Alcoholics Anonymous

Frenzle · Frenzle

Thank you for your responses. Do you think an alcoholic can chose to not drink for a few days and not have a problem with doing so even if they have been drinking every day for many years. Better elaberation:To experience varied temperament for the first few days and also sweating dur...

Frenzle · Frenzle

Humour me How would you describe an alcoholic?

Phil · Phil

I'm not cheap, but I am on special this week I almost had a psychic girlfriend but she left me before we met Who is General Failure and why is he reading my hard disk? What happens if you get scared half to death twice? For Sale: Parachute. Only used once, never opened, small stain. I tried sniffin...

Phil · Phil

Grief is a somewhat commplicated and misunderstood emotion. Yet, grief is something that, unfortunately, we must all experience at some time or other. We will all inevitably experience loss. Whether it is a loss through death, divorce or some other loss, the stages of grieving are the same. Ther...

Ironman · Ironman

Hi all: My name is Jarrod, and I'm an alcoholic. I really messed up my marriage and life with my drinking the past 8 years. The more I drank the meaner my wife got toward me. The heavy drinking started just after our second child came. I was 30, she was a stay at home Mom. After the child came the wife got breas...

Doll · Doll

DOING ANYTHING TO HELP Offer him [the alcoholic] friendship and fellowship. Tell him that if he wants to get well you will do anything to help. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 95 I remember how attracted I was to the two men from A.A. who Twelfth-Stepped me. They said I could have what they had, with no conditi...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Holidays Keep your recovery First to make it Last. -- Anonymous We all encounter places, people, and times of the year, which trigger memories of our old lifestyle, pleasant or painful events. Holidays and family gatherings may be especially stressful times for us. There hav...

Hey_Lady · Hey_Lady

Hi everyone, I'm new to this site, and new to trying to stay sober. I mean REALLY trying. I've attended AA meetings in the past, of course I had a few drinks before I went, just to loosen up enough to share, or so I reasoned. Needless to say, the meetings were not really for me. I went to g...

Phil · Phil

Strive for clear thinking. Many of us have had our thinking clouded by denial. Some of us have even lost faith in ourselves because we've spent a degree of time in denial. But losing faith in our thinking isn't going to help us. What we need to lose faith in is denial. We didn't resort to denial - either o...

tina · tina

Hi folks Sorry I haven't been on the board much lately, just tryin to go with the flow. Also staying away from that stinkin thinkin. Guess I've been sittin back and watchin to see what is happening with my son, and well a few things have came up. Monday nite I explained to him that he need...

Phil · Phil

1. Do you lose time from work due to drinking? Yes No 2. Is drinking making your home life unhappy? Yes No 3. Do you drink because you are shy with other people? Yes No 4. Is drinking affecting your reputation? Yes No 5. Have you ever felt remorse after drinking? Yes No 6....

Robert · Robert

since I have come into recovery he has treated me different, when I was drinking he took great delight in making a fool out of me by telling me infront of family and friends what I had done when drunk. He has bullied me since day one, putting me down and trying to sway me from making any positive moves in...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Misery is optional. We may have learned to be miserable, but we can choose to unlearn it. Though we can't control what happens to us, we can determine how we will interpret and react to what happens. We can moan about the things we don't like, using them as excuses for self-pity ("poor me"...

Doll · Doll

REACHING OUT Never talk down to an alcoholic from any moral or spiritual hilltop; simply lay out the kit of spiritual tools for his inspection. Show him how they worked with you. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 95 When I come into contact with a newcomer, do I have a tendency to look at him from my perceive...

wantneeda · wantneeda

.... i don't technically have the apartment...the landlord told me i could put down 50 dollars to keep it, which i gave 40...now she says i need 1/2 of the rent, and she is going through other applicants references... to give her another day my heart has sunk a little today because i am in a trans...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

Serenity has finally returned. I have been working harder than I ever have in this free world to establish and acknowledge a relationship with my Higher Power. Whether I like it or not, things are the way they are for a reason. I am coming to believe that all the things that have taken place in my life...

