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Today's Gift - 7/2
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If you're never scared or embarrassed or hurt, it means you never take any chances. --Julia SoulDo we avoid making new friends because we're scared they won't like us? Do we get embarrassed when we make a mistake and avoid trying again? When we get our feelings hurt, do we think we're bad, or that someth...
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Grapevine
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July 2 "Today I think I can trace a clear linkage between my guilt and my pride. Both of them were certainly attention-getters. In pride I could say, 'Look at me, I am wonderful.' In guilt I would moan, 'I'm awful.' Therefore guilt is really the reverse of the coin of pride. Guilt aims at self-de...
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Beautiful Day!
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It's a beautiful, sunny day here! I hope everyone has a fantastic day today! I am meeting a friend/colleague for lunch and working our businesses with our kids in tow. This is what it's all about! Couldn't be happier! 
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Tenacity of THE LEAF.
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Blessings of this day and WELCOME to all Newcomers, those just coming back....Hello to all who have been around for a few cups of coffee!! It was about 15 years into my daily recovery(1999)and I was in my usual tree stand during another Deer Hunting Season(Mid October up North,Archery Season) my favo...
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Will be in Akron/Canton Ohio 3-6th of July
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If you live in the Akron/Canton Ohio area, my girlfriend and I will be camping at KOA Sparta, about 30 minutes from Akron, in the Canton area. We are planning to enjoy festivities and 4th of July fireworks in Downtown Canton on the 4th, and visiting Dr. Bob's house and a few other AA related sites in Akro...
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Sunrise Quote - 7/1
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There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.Beverly Sills
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Newby Day Counts
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I just realized that for the first time since I have been on this board, two newcomers have day counts posted. That makes me feel really good and it reminds me of when I was newly sober. I hope other newcomers to this board will post day counts and share with us how you are doing. And a big "WAY TO GO&quo...
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My day is getting much harder....
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Not that I want to post negative things on here, but I just need to vent. I dont think I have said this before but my husband has Crohns disease. He is really struggling with it and has been for quite some time. He is a manager at a restaurant and it is physically very demanding. I am in direct sales and have my...
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Today's Gift - 7/1
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We have the power to direct our minds to replace the feelings of being upset, depressed, and fearful with the feeling of inner peace. --Gerald G. JampolskyLearning to identify negative thoughts is a powerful way to begin changing our negative behavior. We always think before we act, even if the thin...
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Inspirational AA video on YouTube
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This has moved many people. It's not recommended for those in very early sobriety. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RLYl84WKcdk
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Please help
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Me and my boyfriend have been together almost two years. We met while we were both in rehab for alcoholism 3 years ago but he went back drinking initally so we didn't begin a relationship until almost a year later when he came back into recovery. Since then things have been good. We had our little spats li...
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Grapevine
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July 1 "As devastatingly difficult as they have been, the last two years have been a giant Seventh Tradition workshop. Never in my married life or in any time before it had I truly understood what being self-supporting meant. I had relied on others to take care of me, not just financially, but em...
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Hate
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Well as many of you know I have quite the resentment for the former wife. I've been praying daily for a God to give me the willingness to forgive. Today I woke up and just couldn't be a hater no more no matter how I tried. I'm actually able to seperate the person from the action and love her unconditionally....
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A TA-DA Moment
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A little background first: I am native American. My belief system includes a spirit animal which in my particular case is the mountain lion. My inner child is also personified by a mountain lion - they are the same to me: inner child = spirit animal. So anyway, my wife is driving to work last night in o...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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June 30, 2014Quote of the Week"Just because you're having a bad day doesn't mean you're having a bad life." It's amazing the way my mind used to work. When things were good, it told me they wouldn't last. When things were bad, it told me they were going to get worse. When I was having a bad da...
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Day one and scared but hopeful
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This is my first day here and was my first serious day in getting real with myself and admitting how bad things have been for a while and how much I need to change. I went to a meeting this morning and met a really nice woman who I met for tea later in the day. She has offered to take me through the steps. I am scar...
