Alcoholics Anonymous

Quetzal · Quetzal

Nobody can change my thoughts but me. The first of the Twelve Steps asks us to admit we are powerless. Our first question might be, why? Shouldn't we try to change the conditions in our lives? Shouldn't we try to influence others to change too? If we put ourselves in good hands in this fellowship, we will...

Doll · Doll

CHARACTER BUILDING Demands made upon other people for too much attention, protection, and love can only invite domination or revulsion.... TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 44 When I uncovered my need for approval in the Fourth Step, I didn't think it should rank as a character defect. I wante...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Thought for the Day ~ Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start towards becoming more loving towards my family and friends? Do I visit my parents? Am I more appreciative of my spouse than I was before? Am I grateful to my family for having put up with me? Have I found real understanding with my children? D...

destinydreamer · destinydreamer

So I met a nice woman about a week and a half ago and we talked for awhile after the meeting... she answered some questions I had and gave me her number. She mentioned that she would be a temporary sponsor for me - but that was it. I didn't respond to that comment and we just kept talking. I know that you can cal...

Tina · Tina

I know it's been a few days since my last post, just lettin the process sink in and letting things go and puttin my son in god's hands. He is adjustin well, to the livin in toronto and kept in contact with him. He has made some progress and improvements and I'm glad that there is a chance of him becoming a bet...

Wren · Wren

"The first and worst of all frauds is to cheat one's self." -- Phillip James Bailey Are you hiding in some way from your own inner light? I wouldnt dream of stealing things but I do steal from my own potential. I can be a master at rationalizing, at justifying why its not the right time to do so...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Experiment. Try something new. Try stepping out. We have been held back too long. We have held ourselves back too long. As children, many of us were deprived of the right to experiment. Many of us are depriving ourselves of the right to experiment and learn as adults. Now is the time to experiment. It is...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Forgiveness is all-powerful. Forgiveness heals all ills. -- Catherine Ponder Getting mad at someone, a friend perhaps, is normal. Everybody gets mad sometimes. But when we stay mad for very long, it ruins all the fun we'd planned on having throughout the day. Staying mad multiplies. Sometimes it s...

LisaF · LisaF

Hey everyone... well... seeing a new doctor on Tuesday, thankfully it's a lot closer than driving into Lincoln... still in quite a bit of pain... at times my back seems to be a little better, then it gets worse again. And it's always worse at night, sharp pains and twinges. Been taking the Aleve as presc...

Doll · Doll

For my ex husband.......I had such hi hopes that court appointed AA would somehow get into his head. Instead, he spent his time there sharing about OUR DRINKING DAYS TOGETHER and all the fun we had (what he didn't mention was how MOST of those days turned into knock down drag out fights) - I had to stop g...

Bryan39 · Bryan39

Is it common to lose most of ones old friends. One friend clearly doesn't get why I'm doing this he was heavy drinker and he was able to walk away from it, I lied even to my former and current drinking budies about the extent of my drinking and he believes my lies over the truth even now . another friend w...

Bryan39 · Bryan39

There is some great info here I found some a little while ago I that I didn't even know I needed. I was craving something I was very antsy, I couldn't decide if it was a liquor craving or even a cigarette craving ( I quit those a couple months ago) or what. Its a rainy saturday where I'm at so I was reading pos...

Phil · Phil

by Kali Munro, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, 2001(originally published at BodyTalk Magazine.com, Aug. 2001) Do you have trouble saying NO? Do you do things for other people but almost never ask anybody to do things for you? You may be a people pleaser. People pleasers think of other peoples needs before...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I don't always get to know why. I may find myself caught up in wondering why something happened while asking myself, "What did I do wrong?" or "Why did this happen to me?" If the situation is something I can change, I can plan how to change it. I can look at my options or ask someone el...

ally02 · ally02

((((((((((((Guys)))))))))))))))))) I have a question for you. been to an AA meeting the last two weeks. It is NOT a closed meeting. And I have been welcomed by every member I have spoken to. Given hugs and shaking hands. This has been good for my recovery. Listening to the shares has helped me to unders...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable. --Step One of Alcoholics Anonymous Accepting powerlessness is a prerequisite of recovery. As adult children, the very idea may seem puzzling or even laughable. Haven't we felt powerless all along? Shouldn&...