Phil · Phil

Uptight before Christmas, and all through these rooms > Alcoholics were stricken with holiday gloom. > They prayed, "Santa, please make us happy, joyous & free > Bring us candy and presents and serenity." > > Greed filled their minds and envy their hearts > And then someone s...

Doll · Doll

THINKING OF OTHERS Our very lives, as ex-problem drinkers, depend upon our constant thought of others and how we may help meet their needs. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 20 Thinking of others has never come easily to me. Even when I try to work the A.A. program, I'm prone to thinking, "How do I feel today. Am...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Progress, Not Perfection. -- Alcoholics Anonymous slogan We don't expect our lives to be perfect. We don't expect ourselves to be perfect. We just want to stop the insanity of addiction and begin to live lives that make sense. We don't expect to be perfect, but most of us do want to be good. W...

Wren · Wren

"To get to forgiveness, we first have to work through the painful experiences that require it." -- Christiane Northrup To forgive, we do not have to say that whatever happened was okay. In fact, before we can forgive, we need to allow ourselves to really feel the pain of the experience. If we don’t...

wantneeda · wantneeda

in recovery, i was saying yesterday, holy crap!! if one more good thing happens to me i might have to go into hiding!!!!! jus' kiddin';) i found an apartment, well actually it kind of found me, seriously, it jumped out at me from the newspaper...i had pretty much decided to take another already g...

LisaF · LisaF

We went to my nephew's christmas program last night, and wound up sitting right next to someone I hadn't seen since I was a child - the woman my dad cheated on my mom with. I had to talk to her and be nice and civil, it was really awkward and uncomfortable and brought back old resentments toward her and my dad...

annmarie · annmarie

Hi everyone, My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I attend alanon. I have been here a few times in the past and have gotton much needed advice and honest opinions. I just wanted to give you an update on my circumstances. Well, my bf continued with his binges, every weekend, whenever he had money rea...

Phil · Phil

How we think and behave is determined by the polar opposite emotions of the human sensory experience: love and fear. Everything we think and do - every action and reaction - arises from an initial thought or feeling anchored in love or fear (i.e. acceptance is a feeling that emerges from a state of love...

Quetzal · Quetzal

... there are many sham diamonds in this life which pass for real and, vice versa, many real diamonds which go unvalued. -- W. M. Thackeray It's high praise to say that someone is "genuine - the real thing." We use the image of jewelry when we talk about character: "Pure gold - 14 karat - rings true -...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Developing ourselves We must realize in our hearts that we are becoming better people. We do this by using our highest standards and making our best efforts. We do this, in part, by turning our lives over to God, who will guide us if we sincerely ask. As we develop, we find we're offering much mo...

Doll · Doll

COMMON SOLUTION The tremendous fact for every one of us is that we have discovered a common solution. We have a way out on which we can absolutely agree, and upon which we can join in brotherly and harmonious action. This is the great news this book carries to those who suffer from alcoholism. ALC...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

Finally did it! Yippeeeeeeeeee! Fired my sponsor! LOL! I'm just joking. No real joy here. Got me a new sponsor. Finally. It had been suggested to me by many people to do this. I'm not acting on impulsive thoughts here. I do feel good about this though. I believe I need to have an sponsor that can l...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Where is God? AA members have always had a difficult time explaining the "God business." We didn't want to be considered religious, but at the same time we've always believed some contact with a Higher Power is necessary for real personal growth. There's nothing wrong for our purposes in si...

Wren · Wren

"One word frees us from the weight and pain of life; that word is love." --Sophocles In exploring the enneagram, Riso and Hudson have identified ‘lost messages’ that we needed to hear as children but didn’t. The absence of these words may be at the heart of our most basic fear. And unconsciously we ma...

Phil · Phil

LIVE LIKE A DOG - AND BE HAPPY!! If a dog were the teacher, you would learn stuff like : When loved ones come home, always run to greet them. Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride. Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your f...

crazyblonde · crazyblonde

Shelley, and i'm an alcohlic. Damn that hurt to type. I had been sober a year, till a month ago. Now i'd rather stick a gun to my head. I'm tired of the hurt and the trying. I can't believe I'm even here and typing this. I don't have a car right now to go to meetings. I just can't believe i feel so weak. I...

