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The Insanity Defense
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Over the years I've heard thousands of relapse stories and they all had one thing in common. Every relapse began with either a dramatic fall-off in meetings or they stopped going at all. I have a pet theory I'd like to tell you about. Most people believe that things get crazy if an alcoholi...
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Quiet Somber Holiday
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Hi To all,
Just crossed my mind that this week-end was a long week-end for most of us. And I do remember wishing many a happy holiday. I was thinking (well that's not always a good thing). (Smile)
This is a Holiday, honoring all that have given their lives, for this Great Country that most of us he...
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Accepting the Journey of Others
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Giving The Freedom To Live Accepting The Journeys Of Others
Each of us, in life, walks on the special path that the soul is destined to undertake. Our journeys are very different and we progress at different rates. The pitfalls and blessings we encounter are unique, yet we are all learning and no one...
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Have a good Sunday...
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Have read a lot of great shares, on here this morning...and have identified with each and every one of them..
And its great to see...all the new faces...that have joined us.....in the AA boat..
Another day, in sobriety...living life on lifes terms...
Hope you all have the best day yu can eh.....
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People liking me
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I used to have a problem when I was the center of the universe of thinking no one liked me. An old-timer said to me "Out of 10 people, 3 will like me, 3 will be neutral and 3 wo'n't care for me that much!" I said "that's only 9 people, what about the 10th?" He replied "The 10th person determines whether you're h...
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Is this 12 stepping?
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I've spent a little time on www.healthboards.com - addiction site and have come to the conclusion that the board should be re-named to www.denialboards.com Does accepting the journey of others include those in deep denial? I know the answer to that one already! Sure is hard looking at all the pain ou...
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A few Quotes..and you guys have a good Monday eh..
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"If you want what we have"
"Are willing to go to any lengths"
"Half measures avail us nothing"
"Willingness does not get us there...Action does"
"Dont pick up a drink today, and go to a meeting"
"Surrender, and Accept"
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What it was like, what happened, and what it's like now
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Hi everyone,
I haven't really been posting that much latlely. I finally found some time to sit back and actually enjoy the internet! I think I might need some Shoppers Anonymous meetings. Just kidding. I pretty much went window shopping today and that was fun.
Had a good meeting tonight. Had a rem...
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A different apprough to sobriety.. That works?
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If there are so many different people with so many different personalities and different beliefs. Why is there only one program? Just cos one program works for one person there is no reason to say it will work for another and vice versa..
I guess no one has got the umph together to make a d...
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For slippers and relapsers...
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Well, I did not have a very good weekend. Thanks Toni Baloney for your very kind message, it comforts me to know that relapsers can 'get it' eventually.
No drink yet today. It is getting worse, in a way: the more I want to stop, the more I want to drink! Even at the least appropriate times.
Beachbum men...
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Children of Chaos
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I didn't realise until years after getting sober just how turbulent my drinking years had been. While I was living those years what I was experiencing seemed normal. The continual cascade of failed relationships, getting into and then back out of trouble, lost jobs and unreasonable cops....
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RE Slippers
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The Insanity Defense
Over the years I've heard thousands of relapse stories and they all had one thing in common. Every relapse began with either a dramatic fall-off in meetings or they stopped going at all. I have a pet theory I'd like to tell you about. Most people believe that things get crazy if an...
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Angels, Slightly Scruffy
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I did not arrive in AA based on the power of my resume, nor did I come to AA looking to fill a sudden lull in my social calendar. What happened was I was bleeding from the bowels, throwing up blood, and shaking like a leaf. I had no food, no shelter, and no transportation. I was unemployed and unemployable. S...
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Attention AOL Users
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In order to be seen in our chatroom our IRC server provider
(StarChat.net)requires that AOL users chatroom nicknames be registered. So, if
you are a AOL user, please follow the link below and get your nickname
registered so you can join us in the chatroom for meetings.
AOL Users Nickname
R...
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Third Step Prayer
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We were now at Step Three. Many of us said to our Maker, as we understood Him:
"God, I offer myself to Thee -- to build with me and to do with me as Thou wilt. Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would h...
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*HOW IT WORKS*
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Chapter 5 - Book of Alcoholic Anonymous
How It Works
Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of...
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Slipped again, two days in, sober today....
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Sorry if people are getting sick of this.
At lunch with Aunt yesterday she asked me if I wanted a sherry and like a robot I said yes. Had no more for hours. Then had abut four glasses of wine in quick succession while on phone to my ex, started to feel rather sick, terminated conversation and went to bed (d...
