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AA Founder's Day 2008
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This is the official site, and it will be updated regularly as more information becomes available. http://www.akronaa.org/foundersday/
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It' not all about me!
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I just lost about 60 words because I hit the tab button. Thank God I can just start over. It wasn't so easy with relapse. I will get back to the subject at hand and try to get close to my original document. In the begining you all told me that I am the most important person in the room. I think this might hav...
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~~Types of Meetings?~~
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What kinds of meetings do you like best and why? All meetings, where one alcoholic can speak the "Language of the Heart" to another are a blessing. But some prefer, or are especially blessed by, certain types of meetings. Mine right now are Big Book Studies. It is the first time that these t...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 24th January 2008
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Alcoholics who are living in a blind alley refuse to be really honest with themselves or with other people. They're running away from life and won't face things as they are. They won't give up their resentments. They're too sensitive and too easily hurt. They refuse to try to...
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GETTING INVOLVED - Daily Reflections 1/24
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GETTING INVOLVED There is action and more action. "Faith without works is dead." . . . To be helpful is our only aim. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS , pp. 88-89 I understand that service is a vital part of recovery but I often wonder, "What can I do?" Simply start with what I have today! I loo...
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Funny Thing I've Noticed
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I was a huge bourbon and coke drinker. Now when I go to drink a glass of coke, I swear I can still taste the bourbon. Mind tricks or do I need to get a new dishwasher?
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Clearing the Slate
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One of the greatest gifts we can give is an open, loving heart. And holding on to negative feelings from past relationships is our greatest barrier to that gift.
Most of us have had relationships that have ended. When we examine these relationships, we need to clear the emotional slate. Are we holdi...
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Appreciating Our Past
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It is easy to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness. But it is much more healing to look at ourselves and our past in the light of experience, acceptance, and growth. Our past is a series of lessons that advance us to higher levels of living and loving.
The relationships we entered, stayed i...
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ACK~FLU~ but grateful.....
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Well, I am down with the flu. I just got over pneumonia 2 months ago. Ack! But this time, it isn't because I was running around all hours of the night doing stupid things. I caught this one from my husband. :o) Anyway, I am so grateful, that while I cannot POSSIBLY get out to a meeting this weekend, that MI...
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90 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Just had to share because I truly didnt think I would make it this far!!!! FINALLY, have the big ole 90 days!!! Truly could not have done it without my HP, AA and of course my MIP friends that have saved my ass a million times over! Sometimes without even knowing it! Realize I have a LONG road to tow but am def...
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Gratitude Should Go Forward ~As Bill Sees It~
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Gratitude Should Go Forward "Gratitude should go forward, rather than backward. "In other words, if you carry the message to still others, you will be making the best possible repayment for the help given to you." <<<>>> No satisfaction has been deeper and no j...
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HG's Noon F2F Ringer
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She had about 8 months in I think, showed up and shared that she'd been drunk for 3 days, had snorted an 8 ball of cocaine and her 'wakeup' was when some guy offered her the crack pipe. She bitched, moaned, cried and screamed. Everyone sat quietly and listened for a moment. Then people started to share the...
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Anonymity and spouses
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I don't know how to deal with this. I've been sober about 1 1/2 months. I finally "had enuff" and joined AA, my drinking had been causing problems in my life and in my marriage for several years. I feel good about my recovery, I feel much better about myself overall. When I had enuff afte...
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New Energy Coming
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Fun becomes fun, love becomes love, and life becomes worth living. And we become grateful. -- Beyond Codependency
There is a new energy, a new feeling coming into our life. We cannot base our expectations about how we will feel tomorrow, or even a few hours from now, on how we feel at this moment.
Th...
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Interventions
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As most of you are aware I'm sort of the interloper of the group in that I've never developed
or had a problem with alcohol consumption. I started out here to learn from the alcoholic's point of view. You have all graciously accepted that and taught me alot.
I've read about interventions. I'm curious...
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New Baby...and stir crazy!
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I have been a little on and off with posting on the forum, but reading everyone's messages have really helped me in the past few months. When I first found the site I had just moved to a new city, got married, and was newly pregnant. Well, now I have my five-week-old baby on my lap as I type this, and it's he...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 23rd January 2008
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Alcoholics are people whose drinking got them into a "blind alley." They haven't been able to learn anything from their drinking experiences. They are always making the same mistakes and suffering the same consequences over and over again. They refuse to admit...
