Alcoholics Anonymous

Phil · Phil

And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start towards becoming more loving to my family and friends? Do I visit my parents? Am I more appreciative of my spouse than I was before? Am I grateful to my family for having put up with me? Have I found real understanding with my children? Do...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. -- Step Four of Al-Anon By the time we get to the Fourth of the Twelve Steps, we are ready to face our darker side, the side that prevents us from loving others, from letting others love us, and from enjoying life and ourselves. The purpose of...

lani · lani

LOOKING WITHIN April 1, 2008 | Leave a Comment ÃÂ Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 42 Step Four is the vigorous and painstaking effort to discover what the liabilities in each of us have been, and are. I want to find exactly how, wh...

jonijoni · jonijoni

Thank you all for your recent help with my "Kick Myself in the Butt/Get over It" post. I found a great deal of help in writing out a Step 10, and I have made a good start in doing this regularly. I am also taking some time at night BEFORE I am dog-tired and passing out, to review the day and give stu...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Go easy. You may have to push forward, but you don't have to push so hard. Go in gentleness - go in peace. Do not be in so much of a hurry. At no day, no hour, no time are you required to do more than you can do in peace. Frantic behaviors and urgency are not the foundation for our new way of life. Do not be in...

lani · lani

jonijoni · jonijoni

My friend Crystal lost her infant son this week. She left the baby with his father to go to a meeting, and when she came home, he had shaken the baby and to make a long story short, the baby survived only about 2 weeks after the incident, due to fractures and brain damage. Some of you may have heard about thi...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start towards becoming more honest? Do I no longer have to lie to my husband or wife? Do I try to have meals on time, and do I try to earn what I make at work? Am I trying to be honest? Have I faced myself as I really am and have I admitted to myself that...

lani · lani

NO ONE DENIED ME LOVE March 31, 2008 On the A.A. calendar it was Year Two . . . . A newcomer appeared at one of these groups . . . . He soon proved that his was a desperate case, and that above all he wanted to get well. . . . [He said], Since I am the victim of another addiction even worse stigmatized than alco...

lani · lani

Well, its almost that time! April fools day....We have lots to celebrate on that day......Dont we danielle!!!!! Got a larger pic so you could see my A.F. day avatar!!!! Let the fun begin..... -- Edited by lani at 17:35, 2008-03-27

jc2008 · jc2008

Are you ready for this? I am not the only person in the world with pain and challenges, and there are many people worse off than I am. When I look at what I have, suddenly it's a lot harder to feel sorry for myself. The way I see it, I have several options today: 1) lie in bed, moan about my back, and miss out...

beachgirl · beachgirl

yesterday I heard a Peter Paul & Mary song (I've just dated myself, yes?) called "Its a Long Walk to Freedom." which reminded me of something I've been resisting- and being irritated by- which is that staying sober is work- who knew? I guess, after a year, I wanted to wake up and h...

lani · lani

Monday, March 31, 2008 You are reading from the book Twenty Four Hours a Day Hardcover (24 Hours) A.A. Thought for the Day Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start towards being more unselfish? Do I no longer want my own way in everything? When things go wrong and I can't have what I want, do I no lo...

lani · lani

Monday, March 31, 2008 You are reading from the book Touchstones Shared joy is double joy, and shared sorrow is half sorrow. --Swedish proverb As recovering men, we know relief and peace when we express our pain and share the burden of a sorrow with each other. Life is too difficult, a day is too l...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Taking financial responsibility for ourselves is part of recovery. Some of us may find ourselves in hard financial times for a variety of reasons. Our recovery concepts, including the Steps, work on money issues and restoring manageability to that area of our life. Make appropriate amends -- ev...

lani · lani

Sunday, March 30, 2008 You are reading from the book Twenty Four Hours a Day Hardcover (24 Hours) A.A. Thought for the Day Before I met A.A., I was very unloving. From the time I went away to school, I paid very little attention to my mother and father. I was on my own and didn't even bother to keep in t...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Experiment. Try something new. Try stepping out. We have been held back too long. We have held ourselves back too long. As children, many of us were deprived of the right to experiment. Many of us are depriving ourselves of the right to experiment and learn as adults. Now is the time to experimen...