Doll · Doll

A GENUINE HUMILITY . . . . we are actually to practice a genuine humility. This is to the end that our great blessings may never spoil us; that we shall forever live in thankful contemplation of Him who presides over us all. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 192 Experience has taught me that my alcoh...

CAM · CAM

December 10, 2006 Pride Often, I suspect that pride kills as many alcoholics as liquor does. . . My reaction to fast-progressing alcoholism was chiefly a frantic effort to hide it. Ask for help? What an idea! The day came when my pride was squashed flat, and I did call for help. I called on p...

New Member · Hey_Lady

Hi everyone. I'm so glad to have found this site. I've been trying to stop drinking for going on a year now. The frequency is less, about once a week, but it's still a routine, I even schedule the day I'll drink, just like I schedule a trip to the store. I know some of you will th...

LaneysMom · LaneysMom

Gosh, I don't even know where to start. My battle with alcohol is a long and horrific one. I've been close to death more times than I probably know. I was assaulted, I've gotten a DUI, I woken up in places and not known where I was or how I got there. I've flirted with sobriety in t...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Hi all, Jarrod and Robert have both shared so much this evening and it made me want to share, too. And, it has done me good. I have been feeling pretty down all day, but looking back at where my drinking was taking me, I feel I have so much to be grateful for and to feel good about. Anyway, here's my st...

amanda2u2 · amanda2u2

There was a post last year, somewhere, that really made a difference in my enjoyment of the holidays,,, and I'd like to share the concept with you all now: We often have ideas about what the holidays are 'supposed to' be. Family is supposed to get together. We are supposed to have a nice b...

cindy · cindy

suffering sucks, i hate that part of recovery. it seems necessary to process the emotions however, cause if you dont they come out sideways and it can get self destructive. sometimes i dont get why it has to hurt so much then something happens to show me the reasons. there is always reasons and its alway...

Robert · Robert

72489322 for me,. oh 72489323 oh 72489324 I think i better lie down!! you check!! http://silkworth.net/aa/calc.html

Quetzal · Quetzal

Everything's got a moral if only you can find it. -- Lewis Carroll We must make many choices in our recovery. Some of these will strengthen our character, for they will be hard to make and sometimes even harder to accept. One of the most meaningful sayings in our program is Let go and let God. We und...

tina · tina

Got this sent to me, hope you enjoy it. lol, takes one away from thinkin Finally! -- a Blonde GUY Joke! Blonde guy gets home early from work and hears strange noises coming from the bedroom. He rushes upstairs to find his wife naked on the bed, sweating and panting. "What's up?"...

Robert · Robert

I had been drinking since I was 15. It made me feel human for the first time in my life. It took away my fear and gave me an inner glow I never felt before. Most importantly it took me out of myself. I soon discovered that if I drank enough, I got this mystery power and id wake in the morni...

Jon · Jon

Hi, Im Jon a 32 year old alcoholic from NJ. Last year i recieved my 4th DUI. I'm right out of rehab and looking for all the help I can get. I hope to get to know some of you. thanks, jon N

Robert · Robert

http://www.xa-speakers.org/pafiledb.php?action=category&id=13-- Edited by Robert at 11:44, 2006-12-08

CAM · CAM

"God grant the Serenity to accept the person i cannot change, Courage to change the person i can, Wisdom to know that person is me.

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

This is the worst I've felt in a long time. Part of me just wants to fire my sponsor, say f AA, and go it alone. These past two nights I've just layed in bed crying. I feel so horrible. I don't really know what's causing it either. I called my psych doctor yesterday and tried to set an appointment to no avail...

CAM · CAM

"We don't receive wisdom; we must discover it for ourselves after a journey that no one can take for us or spare us" "One's first step in wisdom is to question everything and one's last is to come to terms with everything" "Life's challenges are not suppose to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you d...

CAM · CAM

When more love, understanding, and harmony are needed in a family, it's really a change of heart by the individuals that is needed. I pray for a change-not to change the other people in my family, but for the wisdom to realize that the only person I am responsible for changing in or am abl...