Doll · Doll

NO ONE DENIED ME LOVE On the A.A. calendar it was Year Two . . . . A newcomer appeared at one of these groups . . . . He soon proved that his was a desperate case, and that above all he wanted to get well. . . . [He said], "Since I am the victim of another addiction even worse stigmatized than alcoholism, you...

Bryan39 · Bryan39

This is day 6 of sobriety for me . I've been to a meeting every day since monday and I already feel my life changing I have hope again and I love it. I like message boards I knew there had to be some like this and I'm glad to have found it

Tina · Tina

Put up a few posts in regards to my situation with my son, and well he seems to be adjusting well and gettin on his feet. Just one thing that concerns me a little bit, Yes he has lost considerably amount of weight and well didn't look to good when he left. Spoke to him tonite and he seem a little excited...

Doll · Doll

OUR GROUP CONSCIENCE ". . . sometimes the good is the enemy of the best." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS COMES OF AGE, p. 101 I think these words apply to every area of A.A.'s Three Legacies: Recovery, Unity and Service! I want them etched in my mind and life as I "trudge the Road of Happy Destiny&...

Moon · Moon

So I'm very interested in "hearing" your replys. When or do you tell people you're an alcoholic even if it's a recovering or non-drinking alcoholic. When I get offered a drink at a social function and I say "NO". People look at me weird. I mean it would be much easier to take a...

TLH · TLH

Hi there! Been busy working, writing, etc... But just wanted to pop in and share something. Things are good, totally cool with being the sober guy. Eating a lot of cookies and milk, reading a ton. Going to meetings, etc... Haven't got a sponsor yet because I'm being my usual remedial self, but...

abcd · abcd

I haven't completely quit yet, but cut down drastically since last week and my blood pressure has gone up. Is this common should I be worried?

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Thought for the Day ~ Before I met A.A., I was very dishonest. I lied to my spouse constantly about where I had been and what I'd been doing. I took time off from my work and pretended I'd been sick or gave some other dishonest excuse. I was dishonest with myself, as well as with other people. I would never fa...

Moon · Moon

OK, so I have come to realize that I make promises that I don't follow through with. It could be something very simple. It seems like when my husband ask's me to do something, I automatically say "yes" because I feel scared of letting him down. Like "no" is not an option, well the...

Quetzal · Quetzal

You grow up the first day you have the first real laugh - at yourself. -- Ethel Barrymore Infants chuckle and gurgle and find the world amusing, but apparently they rarely laugh at themselves. Perhaps that's because they're still very much the lord and master of their world. Even when they see themsel...

Doll · Doll

TRUSTED SERVANTS They are servants. Theirs is the sometimes thankless privilege of doing the group's chores. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 134 In Zorba the Greek, Nikos Kazantzakis describes an encounter between his principle character and an old man busily at work planting a tree. &quo...

timverton · timverton

Welcome to a fantastic site for aiding in recovery from addiction to alcohol. I saw your first post on the "New Here" thread below and thought I would bring it out in the open. Hope you don't mind. You sound as though you have a good amount of conviction to get sober and "be in control&quo...

Wren · Wren

Within each of there is a well of energy that must be regularly replenished. When we act as if this well is bottomless, scheduling a long list of activities that fit like puzzle pieces into every minute of every day, it becomes depleted and we feel exhausted, disconnected, and weak. Refilling this wel...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Awaken to the ordinary beauty... Our lives are filled with demands, responsibilities, expectations, places to go, people to see, things to do. We may get so caught up in the next task that we miss the golden moment happening right now. No matter where we are or what we are doing, if we stop to breathe slo...

CAM · CAM

Six months ago, i put down the drink. I'm at the half-year mark now - amazing trip! There's been a few rough turns along this roadway but i'm still here & actually enjoying my journey! The best is yet to come! christine

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Thought for the Day ~ When you come into an A.A. meeting you're coming into a new life. I'm always impressed by the change I see in people after they've been in A.A. for awhile. I sometimes take an inventory of myself, to see whether or not I have changed, and if so, in what way. Before I met A.A., I was very se...

Doll · Doll

EQUALITY Our membership ought to include all who suffer from alcoholism. Hence we may refuse none who wish to recover. Nor ought A.A. membership ever depend upon money or conformity. Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as a gr...

