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hidden anger
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HIDDEN ANGER
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It is obvious from these "signs of anger" that anger is frequently a concealed or disguised emotion. And why not? Getting mad is scary... and potentially dangerous. One common way of expressing suppressed anger has been given a special name...
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big book
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In this book you read again and again that faith did for us what we could not do for ourselves. We hope you are convinced now that God can remove whatever self-will has blocked you off from Him. If you have already made a decision, and an inventory of your grosser handicaps, you have made a good beginning....
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blunt and to the point-happiness
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the keys to happiness
SELF CONFIDENCE
As long as you think well of your self no matter what anyone else says you will still be happy. The way to get this? Simple. Help others. When you help others you feel good about yourself because you've proved that you are a valuable person and...
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happiness
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Five Keys to Happiness
HELPFUL HINTS
by Tim Connor
Let go of old baggage
Was it something your parents did 20 years ago? Something a customer said last week? Or something a spouse or friend said yesterday?
Old baggage is emotional stuff we carry around with us for days, months...
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Daily Reflections Feb 5
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A GLORIOUS RELEASE "The minute I stopped arguing, I could begin to see and feel. Right there, Step Two gently and very gradually began to infiltrate my life. I can't say upon what occasion or upon what day I came to believe in a Power greater than myself, but I certainly have that belief now. To acquire it...
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Lay the burden down
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A lecturer, when explaining stress management to an audience, raised a glass of water and asked, "How heavy is this glass of water?" Answers called out ranged from 20g to 500g. The lecturer replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long you try to hold it. If I hold it for a minute,...
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1 day in to the trip
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hello every one, well ive been here in PA a hole day and things are going ok.the 10 hours in car was alittle scary butt it also gave me a lott of time to pray and ask hp to helpme and make me strong.things with the my wife are going well to .we have been doig some talking and plan to try to keep workingon us as a who...
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Missed emails
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To all the good folks who have emailed me in the past on this board, I need to let you know that, for some reason, I can't get any updates as they happen, unless I log off the site, and then back on. Sometimes, even then, I don't seem to get the notification that I have a new email right away.&nbs...
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First Things First !
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Hi all..
Phil posted the other day about going to meetings. When I finally got to a meeting later that night it really made me reflect on putting First Things First.
After my last drunk (almost 15 yrs ago) I had a brief moment of clarity (and a BIG helping of Grace) I phone...
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Encouraging liver health advice
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For anyone new to sobriety, who may have come into AA with some liver problems, as I did a few months back, here is a link to advice on how to eat healthy to allow your liver optimum chance to heal. (no quack remedies---just nutritional advice)
http://www.hepnet.com/charge/chap8.html
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Deep thought
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DEEP THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Some people are like Slinkies,
They don't really serve any purpose,
But they still bring a smile to your face
when you push them down the stairs.
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Spiritual Experience ll from Alcoholics Anonymous
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The terms “spiritual experience” and “spiritual awakening” are used many times in this book which, upon careful reading, shows that the personality change sufficient to bring about recovery from alcoholism has manifested itself among us in many different forms.
Yet it is true that our first pr...
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Dail Refelctions Feb 4
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WHEN FAITH IS MISSING Sometimes A.A. comes harder to those who have lost or rejected faith than to those who never had any faith at all, for they think they have faith and found it wanting. They have tried the way of faith and the way of no faith. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 28 I was so sure God had...
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Why is it so hard to get back???
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This is my first time in this forum. And I needed to get support to return to AA. I was sober for eight months, and they were the best eight months in a long time. I was doing okay until I took an 11 day trip to Disney World with my girlfriend and her two kids.
The vacation was goin...
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'keep it green'
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I think someone at an NA meeting said that the expression 'keep it green' comes from a certain program method of getting points or demerits and being within acceptable limits is colored green on a graph,,, and if a person goes out of the green it means s/he got too many demerits. Does anyone know a...
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Life Is
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Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is beauty, admire it. Life is bliss, taste it. Life is a dream, realise it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfil it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, ac...
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A new day
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24 hours ago i was inches from a bottle. it had seemed that it was all just not going to work,i was lost and realy didnt even know if i wanted to be found.through a lot of suport from you guys and from some help here(boston)i was able to stay sober THANK YOU ALL.things have been realy crazy (go figure ) my fami...
