There are times when we simply do not know what to do, or where to go, next. Sometimes these periods are brief, sometimes lingering.
We can get through these times. We can rely on our program and the disciplines of recovery. We can cope by using our faith, other people, and our resources.
Accept uncertainty. We do not always have to know what to do or where to go next. We do not always have clear direction. Refusing to accept the inaction and limbo makes things worse.
It is okay to temporarily be without direction. Say, "I don't know," and be comfortable with that. We do not have to try to force wisdom, knowledge, or clarity when there is none.
While waiting for direction, we do not have to put our life on hold. Let go of anxiety and enjoy life. Relax. Do something fun. Enjoy the love and beauty in your life. Accomplish small tasks. They may have nothing to do with solving the problem, or finding direction, but this is what we can do in the interim.
Clarity will come. The next step will present itself. Indecision, inactivity, and lack of direction will not last forever.
Today, I will accept my circumstances even if I lack direction and insight. I will remember to do things that make myself and others feel good during those times. I will trust that clarity will come of its own accord.
From The Language of Letting Go
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Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
Great share Carol! As always the reading touches me somewhere deep!
"While waiting for direction, we do not have to put our life on hold."-Some of us, at least me, tend to not put our life on hold so I dont have to face the "directions!!" Will do anything but what Im supposed to do! But the longer I put off whats needed to be done, the less happy I am with myself....The less focused I am and the less likely Im open to do gods will!
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"We tend to forget that happiness doesn't come as a result of getting something we don't have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have. "
Thanks for this, Q. Lani! I really love what you added. Those words are such wisdom, the truth of which reverberated right through me. Wish I'd realised this earlier in the week. I've been spending far too much time online instead of actually getting on & doing some work. I'll have homework in the New year so I know at least I'll have the time to do it when I cut back on messing about! Keep up your good work too. I love that this is indeed God's will for me & I'm rewarded well with esteem & productivity when I exercise it. Take care, ladies! Danielle x
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