Alcoholics Anonymous

Quetzal · Quetzal

God's will most often happens in spite of us, not because of us. We may try to second guess what God has in mind for us, looking, searching, hypervigilant to seek God's will as though it were a buried treasure, hidden beyond our reach. If we find it, we win the prize. But if we're not careful, we miss out. Th...

pinkcloudfrenzy · pinkcloudfrenzy

Hello I am a young woman, five months into the program and doing really well. I go to meetings almost every day and am very helpful whereever needed. I have been attending round-ups and really trying to get involved. I am however, have a hard time finding a sponsor. Ideally, if even just a temporary one,...

Doll · Doll

I asked GOD to take away my habit. God said, no. it is not for me to take away, but for you to give up. I asked GOD to make my handicapped child whole. God said, no. His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary. I asked GOD to grant me patience. God said, no. Patience is a byproduct of tribulations; It isn't g...

jeannie · jeannie

I had a friend who got along wonderfully with me when we were alone, but when her other friends were with us, she treated me as if I were beneath her. She was wealthy, and so were many of her friends. They had their own language, and they judged people by what they owned, what they wore, and what they drov...

jeannie · jeannie

The Language of the Heart Why, at this particular point in history, has God chosen to communicate His healing grace to so many of us? Every aspect of this global unfoldment can be related to a single crucial word. The word is "communication." There has been a life saving communicati...

Phil · Phil

by Rod Spencer, M.Div. M.A. There are many things to be afraid of in life. Losing a loved one. Going broke. Growing old. Being diagnosed with a terminal illness. Dying. These are some of the more common fears we all face, and to ignore these threats is to live in denial. Fear is hardwired into ou...

Doll · Doll

He called on Thursday to ask me about a cell phone feature! He called me again 3hours later to say, "what did you tell me I needed to do". I sent him an email today telling him I'll bring the shitty kittty back on Tuesday and pick up my truck - he's on 12 hour night shift till tues morning - His r...

Doll · Doll

THE BEST FOR TODAY The principles we have set down are guides to progress. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 60 Just as a sculptor will use different tools to achieve desired effects in creating a work of art, in Alcoholics Anonymous the Twelve Steps are used to bring about results in my own life. I do not overwh...

kltjoy · kltjoy

Hey all - sponsee came to me today with a situation regarding her sponsee. Seems her 2 years sober sponsee who is celebrating by speaking tonite has been continuing to steal $$ from people who care about her - she is a young one - 23 - she has been given guidance a few times regarding this defect of charact...

Phil · Phil

Doll · Doll

So much has been going on lately and I continue to try to push it all down, just like I 've always done - (Brave lil' Jen, oh she's fine ) If I don't acknowledge it, it isn't happening... I know that will only last for a while and then it all comes to the surface.......I have health issues again, my son is sc...

msparks · msparks

Hi all, Just found this site, I haven't been to a meeting yet. I'm scheduled to go tomorrow. I thought it would be nice to interact with others going through the same thing, maybe need a little help when I'm not at a "meeting". I don't even know what a meeting will be like. Anyhow, I'm here and an...

Quetzal · Quetzal

One day, my mother and I were working together in the garden. We were transplanting some plant for the third time. Grown from seed in a small container, the plants had been transferred to a larger container; then transplanted into the garden. Now, because I was moving, we were transplanting them agai...

Doll · Doll

SACRIFICE = UNITY = SURVIVAL The unity, the effectiveness, and even the survival of A. A. will always depend upon our continued willingness to give up some of our personal ambitions and desires for the common safety and welfare. Just as sacrifice means survival for the individual alcoholic, so does...

Wren · Wren

What is this self inside us, this silent observer, Severe and speechless critic, who can terrorize us, And urge us on to futile activity, And in the end, judge us still more severely, For the errors into which his own reproaches drove us?-- T. S. Eliot How do you talk to yourself? Would you talk that way t...

wantneeda · wantneeda

... i realize i should quit thinking. ya know that slogan...think, think, think...well for me..its don't think, don't think, don't think. so i can probably safely say that like the majority of those powerless, i have trust issues. and ya i trust, cautiously..and get burned. yup, happened again. on...

