Alcoholics Anonymous

Doll · Doll

A NEW SENSE OF BELONGING Until we had talked with complete candor of our conflicts, and had listened to someone else do the same thing, we still didn't belong. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 57 After four years in A.A. I was able to discover the freedom from the burden of buried emotions that had...

Laura · Laura

Made the first step and called the local hotline to make sure the time and place of the meeting (that I found online) that I'd like to attend is still in exhistance. It would be a shame to work up the nerve, get there and discover it switched meeting nights. The all women's meeting is, indeed, at the same ti...

Robert · Robert

Hey Man im always tired, ive been off uni cos im really tired out!! i go to bed at 10-11 and get up at 9 and i cant be bothered to do anything, i want to do stuff but i feel demotivated!! not got a bad head on i dont think you guys get this? any tips

Tipsy McStagger · Tipsy McStagger

and when I get restless I pick fights with people. Not physical fights, I just make mean spirited, hurtful little jokes and comments until I get a rise out of them. I have no idea why but somehow it makes me feel better. I get some perverse joy out of getting a strong emotional reaction form another human b...

LisaF · LisaF

Jimmy the Guinea... about 2 weeks old now I think? This one shows how he's feathering now on his wings... My unnamed guinea... I was waiting until I know what sex they are before naming them, the only reason Jimmy has a name is cuz my roommate named him already... lol He's just a bit bigger than Jimmy,...

Doll · Doll

FREE AT LAST Another great dividend we may expect from confiding our defects to another human being is humility - a word often misunderstood. . . . it amounts to a clear recognition of what and who we really are, followed by a sincere attempt to become what we could be. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS...

barisax · barisax

My story is this in a nutshell: I was married at a fairly young age - instant family. I got sober about halfway through that marriage, and I have now been single (and sober) longer than I was married but in all that time, I never was in a serious relationship. Just some very short-term wannabes that did...

Wren · Wren

Word of HeartI was thinking about this book I had read as a girl, about a family pioneering in the forest somewhere or other, for whom small things brought such great pleasure, an orange for Christmas, a crisp dress ordered from a catalog. It made such a huge impression on me, I remember, how such little...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ One thing that keeps me sober is a feeling of loyalty to the other members of the group. I know I'd be letting them down if I ever took a drink. When I was drinking, I wasn't loyal to anybody. I should have been loyal to my family, but I wasn't. I let them down by my drinking. When I came...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Good feelings can become a habitual part of our life. There is absolutely no virtue in the unnecessary suffering, which many of us have felt for much of our life. We don't have to allow others to make us miserable, and we don't have to make ourselves miserable. A good day does not have to be the calm before...

destinydreamer · destinydreamer

I was just curious if anyone felt the same way when they first started attending meetings... This really doesn't make any sense to me, but after I go to a meeting (which hasn't been many yet) I always feel as though I want to drink. I feel like I just want to stop at a bar on the way home. Is this crazy? I heard f...

Phil · Phil

And there are only two sins Interfering with the growth of another human being And interfering with ones own growth The privelege of a lifetime....is just being who you are.

destinydreamer · destinydreamer

I was trying to get my cat to take a picture but he wouldn't wake up and show his face!! This is my boyfriend for the first year of sobriety... I know that it is not suggested that someone have a relationship for a year but do you think this is ok? (I don't want to hear any sick jokes from any of you guys!!) haha....

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ We alcoholics used so little self-control when we were drinking, we were so absolutely selfish, that it does us good to give up something once in a while. Using self-discipline and denying ourselves a few things is good for us. At first, giving up liquor is a big enough job for a...

Jeninoz · Jeninoz

Dear All, I posted here the day after "the night before". After over 8 years sobriety, I let my meetings slide. I picked up a drink and 2 months later I was drink driving continually, lieing about money and my drinking and my driving and hit my rock bottom on Friday morning at 5am when I finall...

LisaF · LisaF

Well, I applied at the community college in Lincoln, well, actually I'll have to go to the campus in Beatrice on the other side of Lincoln... they offer agriculture there... been looking at the program and what all they offer, and also looking at the University of Nebraska in case I want to do a 4 year d...