Tuggboat · Tuggboat

Found this new guy playing the Bistros of New York City while I was researching some web designs. Kinda laid back, Jazz blues and this tune has some soul to it. http://www.lipbone.com/ Struggling throught he high f...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Picture yourself walking through a meadow. There is a path opening before you. As you walk, you feel hungry. Look to your left. There's a fruit tree in full ripe. Pick what you need. Steps later, you notice you're thirsty. On your right, there's a fresh water spring. When you are tired, a resting pl...

Doll · Doll

March 29, 2008 Daily Reflections TRUSTED SERVANTS They are servants. Theirs is the sometimes thankless privilege of doing the group's chores. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 134 In Zorba the Greek, Nikos Kazantzakis describes an encounter between his principle character and an old man bu...

beachgirl · beachgirl

I have trouble with the disease thing, even after a year. The act of taking a drink is my responsibility/choice- whatever may be driving it and even if it is a disease- oh, hell. I'm not like normal people and that fills me with shame

beachgirl · beachgirl

In therapy, being honest...finding it's not a matter of "triggers"- but "permission points"- There is always a narrative that goes with what started a relapse....why at any given moment I let it be an option is what I struggle with.

jonijoni · jonijoni

Didn't Sally Field write a book with that title or something?... Anyway, I am such a freegin' whiner. I just sat here and realized that although you would not hear a verbal complaint out of me to save my life, as it is just not my "outward personality style", I have a ton of INNER complaints at...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Seek balance. Balance emotions with reason. Combine detachment with doing our part. Balance giving with receiving. Alternate work with play, business with personal activities. Balance tending to our spiritual needs with tending to our other needs. Juggle responsibilities to ot...

jc2008 · jc2008

First: Anger. There is an individual I've been working with (opposing counsel) who is obstinate, combative, and generally uncivil about everything, even when it involves mundane issues. She makes everything difficult and unpleasant, and has wasted hours of my time with unnecessary hearing...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ When you come into an A.A. meeting, you're not just coming into a meeting, you're coming into a new life. I'm always impressed by the change I see in people after they've been in A.A. for a while. I sometimes take an inventory of myself, to see whether I have changed, and if so, in w...

Dublin · Dublin

I've looked online for all the meetings in the area and found alot. Now I need to make the time (away from kids and spouse) and get to a meeting.... What can I expect the first time???

lani · lani

EQUALITY March 28, 2008 Our membership ought to include all who suffer from alcoholism. Hence we may refuse none who wish to recover. Nor ought A.A. membership ever depend upon money or conformity. Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, pr...

LIT · LIT

Hi everyone, I'm not sure where I belong. I am the child of 2 alcoholics and the girlfriend of an alcoholic/addict. I've been attending f2f and online alanon meetings for a little while now. Problem is...I have an addiction, myself. But, so far, it has not manifested in drinking or drug abuse. Rat...

Tina · Tina

Hey all, Just thought I'd check in and let ya know that I'm still here. Been busy working 2 jobs and taking care of the homestead, my son had some good news today about school and also could be on his way to gettin a placement for work through a schalorship or appreticiship (no sure it that is right). My da...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ You get the power to overcome drinking through the fellowship of other alcoholics who have found the way out. You get power by honestly sharing your past experience by a personal witness. You get power by coming to believe in a Higher Power, the Divine Principle in the univers...

lani · lani

A.A.s FREEDOMS March 27, 2008 | We trust that we already know what our several freedoms truly are; that no future generation of AAs will ever feel compelled to limit them. Our AA freedoms create the soil in which genuine love can grow. . . . LANGUAGE OF THE HEART, p. 303 I craved freedom. First, f...

lani · lani

Faith For me, AA is a synthesis of all the philosophy I've ever read, all of the positive, good philosophy, all of it based on love. I have seen that there is only one law, the law of love, and there are only two sins; the first is to interfere with the growth of another person, and the second is to interfere w...

Nisha · Nisha

Today I woke up to reality- realization of the changes in my life already.I am now able to get up in time and report for office in a far more cheery mood than ever.Come to think of, the morning after alcohol grumpiness and guilt still haunt me.And nothing I would eat or drink could convince my body that I a...