Doll · Doll

RIPPLING EFFECT Having learned to live so happily, we'd show everyone else how. . .Yes, we of A.A. did dream those dreams. How natural that was, since most alcoholics are bankrupt idealists. . .So why shouldn't we share our way of life with everyone? TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 156 The gre...

Doll · Doll

A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape - But a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape. A strong woman isn't afraid of anything - But a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear. A strong woman won't let anyone get the best of her - But a woman of strength g...

Tipsy McStagger · Tipsy McStagger

I'm sure why but I'm feeling very compelled to go on a tear

jeannie · jeannie

When we mock sin, and pretend that we can't be hurt by it, we are fooling ourselves. Sin has great power to hurt and destroy. Only a fool thinks otherwise. The wise man or woman knows the risk of sin, and they learn to avoid it. When we resist sin, we are walking in the favor of our higher power as we unde...

Doll · Doll

I'm sooo sorry you misinterpreted my replies to your post......I never meant for it to sound that way. I was talking about me and my religion and what I believe. I enjoy a good religious conversation, that how I learn. I would never, ever tell anyone they are wrong in what they believe in. I was just shari...

LisaF · LisaF

I sorta have 2 new sponsors now, 2 women from my homegroup... I can't decide between them, and well, they said I could use them both for now... one of them I know has been through these same things I'm dealing with right now, and they both gave me the same advice, same suggestions... and I was being stub...

Doll · Doll

We had to surrender to a power greater than ourselves to get where we are today. And each day, we have to turn to that power for strength and guidance. For us, resistance means struggle-struggle with others as well as an internal struggle. Serenity isn't compatible with struggle. We cannot control fo...

TimW · TimW

After three weeks of sweating out a very thorough background check. They called today and said I start monday. As checkered as my past prior to 95 is I never thought I'd make it past that part. Funny thing is that last night I told my wife that I was done worrying about this thing. The worry and relivin...

LisaF · LisaF

Yes, this is going to be a long ramble, you don't have to read it, but I about feel like I'm losing it right now and I gotta get all this out. I'm a total mess right now, and it's my own fault. I don't know, I've been a basketcase for the last few days. I really don't know what's going on. But you know, all throu...

Wren · Wren

Peace Often we look at the outside world and find it in a state of seeming chaos or disorder. We feel compelled to transform the situation from one of turmoil into one of peace, yet we are often disappointed in our best attempts to do so. One reason for this is that we cannot bring to the world what we do not h...

Phil · Phil

One of the most painful things we have to do in our lives is Letting Go. Sometimes it is Letting Go of things...material things which mean a lot to us, even if only sentimental value. It may mean Letting Go of feelings. When we hold sadness inside, and try to mask it with only a show of happiness, it is bette...

Wren · Wren

Expanding Your Comfort Zone None of us are born with a guidebook that provides explicit rules for thought and behavior that will enable us to navigate life successfully. To cope with the myriad of complexities to which all of humanity is subject, we each develop a set of habits and routines that groun...

Doll · Doll

THE DETERMINATION OF OUR FOUNDERS A year and six months later these three had succeeded with seven more. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 159 If it had not been for the fierce determination of our founders, A.A. would have quickly faded like so many other so-called good causes. I look at the hundreds of meeti...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Frequently, when faced with a problem, we may attempt to solve it in a particular way. When that way doesn't work, we may continue trying to solve the problem in that same way. We may get frustrated, try harder, get more frustrated, and then exert more energy and influence into forcing the same solutio...

Quetzal · Quetzal

When a pianist learns a new piece of music, he or she does not sit down and instantly play it perfectly. A pianist often needs to practice each hand's work separately to learn the feel, to learn the sound. One hand picks out a part until there is a rhythm and ease in playing what is difficult. Then, the musi...

LisaF · LisaF

[img]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v17/LiaBunny/Sissys%20Kittens%20June%202...

Tipsy McStagger · Tipsy McStagger

For some reason I'm finding myself highly, um...ahem...aroused since I quit drinking. I dont know what to make of it? I dont know if it's normal or what but I'm like a walking sun dial. It's sort of distracting Anyone else experience this when they stopped drinking? Phil?

