Met up with my sponsor Wednesday and went over my 8th step. He wants me to do some stuff with it, like breaking it up into columns like I did my 4th, with different headings. Okay!
This whole making amends deal is kind of frightening! This is definitely one of those steps I can't go alone! I think I'll always need guidance with these steps. Thank God for sponsors and this wonderful support network we have!
It's a wonderful feeling to remember what I've done and where I've been for these past 7 months! No hangovers. No guilt and shame over things I've done. Isn't sobriety wonderful?
Oh, by the way, I just had 7 months Thursday. Yay!
Just another check-in from a sober drunk!
Take care everyone and have a wonderful (sober) weekend!
congrats to u. u have come a long way baby. we are all in this together. i just love your title. im starting to feel that way too. we are one big family. too bad some of us live so far away. i feel so great every day after reading what u guys write on here. i would love to give each and every one of u a great big HUG. u are all so inspiratonal. take care u...
It's great to see you posting again. You have been missed.
Congratulations on your seven months!!!
I'm working on step seven and I know that step eight is looming for me and I'm thinking about it a lot. When I first came back to AA I didn't really think that there were too many people that I needed to make amends to. But, the more I think about it, the bigger the list is getting. It'll feel good to have it behind me.
I just loved your gratitude and what you said about waking up without a hangover and no guilt and shame of things that you had done. Guilt and shame were daily things for me, along with king-sized hangovers. It's so truly wonderful to be free of those feelings at long last.
Thank you for reminding me how wonderful my sobriety is.
Take care and have a great weekend,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
Just wanted to share Joni's words, this is a very wonderful and freeing Step, Practice, Practice. I noticed after my Amends, on the second or third one, that it did get easier, with the doing. and the experience of the doing, and then AWE, the Freedom.