Doll · Doll

WALKING THROUGH FEAR If we still cling to something we will not let go, we ask God to help us be willing. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 76 When I had taken my Fifth Step, I became aware that all my defects of character stemmed from my need to feel secure and loved. To use my will alone to work on them would have bee...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Sometimes we'll take a few steps backward. That's okay too. Sometimes it's necessary. Sometimes it's part of going forward. -- Codependent No More Life is a Gentle Teacher. She wants to help us learn. The lessons she wants to teach us are the ones we need to learn. Some say they are the lessons we chose t...

Tina · Tina

morning all Justed wanted to share an experience I had the previlege of giving back to the program. We had our One Day District Roundup Yesterday, and I had the honour of chairing the round up, the overwhelming experience I recieve was un believable. I felt nervous and excited and all in all, the thou...

LisaF · LisaF

Well I guess I overdid it yesterday... although I was mostly doing light work. I was sitting most the day while sorting through things, getting up to move around every so often. Well, by the end of the day I was hurting so bad I went to the ER. I thought maybe going into the ER they'd actually try to figu...

miller2 · miller2

I have learned that selfishness and self centeredness is the root of my problems. That fear is an evil and corroding thread. What Im about to type is something that happened today that made me think. But Im OK with it... My daughter and son in law live across town with my wife. (They just had the new baby bo...

Doll · Doll

I hate meetings. I hate a Higher Power. I hate anyone who has a Program. To all who come in contact with me, I wish you death and I wish you suffering. Allow me to introduce myself. I am the disease of alcoholism. I am cunning, baffling and powerful. That's me! I have killed millions and I am pleased. I love...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I'm grateful that I found a program in A.A. that could keep me sober. I'm grateful that A.A. has shown me the way to faith in a Higher Power, because the renewing of that faith has changed my way of life. And I've found a happiness and contentment that I had forgotten existed, by si...

Tipsy McStagger · Tipsy McStagger

I went to my doctor and explained my thoughts regarding my alcohol use and she said that judging by what I told her there might possibly be some other explanations for why I'm "acting out" the way I do. She referred me to a specialist and his diagnosis is that I suffer from Manic-Depress...

Doll · Doll

A RESTING PLACE All of A.A.'s Twelve Steps ask us to go contrary to our natural desires . . . they all deflate our egos. When it comes to ego deflation, few Steps are harder to take than Five. But scarcely any Step is more necessary to longtime sobriety and peace of mind than this one. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELV...

Quetzal · Quetzal

"I worked at a good job, making a decent salary. I had been recovering for years. Each morning, I got into my car and I thanked God for the car. The heater didn't work. And the chance of the car not starting was almost as great as the chance that it would. I just kept suffering through and thanking God....

ally · ally

I was surfing the net looking for inspiration, on how to stop loving someone....lol (if only) And I found this, I had a few tears in my eye..... Gives new meaning to "Life is to short" I have a boyfriend who grew up with me. His name is Jin. I always thought of him as a friend until last year, wh...

miller2 · miller2

This is kinda neat... see the huge 100 year old oak laying on the ground in front of my buddies house? This fell on a perfectly clear day, not even a breeze... just BOOM. Missed the house literally by inches. The closet branch act...

Wren · Wren

I can change. I can live out my imagination instead of my memory. I can tie myself to my limitless potential instead of my limiting past. -- Stephen Covey I was eating lunch with a friend who shared that she disliked one of the vegetables on my plate and hadnt eaten any since childhood. I suggested that so...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ It's very important to keep in a grateful frame of mind, if we want to stay sober. We should be grateful that we're living in a day and age when alcoholics aren't treated as they often used to be treated before Alcoholics Anonyous was started. In the old days, every town had its ow...

TenderheartsKS · TenderheartsKS

Very appropriate for my recovery! THE COMPANY YOU KEEP It is better to be alone, than in the wrong company. Tell me who your best friends are, and I will tell you who you are. If you run with wolves, you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights. &qu...

Laura · Laura

I've been sober for a little over three months. I consider myself an alcoholic. I've begun to read the big book. What have I not done? Gone to any face to face meetings . . . not one. I didn't want to go. At first I thought it was because I didn't need to. I gain insight here, as well as support. I've got some gre...