Quetzal · Quetzal

All We Have Is Now We can only live now, this moment. We cannot erase the mistakes we made yesterday or bring back the good times we had. We cannot know what tomorrow will require of us, nor can we ensure future security and happiness. Now is what we have, and now is everything. We can fo...

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	2nd Question about defining an alcoholic (Preview) Thank you for your responses. Do you think an alcoholic can chose to not drink for a few days and not have a problem with doing so even if they have been drinking every day for many years. Better elaberation:To experience varied temperament for the first few days and also sweating dur...	Frenzle	12	512	Dec 15, 2006 by mikey50
	What is an alcoholic? (Preview) Humour me How would you describe an alcoholic?	Frenzle	8	424	Dec 15, 2006 by Dave Harm
	Mental backup in progress - Do Not Disturb! (Preview) I'm not cheap, but I am on special this week I almost had a psychic girlfriend but she left me before we met Who is General Failure and why is he reading my hard disk? What happens if you get scared half to death twice? For Sale: Parachute. Only used once, never opened, small stain. I tried sniffin...	Phil	3	690	Dec 15, 2006 by timverton
	The 5 Stages Of Grief... (Preview) Grief is a somewhat commplicated and misunderstood emotion. Yet, grief is something that, unfortunately, we must all experience at some time or other. We will all inevitably experience loss. Whether it is a loss through death, divorce or some other loss, the stages of grieving are the same. Ther...	Phil	8	7041	Dec 15, 2006 by sheree
	My Story of Discovery and Awakening (Preview) Hi all: My name is Jarrod, and I'm an alcoholic. I really messed up my marriage and life with my drinking the past 8 years. The more I drank the meaner my wife got toward me. The heavy drinking started just after our second child came. I was 30, she was a stay at home Mom. After the child came the wife got breas...	Ironman	12	496	Dec 15, 2006 by tina
	Daily Reflections Dec 15 (Preview) DOING ANYTHING TO HELP Offer him [the alcoholic] friendship and fellowship. Tell him that if he wants to get well you will do anything to help. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 95 I remember how attracted I was to the two men from A.A. who Twelfth-Stepped me. They said I could have what they had, with no conditi...	Doll	0	306	Dec 15, 2006 by Doll
	Keep your recovery First to make it Last (Preview) Holidays Keep your recovery First to make it Last. -- Anonymous We all encounter places, people, and times of the year, which trigger memories of our old lifestyle, pleasant or painful events. Holidays and family gatherings may be especially stressful times for us. There hav...	Quetzal	0	365	Dec 15, 2006 by Quetzal
	Struggling (Preview) Hi everyone, I'm new to this site, and new to trying to stay sober. I mean REALLY trying. I've attended AA meetings in the past, of course I had a few drinks before I went, just to loosen up enough to share, or so I reasoned. Needless to say, the meetings were not really for me. I went to g...	Hey_Lady	5	371	Dec 15, 2006 by timverton
	Clear Thinking (Preview) Strive for clear thinking. Many of us have had our thinking clouded by denial. Some of us have even lost faith in ourselves because we've spent a degree of time in denial. But losing faith in our thinking isn't going to help us. What we need to lose faith in is denial. We didn't resort to denial - either o...	Phil	2	378	Dec 14, 2006 by Phil
	Uncertain what to feel!!!! (Preview) Hi folks Sorry I haven't been on the board much lately, just tryin to go with the flow. Also staying away from that stinkin thinkin. Guess I've been sittin back and watchin to see what is happening with my son, and well a few things have came up. Monday nite I explained to him that he need...	tina	3	351	Dec 14, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Am I An Alcoholic?? (Preview) 1. Do you lose time from work due to drinking? Yes No 2. Is drinking making your home life unhappy? Yes No 3. Do you drink because you are shy with other people? Yes No 4. Is drinking affecting your reputation? Yes No 5. Have you ever felt remorse after drinking? Yes No 6....	Phil	4	375	Dec 14, 2006 by Phil