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HAVING FUN YET? - Daily Reflections 1/23
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HAVING FUN YET? . . . we aren't a glum lot. If newcomers could see no joy or fun in our existence, they wouldn't want it. We absolutely insist on enjoying life. We try not to indulge in cynicism over the state of the nations, nor do we carry the world's troubles on our shoulders. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS , p. 13...
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my son is on coke
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I have just found out my son is useing coke and gabling every bit of money he has is there anything i can do to help him. Or should i let go with love and ask god to help us both ,please can any-one help me and tell me what i should do thanks Linda xxxxxxxx
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36 Tips for a Powerful New Year
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1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant. 2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to. 3. Buy a Tivo (DVR), tape your late night shows and get more sleep. 4. When you wake up in the morning complete the following stat...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 22nd January 2008
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In the beginning, you want to get sober, but you're helpless, so you turn to a Power greater than yourself and by trusting in that Power, you get the strength to stop drinking. From then on, you want to keep sober, and that's a matter of reeducating your mind. After a while, you ge...
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Miss my sponsor - just sharing
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Well, my sponsor's flight was delayed by a day due to gettting snowed in! I talked to her hubby earlier and she won't land back in S.C. till 9:30 tonight. Got lots going on and really need to share some.... My son came to see me. He's decided not to come back home. He's living with friends, a teenage married...
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History of the disease concept
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We often think of the idea that Alcoholism is a disease as a modern concept. Personally i didn't buy the idea and thought it was a hoax to get money from the insurance company. My sobriety was pretty uncomfortable at first but there came times when I accepted a little more and then a little more that I actu...
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Getting more involved :)
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Hey y'all, I'm going a million miles a minute again tonight... so I'm sorry I know I'm gonna ramble a bit... I really try not to... my friends tell me it's ok cuz they know I can't help it lately but I think it bothers ME more than anyone else lol I went to the meeting down here in MS tonight, it's my homegroup n...
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SERVING MY BROTHER - Daily Reflections 1/21
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SERVING MY BROTHER The member talks to the newcomer not in a spirit of power but in a spirit of humility and weakness. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS COMES OF AGE p. 279 As the days pass in A.A., I ask God to guide my thoughts and the words that I speak. In this labor of continuous participation in the Fellowship, I h...
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Think I'm going inpatient
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I'm calling my doctor tomorrow.. and I think I'm going inpatient... you know people say "if one person suggests something, listen... if several people suggest something, you better take action"... well several people today have suggested going inpatient. I might have sounded l...
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~As Bill Sees It~ Light From A Prayer
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Light From A Prayer "God grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the difference." <<<>>> We treasure our "Serenity Prayer" because it brings a new light to us that can dissip...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 21st January 2008
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ To grasp the A.A. program, we have to think things out. Saint Paul said, "They are transformed by the renewing of their minds." We have to learn to think straight. We have to change from alcoholic thinking to sober thinking. We must build up a new way of looking at thi...
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My Gratitude List
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How lucky we are in recovery that we can have such a fantastic tool as a gratitude list. I truly believe that a grateful heart can't get drunk. I read that somewhere and it really struck a chord with me.
I've been in pain for just over a week now with a neck condition that has limited what I can and can't do q...
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Wants and Needs
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Part of taking responsibility for us means taking responsibility for what we want and need, and knowing that's okay to do.
Learning to tune in to us, learning to listen to ourselves, is an art. It takes practice. We can use our ability to guess what others want and need and apply that skill to ourselve...
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Welcome to the newcommers..and thoughts are with those going through lifes tests
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LETTING GO TAKES LOVE To let go does not mean to stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else. To let go is not to cut myself off, it's the realization I can't control another. To let go is not to enable, ...
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just to say hi
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Hi all just wanted to say hi and i hope everyone is ok Linda xxx
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 20th January 2008
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ In A.A. we're all through with lying, hangovers, remorse, and wasting money. When we were drinking we were only half alive. Now that we're trying to live decent, honest, unselfish lives, we're really alive. Life has a new meaning for us, so that we can really enjoy it. We feel t...