Moon · Moon

Hi All, Figured I'd check in. I have eight years sober and zero years in AA

I've been working an Al-anon program for the last two years and in the process of doing inventories and such, realized that I am an alcoholic. Crazy, I thought I could just stop drinking and life would be great...

ally02 · ally02

((((((((((((((((((GUYS))))))))))))))) Hope your all doing well in your recovery..... I'm looking for some insight as to why and how a recovering A, stops attending meetings. My friend is in recovery about six years. We had a bit of relationship trouble. I hit my rock bottom because of this......

Phil · Phil

The fact is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so-called willpower becomes practically non-existent. We are unable, at certain times, to bring into our consciousness with sufficient force the memory of the suffering and humiliation of even a...

Doll · Doll

A.A.'s FREEDOMS We trust that we already know what our several freedoms truly are; that no future generation of AAs will ever feel compelled to limit them. Our AA freedoms create the soil in which genuine love can grow. . . . LANGUAGE OF THE HEART, p. 303 I craved freedom. First, freedom to drink; la...

Quetzal · Quetzal

How could I do it? How could I say it? Even though I meant it, I still feel ashamed, guilty, and afraid. This is common reaction to new, exciting recovery behaviors. Anything to do with owning our power and taking care of ourselves can trigger feelings of shame, guilt, and fear. We do not have to allow the...

abcd · abcd

I read that it's possible to die from quitting alcohol, is this correct? For about 2-3 years I've gone through a 1.75 liter of vodka every 2-3 days. It lasts me the entire time I'm awake from morning to when I sleep. This isn't the amount that you could die from if you quit is it? Do I drin...

Sharon · Sharon

Hi Everyone, I'm new to all of this diease stuff. I broke up with my guy about 3 months ago. I really hurting and feeling the loss. Someone that is a recovering addict told me today that my x alcoholic in walking around numb and is not feeling any pain. He drinks straight whisky everyday. I'm tol...

TLH · TLH

It wasn't really the membership drive I thought it would be. ;)

Quetzal · Quetzal

There is a proper balance between not asking enough of oneself and asking or expecting too much. -- May Sarton The boy's mother baked pies that morning before he was up. She left them on the back porch to cool, their warm aroma curling up through his bedroom window. His mouth was full of the smell whe...

Laura II · Laura II

Hi, Laura here--please excuse the "Laura II" alias . . . I'm on a trip and don't recall my password for my Laura ID. Anyway, I just wanted to share I had a great chat with my brother tonight. The conversation afforded an opportunity for me to apologize for something I've felt gui...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Thought for the Day ~ Strength comes also from working with other alcoholics. When you are trying to help a new prospect with the program, you are building up your own strength at the same time. You see the other person in the condition you might be in yourself and it makes your resolve to stay sober stron...

Doll · Doll

THE TEACHING IS NEVER OVER Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Roa...

Robert · Robert

Man I just jumped on my Ducati and zoomed down the road as I was running late, Id gone half way and realised I have not got a helmit on, thing is I dont exactly go slow on that thing lucky no porkys seen me!! man Id forget my head if I didnt have it screwed on. G http://www2.ibike.com.hk/bikeinformation/sp...

John · John

~*~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~*~ ^*^*^*^*^ (\ ~~~ /) ( \(AA)/ ) (_ /AA\ _) /AA\ ^*^*^*^*^ "There are those in AA whom we call 'destructive' critics. They power-drive, they are 'politickers,' they make accusations to gain their ends-- all for the good of AA, of course...

Phil · Phil

(Hurt - Bitterness - Injustice - Abused Pain) We feel emotional pain when we do not get what we want, need, or expect. We might feel hurt, rejection, bitterness, abuse, injustice or simply emotional pain. In such cases, we have not received the behavior or outcomes we expected...

Quetzal · Quetzal

It's healthy, wise, and loving to be considerate and responsive to the feelings and needs of others. That's different from caretaking. Caretaking is a self-defeating and, certainly, a relationship defeating behavior - a behavior that backfires and can cause us to feel resentful and vic...

Fireman · Fireman

I've been drinking heavily for sixteen years. About a fifth of JD a day. I've managed to become pretty successful, and didn't want to jeopardize my job/house/relationship, so I went to my doctor on Tuesday. What a joke. My HMO doesn't cover any in-patient program and only offers a s...

