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 30 I came to Alcoholics Anonymous becau...
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On The Upside
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Negative self-scripts are the:
Negative beliefs you have about yourself and of which you remind yourself daily.Negative statements about yourself which sprinkle your everyday conversation. Self-deprecating remarks that influence your behavior or beliefs. Negative descriptions give...
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Today's gift
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The distance doesn't matter; only the first step is difficult. --Mme. du Deffand
Life continually presents us with opportunities for achieving what we desire. Only the first step is difficult. Each time we sense the possibility of a new direction in our lives, we are being given a chan...
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Tuesday
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You feel the way you do right now because of the thoughts you are thinking at this moment. --David D. Burns
Good thoughts are like bright colors in a painting. Negative thoughts are dark and dreary and drab. Each day we paint pictures of our own lives with our thoughts. If we step back and look at th...
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Daily Reflection Jan 9
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AN ACT OF PROVIDENCE It is truly awful to admit that, glass in hand, we have warped our minds into such an obsession for destructive drinking that only an act of Providence can remove it from us. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 21 My act of Providence, (a manifestation of divine care and directio...
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Hi Rick...
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It's great to see you back.I've really missed you posting. There are several missing in action right now. Hope to see them back soon.
How did the hunting trips go?Have a great sober 24 !
(((Hugs)))
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AS IT SHOULD BE
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Whatever happens at all, happens as it should. --Marcus Aurelius Antoninus
Newcomer I came to this meeting, but I don't know if I belong here. I just don't know.
Sponsor We have a saying: Nobody gets here by mistake.
For many of us, this means that something inside us knows we need hel...
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Good Morning
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Hope all of you had a good night and got plenty of rest.I'm up getting the wife and kid off to work and school. Am looking forward to an eventful day.
Ya'll take care and see ya's after while.
Your Brother in AA, Chris B.
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To Let Go....
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To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another. To let go is not to enable, but allow learning from natural consequen...
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Maturity
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Maturity in Relationships
by Larry James
LoveNote. . . To be capable of real love means becoming mature, with realistic expectations of the other person. It means accepting responsibility for our own happiness or unhappiness, and neither expecting the other person to make us ha...
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Some sicker than others
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When I "joined" AA last year I heard it said many, many times, "stick with the winners" So that's what I decided to do. I made enough meetings to try to figure out just who the winners are. It took a while, but a couple months back, the winners began to want to be around me also and we have become very cl...
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Welcome Newcomers and Guests
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Hope you folks decide to stay and add your experiance, strength and hope to this forum.
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Inspirational Song
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I was sent the link to this song and had to pass it on,
Song is called "Shot Of Grace"
http://www.michaelgresham.com/ShotOfGrace.mp3
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Introductions
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Hi to you all!
I have been hanging around and perusing this site for several weeks. Grateful to have found ya’ll before the holidays! I have left a response to a couple of posts, but I figure it is time for me to step up to the plate and introduce myself. I have only now found...
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acceptance
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yes. i accept this program, i accept my sponsor, i accept bad days and good days, i am in acceptance because it is a better way of life. it brings joy to me when i let go and let God. Acceptance for me is going to be the success of this program, and that is a lifetime.
ty my aa family and my intermediate family...
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Hey all- weekend update
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Thought I'd drop a line here to say hello, wherever you may be!
I hope you are having relaxing and fulfilling weekends.
As for me, I am well. I just finished a fifth step with my sponsor- I have done one before, but I think he gave me some new perspectives- Like I often muse that if it were not for my pic...
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Sunday
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Vulnerability
Some of us may have made a decision that no one was ever going to hurt us again. We may automatically go on "feelings freeze mode" when faced with emotional pain. Or, we may terminate a relationship the first time we feel hurt. Hurt feelings are a part of life, relationships, and reco...
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Daily Reflection Jan 8
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DO I HAVE A CHOICE? The fact is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so-called willpower becomes practically nonexistent. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.24 My powerlessness over alcohol does not cease when I quit drinking. In sobriety I still have no c...