	My Father (Preview) since I have come into recovery he has treated me different, when I was drinking he took great delight in making a fool out of me by telling me infront of family and friends what I had done when drunk. He has bullied me since day one, putting me down and trying to sway me from making any positive moves in...	Robert	5	357	Dec 14, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Misery is optional (Preview) Misery is optional. We may have learned to be miserable, but we can choose to unlearn it. Though we can't control what happens to us, we can determine how we will interpret and react to what happens. We can moan about the things we don't like, using them as excuses for self-pity ("poor me"...	Quetzal	0	2194	Dec 14, 2006 by Quetzal
	Daily Reflections Dec 14 (Preview) REACHING OUT Never talk down to an alcoholic from any moral or spiritual hilltop; simply lay out the kit of spiritual tools for his inspection. Show him how they worked with you. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 95 When I come into contact with a newcomer, do I have a tendency to look at him from my perceive...	Doll	0	295	Dec 14, 2006 by Doll
	guess i jumped the gun a little.... (Preview) .... i don't technically have the apartment...the landlord told me i could put down 50 dollars to keep it, which i gave 40...now she says i need 1/2 of the rent, and she is going through other applicants references... to give her another day my heart has sunk a little today because i am in a trans...	wantneeda	3	436	Dec 13, 2006 by timverton
	Hello Family (Preview) Serenity has finally returned. I have been working harder than I ever have in this free world to establish and acknowledge a relationship with my Higher Power. Whether I like it or not, things are the way they are for a reason. I am coming to believe that all the things that have taken place in my life...	soberdrunk	2	358	Dec 13, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Uptight Before Christmas (Preview) Uptight before Christmas, and all through these rooms > Alcoholics were stricken with holiday gloom. > They prayed, "Santa, please make us happy, joyous & free > Bring us candy and presents and serenity." > > Greed filled their minds and envy their hearts > And then someone s...	Phil	2	432	Dec 13, 2006 by Phil
	Daily Reflections Dec 13 (Preview) THINKING OF OTHERS Our very lives, as ex-problem drinkers, depend upon our constant thought of others and how we may help meet their needs. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 20 Thinking of others has never come easily to me. Even when I try to work the A.A. program, I'm prone to thinking, "How do I feel today. Am...	Doll	1	302	Dec 13, 2006 by soberdrunk
	Progress, Not Perfection. (Preview) Progress, Not Perfection. -- Alcoholics Anonymous slogan We don't expect our lives to be perfect. We don't expect ourselves to be perfect. We just want to stop the insanity of addiction and begin to live lives that make sense. We don't expect to be perfect, but most of us do want to be good. W...	Quetzal	0	308	Dec 13, 2006 by Quetzal
	The First Step to Forgiveness (Preview) "To get to forgiveness, we first have to work through the painful experiences that require it." -- Christiane Northrup To forgive, we do not have to say that whatever happened was okay. In fact, before we can forgive, we need to allow ourselves to really feel the pain of the experience. If we don’t...	Wren	0	304	Dec 13, 2006 by Wren
	gifts (Preview) in recovery, i was saying yesterday, holy crap!! if one more good thing happens to me i might have to go into hiding!!!!! jus' kiddin';) i found an apartment, well actually it kind of found me, seriously, it jumped out at me from the newspaper...i had pretty much decided to take another already g...	wantneeda	3	328	Dec 12, 2006 by timverton
	resentment, anger, and a hurt little girl (Preview) We went to my nephew's christmas program last night, and wound up sitting right next to someone I hadn't seen since I was a child - the woman my dad cheated on my mom with. I had to talk to her and be nice and civil, it was really awkward and uncomfortable and brought back old resentments toward her and my dad...	LisaF	1	366	Dec 12, 2006 by timverton
	my story (Preview) Hi everyone, My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I attend alanon. I have been here a few times in the past and have gotton much needed advice and honest opinions. I just wanted to give you an update on my circumstances. Well, my bf continued with his binges, every weekend, whenever he had money rea...	annmarie	1	369	Dec 12, 2006 by Phil