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	Thoughts (Preview) Nobody can change my thoughts but me. The first of the Twelve Steps asks us to admit we are powerless. Our first question might be, why? Shouldn't we try to change the conditions in our lives? Shouldn't we try to influence others to change too? If we put ourselves in good hands in this fellowship, we will...	Quetzal	0	292	Apr 3, 2007 by Quetzal
	Daily Reflections Apr 2 (Preview) CHARACTER BUILDING Demands made upon other people for too much attention, protection, and love can only invite domination or revulsion.... TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 44 When I uncovered my need for approval in the Fourth Step, I didn't think it should rank as a character defect. I wante...	Doll	1	294	Apr 2, 2007 by Phil
	24 Hours a Day ~ 2nd April 2007 (Preview) Thought for the Day ~ Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start towards becoming more loving towards my family and friends? Do I visit my parents? Am I more appreciative of my spouse than I was before? Am I grateful to my family for having put up with me? Have I found real understanding with my children? D...	Sobrietyspell	0	822	Apr 2, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	sponsor (Preview) So I met a nice woman about a week and a half ago and we talked for awhile after the meeting... she answered some questions I had and gave me her number. She mentioned that she would be a temporary sponsor for me - but that was it. I didn't respond to that comment and we just kept talking. I know that you can cal...	destinydreamer	7	399	Apr 2, 2007 by psychoktty
	Mornin just checking in (Preview) I know it's been a few days since my last post, just lettin the process sink in and letting things go and puttin my son in god's hands. He is adjustin well, to the livin in toronto and kept in contact with him. He has made some progress and improvements and I'm glad that there is a chance of him becoming a bet...	Tina	1	332	Apr 2, 2007 by Quetzal
	Self-Deception (Preview) "The first and worst of all frauds is to cheat one's self." -- Phillip James Bailey Are you hiding in some way from your own inner light? I wouldnt dream of stealing things but I do steal from my own potential. I can be a master at rationalizing, at justifying why its not the right time to do so...	Wren	1	463	Apr 2, 2007 by Quetzal
	Experiment (Preview) Experiment. Try something new. Try stepping out. We have been held back too long. We have held ourselves back too long. As children, many of us were deprived of the right to experiment. Many of us are depriving ourselves of the right to experiment and learn as adults. Now is the time to experiment. It is...	Quetzal	3	316	Apr 1, 2007 by Moon
	Forgiveness (Preview) Forgiveness is all-powerful. Forgiveness heals all ills. -- Catherine Ponder Getting mad at someone, a friend perhaps, is normal. Everybody gets mad sometimes. But when we stay mad for very long, it ruins all the fun we'd planned on having throughout the day. Staying mad multiplies. Sometimes it s...	Quetzal	1	323	Apr 1, 2007 by Moon
	hey y'all... (Preview) Hey everyone... well... seeing a new doctor on Tuesday, thankfully it's a lot closer than driving into Lincoln... still in quite a bit of pain... at times my back seems to be a little better, then it gets worse again. And it's always worse at night, sharp pains and twinges. Been taking the Aleve as presc...	LisaF	3	293	Apr 1, 2007 by LisaF
	Prayers Please...... (Preview) For my ex husband.......I had such hi hopes that court appointed AA would somehow get into his head. Instead, he spent his time there sharing about OUR DRINKING DAYS TOGETHER and all the fun we had (what he didn't mention was how MOST of those days turned into knock down drag out fights) - I had to stop g...	Doll	4	347	Apr 1, 2007 by Phil
	friendships (Preview) Is it common to lose most of ones old friends. One friend clearly doesn't get why I'm doing this he was heavy drinker and he was able to walk away from it, I lied even to my former and current drinking budies about the extent of my drinking and he believes my lies over the truth even now . another friend w...	Bryan39	10	487	Apr 1, 2007 by Bryan39
	Great Advice (Preview) There is some great info here I found some a little while ago I that I didn't even know I needed. I was craving something I was very antsy, I couldn't decide if it was a liquor craving or even a cigarette craving ( I quit those a couple months ago) or what. Its a rainy saturday where I'm at so I was reading pos...	Bryan39	5	369	Apr 1, 2007 by Wren