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Day 3 and going strong!
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I woke up this morning to my two young children jumping on my bed asking me for pancakes, lol. What was great was, my first thought wasnt , please be quiet I have a headache. I scooped them up and gave them the biggest kisses. Then preceded to get up, make my coffee and make them pancakes. Its little victori...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/30
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The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stand at a times of challenge.Martin Luther King, Jr.
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6-1/2 Things You Should Stop Expecting of Others & Are You Secretly Lonely
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http://www.oprah.com/spirit/Things-You-Shouldnt-Expect-from-Other-People BTY
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Grapevine
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June 30 "Today, there are hundreds of [AA] centers shedding their warm illumination upon the lives of thousands, lighting the dark shoals where the stranded and hopeless lie breaking up -- those fingers of light already stretching to our beachheads in other lands. "Now comes another li...
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Today's Gift - 6/30
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No man really becomes a fool until he stops asking questions. --Charles P. Steinmetz We often pass up the chance to ask a question of someone because we don't want to feel stupid. In the past, we kept very busy trying to look like we were in control; trying to seem as though we already knew what we needed t...
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ODAT
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I had another good day today. Just ended it with a good beginners meeting. Somebody shared for 30 min then they picked a topic. Tonite was step nine. Heard the message and not anyone's mess. There was even laughter about out past transgressions. All right so here's a question. How does one truly know if...
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Day 2
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Good morning everyone. I went to bed last night feeling very grateful that I found this site and for all of the people I have already connected with. Today I feel driven, enthusiastic, and proud about my future. I have so many plans for myself and my family and I will be putting all of my energy towards tha...
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What State Do Most Americans Drink Themselves To Death The Most
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ww.huffingtonpost.com/2014/06/26/alcohol-deaths-states-us_n_5532034.html?icid=maing-grid7|main5|dl2|sec1_lnk3%26pLid%3D494195(I was surprised it was this state--I would have thought this one would be far down on the list.) BTY -- Edited by betterthanyesterday52 on Su...
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unscribe
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Dear administrators... please unscribe me from this site. I keep getting error messages when I try. I have tried deactivating my account.. reactivating try to unscribe. . It says unscribe failed.. the notifications are taking over my email account. Please help me with this. Thank you..
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Weekly Thought --- (religious concept)
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Weekly VerseTherefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. Romans 5:1Weekly QuoteA spiritual secret is to learn contentment with the things God doesnt explain to us. Amy CarmichaelWeekly ThoughtWe are blessed to have two types of peace: the peac...
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Now What?
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I have been sober for 795 days. Amazing milestone. I also have just been diagnosed with Stage 4 lung cancer. How ironic . Go back to drinking? I don't think so. Took me to many years to climb out of THAT hell hole. Oh well. Not sure how to feel right now, only that drinking will not help the situatio...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/29
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The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.Walt Disney
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Today's Gift - 6/29
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Remember the Golden KeyWhenever trouble arises, the first thing to do is to turn it over to our Higher Power. We can take all necessary practical steps to solve a problem, but we don't need to decide what the answer may be. Do this, and you'll soon be out of your difficulty.This is essentially the formul...
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New and scared
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Hello all. I'm new here and dont really know where to start. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
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Friendship Bread and AA
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Years ago, I was given a bowl of liquid with instructions. The woman who gave it to me lived across the street from me and I had never met her. We saw one another in passing and I am not even sure if we waved at one another. I thought it a bit strange that this woman who I had not had one conversation with, knocke...