LisaF · LisaF

12 days sober... I pulled an all-nighter last night... roommate's over at our friend's house for the weekend helping to plant the tons of bushes and trees they bought at an auction... So... I went to a meeting last night, did the grocery shopping, got home and cleaned out my babies' cages, cleaned...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Fear is at the core of codependency. It can motivate us to control situations or neglect ourselves. Many of us have been afraid for so long that we don't label our feelings fear. We're used to feeling upset and anxious. It feels normal. Peace and serenity may be uncomfortable. At one time, fear may have...

Phil · Phil

Alcoholism stages can be categorized into three stages of alcoholism -- early stage, middle stage and end stage alcoholism or late stage alcoholism. Alcoholism stages generally take years to develop. Alcoholism is a disease where alcoholic beverage consumption is at a level that interferes wit...

ally · ally

HELP....BEFORE I JUMP IN THERE AGAIN (((((((YO Guys))))))) I posted this on the al-anon board and got some wonderful replies.....i am asking If any of you can reply to this also... I love the wisdom I recieve from you as the recovering Alcoholic.... (((Guys)))))) You all know I opened a face to face gr...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I've noticed that the ones who do the most for A.A. are not in the habit of boasting about it. The danger of building myself up too much is that, if I do, I'm in danger of havinf a fall. That pattern of thought goes with drinking. If one side of the boat gets too far up out of the water, i...

lucybear · lucybear

hello everyone, im new here. so i got sober in dec of 05 and drank again in sept of 06 and continued until jan of 07 when i found out i was pregnant. i quit instanlty and have spent the last months accumulating some peace and happiness with many things that i learned from AA and other places. but now i look a...

Eddie · Eddie

When I was new to AA, I was convinced that I was powerless over alcohol and that my life, because of my drinking, was unmanageable. As I began to do what I was told to do, I discovered that I didn't have to drink anymore. I reasoned that now that I didn't have to drink, I could, through hard work and the use of m...

miller2 · miller2

Tipsy, please dont send me any more private messages. Id prefer you share your feelings here in the forums, good or bad. Hope you have a better day.

Laura · Laura

There are quite a few new posts her I want to take time to read and respond to later this evening. Welcome if you are new and reading this. I only have time for a quick note. I just feel like I need to reach out for moment before going to a party after I shut this computer down. It's a family/friend party. Ther...

Doll · Doll

"HOLD BACK NOTHING" The real tests of the situation are your own willingness to confide and your full confidence in the one with whom you you share your first accurate self-survey. . . . Provided you hold back nothing, your sense of relief will mount from minute to minute. The dammed-up emo...

John · John

Addiction creates moral wreckage. People who become addicted to alcohol or other drugs might lie, cheat, or steal in order to get and use their chemical of choice. Often what's left behind is a trail of shattered relationships. In this situation, apologies won't do. Alcoholics Anonymous calls for...

Jeninoz · Jeninoz

Dear Friends, I am so sick today. I had over 8 years good sobriety in AA and I picked up a drink in February of this year. This is the first time I have been back to AA in any capacity. I thought I had it all under control and last night I went to a work function and I got so drunk and stayed out till 5am in the morn...

Esperanza · Esperanza

I've recently admitted to myself that I may have a problem with drinking. I'm not sure if I do or not, but I've been doing some research and I took the questions quiz on the AA website and I answered "yes" more than 4 times, so I'm starting to get concerned. I want to know more about what the signs...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Make yourself feel good. It's our job to first make ourselves feel better and then make ourselves feel good. Recovery is not only about stopping painful feelings; it is about creating a good life for ourselves. We don't have to deny ourselves activities that help us feel good. Going to meetings, bask...

kate · kate

My parents just came over to see me and I supposed staged some sort of an intervention. They think I am an alcoholic and want me to go to a meeting with them. I agree with them that I have been drinking too much lately. They saw my fiance whom I live with today and I think he may have said something about it wh...

Phil · Phil

Whenever a civilization or society declines or perishes there is always one condition present - they forgot where they came from. -- Carl Sandburg Back To BasicsAlcoholics Anonymous, now today = new Date(); var todayy=today.getYear(); var difference=(Math.round(todayy-1935)); document.w...

POOKISTAN · POOKISTAN

Well, I know this's prolly gonna' be fleeting and I'll prolly feel like shit again tomorrow night but I'm going to enjoy it while it lasts. I also made the decision that I'm going to try the sample of antidepressants (a months worth) that my doctor reccomended. This has to be the biggest step towards h...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I had to show off and boast so that people would think I amounted to something, when, of course, both they and I knew that I really didn't amount to anything. I didn't fool anybody. Although I've been sober for quiet a while, the old habit of building myslef up is still with me. I st...