	Love based or Fear based (Preview) How we think and behave is determined by the polar opposite emotions of the human sensory experience: love and fear. Everything we think and do - every action and reaction - arises from an initial thought or feeling anchored in love or fear (i.e. acceptance is a feeling that emerges from a state of love...	Phil	1	409	Dec 12, 2006 by timverton
	Genuine - the real thing (Preview) ... there are many sham diamonds in this life which pass for real and, vice versa, many real diamonds which go unvalued. -- W. M. Thackeray It's high praise to say that someone is "genuine - the real thing." We use the image of jewelry when we talk about character: "Pure gold - 14 karat - rings true -...	Quetzal	1	368	Dec 12, 2006 by tina
	Developing ourselves (Preview) Developing ourselves We must realize in our hearts that we are becoming better people. We do this by using our highest standards and making our best efforts. We do this, in part, by turning our lives over to God, who will guide us if we sincerely ask. As we develop, we find we're offering much mo...	Quetzal	2	352	Dec 12, 2006 by tina
	Daily Reflections Dec 12 (Preview) COMMON SOLUTION The tremendous fact for every one of us is that we have discovered a common solution. We have a way out on which we can absolutely agree, and upon which we can join in brotherly and harmonious action. This is the great news this book carries to those who suffer from alcoholism. ALC...	Doll	0	291	Dec 12, 2006 by Doll
	I finally did it!!! (Preview) Finally did it! Yippeeeeeeeeee! Fired my sponsor! LOL! I'm just joking. No real joy here. Got me a new sponsor. Finally. It had been suggested to me by many people to do this. I'm not acting on impulsive thoughts here. I do feel good about this though. I believe I need to have an sponsor that can l...	soberdrunk	3	378	Dec 11, 2006 by amanda2u2
	Where is God? (Preview) Where is God? AA members have always had a difficult time explaining the "God business." We didn't want to be considered religious, but at the same time we've always believed some contact with a Higher Power is necessary for real personal growth. There's nothing wrong for our purposes in si...	Quetzal	2	352	Dec 11, 2006 by amanda2u2
	What Message Did You Most Need to Hear? (Preview) "One word frees us from the weight and pain of life; that word is love." --Sophocles In exploring the enneagram, Riso and Hudson have identified ‘lost messages’ that we needed to hear as children but didn’t. The absence of these words may be at the heart of our most basic fear. And unconsciously we ma...	Wren	2	460	Dec 11, 2006 by Phil
	WOOF!!! (Preview) LIVE LIKE A DOG - AND BE HAPPY!! If a dog were the teacher, you would learn stuff like : When loved ones come home, always run to greet them. Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride. Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your f...	Phil	2	358	Dec 11, 2006 by wagon
	my name is... (Preview) Shelley, and i'm an alcohlic. Damn that hurt to type. I had been sober a year, till a month ago. Now i'd rather stick a gun to my head. I'm tired of the hurt and the trying. I can't believe I'm even here and typing this. I don't have a car right now to go to meetings. I just can't believe i feel so weak. I...	crazyblonde	9	428	Dec 11, 2006 by tina
	Daily Reflections Dec 11 (Preview) A GENUINE HUMILITY . . . . we are actually to practice a genuine humility. This is to the end that our great blessings may never spoil us; that we shall forever live in thankful contemplation of Him who presides over us all. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 192 Experience has taught me that my alcoh...	Doll	0	275	Dec 11, 2006 by Doll
	AA Thought for the Day (Preview) December 10, 2006 Pride Often, I suspect that pride kills as many alcoholics as liquor does. . . My reaction to fast-progressing alcoholism was chiefly a frantic effort to hide it. Ask for help? What an idea! The day came when my pride was squashed flat, and I did call for help. I called on p...	CAM	0	317	Dec 10, 2006 by CAM
	New Member (Preview) Hi everyone. I'm so glad to have found this site. I've been trying to stop drinking for going on a year now. The frequency is less, about once a week, but it's still a routine, I even schedule the day I'll drink, just like I schedule a trip to the store. I know some of you will th...	Hey_Lady	8	411	Dec 10, 2006 by Wren
	I'm new here (Preview) Gosh, I don't even know where to start. My battle with alcohol is a long and horrific one. I've been close to death more times than I probably know. I was assaulted, I've gotten a DUI, I woken up in places and not known where I was or how I got there. I've flirted with sobriety in t...	LaneysMom	6	345	Dec 10, 2006 by Doll