Doll · Doll

CONFORMING TO THE A.A. WAY We obey A.A.'s Steps and Traditions because we really want them for ourselves. It is no longer a question of good or evil; we conform because we genuinely want to conform. Such is our process of growth in unity and function. Such is the evidence of God's grace and love among us....

ron70062 · ron70062

As I had posted earlier, I was upset about a job that i was trying to get, but I didnt drink over it. Instead, I prayed and asked God if it was his will to let me get it. Well, today I found out I wasnt going to get it. At first I was upset, then I remembered what I had asked God. As we all know, he always gives us a ans...

TimW · TimW

Just found this site today while looking for something up lifting. I haven't drank since 6/95. I'm being considered for a very good job but probably won't survive the back groundcheck due to all the stupid things I did while still drinking. I have found people to be not very forgiving. Oh don't get me w...

cindy · cindy

well, the 4 year relationship i was in thats been over about a year had ended badly with him refusing to speak to me any more as it continually went to conflict. (same old story, i wanted more) we were stuck in a pattern that suited him to a "t" but didnt do much for me. usually i end up on much more c...

Phil · Phil

My thoughts re....a couple of posts from below.... I believe that a lot of times...we can take things out of context...when posts or replys to posts are read...and we can take them as insulting, or personally...beyond...what they are really meant to be... I believe that any replys that someone get...

Quetzal · Quetzal

A slump can go on for days. We feel sluggish, unfocused, and sometimes overwhelmed with feelings we can't sort out. We may not understand what is going on with us. Even our attempts to practice recovery behaviors may not appear to work. We still don't feel emotionally, mentally, and spiritually as go...

Tipsy McStagger · Tipsy McStagger

I'm having a really difficult time right now...cant seem to keep the "just for today" philosophy in my mind. I keep thinking about things in terms of "never", "forever" and "the rest of my life"...I don't think I have what it takes to do anything for the re...

jeannie · jeannie

If we choose to follow in the footsteps of fools, we will also have to suffer the consequences. When we walk along blindly, we are in danger of falling into sin. We must watch our steps and turn from that which is evil. It is our obligation to flee from sin and evil. If we keep company with fools we will...

Wren · Wren

...self-contempt never inspires lasting change. -- Jane R. Hirschmann and Carol H. Munter I can suck myself down into a deep, black hole when I focus on what I think I SHOULD be more loving, sexy, productive, whatever. Thinking I should be something else means Im not good enough now. This is poverty th...

Doll · Doll

A GIFT THAT GROWS WITH TIME For most normal folks, drinking means conviviality, companionship and colorful imagination. It means release from care, boredom and worry. It is joyous intimacy with friends and a feeling that life is good. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 151 The longer I chased these elusive...

Wren · Wren

Blaming Others As we begin to truly understand that the world outside of us is a reflection of the world inside of us, we may feel confused about who is to blame for the problems in our lives. If we had a difficult childhood, we may wonder how we can take responsibility for that, and in our current relat...

LisaF · LisaF

Hey y'all, just checkin in... haven't posted here in awhile... pretty hot here today, but the house is staying cool enough at least... and it's not so bad in the shade outside... Been busy doing major clean up around here all week... I've been working on the house mostly and a bit here and there outside...

Tipsy McStagger · Tipsy McStagger

Hi. Just checking in. Anybody have any words of wisdom or encouragement for me to publicly mock but secretly appreciate?

welshgit77 · welshgit77

When is the best time to be involved in the AA chat room. I live in the UK. I've never used a chat room before and would like to give it a go, but so far have found it empty ???? Welshgit

Doll · Doll

A TWO-WAY STREET If we ask, God will certainly forgive our derelictions. But in no case does He render us white as snow and keep us that way without our cooperation. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 65 When I prayed, I used to omit a lot of things for which I needed to be forgiven. I thought that if I di...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Sometimes, to protect ourselves, we close ourselves off from a person we're in a relationship with. Our body may be present, but we're not. We're not available to participate in the relationship. We shut down. Sometimes, it is appropriate and healthy to shut down in a relationship. We may legitimat...

