It is impossible to overemphasize the immense need humans have to be really listened to, to be taken seriously, to be understood. --Dr. Paul Tournier, M.D.
We need assurance that our presence has value to the lives of those around us at home, work, and play. Our self worth should not be solely tied to someone else's attention to us or love for us; however, our personal being is validated and thus enhanced each time we have evidence of being fully listened to.
Just as we hunger for attention and validation, so do the many people sharing our travels at this time. And sadly, we're rushing through our experiences not very attentive to either the events or the persons who have engaged our involvement.
The choice to slow down, to honor the flowers, the children, the loud and silent moments of the day, is ours. It's an expression of love for life, for ourselves and everyone we encounter, if we take a moment to look and listen with our full being.
Each aspect of life is enriched when honored by a listening heart. Let's cherish the golden rule.
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* We eventually realize that just as the pains of alcoholism had to come before sobriety, emotional turmoil comes before serenity. *