Well, My husband's boys are not coming for Christmas this year. They are 8 and 12, and live 1,000 miles away. He only sees them twice a year, well, this year, they came for 6 weeks in the summer. I feel bad for my husband, as I know he is hurt and sad. But he works SO many long hours in the winter, towing heavy trucks and semis that break down on the turnpike.
They are staying put because their stepfather, who is active in the military, is being sent to Afghanistan right before the New Year. They need to spend time with him before he goes.
Also, I am leaving the 26th for Florida with my dad.
So it will not be the same, but I am grateful that they are safe and warm, and that we are too, and that I am sober for the holidays. I am also working on the biggest fattest box of gifts for them that you have ever seen, to be sent out Monday.
Just wanted to share my feelings on this, and I will be treating Josh (my husband) with a little extra tenderness this year. Please pray for the boys' stepdad, that he will come home from the Middle East safe and healthy.
Thanks.
Joni
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~~"It's hard to be hateful when you're grateful."~~
My son's first tour of duty was to Afghanistan then two tours in Iraq. I was so worried. His brothers said don't worry mom he is tough. And my brother, a Vietnam vet, said don't worry, they are well trained. Godspeed.
Yes of course. The troops serving have had extra special meaning to me since this Iraqian thing started back when with Desert Storm. Nephew served in Kuwait. My sister's only son. He was barely home and was sent to Korea. A short break of a few years and shipped to Iraq. Iraq was different! Twice his unit came underfire. Our prayers were answered. He made it home safe....without a scratch! My own son goes this coming year. First it was Sept. Now it is May with the real possibility of leaving much sooner. We can only pray and hope for the best. Wanda