Phil · Phil

Checkin in...and just saying hi.... Dts from computer meltdown are a bitch!! :) No addiction here!! jee sus!! New system and comming back online in a few days... Different email address also... Stay sober....stay sane.... Keep on truckin!! and Watch out for Turnip trucks!! Onward!!!

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	God's Will (Preview) God's will most often happens in spite of us, not because of us. We may try to second guess what God has in mind for us, looking, searching, hypervigilant to seek God's will as though it were a buried treasure, hidden beyond our reach. If we find it, we win the prize. But if we're not careful, we miss out. Th...	Quetzal	1	342	Jul 2, 2007 by Pam P
	Step help (Preview) Hello I am a young woman, five months into the program and doing really well. I go to meetings almost every day and am very helpful whereever needed. I have been attending round-ups and really trying to get involved. I am however, have a hard time finding a sponsor. Ideally, if even just a temporary one,...	pinkcloudfrenzy	7	485	Jul 2, 2007 by pinkcloudfrenzy
	God Said "NO" (Preview) I asked GOD to take away my habit. God said, no. it is not for me to take away, but for you to give up. I asked GOD to make my handicapped child whole. God said, no. His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary. I asked GOD to grant me patience. God said, no. Patience is a byproduct of tribulations; It isn't g...	Doll	0	318	Jul 1, 2007 by Doll
	MY thought for today (Preview) I had a friend who got along wonderfully with me when we were alone, but when her other friends were with us, she treated me as if I were beneath her. She was wealthy, and so were many of her friends. They had their own language, and they judged people by what they owned, what they wore, and what they drov...	jeannie	2	467	Jul 1, 2007 by timverton
	As Bill Sees It (Preview) The Language of the Heart Why, at this particular point in history, has God chosen to communicate His healing grace to so many of us? Every aspect of this global unfoldment can be related to a single crucial word. The word is "communication." There has been a life saving communicati...	jeannie	1	335	Jul 1, 2007 by Phil
	Dealing With Fear (Preview) by Rod Spencer, M.Div. M.A. There are many things to be afraid of in life. Losing a loved one. Going broke. Growing old. Being diagnosed with a terminal illness. Dying. These are some of the more common fears we all face, and to ignore these threats is to live in denial. Fear is hardwired into ou...	Phil	1	580	Jul 1, 2007 by miller2
	He's f'in with my sobriety (Preview) He called on Thursday to ask me about a cell phone feature! He called me again 3hours later to say, "what did you tell me I needed to do". I sent him an email today telling him I'll bring the shitty kittty back on Tuesday and pick up my truck - he's on 12 hour night shift till tues morning - His r...	Doll	16	612	Jul 1, 2007 by miller2
	Daily Reflections July 1 (Preview) THE BEST FOR TODAY The principles we have set down are guides to progress. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 60 Just as a sculptor will use different tools to achieve desired effects in creating a work of art, in Alcoholics Anonymous the Twelve Steps are used to bring about results in my own life. I do not overwh...	Doll	0	773	Jul 1, 2007 by Doll
	sponsee stuff (Preview) Hey all - sponsee came to me today with a situation regarding her sponsee. Seems her 2 years sober sponsee who is celebrating by speaking tonite has been continuing to steal $$ from people who care about her - she is a young one - 23 - she has been given guidance a few times regarding this defect of charact...	kltjoy	8	628	Jun 30, 2007 by learning
	Happy Canada Day Weekend..Canucks (Preview)	Phil	10	486	Jun 30, 2007 by learning
	Hurting......... (Preview) So much has been going on lately and I continue to try to push it all down, just like I 've always done - (Brave lil' Jen, oh she's fine ) If I don't acknowledge it, it isn't happening... I know that will only last for a while and then it all comes to the surface.......I have health issues again, my son is sc...	Doll	13	552	Jun 30, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Hi I'm new here. (Preview) Hi all, Just found this site, I haven't been to a meeting yet. I'm scheduled to go tomorrow. I thought it would be nice to interact with others going through the same thing, maybe need a little help when I'm not at a "meeting". I don't even know what a meeting will be like. Anyhow, I'm here and an...	msparks	15	665	Jun 30, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Accepting Change (Preview) One day, my mother and I were working together in the garden. We were transplanting some plant for the third time. Grown from seed in a small container, the plants had been transferred to a larger container; then transplanted into the garden. Now, because I was moving, we were transplanting them agai...	Quetzal	3	517	Jun 30, 2007 by Phil