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	Daily Reflections May 11 (Preview) A NEW SENSE OF BELONGING Until we had talked with complete candor of our conflicts, and had listened to someone else do the same thing, we still didn't belong. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 57 After four years in A.A. I was able to discover the freedom from the burden of buried emotions that had...	Doll	0	365	May 11, 2007 by Doll
	I made the call--it's a step . . . and Shelly, the good fortune spider . . . (Preview) Made the first step and called the local hotline to make sure the time and place of the meeting (that I found online) that I'd like to attend is still in exhistance. It would be a shame to work up the nerve, get there and discover it switched meeting nights. The all women's meeting is, indeed, at the same ti...	Laura	15	622	May 11, 2007 by Laura
	TIRED (Preview) Hey Man im always tired, ive been off uni cos im really tired out!! i go to bed at 10-11 and get up at 9 and i cant be bothered to do anything, i want to do stuff but i feel demotivated!! not got a bad head on i dont think you guys get this? any tips	Robert	7	545	May 10, 2007 by miller2
	When I dont drink I get bored...when I get bored I get restless... (Preview) and when I get restless I pick fights with people. Not physical fights, I just make mean spirited, hurtful little jokes and comments until I get a rise out of them. I have no idea why but somehow it makes me feel better. I get some perverse joy out of getting a strong emotional reaction form another human b...	Tipsy McStagger	8	894	May 10, 2007 by Laura
	Some new pics of my babies... (Preview) Jimmy the Guinea... about 2 weeks old now I think? This one shows how he's feathering now on his wings... My unnamed guinea... I was waiting until I know what sex they are before naming them, the only reason Jimmy has a name is cuz my roommate named him already... lol He's just a bit bigger than Jimmy,...	LisaF	7	528	May 10, 2007 by LisaF
	Daily Reflections May 10 (Preview) FREE AT LAST Another great dividend we may expect from confiding our defects to another human being is humility - a word often misunderstood. . . . it amounts to a clear recognition of what and who we really are, followed by a sincere attempt to become what we could be. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS...	Doll	1	423	May 10, 2007 by Phil
	Relationships In Sobriety (Preview) My story is this in a nutshell: I was married at a fairly young age - instant family. I got sober about halfway through that marriage, and I have now been single (and sober) longer than I was married but in all that time, I never was in a serious relationship. Just some very short-term wannabes that did...	barisax	9	1353	May 10, 2007 by barisax
	Finding the Gifts (Preview) Word of HeartI was thinking about this book I had read as a girl, about a family pioneering in the forest somewhere or other, for whom small things brought such great pleasure, an orange for Christmas, a crisp dress ordered from a catalog. It made such a huge impression on me, I remember, how such little...	Wren	4	574	May 10, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hours a Day ~ 10th May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ One thing that keeps me sober is a feeling of loyalty to the other members of the group. I know I'd be letting them down if I ever took a drink. When I was drinking, I wasn't loyal to anybody. I should have been loyal to my family, but I wasn't. I let them down by my drinking. When I came...	Sobrietyspell	0	414	May 10, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Enjoying the Good Days (Preview) Good feelings can become a habitual part of our life. There is absolutely no virtue in the unnecessary suffering, which many of us have felt for much of our life. We don't have to allow others to make us miserable, and we don't have to make ourselves miserable. A good day does not have to be the calm before...	Quetzal	0	331	May 10, 2007 by Quetzal
	Meetings... (Preview) I was just curious if anyone felt the same way when they first started attending meetings... This really doesn't make any sense to me, but after I go to a meeting (which hasn't been many yet) I always feel as though I want to drink. I feel like I just want to stop at a bar on the way home. Is this crazy? I heard f...	destinydreamer	7	421	May 9, 2007 by Tipsy McStagger
	Alcoholics Anonymous Is Based On Love (Preview) And there are only two sins Interfering with the growth of another human being And interfering with ones own growth The privelege of a lifetime....is just being who you are.	Phil	5	471	May 9, 2007 by Phil