	My Drinking Story (Preview) Hi all, Jarrod and Robert have both shared so much this evening and it made me want to share, too. And, it has done me good. I have been feeling pretty down all day, but looking back at where my drinking was taking me, I feel I have so much to be grateful for and to feel good about. Anyway, here's my st...	Quetzal	4	409	Dec 9, 2006 by HappyMe
	'supposed to' (Preview) *There was a post last year, somewhere, that really made a difference in my enjoyment of the holidays,,, and I'd like to share the concept with you all now:* *We often have ideas about what the holidays are 'supposed to' be. Family is supposed to get together. We are supposed to have a nice b...*	amanda2u2	2	299	Dec 9, 2006 by Quetzal
	feelings good and bad (Preview) suffering sucks, i hate that part of recovery. it seems necessary to process the emotions however, cause if you dont they come out sideways and it can get self destructive. sometimes i dont get why it has to hurt so much then something happens to show me the reasons. there is always reasons and its alway...	cindy	2	333	Dec 9, 2006 by amanda2u2
	how many sober heart beats? (Preview) 72489322 for me,. oh 72489323 oh 72489324 I think i better lie down!! you check!! http://silkworth.net/aa/calc.html	Robert	3	361	Dec 9, 2006 by Phil
	Let go and let God (Preview) Everything's got a moral if only you can find it. -- Lewis Carroll We must make many choices in our recovery. Some of these will strengthen our character, for they will be hard to make and sometimes even harder to accept. One of the most meaningful sayings in our program is Let go and let God. We und...	Quetzal	0	320	Dec 9, 2006 by Quetzal
	Joke for today, lol (Preview) Got this sent to me, hope you enjoy it. lol, takes one away from thinkin Finally! -- a Blonde GUY Joke! Blonde guy gets home early from work and hears strange noises coming from the bedroom. He rushes upstairs to find his wife naked on the bed, sweating and panting. "What's up?"...	tina	1	518	Dec 8, 2006 by tina
	my story (Preview) I had been drinking since I was 15. It made me feel human for the first time in my life. It took away my fear and gave me an inner glow I never felt before. Most importantly it took me out of myself. I soon discovered that if I drank enough, I got this mystery power and id wake in the morni...	Robert	4	335	Dec 8, 2006 by Robert
	New here (Preview) Hi, Im Jon a 32 year old alcoholic from NJ. Last year i recieved my 4th DUI. I'm right out of rehab and looking for all the help I can get. I hope to get to know some of you. thanks, jon N	Jon	14	400	Dec 8, 2006 by Ironman
	Helped me in the young days (Preview) http://www.xa-speakers.org/pafiledb.php?action=category&id=13-- Edited by Robert at 11:44, 2006-12-08	Robert	3	338	Dec 8, 2006 by Robert
	serenity prayer - revised (Preview) "God grant the Serenity to accept the person i cannot change, Courage to change the person i can, Wisdom to know that person is me.	CAM	3	327	Dec 8, 2006 by Robert
	Struggling (Preview) This is the worst I've felt in a long time. Part of me just wants to fire my sponsor, say f AA, and go it alone. These past two nights I've just layed in bed crying. I feel so horrible. I don't really know what's causing it either. I called my psych doctor yesterday and tried to set an appointment to no avail...	soberdrunk	7	349	Dec 8, 2006 by Robert
	Wisdom (Preview) "We don't receive wisdom; we must discover it for ourselves after a journey that no one can take for us or spare us" "One's first step in wisdom is to question everything and one's last is to come to terms with everything" "Life's challenges are not suppose to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you d...	CAM	1	300	Dec 8, 2006 by tina
	Enriching My Family (Preview) When more love, understanding, and harmony are needed in a family, it's really a change of heart by the individuals that is needed. I pray for a change-not to change the other people in my family, but for the wisdom to realize that the only person I am responsible for changing in or am abl...	CAM	0	306	Dec 8, 2006 by CAM
	All We Have Is Now (Preview) All We Have Is Now We can only live now, this moment. We cannot erase the mistakes we made yesterday or bring back the good times we had. We cannot know what tomorrow will require of us, nor can we ensure future security and happiness. Now is what we have, and now is everything. We can fo...	Quetzal	3	386	Dec 8, 2006 by tina
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