	Daily Reflections June 30 (Preview) SACRIFICE = UNITY = SURVIVAL The unity, the effectiveness, and even the survival of A. A. will always depend upon our continued willingness to give up some of our personal ambitions and desires for the common safety and welfare. Just as sacrifice means survival for the individual alcoholic, so does...	Doll	0	858	Jun 30, 2007 by Doll
	Speak Kindly to Yourself (Preview) What is this self inside us, this silent observer, Severe and speechless critic, who can terrorize us, And urge us on to futile activity, And in the end, judge us still more severely, For the errors into which his own reproaches drove us?-- T. S. Eliot How do you talk to yourself? Would you talk that way t...	Wren	0	330	Jun 30, 2007 by Wren
	just when i think... (Preview) ... i realize i should quit thinking. ya know that slogan...think, think, think...well for me..its don't think, don't think, don't think. so i can probably safely say that like the majority of those powerless, i have trust issues. and ya i trust, cautiously..and get burned. yup, happened again. on...	wantneeda	8	394	Jun 29, 2007 by Doll
	Dailt Reflections June 29 (Preview) RIPPLING EFFECT Having learned to live so happily, we'd show everyone else how. . .Yes, we of A.A. did dream those dreams. How natural that was, since most alcoholics are bankrupt idealists. . .So why shouldn't we share our way of life with everyone? TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 156 The gre...	Doll	1	988	Jun 29, 2007 by Pam P
	For us 'girls' (Preview) A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape - But a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape. A strong woman isn't afraid of anything - But a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear. A strong woman won't let anyone get the best of her - But a woman of strength g...	Doll	3	365	Jun 29, 2007 by Phil
	I'm very tempted right now... (Preview) I'm sure why but I'm feeling very compelled to go on a tear	Tipsy McStagger	7	1425	Jun 29, 2007 by Bryan39
	Sin and Guilt (Preview) When we mock sin, and pretend that we can't be hurt by it, we are fooling ourselves. Sin has great power to hurt and destroy. Only a fool thinks otherwise. The wise man or woman knows the risk of sin, and they learn to avoid it. When we resist sin, we are walking in the favor of our higher power as we unde...	jeannie	9	467	Jun 29, 2007 by Doll
	Jeannie, please come back (Preview) I'm sooo sorry you misinterpreted my replies to your post......I never meant for it to sound that way. I was talking about me and my religion and what I believe. I enjoy a good religious conversation, that how I learn. I would never, ever tell anyone they are wrong in what they believe in. I was just shari...	Doll	3	912	Jun 28, 2007 by learning
	moving out... yes, I'm finally gonna start listening to people (Preview) I sorta have 2 new sponsors now, 2 women from my homegroup... I can't decide between them, and well, they said I could use them both for now... one of them I know has been through these same things I'm dealing with right now, and they both gave me the same advice, same suggestions... and I was being stub...	LisaF	5	372	Jun 28, 2007 by LisaF
	Give it up already!!!! (Preview) We had to surrender to a power greater than ourselves to get where we are today. And each day, we have to turn to that power for strength and guidance. For us, resistance means struggle-struggle with others as well as an internal struggle. Serenity isn't compatible with struggle. We cannot control fo...	Doll	2	330	Jun 28, 2007 by learning
	Todays a good day (Preview) After three weeks of sweating out a very thorough background check. They called today and said I start monday. As checkered as my past prior to 95 is I never thought I'd make it past that part. Funny thing is that last night I told my wife that I was done worrying about this thing. The worry and relivin...	TimW	6	340	Jun 28, 2007 by learning
	I'm powerless over LIFE and my life has become unmanageable (Preview) Yes, this is going to be a long ramble, you don't have to read it, but I about feel like I'm losing it right now and I gotta get all this out. I'm a total mess right now, and it's my own fault. I don't know, I've been a basketcase for the last few days. I really don't know what's going on. But you know, all throu...	LisaF	7	2622	Jun 28, 2007 by learning