	yay!!! (Preview) I was trying to get my cat to take a picture but he wouldn't wake up and show his face!! This is my boyfriend for the first year of sobriety... I know that it is not suggested that someone have a relationship for a year but do you think this is ok? (I don't want to hear any sick jokes from any of you guys!!) haha....	destinydreamer	11	559	May 9, 2007 by Doll
	24 Hours a Day ~ 9th May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ We alcoholics used so little self-control when we were drinking, we were so absolutely selfish, that it does us good to give up something once in a while. Using self-discipline and denying ourselves a few things is good for us. At first, giving up liquor is a big enough job for a...	Sobrietyspell	0	476	May 9, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	4 Days Sober (Preview) Dear All, I posted here the day after "the night before". After over 8 years sobriety, I let my meetings slide. I picked up a drink and 2 months later I was drink driving continually, lieing about money and my drinking and my driving and hit my rock bottom on Friday morning at 5am when I finall...	Jeninoz	11	1487	May 9, 2007 by alligot
	Applied at another college... (Preview) Well, I applied at the community college in Lincoln, well, actually I'll have to go to the campus in Beatrice on the other side of Lincoln... they offer agriculture there... been looking at the program and what all they offer, and also looking at the University of Nebraska in case I want to do a 4 year d...	LisaF	3	598	May 9, 2007 by Doll
	May9 Daily Reflections (Preview) WALKING THROUGH FEAR If we still cling to something we will not let go, we ask God to help us be willing. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 76 When I had taken my Fifth Step, I became aware that all my defects of character stemmed from my need to feel secure and loved. To use my will alone to work on them would have bee...	Doll	0	369	May 9, 2007 by Doll
	Learning New Behaviors (Preview) Sometimes we'll take a few steps backward. That's okay too. Sometimes it's necessary. Sometimes it's part of going forward. -- Codependent No More Life is a Gentle Teacher. She wants to help us learn. The lessons she wants to teach us are the ones we need to learn. Some say they are the lessons we chose t...	Quetzal	0	493	May 9, 2007 by Quetzal
	Experience of givin back (Preview) morning all Justed wanted to share an experience I had the previlege of giving back to the program. We had our One Day District Roundup Yesterday, and I had the honour of chairing the round up, the overwhelming experience I recieve was un believable. I felt nervous and excited and all in all, the thou...	Tina	3	427	May 9, 2007 by Laura
	finally getting an MRI... (Preview) Well I guess I overdid it yesterday... although I was mostly doing light work. I was sitting most the day while sorting through things, getting up to move around every so often. Well, by the end of the day I was hurting so bad I went to the ER. I thought maybe going into the ER they'd actually try to figu...	LisaF	7	614	May 9, 2007 by Laura
	selfish thinking.... (Preview) I have learned that selfishness and self centeredness is the root of my problems. That fear is an evil and corroding thread. What Im about to type is something that happened today that made me think. But Im OK with it... My daughter and son in law live across town with my wife. (They just had the new baby bo...	miller2	6	618	May 8, 2007 by learning
	I am your disease (Preview) I hate meetings. I hate a Higher Power. I hate anyone who has a Program. To all who come in contact with me, I wish you death and I wish you suffering. Allow me to introduce myself. I am the disease of alcoholism. I am cunning, baffling and powerful. That's me! I have killed millions and I am pleased. I love...	Doll	15	11623	May 8, 2007 by TLH
	24 Hours a Day ~ 8th May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I'm grateful that I found a program in A.A. that could keep me sober. I'm grateful that A.A. has shown me the way to faith in a Higher Power, because the renewing of that faith has changed my way of life. And I've found a happiness and contentment that I had forgotten existed, by si...	Sobrietyspell	0	415	May 8, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	A mental health professional told me that I'm not an alcoholic... (Preview) I went to my doctor and explained my thoughts regarding my alcohol use and she said that judging by what I told her there might possibly be some other explanations for why I'm "acting out" the way I do. She referred me to a specialist and his diagnosis is that I suffer from Manic-Depress...	Tipsy McStagger	34	2429	May 8, 2007 by cooncatbob
	Daily Reflections May 8 (Preview) A RESTING PLACE All of A.A.'s Twelve Steps ask us to go contrary to our natural desires . . . they all deflate our egos. When it comes to ego deflation, few Steps are harder to take than Five. But scarcely any Step is more necessary to longtime sobriety and peace of mind than this one. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELV...	Doll	0	394	May 8, 2007 by Doll