Quetzal · Quetzal

How could I do it? How could I say it? Even though I meant it, I still feel ashamed, guilty, and afraid. This is common reaction to new, exciting recovery behaviors. Anything to do with owning our power and taking care of ourselves can trigger feelings of shame, guilt, and fear. We do not have to allo...

mstrmsn66 · mstrmsn66

Too many items to mention, as I am deeply ashamed of all of it. I had to lose it all, and hit rock bottom. And when I thought I had resurfaced after hitting rock bottom, God took me back down, to open my eyes. Here it is in short form. On Jan. 26 my wife left me. I came back home from an out of town trip, to find her...

Phil · Phil

Don't Quit Author Unknown When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, When the road your trudging seems all uphill, When the funds are low and the debts are high, And you want to smile, but you have to sigh, When care is pressing you down a bit Rest if you must, but don't you quit. Life is queer with its twi...

lani · lani

THE TEACHING IS NEVER OVER March 26, 2008 Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of u...

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

OMG!!! Imagine the most fabulous resort, in Jamaica, away from it all, awesome weather and activities, the best food, all brand name liquor. All of it free for the taking. Well this alcoholic just could not compete and after 3 months of amazing recovery....drank. If you have read any of my posts, you'...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Strength comes also from working with other alcoholics. When you are trying to help a new prospect with the program, you are building up your own strength at the same time. You see the other person in the condition you might be in yourself and it makes your resolve to stay sober s...

Lee P · Lee P

Hello Everyone.. I apologize if starting a new topic for what follows is not what I should have done. In time, I'll learn the ways of the forum, I hope.. I'm Lee and I'm new here, although i'm not new to the Fellowship. I just want to relate a quick story about gratitude and about how having an "att...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Children are gifts, if we accept them. -- Kathleen Turner Crilly Children are gifts. Our children, if we have children, are a gift to us. We, as children, were gifts to our parents. Sadly, many of us did not receive the message from our parents that we were gifts to them and to the Universe. Maybe our...

tennis · tennis

my son has 2 dwi"s and calls us to pick him up from bars or friends houses when he wants to come home. We do not want to do this but we are terrified of him getting another DWI AND GOING to jail or him getting into an accident/killing someone on the way home. What do you think we should do/

jc2008 · jc2008

I sweated, cried and prayed it out, and read all of your wonderful posts here. I had terrifying dreams, not about drinking, but about death, losing my job, getting shot, people falling out of windows. I always have vivid, violent dreams when I'm going through a hard time. This just came out of nowhere y...

jonijoni · jonijoni

i TELL YOU, I am in such a rotten mood this weekend. I am having a hard time adjusting to so many hours working during the week, the stress of the field itself, and then MORE endless WORK once the weekend comes. i slept 11 hours between Friday night and Saturday morning, and it STILL did not feel like enoug...

lani · lani

Tuesday, March 25, 2008 You are reading from the book Each Day a New Beginning When I slow down long enough to smell the roses, I usually see the beauty and all else that is ours to share. --Morgan Jennings We overlook so many joys, so many hidden treasures, when we hurry from place to place, person...

lani · lani

Tuesday, March 25, 2008 You are reading from the book Twenty Four Hours a Day Hardcover (24 Hours) A.A. Thought for the Day Strength comes from coming to believe in a Higher Power that can help you. You can't define this Higher Power, but you can see how it helps other alcoholics. You hear them tal...

lani · lani

A FULL AND THANKFUL HEART I try hard to hold fast to the truth that a full and thankful heart cannot entertain certain conceits. When brimming with gratitude, one's heartbeat must surely result in outgoing love, the finest emotion that we can ever know. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 37 I believe that we in Alcohol...

Quetzal · Quetzal

What if we knew for certain that everything we're worried about today will work out fine? What if . . . we had a guarantee that the problem bothering us would be worked out in the most perfect way, and at the best possible time? Furthermore, what if we knew that three years from now we'd be grateful for th...