	People Pleasing..Having Trouble Saying No? (Preview) by Kali Munro, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, 2001(originally published at BodyTalk Magazine.com, Aug. 2001) Do you have trouble saying NO? Do you do things for other people but almost never ask anybody to do things for you? You may be a people pleaser. People pleasers think of other peoples needs before...	Phil	3	858	Mar 31, 2007 by LisaF
	I don't always get to know why (Preview) I don't always get to know why. I may find myself caught up in wondering why something happened while asking myself, "What did I do wrong?" or "Why did this happen to me?" If the situation is something I can change, I can plan how to change it. I can look at my options or ask someone el...	Quetzal	3	316	Mar 31, 2007 by Moon
	GOT A QUESTION (Preview) ((((((((((((Guys)))))))))))))))))) I have a question for you. been to an AA meeting the last two weeks. It is NOT a closed meeting. And I have been welcomed by every member I have spoken to. Given hugs and shaking hands. This has been good for my recovery. Listening to the shares has helped me to unders...	ally02	6	354	Mar 31, 2007 by ally02
	Accepting Powerlessness (Preview) We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable. --Step One of Alcoholics Anonymous Accepting powerlessness is a prerequisite of recovery. As adult children, the very idea may seem puzzling or even laughable. Haven't we felt powerless all along? Shouldn&...	Quetzal	3	3107	Mar 31, 2007 by Bryan39
	Daily Reflections Mar 31 (Preview) NO ONE DENIED ME LOVE On the A.A. calendar it was Year Two . . . . A newcomer appeared at one of these groups . . . . He soon proved that his was a desperate case, and that above all he wanted to get well. . . . [He said], "Since I am the victim of another addiction even worse stigmatized than alcoholism, you...	Doll	0	252	Mar 31, 2007 by Doll
	Day 6 (Preview) This is day 6 of sobriety for me . I've been to a meeting every day since monday and I already feel my life changing I have hope again and I love it. I like message boards I knew there had to be some like this and I'm glad to have found it	Bryan39	8	337	Mar 31, 2007 by TLH
	Inquirin minds (Preview) Put up a few posts in regards to my situation with my son, and well he seems to be adjusting well and gettin on his feet. Just one thing that concerns me a little bit, Yes he has lost considerably amount of weight and well didn't look to good when he left. Spoke to him tonite and he seem a little excited...	Tina	6	383	Mar 30, 2007 by jeannie
	Daily Reflections Mar 30 (Preview) OUR GROUP CONSCIENCE ". . . sometimes the good is the enemy of the best." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS COMES OF AGE, p. 101 I think these words apply to every area of A.A.'s Three Legacies: Recovery, Unity and Service! I want them etched in my mind and life as I "trudge the Road of Happy Destiny&...	Doll	0	310	Mar 30, 2007 by Doll
	Telling people (Preview) So I'm very interested in "hearing" your replys. When or do you tell people you're an alcoholic even if it's a recovering or non-drinking alcoholic. When I get offered a drink at a social function and I say "NO". People look at me weird. I mean it would be much easier to take a...	Moon	9	1969	Mar 30, 2007 by LisaF
	Rambling.... (Preview) Hi there! Been busy working, writing, etc... But just wanted to pop in and share something. Things are good, totally cool with being the sober guy. Eating a lot of cookies and milk, reading a ton. Going to meetings, etc... Haven't got a sponsor yet because I'm being my usual remedial self, but...	TLH	4	332	Mar 30, 2007 by Moon
	high blood pressure? after quitting? (Preview) I haven't completely quit yet, but cut down drastically since last week and my blood pressure has gone up. Is this common should I be worried?	abcd	9	3522	Mar 29, 2007 by cooncatbob
	24 Hours a Day ~ 29th March 2007 (Preview) Thought for the Day ~ Before I met A.A., I was very dishonest. I lied to my spouse constantly about where I had been and what I'd been doing. I took time off from my work and pretended I'd been sick or gave some other dishonest excuse. I was dishonest with myself, as well as with other people. I would never fa...	Sobrietyspell	0	319	Mar 29, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Broken Promises (Preview) OK, so I have come to realize that I make promises that I don't follow through with. It could be something very simple. It seems like when my husband ask's me to do something, I automatically say "yes" because I feel scared of letting him down. Like "no" is not an option, well the...	Moon	6	376	Mar 29, 2007 by Moon