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Fourth step - help
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Working on my fourth step. Was wondering if there is anyone who would like to share their trials and tribulations about doing their fourth step. Hearing others might help me with mine.
Thanks - Jeannie
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some things to think about
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Read Each One Carefully and Think About It a Second or Two 1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.. 2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry. 3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't l...
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When Girls Drink - Truth in Humor
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CAN YOU IDENTIFY.......
>>> WE HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA WHERE OUR PURSE IS.
>>>WE BELIEVE THAT DANCING WITH OUR ARMS OVERHEAD AND WIGGLING OUR BUTT WHILE YELLING "WOO-HOO!" IS TRULY THE SEXIEST DANCE MOVE AROUND.
>>> WE'VE SUDDENLY DECIDED THAT WE WANT TO KICK S...
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conflict resolutions
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Fighting Fair
A Guide
these skills are proven ways to resolve conflict and create successful human relationships where everyone wins. This Conflict Resolution technique is endorsed by many psychologists, counsellors, doctors, business managers, and teachers.
who: Use it with:...
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Hey! Pauly!
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I've seen you lurking around "down there"!
Fill us in on how you are - WE CARE!
Love and hugs!
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I had a drink....
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I have let myself down and had a drink yesterday after hearing that my funding for rehad was refused (no excuse) I plan to throw myself back into AA and knuckle down to working the steps. I feel awful, ashamed, guilty, remorseful and full of fear. Will keep posting on this site to let people know how I am do...
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Daily Reflections Feb 3
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FILLING THE VOID We needed to ask ourselves but one short question. "Do I now believe, or am I even willing to believe, that there is a Power greater than myself?" As soon as a man can say that he does believe, or is willing to believe, we emphatically assure him that he is on his way. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS,...
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A Bit Harsh, or What?
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At my meeting yesterday, there was a 19 year old boy who was a coke addict. He was there because he needed his "paper" signed. During the meeting (to which he was late-but he did say he was sorry for that) he didn't say anything, and passed when his turn to share came, other than to...
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first timer
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hi all
This is by far the hardest thing, facing the fact that I have a problem, and then having to do something about it.
The first time I ever got drunk was at a New Years Eve party when I was 8 years old. Someone spiked some punch, no one liked it so for some reason, so everyon...
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something interresting
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But Rogers is just as interested in describing the healthy person. His term is "fully-functioning," and involves the following qualities:
1. Openness to experience. This is the opposite of defensiveness. It is the accurate perception of one's experiences in the world, including one's feel...
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Yesterday..Today..Tomorrow
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There are two days in every week about which we should not worry, two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension. One of these days is YESTERDAY with its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains. YESTERDAY has passed forever beyond our control. All the money in t...
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What Is Trust???
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Trust is:
Letting others know your feelings, emotions and reactions, and having the confidence in them to respect you and to not take advantage of you.
Sharing your inner feelings and thoughts with others with the belief that they will not spread them indiscriminately.
Placing confidenc...
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An Article On Boundaries
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What is a boundary?A boundary is the: Emotional and physical space between you and another person.Demarcation of where you end and another begins and where you begin and another ends.Limit or line over which you will not allow anyone to cross because of the negative impact of its being crossed in the...
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found my happy thought!
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I got a happy thought now. Our black cat Pickles keeps digging the teabag out of my empty mug. i pick it up off the table and put it back in the mug and then he digs it out again and chews on it. maybe he thinks it has catnip in it (it doesn't, it's sleepytime extra by celestial seasonings,...
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Daily Reflection Feb 2
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RESCUED BY SURRENDERING Characteristic of the so-called typical alcoholic is a narcissistic egocentric core, dominated by feelings of omnipotence, intent on maintaining at all costs its inner integrity.... Inwardly the alcoholic brooks no control from man or God. He, the alcoholic, is and mus...
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2nd step of the 12 steps from AA 12 and 12
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Step Two "Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity."
The moment they read Step Two, most A.A. newcomers are confronted with a dilemma, sometimes a serious one. How often have we heard them cry out, "Look what you people have done to us! You have convinced u...