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	Page 449 (Preview) And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be...	Phil	2	4263	Apr 2, 2008 by Sept_19_2002
	24Hrs a Day ~ 2nd April 08 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start towards becoming more loving to my family and friends? Do I visit my parents? Am I more appreciative of my spouse than I was before? Am I grateful to my family for having put up with me? Have I found real understanding with my children? Do...	Sobrietyspell	0	463	Apr 2, 2008 by Sobrietyspell
	Facing Our Darker Side (Preview) Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. -- Step Four of Al-Anon By the time we get to the Fourth of the Twelve Steps, we are ready to face our darker side, the side that prevents us from loving others, from letting others love us, and from enjoying life and ourselves. The purpose of...	Quetzal	0	495	Apr 2, 2008 by Quetzal
	Daily Reflections 4/1 (Preview) LOOKING WITHIN April 1, 2008 \| Leave a Comment ÃÂ Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 42 Step Four is the vigorous and painstaking effort to discover what the liabilities in each of us have been, and are. I want to find exactly how, wh...	lani	0	420	Apr 1, 2008 by lani
	Whaddup? (Preview) Thank you all for your recent help with my "Kick Myself in the Butt/Get over It" post. I found a great deal of help in writing out a Step 10, and I have made a good start in doing this regularly. I am also taking some time at night BEFORE I am dog-tired and passing out, to review the day and give stu...	jonijoni	1	485	Apr 1, 2008 by lani
	Going Easy (Preview) Go easy. You may have to push forward, but you don't have to push so hard. Go in gentleness - go in peace. Do not be in so much of a hurry. At no day, no hour, no time are you required to do more than you can do in peace. Frantic behaviors and urgency are not the foundation for our new way of life. Do not be in...	Quetzal	2	468	Apr 1, 2008 by lani
	HAPPY BIRTHDAY DANIELLE!!!!!! (Preview)	lani	6	605	Apr 1, 2008 by lani
	Need Prayers for a Friend. (Preview) My friend Crystal lost her infant son this week. She left the baby with his father to go to a meeting, and when she came home, he had shaken the baby and to make a long story short, the baby survived only about 2 weeks after the incident, due to fractures and brain damage. Some of you may have heard about thi...	jonijoni	6	446	Apr 1, 2008 by jonijoni
	24Hrs a Day ~ 1st April 08 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start towards becoming more honest? Do I no longer have to lie to my husband or wife? Do I try to have meals on time, and do I try to earn what I make at work? Am I trying to be honest? Have I faced myself as I really am and have I admitted to myself that...	Sobrietyspell	0	453	Apr 1, 2008 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections 3\31 (Preview) NO ONE DENIED ME LOVE March 31, 2008 On the A.A. calendar it was Year Two . . . . A newcomer appeared at one of these groups . . . . He soon proved that his was a desperate case, and that above all he wanted to get well. . . . [He said], Since I am the victim of another addiction even worse stigmatized than alco...	lani	0	406	Mar 31, 2008 by lani
	April Fools (Preview) Well, its almost that time! April fools day....We have lots to celebrate on that day......Dont we danielle!!!!! Got a larger pic so you could see my A.F. day avatar!!!! Let the fun begin..... -- Edited by lani at 17:35, 2008-03-27	lani	17	733	Mar 31, 2008 by Tuggboat
	BREAKING NEWS (Preview) Are you ready for this? I am not the only person in the world with pain and challenges, and there are many people worse off than I am. When I look at what I have, suddenly it's a lot harder to feel sorry for myself. The way I see it, I have several options today: 1) lie in bed, moan about my back, and miss out...	jc2008	8	683	Mar 31, 2008 by Sept_19_2002
	songs (Preview) yesterday I heard a Peter Paul & Mary song (I've just dated myself, yes?) called "Its a Long Walk to Freedom." which reminded me of something I've been resisting- and being irritated by- which is that staying sober is work- who knew? I guess, after a year, I wanted to wake up and h...	beachgirl	2	469	Mar 31, 2008 by Sept_19_2002
	24 hours a day-March 31 (Preview) Monday, March 31, 2008 You are reading from the book Twenty Four Hours a Day Hardcover (24 Hours) A.A. Thought for the Day Since I've been in A.A., have I made a start towards being more unselfish? Do I no longer want my own way in everything? When things go wrong and I can't have what I want, do I no lo...	lani	0	380	Mar 31, 2008 by lani