	The Freedom Of A Sense Of Humor (Preview) You grow up the first day you have the first real laugh - at yourself. -- Ethel Barrymore Infants chuckle and gurgle and find the world amusing, but apparently they rarely laugh at themselves. Perhaps that's because they're still very much the lord and master of their world. Even when they see themsel...	Quetzal	5	628	Mar 29, 2007 by Phil
	Daily Reflections Mar 29 (Preview) TRUSTED SERVANTS They are servants. Theirs is the sometimes thankless privilege of doing the group's chores. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 134 In Zorba the Greek, Nikos Kazantzakis describes an encounter between his principle character and an old man busily at work planting a tree. &quo...	Doll	0	342	Mar 29, 2007 by Doll
	To Milo (Preview) Welcome to a fantastic site for aiding in recovery from addiction to alcohol. I saw your first post on the "New Here" thread below and thought I would bring it out in the open. Hope you don't mind. You sound as though you have a good amount of conviction to get sober and "be in control&quo...	timverton	5	408	Mar 28, 2007 by Moon
	Finding Time for You (Preview) Within each of there is a well of energy that must be regularly replenished. When we act as if this well is bottomless, scheduling a long list of activities that fit like puzzle pieces into every minute of every day, it becomes depleted and we feel exhausted, disconnected, and weak. Refilling this wel...	Wren	2	404	Mar 28, 2007 by Quetzal
	Ordinary Moments (Preview) Awaken to the ordinary beauty... Our lives are filled with demands, responsibilities, expectations, places to go, people to see, things to do. We may get so caught up in the next task that we miss the golden moment happening right now. No matter where we are or what we are doing, if we stop to breathe slo...	Quetzal	1	321	Mar 28, 2007 by timverton
	Six months today (Preview) Six months ago, i put down the drink. I'm at the half-year mark now - amazing trip! There's been a few rough turns along this roadway but i'm still here & actually enjoying my journey! The best is yet to come! christine	CAM	9	398	Mar 28, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hours a Day ~ 28th March 2007 (Preview) Thought for the Day ~ When you come into an A.A. meeting you're coming into a new life. I'm always impressed by the change I see in people after they've been in A.A. for awhile. I sometimes take an inventory of myself, to see whether or not I have changed, and if so, in what way. Before I met A.A., I was very se...	Sobrietyspell	0	488	Mar 28, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections Mar 28 (Preview) EQUALITY Our membership ought to include all who suffer from alcoholism. Hence we may refuse none who wish to recover. Nor ought A.A. membership ever depend upon money or conformity. Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as a gr...	Doll	0	264	Mar 28, 2007 by Doll
	New here (Preview) Hi All, Figured I'd check in. I have eight years sober and zero years in AA I've been working an Al-anon program for the last two years and in the process of doing inventories and such, realized that I am an alcoholic. Crazy, I thought I could just stop drinking and life would be great...	Moon	9	403	Mar 28, 2007 by Wren
	LOOKING FOR SOME INSIGHT FROM YOU ALL (Preview) ((((((((((((((((((GUYS))))))))))))))) Hope your all doing well in your recovery..... I'm looking for some insight as to why and how a recovering A, stops attending meetings. My friend is in recovery about six years. We had a bit of relationship trouble. I hit my rock bottom because of this......	ally02	8	498	Mar 28, 2007 by mirey
	The Beginning (Preview) The fact is that most alcoholics, for reasons yet obscure, have lost the power of choice in drink. Our so-called willpower becomes practically non-existent. We are unable, at certain times, to bring into our consciousness with sufficient force the memory of the suffering and humiliation of even a...	Phil	0	298	Mar 27, 2007 by Phil
	Daily Reflections Mar 27 (Preview) A.A.'s FREEDOMS We trust that we already know what our several freedoms truly are; that no future generation of AAs will ever feel compelled to limit them. Our AA freedoms create the soil in which genuine love can grow. . . . LANGUAGE OF THE HEART, p. 303 I craved freedom. First, freedom to drink; la...	Doll	0	321	Mar 27, 2007 by Doll