	An Inner Choice (Preview) Peace Often we look at the outside world and find it in a state of seeming chaos or disorder. We feel compelled to transform the situation from one of turmoil into one of peace, yet we are often disappointed in our best attempts to do so. One reason for this is that we cannot bring to the world what we do not h...	Wren	4	403	Jun 28, 2007 by Wren
	OK Wren....Go Bake The Cake!! :) (Preview) One of the most painful things we have to do in our lives is Letting Go. Sometimes it is Letting Go of things...material things which mean a lot to us, even if only sentimental value. It may mean Letting Go of feelings. When we hold sadness inside, and try to mask it with only a show of happiness, it is bette...	Phil	2	677	Jun 28, 2007 by Phil
	The Boundaries of Experience (Preview) Expanding Your Comfort Zone None of us are born with a guidebook that provides explicit rules for thought and behavior that will enable us to navigate life successfully. To cope with the myriad of complexities to which all of humanity is subject, we each develop a set of habits and routines that groun...	Wren	1	352	Jun 28, 2007 by Doll
	Daily Reflections June 28 (Preview) THE DETERMINATION OF OUR FOUNDERS A year and six months later these three had succeeded with seven more. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 159 If it had not been for the fierce determination of our founders, A.A. would have quickly faded like so many other so-called good causes. I look at the hundreds of meeti...	Doll	0	266	Jun 28, 2007 by Doll
	When Things Don't Work (Preview) Frequently, when faced with a problem, we may attempt to solve it in a particular way. When that way doesn't work, we may continue trying to solve the problem in that same way. We may get frustrated, try harder, get more frustrated, and then exert more energy and influence into forcing the same solutio...	Quetzal	0	347	Jun 28, 2007 by Quetzal
	Achieving Harmony (Preview) When a pianist learns a new piece of music, he or she does not sit down and instantly play it perfectly. A pianist often needs to practice each hand's work separately to learn the feel, to learn the sound. One hand picks out a part until there is a rhythm and ease in playing what is difficult. Then, the musi...	Quetzal	2	366	Jun 27, 2007 by timverton
	My "grandbabies" (kittens) lol (Preview) [img]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v17/LiaBunny/Sissys%20Kittens%20June%202...	LisaF	2	397	Jun 27, 2007 by destinydreamer
	Hm, this is weird... (Preview) For some reason I'm finding myself highly, um...ahem...aroused since I quit drinking. I dont know what to make of it? I dont know if it's normal or what but I'm like a walking sun dial. It's sort of distracting Anyone else experience this when they stopped drinking? Phil?	Tipsy McStagger	7	454	Jun 27, 2007 by jeannie
	Jun 27 Daily Reflections (Preview) CONFORMING TO THE A.A. WAY We obey A.A.'s Steps and Traditions because we really want them for ourselves. It is no longer a question of good or evil; we conform because we genuinely want to conform. Such is our process of growth in unity and function. Such is the evidence of God's grace and love among us....	Doll	0	307	Jun 27, 2007 by Doll
	Life get's better (Preview) As I had posted earlier, I was upset about a job that i was trying to get, but I didnt drink over it. Instead, I prayed and asked God if it was his will to let me get it. Well, today I found out I wasnt going to get it. At first I was upset, then I remembered what I had asked God. As we all know, he always gives us a ans...	ron70062	5	347	Jun 27, 2007 by Quetzal
	Hello new here (Preview) Just found this site today while looking for something up lifting. I haven't drank since 6/95. I'm being considered for a very good job but probably won't survive the back groundcheck due to all the stupid things I did while still drinking. I have found people to be not very forgiving. Oh don't get me w...	TimW	11	490	Jun 26, 2007 by miller2
	oh crap! (Preview) well, the 4 year relationship i was in thats been over about a year had ended badly with him refusing to speak to me any more as it continually went to conflict. (same old story, i wanted more) we were stuck in a pattern that suited him to a "t" but didnt do much for me. usually i end up on much more c...	cindy	7	427	Jun 26, 2007 by learning