	24-too (Preview) Monday, March 31, 2008 You are reading from the book Touchstones Shared joy is double joy, and shared sorrow is half sorrow. --Swedish proverb As recovering men, we know relief and peace when we express our pain and share the burden of a sorrow with each other. Life is too difficult, a day is too l...	lani	0	379	Mar 31, 2008 by lani
	Finances (Preview) Taking financial responsibility for ourselves is part of recovery. Some of us may find ourselves in hard financial times for a variety of reasons. Our recovery concepts, including the Steps, work on money issues and restoring manageability to that area of our life. Make appropriate amends -- ev...	Quetzal	1	450	Mar 31, 2008 by lani
	24 hours a day-March 30 (Preview) Sunday, March 30, 2008 You are reading from the book Twenty Four Hours a Day Hardcover (24 Hours) A.A. Thought for the Day Before I met A.A., I was very unloving. From the time I went away to school, I paid very little attention to my mother and father. I was on my own and didn't even bother to keep in t...	lani	0	4698	Mar 30, 2008 by lani
	Experiment (Preview) Experiment. Try something new. Try stepping out. We have been held back too long. We have held ourselves back too long. As children, many of us were deprived of the right to experiment. Many of us are depriving ourselves of the right to experiment and learn as adults. Now is the time to experimen...	Quetzal	1	527	Mar 30, 2008 by lani
	Working on Gratitude (Preview) Found this new guy playing the Bistros of New York City while I was researching some web designs. Kinda laid back, Jazz blues and this tune has some soul to it. http://www.lipbone.com/ Struggling throught he high f...	Tuggboat	0	489	Mar 30, 2008 by Tuggboat
	Getting Needs Met (Preview) Picture yourself walking through a meadow. There is a path opening before you. As you walk, you feel hungry. Look to your left. There's a fruit tree in full ripe. Pick what you need. Steps later, you notice you're thirsty. On your right, there's a fresh water spring. When you are tired, a resting pl...	Quetzal	1	534	Mar 30, 2008 by StPeteDean
	Trusted Servants (Preview) March 29, 2008 Daily Reflections TRUSTED SERVANTS They are servants. Theirs is the sometimes thankless privilege of doing the group's chores. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 134 In Zorba the Greek, Nikos Kazantzakis describes an encounter between his principle character and an old man bu...	Doll	2	2673	Mar 29, 2008 by lani
	shame (Preview) I have trouble with the disease thing, even after a year. The act of taking a drink is my responsibility/choice- whatever may be driving it and even if it is a disease- oh, hell. I'm not like normal people and that fills me with shame	beachgirl	7	974	Mar 29, 2008 by StPeteDean
	sober for a year- faltering (Preview) In therapy, being honest...finding it's not a matter of "triggers"- but "permission points"- There is always a narrative that goes with what started a relapse....why at any given moment I let it be an option is what I struggle with.	beachgirl	12	970	Mar 29, 2008 by Tuggboat
	GET OVER IT!!!!! (Preview) Didn't Sally Field write a book with that title or something?... Anyway, I am such a freegin' whiner. I just sat here and realized that although you would not hear a verbal complaint out of me to save my life, as it is just not my "outward personality style", I have a ton of INNER complaints at...	jonijoni	4	589	Mar 29, 2008 by StPeteDean
	Balance (Preview) Seek balance. Balance emotions with reason. Combine detachment with doing our part. Balance giving with receiving. Alternate work with play, business with personal activities. Balance tending to our spiritual needs with tending to our other needs. Juggle responsibilities to ot...	Quetzal	5	553	Mar 28, 2008 by jonijoni
	2 things (long) (Preview) First: Anger. There is an individual I've been working with (opposing counsel) who is obstinate, combative, and generally uncivil about everything, even when it involves mundane issues. She makes everything difficult and unpleasant, and has wasted hours of my time with unnecessary hearing...	jc2008	7	570	Mar 28, 2008 by jonijoni
