I have been stuck in this new change in my life. In the past, I pretty much have always let people walk all over me and I thought that this behavior was ok. I would always feel like I was the victom. I didn't know how to say no.
I have been stuck with this attitude problem lately. I have learned to say no and to also stand up for myself when someone is taking advantage of me but my attitude and my tone is of someone who is mean...i guess that is how I would put it. I am very assertive but my tone is harsh and I don't like it at all.
I am really trying to balance things out but maybe this takes time....