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My morning prayer
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Dear Lord*, So far I've done all right. I haven't gossipped, haven't lost my temper, haven't been greedy, grumpy, nasty,
selfish, or overindulgent. I'm really glad about that. But in a few minutes, God*, I'm going to get out of bed. And from then on, I'm going to need a lot more help.
--Author Unk...
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just plain help!!!!!!!!!
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ok so im new to this and up till latley i have been doing a good job of not drinking but it seems to get more and more difficult,i need a sponsor or at least some one to talk to ,i am serious about keeping myself sober and would like to kick it up a noch.so a friendly ear or a little chat would be helpfull at this ti...
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no happy thoughts today...
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I wish I would have found this website BEFORE I wrecked my car and got arrested. but I think in my case, that's what I needed to have happen to get the help I needed. I got lucky, I didn't hurt anyone else, just me and it was fairly minor, I did rear-end a truck though. ...
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happy thought of the day :)
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Imagine half a dozen grade-school kids running around in the pouring rain wih big water guns! that was hilarious, especially when the the old chinese guy grabbed a bucket and took them on! My job isnt't always boring...
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on the lords prayer
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i have a a ton of help today who knew asking for help would be so easy.i was in a deep dark hole yesterday and some of today but i see light (thank HP).I have a few things to do tonight ,and the first thing is an i will list (a list of things i will do)ive already been thinking of it and im excited.i hope its not goi...
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Staying The Path
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Staying on the Path ~ Your circumstances do not determine what your life will be; they reveal what kinds of images you have chosen up until now. To change yourself, look at what you fear and what you hate. Start There. We are all at once teachers and learners in every encounter of our lives. What's over is...
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Significant AA Dates - February
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Feb 1908 - Bill made boomerang. Feb 1916 - hazing incident Norwich University, Bill & sophomore class suspended Feb 1938 - Rockefeller gives $5,000 to AA. - Saves AA from professionalization. Feb 1939 - Dr Harry Tiebout, 1st Psychiatrist to endorse AA and use in his practice. Feb 1939 - Dr Howard...
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hI GAMMY
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i SEE U LURKING
HAVE A GREAT DAY
TIME FOR THIS GUY TO SHUT DOWN THE PC
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Today's Thought
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I don't think you're suddenly going to begin to look at the world with new eyes when you're eighty if you haven't been doing it when you're thirty. --Janice Clark
We are creatures of habit as evidenced by our getting stuck in old viewpoints long after they have quit serving us. However, that fact do...
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Daily Reflection Feb 1
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GOAL: SANITY "...Step Two gently and very gradually began to infiltrate my life. I can't say upon what occasion or on what day I came to believe in a power greater than myself, but I certainly have that belief now." TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 27 "Came to believe!" I gave lip service to my beli...
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Welcome Wandajf
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Just wanted to say welcome to MIP Wanda. I read your post below, living life on lifes terms, one day at a time.Thanks for your share and keep posting, please.
(((Hugs)))
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P.A.W.
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Bonzo mentioned Post Acute Withdrawal. Here's a website in case anyone's interested.
http://www.tlctx.com/ar_pages/paw_part1.htm
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FRAAANNNKKKLIN
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Where you hidin' dude??? You gotta find time to at least check in every couple days or I get worried.
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No changes in the first year?
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Is it true that someone seeking recovery is not supposed to make any major life changes in the first year? i.e. divorce, moving, etc? If this is true, then what would it mean if someone were to make those major life changes in the first couple months of recovery??
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hope nobody minds...
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but I' rather share the positive feelings! c'mon everyone, be happy! I like sharing all the stuff that I used to miss. go to laugh.com, funnier than **** just don't get offended too easy.
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Sharing An Article about Self..
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SELF ESTEEM, SELF LOVE and SELF CENTEREDNESS
by Nancy Poitou, M.A., M.F.T.
I have been asked often about what is self-esteem, self-love and self-centeredness. These are very good questions and it is a fine line that separates these concepts.
Self esteem means to hold oneself in high estee...
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Something on Forgiving..
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The decision to forgive yourself or somebody else is a vote to live in the present moment. "I'll never forgive my mother for that!" "I can't forgive myself!" Are these familiar expressions? If we refuse to forgive somebody then we are really saying, "Instead of taking some action to improve matters,...
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