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Testing
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Face to face meetings
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Hi everyone,
I have not been able to get to a face to face AA meeting in almost a week. My home group is tomorrow night and I will go to that. I just wanted to let you know that this forum has really helped ground me this week and keep me plugged into the program. Thanks for posting here....
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Union and Seperation
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Seek union over separation
"Beliefs separate. Loving thoughts unite."
-- Paul Ferrini
Our ego focuses on how we are different from the rest of the world. Our soul lives when we experience how we are the same.
Any time you separate yourself from other people or from situations, you know your p...
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AARG! POLITICIANS
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HI ALL,
JUST WANT TO ADD A LITTLE CORNEY HUMOR FOR THIS AFTERNOON.
WOKE UP THIS MORNING TO SOME POLITICIAN RUNNING FOR SOMETHING - WHO KNOWS -
BUT HER PITCH ON THE MORNING NEWS WAS:
"I COME FROM AN ITALIAN SAUGAGE & PACKAGING FAMILY - AND LET ME TELL YOU,
I KNOW.... BALONEY.........W...
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Your WWW
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What it was like, what happened, what it is like now.
Anyone care to share so the newbies can get to know some of the people on here? Thanks!
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Bad Apples-Daily OM(g)
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Sweetening A Sour Fruit When A Bad Apple Spoils The Bunch
Because life requires that we interact with different personalities, it is not uncommon for us to encounter a situation where there is one person whose behavior may negatively impact the experiences of others. Someone who is loud and crass...
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Candida
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Anyone had it?
I am not able (as per the nutritionist) to eat yeast suger milk and corn, looked up these on google and it says I may have Candida>? am I going to boil over with yeast and suger? is bread going to froth out my nostrels?
any one experienced it?
Rob
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Keeping Sobriety First- in Front of Everything
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Good Morning to all,
Just wanted to make a Post on some wise words, that almost went over my head at first. But when I was able to Retain these words in early Sobriety, they saved my life.
"If you Keep Your Sobriety First, in E V E R Y T H I N G, you will be able to KEEP IT."
"If you Place A N Y T H I N G in fr...
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Have a good Friday...
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Each Day a New Beginning.
Out of every crisis comes the chance to be reborn, to reconceive ourselves as individuals, to choose the kind of change that will help us to grow and to fulfill ourselves more completely. --Nena O'Neill
Before choosing to recover, most of us lived through cri...
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All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy
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That's a line from my all time favorite movie!
It seems like all I'm doing is work, eat, sleep, and meetings. My sponsor just got back from Hawaii. I called him tonight and I asked if I could cut down to five meetings a week instead of every day. Out of the last two months I've only missed a couple of meetin...
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Gratitude--OM
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The World In A Bright Light Grateful
Everyday is a blessing, and in each moment there are many things that we can be grateful for. The world opens up to us when we live in a space of gratitude. In essence, gratitude has a snowball effect. When we are appreciative and express that gratitude, th...
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On the lighter side (pun fun)
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1. Two antennas met on a roof, fell in love and got married...The ceremony wasn't much, but the reception was excellent. 2. A jumper cable walks into a bar. The bartender says, "I'll serve you, but don't start anything." 3. Two peanuts walk into a bar, and one was a salted. 4. A dyslexic man walks into a br...
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Expectations...
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We human beings are always "expecting." In other words, we are always having expectations. Lots of expectations. Some we are consciously aware of. Many others, we are not.
Expectations are always there, however, in the background of our daily experiences. Whether we are attuned to them or whe...
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New to the forum - My story - long post
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Good morning everybody. My name is WRbeachbum and I am an alcoholic. I have been in recovery since December, 2001, by the grace of my higher power and Alcoholics Anonymous.
I am happy to have found this forum. I like what I have read so far. It is nice to be sitting in my house...
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faith in h.p. badly shaken
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so i sit here for like ages thinking of how to put this and i cant cause its so painful and been going on for 10 years now. i had 9 years of building and enjoying recovery. i still never picked up a drink no matter what has happened so obiviously thats good and i am grateful. i am a strong girl. i su...
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Understanding
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Last year I learned the concept of detachment. For me it means knowing when the A is talking and being able to decipher whether it is the A talking or the person themselves. An example is if your mom is the A when your mom says something being able to decipher whether it is the A in her talking or the mother in...
