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A face only a mother could love
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Awwww..........they are almost 3 weeks old. They've grown on me. ARGGHH! It's gonna be tough giving them away......Just wanted to share my smiles
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I dont want to freak myslef out again...
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The other times I've tried AA I did exactly what is suggested, I went to lots of meetings, I talked to lots of people, I got a sponsor, etc...I even joined a men's group meeting with about 10 other guys with some serious long term sobriety. I did this all within a few weeks and everything was going fine and t...
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Freedom from Compulsive Disorders
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Thank you for keeping me straight yesterday. Please help me stay straight today. -- paraphrased from Alcoholics Anonymous When I first began my recovery from codependency, I was furious about having to begin another recovery program. Seven years earlier, I had begun recovery from chemical depen...
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I told my wife to leave me...
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if I didn't quit drinking. I asked her to give me a year and if I haven't stopped I want her to throw me out. It's not that I get drunk and fight with her or that she even sees much of my using because I sneak away with friends to do it...it's just that I think she deserves better than a drunk and all that entails...
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Daily Reflectons May 4
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"ENTIRELY HONEST" We must be entirely honest with somebody if we expect to live long or happily in this world. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 73-74 Honesty, like all virtues, is to be shared. It began after I shared ". . . [my] whole life's story with someone . . . " in order to find my pla...
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Morality leaves you all alone in many dire situations - I drank because of this...
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Okayyy... Well... That kinda' pisses me off... Spent about three hours writing this and due to all the times I have [ENTER]s in the text it shows up as one giant incoherent wall of text rather than a well-written commentary with paragraphs... Looks like I'll be posting that commentary somewhere e...
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The Twelve Traditions
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The Twelve Traditions (The Long Form)Our A.A. experience has taught us that: 1.Each member of Alcoholics Anonymous is but a small part of a great whole. A.A. must continue to live or most of us will surely die. Hence our common welfare comes first. But individual welfare follows close afterward. 2.F...
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24 Hours a Day ~ 3rd May 2007
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ A.A. teaches us to take it easy. We learn how to relax and to stop worrying about the past or the furure, to give up our resentments and hates and tempers, to stop being critical of people, and to try to help them instead. That's what "Easy Does It" means. So in the time t...
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Has anyone had trouble finding their "old" hobbies fun after quitting drinking?
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As you may have guessed from my other recent posts I'm having a hard time keeping my mind occupied during this time of transition but what's weird is I'd expect my main hobby would help pass the time but that's not how it's goin' - I've found it semi-difficult to concentrate on anything but my main hobby I...
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Daily Reflections May 3
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CLEANING HOUSE Somehow, being alone with God doesn't seem as embarrassing as facing up to another person. Until we actually sit down and talk aloud about what we have so long hidden, our willingness to clean house is still largely theoretical. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p 60 It wasn't unusu...
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Freedom from Self Seeking
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Please free my thinking of self-will, self-seeking, dishonesty, and wrong motives. -- paraphrased from Alcoholics Anonymous There is a difference between owning our power to take care of ourselves, as part of God's will for our life, and self-will. There is a difference between self-care and sel...
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1 week
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Today makes 1 week sober... I'm getting to more meetings now, my sponsor said to at least go every other day. I was going every day, but couldn't make it to one Saturday because we were picking up my friend's chicks, and couldn't make it to one yesterday because I had to pick up another turkey before the...
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I've decided to try AA again...
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wish me luck! -- Edited by tommyg at 21:28, 2007-04-30
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24 Hours a Day ~ 2nd May 2007
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In A.A. we often hear the slogan "Easy Does It." Alcoholics always do everything to excess. They drink too much. They worry too much. They have too many resentments. They hurt themselves physically and mentally by too much of everything. So when they come into A.A...
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Our Higher Power
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For the next twenty-four hours ... In recovery, we live life one day at a time, an idea requiring an enormous amount of faith. We refuse to look back - unless healing from the past is part of today's work. We look ahead only to make plans. We focus on this day's activity, living it to the best of our ability....
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Congrats:
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To Our Friend "Destiny Dreamer"....... Congrats on your 80 days sobriety! Keep it up girl. You're doing GREAT! Wanda
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Recovery Prayer
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This prayer is based on a section of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous: Thank you for keeping me straight yesterday. Please help me stay straight today. For the next twenty-four hours, I pray for knowledge of Your will for me only, and the power to carry that through. Please free my thinking of se...