	Giving Ourselves What We Deserve (Preview) "I worked at a good job, making a decent salary. I had been recovering for years. Each morning, I got into my car and I thanked God for the car. The heater didn't work. And the chance of the car not starting was almost as great as the chance that it would. I just kept suffering through and thanking God....	Quetzal	0	437	May 8, 2007 by Quetzal
	THIS IS AWESOME.....LIFE IS TOO SHORT (Preview) I was surfing the net looking for inspiration, on how to stop loving someone....lol (if only) And I found this, I had a few tears in my eye..... Gives new meaning to "Life is to short" I have a boyfriend who grew up with me. His name is Jin. I always thought of him as a friend until last year, wh...	ally	2	523	May 8, 2007 by Wren
	Thought Id share something kinda neat (Preview) This is kinda neat... see the huge 100 year old oak laying on the ground in front of my buddies house? This fell on a perfectly clear day, not even a breeze... just BOOM. Missed the house literally by inches. The closet branch act...	miller2	4	427	May 7, 2007 by destinydreamer
	Change (Preview) I can change. I can live out my imagination instead of my memory. I can tie myself to my limitless potential instead of my limiting past. -- Stephen Covey I was eating lunch with a friend who shared that she disliked one of the vegetables on my plate and hadnt eaten any since childhood. I suggested that so...	Wren	1	341	May 7, 2007 by Phil
	24 Hours a Day ~ 7th May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ It's very important to keep in a grateful frame of mind, if we want to stay sober. We should be grateful that we're living in a day and age when alcoholics aren't treated as they often used to be treated before Alcoholics Anonyous was started. In the old days, every town had its ow...	Sobrietyspell	0	508	May 7, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Excellent writing (Preview) Very appropriate for my recovery! THE COMPANY YOU KEEP It is better to be alone, than in the wrong company. Tell me who your best friends are, and I will tell you who you are. If you run with wolves, you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights. &qu...	TenderheartsKS	2	414	May 7, 2007 by Quetzal
	So I'm a little slow and reluctant (Preview) I've been sober for a little over three months. I consider myself an alcoholic. I've begun to read the big book. What have I not done? Gone to any face to face meetings . . . not one. I didn't want to go. At first I thought it was because I didn't need to. I gain insight here, as well as support. I've got some gre...	Laura	7	555	May 7, 2007 by Laura
	wired and in a cleaning mood... (Preview) 12 days sober... I pulled an all-nighter last night... roommate's over at our friend's house for the weekend helping to plant the tons of bushes and trees they bought at an auction... So... I went to a meeting last night, did the grocery shopping, got home and cleaned out my babies' cages, cleaned...	LisaF	6	494	May 7, 2007 by psychoktty
	Letting Go Of Fear (Preview) Fear is at the core of codependency. It can motivate us to control situations or neglect ourselves. Many of us have been afraid for so long that we don't label our feelings fear. We're used to feeling upset and anxious. It feels normal. Peace and serenity may be uncomfortable. At one time, fear may have...	Quetzal	1	354	May 7, 2007 by psychoktty
	Alcoholism Stages (Preview) Alcoholism stages can be categorized into three stages of alcoholism -- early stage, middle stage and end stage alcoholism or late stage alcoholism. Alcoholism stages generally take years to develop. Alcoholism is a disease where alcoholic beverage consumption is at a level that interferes wit...	Phil	1	366	May 7, 2007 by Bryan39
	HELP...BEFORE I JUMP IN AGAIN (Preview) HELP....BEFORE I JUMP IN THERE AGAIN (((((((YO Guys))))))) I posted this on the al-anon board and got some wonderful replies.....i am asking If any of you can reply to this also... I love the wisdom I recieve from you as the recovering Alcoholic.... (((Guys)))))) You all know I opened a face to face gr...	ally	4	585	May 6, 2007 by Sick of being sick
	24 Hours a Day ~ 6th May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I've noticed that the ones who do the most for A.A. are not in the habit of boasting about it. The danger of building myself up too much is that, if I do, I'm in danger of havinf a fall. That pattern of thought goes with drinking. If one side of the boat gets too far up out of the water, i...	Sobrietyspell	0	518	May 6, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	support!!!!! (Preview) hello everyone, im new here. so i got sober in dec of 05 and drank again in sept of 06 and continued until jan of 07 when i found out i was pregnant. i quit instanlty and have spent the last months accumulating some peace and happiness with many things that i learned from AA and other places. but now i look a...	lucybear	8	425	May 6, 2007 by lucybear