	24Hrs a Day ~ 28th March 08 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ When you come into an A.A. meeting, you're not just coming into a meeting, you're coming into a new life. I'm always impressed by the change I see in people after they've been in A.A. for a while. I sometimes take an inventory of myself, to see whether I have changed, and if so, in w...	Sobrietyspell	2	421	Mar 28, 2008 by lostmdboy
	Need to walk into a meeting for the first time... help? (Preview) I've looked online for all the meetings in the area and found alot. Now I need to make the time (away from kids and spouse) and get to a meeting.... What can I expect the first time???	Dublin	6	1099	Mar 28, 2008 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections 3\28 (Preview) EQUALITY March 28, 2008 Our membership ought to include all who suffer from alcoholism. Hence we may refuse none who wish to recover. Nor ought A.A. membership ever depend upon money or conformity. Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, pr...	lani	0	412	Mar 28, 2008 by lani
	OT - Trying to find where I belong.... (Preview) Hi everyone, I'm not sure where I belong. I am the child of 2 alcoholics and the girlfriend of an alcoholic/addict. I've been attending f2f and online alanon meetings for a little while now. Problem is...I have an addiction, myself. But, so far, it has not manifested in drinking or drug abuse. Rat...	LIT	7	620	Mar 27, 2008 by LIT
	Checkin in miss me yet (Preview) Hey all, Just thought I'd check in and let ya know that I'm still here. Been busy working 2 jobs and taking care of the homestead, my son had some good news today about school and also could be on his way to gettin a placement for work through a schalorship or appreticiship (no sure it that is right). My da...	Tina	5	559	Mar 27, 2008 by lani
	24Hrs a Day ~ 27th March 08 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ You get the power to overcome drinking through the fellowship of other alcoholics who have found the way out. You get power by honestly sharing your past experience by a personal witness. You get power by coming to believe in a Higher Power, the Divine Principle in the univers...	Sobrietyspell	0	446	Mar 27, 2008 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections 3\27 (Preview) A.A.s FREEDOMS March 27, 2008 \| We trust that we already know what our several freedoms truly are; that no future generation of AAs will ever feel compelled to limit them. Our AA freedoms create the soil in which genuine love can grow. . . . LANGUAGE OF THE HEART, p. 303 I craved freedom. First, f...	lani	1	457	Mar 27, 2008 by lani
	Faith (Preview) Faith For me, AA is a synthesis of all the philosophy I've ever read, all of the positive, good philosophy, all of it based on love. I have seen that there is only one law, the law of love, and there are only two sins; the first is to interfere with the growth of another person, and the second is to interfere w...	lani	0	425	Mar 27, 2008 by lani
	Waking Up (Preview) Today I woke up to reality- realization of the changes in my life already.I am now able to get up in time and report for office in a far more cheery mood than ever.Come to think of, the morning after alcohol grumpiness and guilt still haunt me.And nothing I would eat or drink could convince my body that I a...	Nisha	9	653	Mar 27, 2008 by lani
	After-Burn (Preview) How could I do it? How could I say it? Even though I meant it, I still feel ashamed, guilty, and afraid. This is common reaction to new, exciting recovery behaviors. Anything to do with owning our power and taking care of ourselves can trigger feelings of shame, guilt, and fear. We do not have to allo...	Quetzal	0	464	Mar 27, 2008 by Quetzal
	I am a new member, and here is my story...... (Preview) Too many items to mention, as I am deeply ashamed of all of it. I had to lose it all, and hit rock bottom. And when I thought I had resurfaced after hitting rock bottom, God took me back down, to open my eyes. Here it is in short form. On Jan. 26 my wife left me. I came back home from an out of town trip, to find her...	mstrmsn66	11	748	Mar 26, 2008 by Sobrietyspell
	When the goin gets tough? The tough get goin!! (Preview) Don't Quit Author Unknown When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, When the road your trudging seems all uphill, When the funds are low and the debts are high, And you want to smile, but you have to sigh, When care is pressing you down a bit Rest if you must, but don't you quit. Life is queer with its twi...	Phil	0	438	Mar 26, 2008 by Phil