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Feeling Depleted~OM
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There are times in our lives when it seems our bodies are running on empty. We are not sick, nor are we necessarily pushing ourselves to the limit-rather, the energy we typical enjoy has mysteriously dissipated, leaving only fatigue. Many people grow accustomed to feeling this way because they do no...
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Peeling Off Layers
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As we work our program, we peel off layers of old, worn out thoughts and habits. The Program gives us a place to share old hurts and fears so that we are able to get rid of them. Our Recovery friends accept us and give us the benefit of their experience. With their help, we are able to leave the old layers behi...
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24 Hours a Day ~ 1st May 2007
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The A.A. program is one of charity because the real meaning of the word charity is to care enough about other people to really want to help them. To get the full benefit of the program, we must try to help other alcoholics. We may try to help somebody and think we have failed, but th...
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24 Hours a Day ~ 30th April 2007
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The A.A. program is one of faith because we find that we must have faith in a Power greater than ourselves if we are going to get sober. We're helpless before alcohol, but when we turn our drink problem over to God and have faith that He can give us all the strength we need, then we ha...
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A Medical Opinion re: Alcoholism Denial
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Dealing with Denial in Alcoholismby Mark S. Gold, MD October 4, 2006 Denial is a characteristic distortion in thinking experienced by people with alcoholism. For decades, people who treat alcoholics, and recovering alcoholics themselves, have puzzled over why alcoholics continue to drink whe...
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Daily Reflections May 1
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HEALING HEART AND MIND Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 55 Since it is true that God comes to me through people, I can see that by keeping people at a distance I also keep God at a distance. God is nearer to me tha...
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Oh man, this's gonna' be a lot harder than before...
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I got to roughly 3 weeks alcohol-free last time and while I'm not feeling withdrawals quite as bad I think the main issue here is that I don't have the tranqualizers to dumb me down. I'm not going to drink - I've already determined that but man it's gonna' be a longer road than before... ;_; It's especial...
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Well, I'm back...
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I wouldn't say I failed at drinking in moderation but my stomach problems came back. It seems like they're finally settling down once more and once again I'm a few days into "it"... I drank roughly two times a week in my abscence and the amount I drank was probably 1/5th to 1/6th of what I dran...
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Dry drunk
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Irritable, impatience, not tolerant, capable of raging, uncontrolable feelings, grouchy. Is this considered dry drunk? Uh oh, I think I might fit this category...sometimes, not all the time. While you respond know this, remember I am still in denial (some days) that I'm an alcoholic...I don'...
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Daily Reflections Apr 30
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A GREAT PARADOX These legacies of suffering and of recovery are easily passed among alcoholics, one to the other. This is our gift from God, and its bestowal upon others like us is the one aim that today animates A.A.'s all around the globe. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 151 The great paradox o...
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Balance
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The goal is balance. We need balance between work and play. We need balance between giving and receiving. We need balance in thought and feelings. We need balance in caring for our physical self and our spiritual self. A balanced life has harmony between a professional life and a personal life. There...
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I'm a mommy! lol
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We've had 3 hens sitting... and I've seen one with 5 chicks, we've got 2 more around here somewhere with their chicks too! And... Our friend went crazy today... bought 60 baby ducks, 6 baby turkeys, 2 baby guineas, and 300 baby chicks... lol and... she surprised me with 4 baby turkeys and 3 baby gui...
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just checkin in...
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Hey y'all... just checkin in... I'm doing good... 3 days sober... getting to meetings, got a sponsor, doing my first step... It's funny, my roommate and I went to our Thursday night meeting last night, and when I shared I said something about how I'd been on a dry drunk... and after the meeting, m...
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Anxiety - Man is it ever a big part of this - Justifiably so...
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I've been feeling so much anxiety throughout this but I really don't think it's a symptom of anything - It's just a practical reaction to what's happening... The worst part about this whole ordeal is not having any life insurance - The answers are out there they're just not within practical financia...
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MIRACLE OF THE 12 STEPS
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Bonjour Hey, just a quick update, remember the girl who wanted to end her life, who was depressed, bla bla bla. Because her recovering alcoholic friend could not give her love in return.....lol Well guess what.. That girl who was scared of everything, heights, flying, people, life... Has just had...
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Powerlessness
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This week I've encountered how really helpless/powerless one can be over life events. My beloved sister underwent colon surgery this past Mon. They took a malignant mass along with 1/2 the colon plus a part of her small intestine. The tumor perforated the wall of her colon, grew and had a...