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from "The Language Of Letting Go"
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Dealing with Painful Feelings
Feelings of hurt or anger can be some of the most difficult to face. We can feel so vulnerable, frightened, and powerless when these feelings appear. And these feelings may trigger memories of other, similar times when we felt powerless.
Sometimes, to gain a sen...
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Quotes
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"As a cure for worrying, work is better than whiskey." - Thomas Edison "Sit all day in a moping posture, sigh, and reply to everything with a dismal voice, and your melancholy lingers." - William James "The optimist goes to the window every morning and says, 'Good morning, God.' The pessimist goes to t...
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Personal Update.....
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Well, I've decided this guy is worth taking a chance on. He's Sweet, caring, kind, tenderhearted, funny, a gentleman and OH sooooo good looking (that never hurts) !
My sobriety comes first, the rest will follow.
Thanks for the support.
Love...
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Daily Reflection Jan 7
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Half measures availed us nothing. We stood at the turning point. We asked His protection and care with complete abandon. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 59 Every day I stand at turning points. My thoughts and actions can propel me toward growth or turn me down the road to old habi...
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Under the influence at the podium
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Hi, i'm new here. I could use a little advice please. One of our members has recently gone out. 2 months ago I was shocked to see him, very much under the influence, chairing a meeting. I called him on it and much drama has happened since then. 2 nights ago I walked into a meeting to see him at the podium and I l...
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New Med. has dehydrated Alcohol HELP
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Hi everyone,
I have taken an aerosol Inhaler for 7 years for Pulmanary Problems. The Drug is Called Atrovent. Iwas told that formula was changing, taking out the Flouro carbides as a propellant. When I first used the new drug it has a taste of Alcohol to it. - Scared the S--...
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Serenity In Me Through AA-2
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Serenity In Me Through AA-2
During the active and practicing alcoholic days, I did not have the feeling of belonging and the feeling of being accepted. Now I have both in AA.I now believe strongly through the steps, that ser...
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A Big Post About Shame And Guilt
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GUILT Results from   Results in: a feeling of wrong-doing, a sense of wic...
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WHAT DO YOU THINK?
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A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.
A quote from Hugh Downs.
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hello
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Hi everyone. my nameis Jim and im a alcoholic. i just signed up and would like to say hello to everyone this am. god bless and help someone stay sober today.
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Daily Reflection Jan 6
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THE VICTORY OF SURRENDER We perceive that only through utter defeat are we able to take our first steps toward liberation and strength. Our admissions of personal powerlessness finally turn out to be firm bedrock upon which happy and purposeful lives may be built. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITION...
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When I am negative or pessimistic..
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When I am negative or pessimistic I: look at the worst side of a situation. say what ``I'm not'' rather than what ``I could be.'' lack the belief that I could change. lose hope in the future. take the opposing view in any positive conversation. am unable to make upbeat or uplifting comments about myse...
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Nice Place
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Hi Folks I'm Bry,
A friend told me about this site and I've been poking around and you seem like a great bunch. I'm from upstate New York and have been sober since 10/23/2004. It took 3 years to get this 1 back when I relapsed after being sober for almost 7 years. I hadn't had my last drink and I pray each day...
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Serenity In Me Through AA
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SERENITY IN ME THROUGH AA
I have an elated feeling of belonging to a privileged band of people in AA. This sense of belonging is very much important to me, since I didn’t seem to belong anywhere or to anything during...
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$250.00 a month
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Thats what I spend on beer and smokes. Sheese what a waste!!! Add it up over the years and my worst hangover doesnt compare to the wasted feeling I get thinking about all that squandered money. This time next year Im going to have $ 3000.00 I didnt spend!!!! Thinking I want to go to a AA...
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A few Quotes For Today
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Do not wait for ideal circumstances; they will never come.
Janet Erskine Stuart
There is no such thing as a free ticket; every decision has both opportunity and cost.
Priscilla Elfrey
A peacefulness follows any decision, even the wrong one.
Rita Mae Brown
No matter how much informatio...
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