	Daily Reflections 3\26 (Preview) THE TEACHING IS NEVER OVER March 26, 2008 Abandon yourself to God as you understand God. Admit your faults to Him and to your fellows. Clear away the wreckage of your past. Give freely of what you find and join us. We shall be with you in the Fellowship of the Spirit, and you will surely meet some of u...	lani	0	412	Mar 26, 2008 by lani
	All Inclusive!!!!! (Preview) OMG!!! Imagine the most fabulous resort, in Jamaica, away from it all, awesome weather and activities, the best food, all brand name liquor. All of it free for the taking. Well this alcoholic just could not compete and after 3 months of amazing recovery....drank. If you have read any of my posts, you'...	eastcoastscott	11	1194	Mar 26, 2008 by Phil
	24Hrs a Day ~ 26th March 08 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Strength comes also from working with other alcoholics. When you are trying to help a new prospect with the program, you are building up your own strength at the same time. You see the other person in the condition you might be in yourself and it makes your resolve to stay sober s...	Sobrietyspell	1	447	Mar 26, 2008 by lani
	Gratitude (Preview) Hello Everyone.. I apologize if starting a new topic for what follows is not what I should have done. In time, I'll learn the ways of the forum, I hope.. I'm Lee and I'm new here, although i'm not new to the Fellowship. I just want to relate a quick story about gratitude and about how having an "att...	Lee P	3	453	Mar 26, 2008 by Quetzal
	Gifts, Not Burdens (Preview) Children are gifts, if we accept them. -- Kathleen Turner Crilly Children are gifts. Our children, if we have children, are a gift to us. We, as children, were gifts to our parents. Sadly, many of us did not receive the message from our parents that we were gifts to them and to the Universe. Maybe our...	Quetzal	0	500	Mar 26, 2008 by Quetzal
	Alcohol Problems (Preview) my son has 2 dwi"s and calls us to pick him up from bars or friends houses when he wants to come home. We do not want to do this but we are terrified of him getting another DWI AND GOING to jail or him getting into an accident/killing someone on the way home. What do you think we should do/	tennis	3	609	Mar 25, 2008 by lani
	made it (Preview) I sweated, cried and prayed it out, and read all of your wonderful posts here. I had terrifying dreams, not about drinking, but about death, losing my job, getting shot, people falling out of windows. I always have vivid, violent dreams when I'm going through a hard time. This just came out of nowhere y...	jc2008	4	535	Mar 25, 2008 by Sept_19_2002
	BIG FAT CRABBY BUTT!!!!!! (Preview) i TELL YOU, I am in such a rotten mood this weekend. I am having a hard time adjusting to so many hours working during the week, the stress of the field itself, and then MORE endless WORK once the weekend comes. i slept 11 hours between Friday night and Saturday morning, and it STILL did not feel like enoug...	jonijoni	11	1479	Mar 25, 2008 by Sept_19_2002
	24-too (Preview) Tuesday, March 25, 2008 You are reading from the book Each Day a New Beginning When I slow down long enough to smell the roses, I usually see the beauty and all else that is ours to share. --Morgan Jennings We overlook so many joys, so many hidden treasures, when we hurry from place to place, person...	lani	0	457	Mar 25, 2008 by lani
	24 hours a day-March 25 (Preview) Tuesday, March 25, 2008 You are reading from the book Twenty Four Hours a Day Hardcover (24 Hours) A.A. Thought for the Day Strength comes from coming to believe in a Higher Power that can help you. You can't define this Higher Power, but you can see how it helps other alcoholics. You hear them tal...	lani	0	667	Mar 25, 2008 by lani
	Daily Reflections 3\25 (Preview) A FULL AND THANKFUL HEART I try hard to hold fast to the truth that a full and thankful heart cannot entertain certain conceits. When brimming with gratitude, one's heartbeat must surely result in outgoing love, the finest emotion that we can ever know. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 37 I believe that we in Alcohol...	lani	0	406	Mar 25, 2008 by lani
	Letting Go of Worry (Preview) What if we knew for certain that everything we're worried about today will work out fine? What if . . . we had a guarantee that the problem bothering us would be worked out in the most perfect way, and at the best possible time? Furthermore, what if we knew that three years from now we'd be grateful for th...	Quetzal	0	744	Mar 25, 2008 by Quetzal
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