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I would like some input, please
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I have recently relapsed, about 3 months ago and when this happens, my 2 adult children, do not call, do not e-mail and I am not allowed to go to their homes or see my grandchildren. I had been sober for almost 4 years and I decided to pick up one evening after work. I drink at home, but that evening my son an...
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Addiction History
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Into my 4th week of treatment its required that my addiction history is given to my group....which means all the attention is given to me. This is going to be so hard for me because I dont like to be the center of attention...at all... Durning high school if it was speech time you would find me anywhere bu...
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Moving this one to the top of the board..."MILLER2" :)
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Cigars it is then! :) Yup, she delivered a tiny lil six pound fifteen ounce baby boy at 5:30 this morning. Just got back from the hospital about an hour ago. Every one is happy healthy and wonderfull. This is the second grandbaby now ... and what a wonderfull thing... to be able to be there and be sober... f...
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Daily Reflections apr 29
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GROUP AUTONOMY Some may think that we have carried the principle of group autonomy to extremes. For example, in its original "long form," Tradition Four declares: "Any two or three gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, provided that as a group they have...
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24 Hours a Day ~ 28th April 2007
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ We're so glad to be free from liquor that we do something about it. We get into action. We come to meetings regularly. We go out and try to help other alcoholics. We pass on the good news whenever we get a chance. In a spirit of thankfulness to God, we get into action. The A.A. progra...
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Initiating Relationships
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Often, we can learn much about ourselves from the people to whom we are attracted. As we progress through recovery, we learn we can no longer form relationships solely on the basis of attraction. We learn to be patient, to allow ourselves to take into account important facts, and to process informati...
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24 Hours a Day ~ 29th April 2007
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The A.A. program is one of faith, hope, and charity. It's a program of hope because when new members come into A.A., the first thing they get is hope. They hear older members tell how they had been through the same kind of hell that they have and how they found the way out through A....
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Food for Thought
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Who am I? Where do I come from? Why am I here? Do these questions sound familiar? These are universal questions, voiced by people from all walks of life at some point during their journey here...For many of us it takes something major, perhaps catastrophic, for us to stop from the hustle and bustle of da...
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Free of Gravity
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Flying Home As earthbound beings, humans have always had a fascination with winged creatures of all kinds. The idea of being able to spontaneously lift off from the earth and fly is so compelling to us that we invented airplanes and helicopters and myriad other flying machines in order to provide our...
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Three Choices
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You have three choices: keep on fighting, ignore each other, or make up and be friends. -- John Knoblauch Once there were four sixth-graders - two boys and two girls - who started to fight even though they'd been friends for years. One morning at the bus stop, the boys started playing keep-away with the...
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Daily Reflections Apr 28
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TWO "MAGNIFICENT STANDARDS" All A.A. progress can be reckoned in terms of just two words: humility and responsibility. Our whole spiritual development can be accurately measured by our degree of adherence to these magnificent standards. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 271 To acknowledge and resp...
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OK, this is anxiety LOL
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My wife just called. Seems my youngest daughter (18) is on the way to the hospital. I'll prolly have a new grandson by morning.
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need some help
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Hello all, i'm looking for some help, haven't been to a meeting for a while, since i lost the desire. Got so mixed up at meetings and often left me feeling drained seemed to go home with my problems and yours too. Became dissilusioned and stopped going, when i first read the 12 steps my heart skipped a bea...
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Sharing an article on "ANGER"....long
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Anger can be a Cover Up for Guilt, Shame and Vulnerability Lynne Namka, Ed. D Anger is a normal emotion that we all have. Humans have had anger since the caveman days, and it is necessary for our survival as a species. Anger, as an emotion, is neither good nor bad, it is just a feeling. Anger, as a response o...
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I am beyond angry
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Hey all, it's been awile since checking in. So sorry to dump this but I really need to vent. Picture this, the gosslings have hatched...5 of them, so cute! So after my children 5 and 2 beg me to go feed them, I decide that it would be a good idea. We take some bread down and are feeding them. My 5 year old a...
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Relationship Expectations.....long
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Blaming others for the pain we feel each time someone fails to live up to our expectations is no different than burning our tongue on coffee that's too hot to swallow, and then calling our cup an idiot! - Guy Finley ---------------------- Unfulfilled expectations always cause problems. Having expe...
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24 Hours a Day ~ 27th April 2007
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ By submitting to God, we're released from the power of liquor. It has no more hold on us. We're also released from the things that were holding us down: pride, selfishness, and fear. And we're free to grow into a new life, which is so much better than the old life that there's no co...
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