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good golly!! even for ME this is LONG
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i was reading some posts and i have been noticing lately the PAIN , all OVER the world...like people just being SAD!!!!!
i thought of my Ex and the good we had together, not just the bad....he was a sweet guy, funny as hell, and an alkie who di...
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Detachment
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Detachment is neither kind nor unkind. It does not imply judgment or condemnation of the person or situation from which we are detaching. Separating ourselves from the adverse affects of another person’s behavior* can be a means of detaching: This does not necessarily require physical separat...
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The Train Of Life
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"The Train of Life" Some folks ride the train of life looking out the rear, Watching miles of life roll by and marking every year. They sit in sad remembrance of wasted days gone by, And curse their life for what it was and hang their head and cry. But I don't concern myself with that, I took a different vent...
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One and a half days sober...
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Well, that's all. I was tempted yesterday (whilst still hungover) but somehow managed to stave off temptation to go to bottleshop. I was almost in tears when I went to pick my daughter from daycare, but I was so overjoyed to see her (Because she had been at Mum's the night before, I h...
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Beliefnet
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Ok Hello All!!! Since yesterday we were talkin about Buddhisim well Here is a site I found with all kinds of info! Hope you all enjoy it!! http://www.beliefnet.com/ 
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Sponsoring
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Hi everyone...Hope today finds you happy and sober!
I have a question for you all. When I met with my sponsor yesterday we did another 5th step of things I left out of my first one. We talked for a long time and I felt pretty good about it all. Then she says that next week we are moving f...
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Diet soda drinkers...
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I don't know if this is appropriate for this site. I just know I was a depression/anxiety sufferer for many years in sobriety.
Most diet soda contains the artificial sweetener aspartame, which has been found to exacerbate symptoms of depression and anxiety. Read this excerpt from a 2/12/06 New...
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4 Months
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I have just over 4 months Sober now....it's incredible!!! I have an awesome Sponsor...a great Home Group...and a definate 3 Meetings a week that I go to!
I started my Grudge List today for my Step Four....Ai yi yi! And I thought I had issues BEFORE I started Step Four! lol
Anyhow...it's one day at a t...
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Slow Down--aka: Seize the Day!!!
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Slow down
"The soul requires duration of time -- rich, thick, deep, velvety time -- and it thrives on rhythm. Soul can’t be hurried or harried .... We may go through many events in the day and experience nothing because the soul has not had the opportunity to feel them from many different points of vie...
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My work
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Cor! I am finding work hard, they treat me differently to everyone else because of my illness. I am doing my best but they just keep fishing for mistakes... dunno how much longer I can put up with it.
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Have A Good Day
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The Language of Letting Go.
Letting the Cycles Flow
Life is cyclical, not static. Our relationships benefit when we allow them to follow their own natural cycles.
Like the tide ebbs and flows, so do the cycles in relationships. We have periods of closeness and periods of distance. We have ti...
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Dear Abby...
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"Dear AA, dear AA,
you have no complaint
you are what you are
and you ain't what you ain't
so listen up buster
and listen up good
stop wishin fer bad luck
and knockin on wood!
Siiiiiiiigned Dear Abby!"
- John Prine - "Dear Abby"
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Daily Power-Prosperity
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Prosperity: "Prosperity is a state of being not a state of having. One does not attain prosperity, rather it is a choice. There are plenty of materially wealthy people in the midst of spiritual poverty. The next time you start to focus on all the things others have that you can't afford, or can...
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A few thoughts for today...
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If drinking doesn't bring you to your knees, sobriety will.
It's the engine that kills you, not the caboose
We suffer from alcohol-ISM, not alcohol-WASM
None of us got here from drinking too much coffee
When we get sober..We have a living problem, not a drinking problem
If you don't want...
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Suffering-Soul Perspectives
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Suffering
The most basic experience that all human beings have, which begins in the birth canal if not before, is that of pain and suffering or affliction. The fact of suffering, and how to deal with it and its effects, prompted the Buddha to present the Four Noble Truths. I like to refer to these as th...
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New here, moving away from my group
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Hi,
I am new to the board. I have an AA club that I belong to where if I can't make a noon meeting, I at least stop in for coffee and there are usually others there to talk to. It's a great club where the doors are open from early morning till late evening. I know I always have a close safe place to...
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Spiritual experiences?
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Good morning! I have been thinking alot about this topic lately and was wondering if anyone would like to share their spiritual experiences?
Jen
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