	Whew!! Lot to catch up on here..:) (Preview) My thoughts re....a couple of posts from below.... I believe that a lot of times...we can take things out of context...when posts or replys to posts are read...and we can take them as insulting, or personally...beyond...what they are really meant to be... I believe that any replys that someone get...	Phil	9	634	Jun 26, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Surviving Slumps (Preview) A slump can go on for days. We feel sluggish, unfocused, and sometimes overwhelmed with feelings we can't sort out. We may not understand what is going on with us. Even our attempts to practice recovery behaviors may not appear to work. We still don't feel emotionally, mentally, and spiritually as go...	Quetzal	2	412	Jun 26, 2007 by TimW
	Struggling... (Preview) I'm having a really difficult time right now...cant seem to keep the "just for today" philosophy in my mind. I keep thinking about things in terms of "never", "forever" and "the rest of my life"...I don't think I have what it takes to do anything for the re...	Tipsy McStagger	9	490	Jun 26, 2007 by Tipsy McStagger
	Just my thought (Preview) If we choose to follow in the footsteps of fools, we will also have to suffer the consequences. When we walk along blindly, we are in danger of falling into sin. We must watch our steps and turn from that which is evil. It is our obligation to flee from sin and evil. If we keep company with fools we will...	jeannie	0	285	Jun 26, 2007 by jeannie
	Accepting Reality (Preview) ...self-contempt never inspires lasting change. -- Jane R. Hirschmann and Carol H. Munter I can suck myself down into a deep, black hole when I focus on what I think I SHOULD be more loving, sexy, productive, whatever. Thinking I should be something else means Im not good enough now. This is poverty th...	Wren	1	589	Jun 26, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections June 26 (Preview) A GIFT THAT GROWS WITH TIME For most normal folks, drinking means conviviality, companionship and colorful imagination. It means release from care, boredom and worry. It is joyous intimacy with friends and a feeling that life is good. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 151 The longer I chased these elusive...	Doll	0	286	Jun 26, 2007 by Doll
	Burdensome Feelings (Preview) Blaming Others As we begin to truly understand that the world outside of us is a reflection of the world inside of us, we may feel confused about who is to blame for the problems in our lives. If we had a difficult childhood, we may wonder how we can take responsibility for that, and in our current relat...	Wren	3	489	Jun 25, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Just checkin in... (Preview) Hey y'all, just checkin in... haven't posted here in awhile... pretty hot here today, but the house is staying cool enough at least... and it's not so bad in the shade outside... Been busy doing major clean up around here all week... I've been working on the house mostly and a bit here and there outside...	LisaF	7	331	Jun 25, 2007 by Phil
	I'm not dead yet (Preview) Hi. Just checking in. Anybody have any words of wisdom or encouragement for me to publicly mock but secretly appreciate?	Tipsy McStagger	4	467	Jun 25, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Chat room (Preview) When is the best time to be involved in the AA chat room. I live in the UK. I've never used a chat room before and would like to give it a go, but so far have found it empty ???? Welshgit	welshgit77	3	354	Jun 25, 2007 by Zster
	Daily Reflections June 25 (Preview) A TWO-WAY STREET If we ask, God will certainly forgive our derelictions. But in no case does He render us white as snow and keep us that way without our cooperation. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 65 When I prayed, I used to omit a lot of things for which I needed to be forgiven. I thought that if I di...	Doll	0	347	Jun 25, 2007 by Doll
	Withholding (Preview) Sometimes, to protect ourselves, we close ourselves off from a person we're in a relationship with. Our body may be present, but we're not. We're not available to participate in the relationship. We shut down. Sometimes, it is appropriate and healthy to shut down in a relationship. We may legitimat...	Quetzal	0	299	Jun 25, 2007 by Quetzal
	Just sayin "Hi" (Preview) Checkin in...and just saying hi.... Dts from computer meltdown are a bitch!! :) No addiction here!! jee sus!! New system and comming back online in a few days... Different email address also... Stay sober....stay sane.... Keep on truckin!! and Watch out for Turnip trucks!! Onward!!!	Phil	3	417	Jun 24, 2007 by cooncatbob
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