"Woe to the man whose heart has not learned while young to hope, to love ... and to put its trust in life."
-- Joseph Conrad
How deeply do you trust your own guidance?
Always trust that you know what's best for you. To move forward in your life, gather information from the "experts," consider how their advice relates to your situation and then act only on what feels right for you. You are the only expert for your own life.
"I trust so much in the power of the heart and the soul; I know that the answer to what we need to do next is in our own hearts. All we have to do is listen, then take that one step further and trust what we hear. We will be taught what we need to learn."
-- Melody Beattie
"I never know what the next lesson is going to be, because we’re not supposed to know; we’re supposed to trust ourselves to discover it."
-- Melody Beattie
I beleive this with all my heart. My problem lays in the fact that I do not listen to my heart, my gut reaction, because I lost so much faith and trust in myself over the years. I need to remind myself, I am not my past--it's okay to listen now....Wren
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i found god in myself/and I loved her/i loved her fiercely--Ntozake Shange
I can't tell you how many times I have gone on ahead and done something which didn't feel right at the time. Usually ended up a lot worse than if I would've gone with my first mind.
Today I try not to make spontaneous decisions. Not a good thing for this alcoholic!