I have just joined this forum and wanted to say 'hi' to everybody.
My name is Carol and I'm an alcoholic. I have been sober since November 5th 2005 and I am feeling really great about it. I'm starting to feel great about life and beginning to love every minute of it.
I regularly attend AA meetings and I get so much out of them. I have a sponsor and I am working the 12 steps.
It's a bright sunny morning here and I'm going to make a start on my step 4! Wish me luck!!!
Very best wishes to everyone.
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
Hello Carol, and good morning to you from the states.
Glad to have you aboard. Hope you stick around. If you spend time on your computer this is a great place to share experience, strength, and hope. Have a good one!
Thanks for taking the time to welcome me. That was very much appreciated.
I plan on sticking around here as I truly love the look of the M.I.P. board. I'm sure that there are lots of useful shares, advice and tips. I will be posting as much as I can.
Take care,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
We just celebrated the 70th AA Founder's Day here, and I happened to meet a few chaps from London... how exciting!!! You are welcome here and so very much loved!!!
Thanks for that. Yup, 7 months sober is starting to feel truly wonderful. I can't believe how much my life is starting to change for the better.
I really liked the look of this board and joined this morning. I can see that there is so much support available here. It just seems to be a great place.
My step 4 is going well this morning. I have worked hard for the last several hours and I'm off for a well earned cup of coffee!
Take care,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
Thanks for such a super welcome. Wow, I so wish that I lived in the birthplace of AA. I know that I would get so much out of that. But, one day in the future .... who knows?
We recently had a guy attend several of our AA meetings from New York. He was saying that the meetings here in the UK are different from what he was used to. We spent ages comparing notes and it was fascinating. But, I'm so glad that AA is world-wide and that no matter where I am, I'll never be far from a meeting. That's good to know.
Very best wishes to you,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
Hello - my name is Jeannie and I am an alcoholic. I have been sober for nine months.
I am with everyone here when I say hello, big hugs. Keep it Super Simple - this is what I am trying to do with my step four. Hope it goes well for you. I don't like to use the word stupid because when you really think about it we are the smart ones to find this program. Just my share at this moment in time.
I am also with Phil with a Big Welcome from Canada.
Later - Jeannie
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You only live once; but if you work it right, once is enough. There is nothing better than the encouragement of a good friend.
Thanks for your welcome and for your wise words, too. Congratulations on nine months of sobriety!
I agree with you about keeping it Super Simple. I can so easily complicate the most simple thing. I have been putting in the hours on my step four today and I'm feeling good about all that I have done. I still have a very long way to go, but I had the time to sit and really work and reflect. I feel that I have started to learn about myself again today. It's frightening, daunting and thrilling all at the same time.
I completely agree with you that we are the smart ones in finding this great program. And, I'd like to add that we are the lucky ones, too! My heart goes out to the folks who haven't discovered the joy of living sober yet.
With all best wishes,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
I feel truly lucky that I have discovered this Forum. I know that it is going to be a wonderful tool for me and a super asset, too. I plan on being around here for a long time and posting often.
Take care,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
Welcome to the MIP board, Carol. I loved getting up and reading not only a newcomer here but such a happy one, LOL! I got to smile before I had my first cup of coffee. I am so looking forward to hearing about your experience, strength and hope here. This is a good place to be! Wren
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i found god in myself/and I loved her/i loved her fiercely--Ntozake Shange
Yes, I am happy. My life is changing and getting better on a daily basis. Recently, my neighbour's little boy hurt his foot. His father was out and so he came to me. I helped him, washed the injury and dressed it for him. The joy to me was that I was stone cold sober and I knew that I was doing everything correctly. I get so much pure joy now from the little things in life. They are the things that matter most to me.
Wren, this isn't a good place to be - it's a FANTASTIC place to be! I have been made to feel so welcome today that at times I could have sat and cried.
Have a GREAT day, won't you?
Take care,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
What a wonderful lot of welcome messages I am receiving. I cannot believe what a wonderful bunch of folk are here! Thank you for your kind welcome, too.
It's good to meet you, too, Wagon. And, I'll keep truckin!!
Take care,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
Thanks for taking the time to reply to me. It means a lot. I cannot get over the warmth of the welcomes that I have received today. It has been truly staggering.
It was good to read that you are a grateful alcoholic. When I first started with AA, I was very resentful of the fact that I was an alcoholic. But, I am so truly grateful today for all that AA is helping me to achieve. Now, I, too, am a grateful alcoholic.
Congrats on your sobriety and you take care,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
Yah...gratefulness...it's a toughy. I didn't understand it and most certainly didn't feel it when I first came into the Program. Infact, anytime someone introduced themselves as a "Grateful Alcoholic" I wanted to spit at them! LOL I would think to myself they were totally and completely full of SHIT!
But today, I get it. Today I feel it. Today I know it for myself....this gratitude for my Alcoholism.
Hi Carol! I'm new here too, just joined a few days ago, I'm pretty new to AA too, just started going a week ago. 3 days sober right now. Anyway, good to meet you, congrats on your 7 months! That's encouragement to me, seeing how long everyone's gone without alcohol! Hope to get to know you better!
I had to laugh at how you used to handle grateful alcoholics because you described me. I couldn't see how anybody could be grateful. I just couldn't get it. It wasn't as if when I left school I said that I wanted to be an alcoholic!
But, thankfully, life is changing for me. Sure, I get good and bad days, but even the bad days are better than the drunken 'good days' that I used to have. I don't always see it at the time, but I'm learning.
Have a great day,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
Thanks for posting to me as you did. That was really good to get.
Congratulations on 3 days sober!!! You must be feeling pretty proud of yourself at the moment. I remember the early days so well. I'm so glad that you are going to AA meetings. They really do work for me and I now enjoy going to them. When I first started, I went because I knew that AA worked and I wanted to stop drinking, but I couldn't see myself ever enjoying them. But, now they are great.
Keep going to meetings and take everything one day at a time. Then, you'll find that it does get better. It really does. (I used to hate it when folks said that to me. I just couldn't see it. But, they were right).
Have a great and sober day.
Take care,
Carol
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss