Since I have decided to do something that I wanted to do (go to uni) she has dropped into a deep depression.
I feel this is an arrangement of finances rather than a relationship of love.
"I will be ok once Ive got the house, once ive got the kid, once i have money"
last night she asked me for some advice that she asked me 3 years ago and I gave her the the same answer as three years ago, but she is not willing to sacrifice anything on her part in order to help the situation.
I am frustrated, and hurt, because I know I am feeling like this because this is not working, I am trying my best but she will just not move on her fixed ideas so its always me who loses out.
I really don't know anything about your partner, and little about your relationship other than what you have said. I have to ask though, is it possible that she is afraid because she feels your relationship may be threatened by the changes that are happening in you?
I really don't know anything about your partner, and little about your relationship other than what you have said. I have to ask though, is it possible that she is afraid because she feels your relationship may be threatened by the changes that are happening in you?
I think its more the fact that she is feeling trapped , and feels that getting "that" house, car and kid will solve it.