	Obstacles To Step Three (Preview) When I was new to AA, I was convinced that I was powerless over alcohol and that my life, because of my drinking, was unmanageable. As I began to do what I was told to do, I discovered that I didn't have to drink anymore. I reasoned that now that I didn't have to drink, I could, through hard work and the use of m...	Eddie	1	430	May 6, 2007 by Wren
	tipsy (Preview) Tipsy, please dont send me any more private messages. Id prefer you share your feelings here in the forums, good or bad. Hope you have a better day.	miller2	6	461	May 6, 2007 by Doll
	About to go to a party . . . (Preview) There are quite a few new posts her I want to take time to read and respond to later this evening. Welcome if you are new and reading this. I only have time for a quick note. I just feel like I need to reach out for moment before going to a party after I shut this computer down. It's a family/friend party. Ther...	Laura	5	588	May 6, 2007 by miller2
	Daily Reflections May 6 (Preview) "HOLD BACK NOTHING" The real tests of the situation are your own willingness to confide and your full confidence in the one with whom you you share your first accurate self-survey. . . . Provided you hold back nothing, your sense of relief will mount from minute to minute. The dammed-up emo...	Doll	0	431	May 6, 2007 by Doll
	Apology is more than saying "Sorry" (Preview) Addiction creates moral wreckage. People who become addicted to alcohol or other drugs might lie, cheat, or steal in order to get and use their chemical of choice. Often what's left behind is a trail of shattered relationships. In this situation, apologies won't do. Alcoholics Anonymous calls for...	John	2	4092	May 6, 2007 by Zster
	Please Help (Preview) Dear Friends, I am so sick today. I had over 8 years good sobriety in AA and I picked up a drink in February of this year. This is the first time I have been back to AA in any capacity. I thought I had it all under control and last night I went to a work function and I got so drunk and stayed out till 5am in the morn...	Jeninoz	11	516	May 6, 2007 by Jeninoz
	I need some guidance (Preview) I've recently admitted to myself that I may have a problem with drinking. I'm not sure if I do or not, but I've been doing some research and I took the questions quiz on the AA website and I answered "yes" more than 4 times, so I'm starting to get concerned. I want to know more about what the signs...	Esperanza	6	551	May 6, 2007 by TLH
	Feeling Good (Preview) Make yourself feel good. It's our job to first make ourselves feel better and then make ourselves feel good. Recovery is not only about stopping painful feelings; it is about creating a good life for ourselves. We don't have to deny ourselves activities that help us feel good. Going to meetings, bask...	Quetzal	0	356	May 6, 2007 by Quetzal
	Do I have a problem? (Preview) My parents just came over to see me and I supposed staged some sort of an intervention. They think I am an alcoholic and want me to go to a meeting with them. I agree with them that I have been drinking too much lately. They saw my fiance whom I live with today and I think he may have said something about it wh...	kate	9	591	May 5, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Back To Basics (Preview) Whenever a civilization or society declines or perishes there is always one condition present - they forgot where they came from. -- Carl Sandburg Back To BasicsAlcoholics Anonymous, now today = new Date(); var todayy=today.getYear(); var difference=(Math.round(todayy-1935)); document.w...	Phil	4	2969	May 5, 2007 by Bryan39
	I'm actually feeling good tonight... (Preview) Well, I know this's prolly gonna' be fleeting and I'll prolly feel like shit again tomorrow night but I'm going to enjoy it while it lasts. I also made the decision that I'm going to try the sample of antidepressants (a months worth) that my doctor reccomended. This has to be the biggest step towards h...	POOKISTAN	5	614	May 5, 2007 by Doll
	24 Hours a Day ~ 5th May 2007 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ I had to show off and boast so that people would think I amounted to something, when, of course, both they and I knew that I really didn't amount to anything. I didn't fool anybody. Although I've been sober for quiet a while, the old habit of building myslef up is still with me. I st...	Sobrietyspell	0	397	May 5, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
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