	After-Burn (Preview) How could I do it? How could I say it? Even though I meant it, I still feel ashamed, guilty, and afraid. This is common reaction to new, exciting recovery behaviors. Anything to do with owning our power and taking care of ourselves can trigger feelings of shame, guilt, and fear. We do not have to allow the...	Quetzal	0	282	Mar 27, 2007 by Quetzal
	side effects from quitting alcohol? (Preview) I read that it's possible to die from quitting alcohol, is this correct? For about 2-3 years I've gone through a 1.75 liter of vodka every 2-3 days. It lasts me the entire time I'm awake from morning to when I sleep. This isn't the amount that you could die from if you quit is it? Do I drin...	abcd	11	11646	Mar 27, 2007 by abcd
	Break up (Preview) Hi Everyone, I'm new to all of this diease stuff. I broke up with my guy about 3 months ago. I really hurting and feeling the loss. Someone that is a recovering addict told me today that my x alcoholic in walking around numb and is not feeling any pain. He drinks straight whisky everyday. I'm tol...	Sharon	13	598	Mar 26, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Saint Patrick's Day. (Preview) It wasn't really the membership drive I thought it would be. ;)	TLH	3	412	Mar 26, 2007 by TLH
	Balance (Preview) There is a proper balance between not asking enough of oneself and asking or expecting too much. -- May Sarton The boy's mother baked pies that morning before he was up. She left them on the back porch to cool, their warm aroma curling up through his bedroom window. His mouth was full of the smell whe...	Quetzal	2	334	Mar 26, 2007 by paul
	Feeling pretty good :) (Preview) Hi, Laura here--please excuse the "Laura II" alias . . . I'm on a trip and don't recall my password for my Laura ID. Anyway, I just wanted to share I had a great chat with my brother tonight. The conversation afforded an opportunity for me to apologize for something I've felt gui...	Laura II	3	324	Mar 26, 2007 by paul
	24 Hours a Day ~ 26th March 2007 (Preview) Thought for the Day ~ Strength comes also from working with other alcoholics. When you are trying to help a new prospect with the program, you are building up your own strength at the same time. You see the other person in the condition you might be in yourself and it makes your resolve to stay sober stron...	Sobrietyspell	0	322	Mar 26, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections Mar 26 (Preview) THE TEACHING IS NEVER OVER Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of us as you trudge the Roa...	Doll	0	280	Mar 26, 2007 by Doll
	funny as heck (Preview) Man I just jumped on my Ducati and zoomed down the road as I was running late, Id gone half way and realised I have not got a helmit on, thing is I dont exactly go slow on that thing lucky no porkys seen me!! man Id forget my head if I didnt have it screwed on. G http://www2.ibike.com.hk/bikeinformation/sp...	Robert	2	339	Mar 26, 2007 by Wren
	Thoughts For The Day (Preview) *~~A.A. Thoughts For The Day~~* ^^^^^ (\ ~~~ /) ( \(AA)/ ) (_ /AA\ _) /AA\ ^^^^^ "There are those in AA whom we call 'destructive' critics. They power-drive, they are 'politickers,' they make accusations to gain their ends-- all for the good of AA, of course...	John	3	422	Mar 26, 2007 by Wren
	Dealing With Emotional Pain (Preview) (Hurt - Bitterness - Injustice - Abused Pain) We feel emotional pain when we do not get what we want, need, or expect. We might feel hurt, rejection, bitterness, abuse, injustice or simply emotional pain. In such cases, we have not received the behavior or outcomes we expected...	Phil	1	353	Mar 26, 2007 by Wren
	Taking Care of Ourselves (Preview) It's healthy, wise, and loving to be considerate and responsive to the feelings and needs of others. That's different from caretaking. Caretaking is a self-defeating and, certainly, a relationship defeating behavior - a behavior that backfires and can cause us to feel resentful and vic...	Quetzal	1	328	Mar 26, 2007 by Wren
	Day five... (Preview) I've been drinking heavily for sixteen years. About a fifth of JD a day. I've managed to become pretty successful, and didn't want to jeopardize my job/house/relationship, so I went to my doctor on Tuesday. What a joke. My HMO doesn't cover any in-patient program and only offers a s...	Fireman	9	415	Mar 26, 2007 by Wren
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