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Today's Gift - 6/27
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Stopping, calming, and resting are preconditions for healing. When animals in the forest are wounded they find a place to lie down and rest completely for many days . . . They just rest and get the healing they need.--Thich Nhat HanhWe hurt. We suffer. We wrong our loved ones and they do wrong by us. Reac...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/28
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The most important thing about goals is...having one.Geoffrey Abert
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Today's Gift - 6/28
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The handwriting on the wall may be a forgery.--Ralph HodgsonToo often we are superstitious and interpret signs in negative or hostile ways. Because we don't believe in ourselves, we tend to think that fate is against us.But life isn't for us or against us. If we are attentive, we will see many signs of...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/27
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You are today where your thoughts have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts take you.James Allen
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Today's Gift - 6/26
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Self-esteem comes from doing esteemable acts.I once had a beautiful plant. It sat on my dining room table for three weeks as I waited for it to blossom. Each week, I waited for something to happen. By week three, instead of a luscious blooming bush, what revealed itself was a dry, shriveled piece of not...
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Grapevine
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June 26 "I know that my errors of yesterday still have their effect; that my shortcomings of today may likewise affect our future. So it is, with each and all of us."
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Grapevine
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June 25 "Even though some of the ghosts of the past may still be spooking around, popping up from time to time to scare me, today I can pretty much handle them. Today the only real monster I have to face is myself, that part of me that tries to urge me back to drinking."
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Sunrise Quote - 6/26
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Person to person, moment to moment, as we love, we change the world.Samahria Kaufman
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Step 4
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Hi all, Am starting my 4th step and would like to find someone (female) who would be my online sponsor and help me through this and the remaining steps. I have done steps 1 - 3. Thank you, Dotrix
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Tenth Step (and yes, it really IS a dance)
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We continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it. Step Ten of the Twelve Steps So, that means I need to admit I was wrong the other night by not removing the whole thread instead of just the personal posts. My apologies to any one who was hurt. It was NOT a case of singlin...
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In a funk bad thinking.... Need to tell on myself
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So I'm on the site again to tell on myself. From the outside I'm doing everything I should. I go to meetings most days and sometimes two meetings a day. Did step 4 & 5 which led to 6- 7- 8- 9. This is my second go round so a lot of this work has been done meaning my 9th step. I have made the family amends and the...
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Today's Gift - 6/25
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Overachieving may be symptomatic.Suffering from low self-esteem is common. Some of it may be blamed on growing up in families affected by alcohol or other drugs. Perhaps the criticism heaped on us at school or in a bad marriage triggered it. We may have thousands of reasons for lacking a sense of our w...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/25
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Small opportunities are often the beginning of great enterprises.Demosthenes
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Still here
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Well I'm still sober which is a good thing. Asking God to give me the willingness to take action and get on with my life. Asking him to help me surrender. Went to the Gym this morning which tired me out a little. Which is a good thing keeps the thoughts at bay and more manageable with less stress.
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HP on the move
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This is going to be long. I spend time on a number of MIP boards and the following is a series of three posts that I've made elsewhere on MIP and decided to share here as well. Here was the first post: Back in May of last year, my doctor gave me a choice: quit work or live to see Christmas. I quit. I didn't ha...
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Welcome Ayla
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Hi Ayla, ... Welcome to MIP ... You mentioned the thought of trying non-alcoholic wine in your post ... don't think that's a good idea, although, I drink Welch's grape juice for breakfast every day, LOL ... but it doesn't come in a 'wine' bottle with the cork or cap sealed either ... I just love the tast...
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Sunrise Quote - 6/24
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Passionate living is when we align our head and heart through action.Marica Weider
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Today's Gift - 6/24
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Don't quit five minutes before the miracle happens. --AnonymousWhen we came into the Program, most of us had very little to show for our lives. We believed in nothing. We had experienced great disappointments. The greedy creditor that was our addiction had stripped away everything of meaning to us...
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Making Amends--Warning! Religious content (Fr. Richard Rohr)
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Wise AmendsTuesday, June 24, 2014We made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others. Step Nine of the Twelve StepsStep Nine is an example of the wisdom implicit in the Twelve Steps. Eastern religions often called such wisdom skillful means. Wisd...
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