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"WE PAUSE . . . AND ASK" - Daily Reflections 1/20
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"WE PAUSE . . . AND ASK" As we go through the day we pause, when agitated or doubtful, and ask for the right thought or action. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.87 Today I humbly ask my Higher Power for the grace to find the space between my impulse and my action; to let flow a cooling breeze when I would r...
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New Beginnings
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Resentments are the blocks that hold us back from loving others and ourselves. Resentments do not punish the other person; they punish us. They become barriers to feeling good and enjoying life. They prevent us from being in harmony with the world. Resentments are hardened chunks of anger. They loo...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 19th January 2008
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ On the foundation of sobriety, we can build a life of honesty, unselfishness, faith in God, and love of our fellow human beings. We'll never fully reach these goals, but the adventure of building that kind of life is so much better than the merry-go-round of our old drinking li...
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God's Stairway
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Did you know ?
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Binge drinking is the hardest to overcome? I recently heard this. And of all places it came from Dr. Drew on Celebrity Recovery (or Rehab) on VH1....... My disease has conditioned my mind and body to be able to go for periods of time without alcohol......Then, out of no where, it blindsides me! ...Now...
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Step 4
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Hello everyone, Rosco here and I just need some advice about Step 4. I have set it up in BB format but, if I may say so I really don't know at what point do I stop? My Sponsor just tells me to do my best. I put down the things that bother me the most. I am also ready to forgive and move on. My sobriety is so ver...
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Happy New Year
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It's been a while guys. Checking in to say hello and let you all know my update. My husband and I have decided that we have reached the end of our journey together. This is for the better but it's still never easy. I've learned how to take care of myself and that I deserve to be in a healthy relationship....
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Random thoughts
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Must have been dreaming about giving a lead or something.... Im wondering why I am here in AA..... Why did God chose ME to be an alcoholic? At times I get pissed and think poor me. Why cant I be normal? Well, today for some reaon, Im thinking, WHY DID God choose me to be an alcoholic and be in such a wonderful...
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Owning Our Power
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There is one feeling we need to pay particular attention to in recovery: feeling victimized. We do not need to become comfortable with that feeling.
How do we feel when we've been victimized? Helpless. Rageful. Powerless. Frustrated.
Feeling victimized is dangerous. Often, it can prompt us i...
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ROUND THE CLOCK FAITH - Daily Reflections 1/19
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ROUND-THE-CLOCK FAITH Faith has to work twenty-four hours a day in and through us, or we perish. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.16 The essence of my spiritually, and my sobriety, rests on a round-the-clock faith in a Higher Power. I need to remember and rely on the God of my understanding as I pursue all of my...
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Going Away for awhile
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Hey gals and guys, you're getting a little vacation from me, literally. Going skiing with Mrs. Dean tomorrow, be back in 8 days. No internets there unless I can find a cyber coffee shop. I'll miss you. -- Edited by StPeteDean at 20:31, 2008-01-17
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 18th January 2008
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A.A. Thought for the Day ~ The new life can't be built in a day. We have to take the program slowly, a little at a time. Our subconscious minds have to be reeducated. We have to learn to think differently. We have to get used to sober thinking instead of alcoholic thinking. Anyone who tries it knows that the...
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WOULD A DRINK HELP? Daily Reflections 1/18
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WOULD A DRINK HELP? By going back in our drinking histories, we could show that years before we realized it we were out of control, that our drinking even then was no mere habit, that was indeed the beginning of a fatal progression. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 23 When I was still drinking, I co...
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Gratitude
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Sometimes in life, things happen too fast. We barely solve one problem when two new problems surface. We're feeling great in the morning, but we're submerged in misery by nightfall.
Every day we face interruptions, delays, changes, and challenges. We face personality conflicts and disappoint...
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New thread re an old thread
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For all my dear Sober~vibers.. I want to share with you this. I went right back when MIP was new@activeboard. I wanted a flavour of our heritage & came back with this from the archives. Only had a quick skip down those memoir lanes but enjoyed it thoroughly. Thanks to everyone for keeping on coming b...
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Being to seriouse
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Hi everyone i went to a meeting last night it was graet it always is for me. But i realise that i take everthing too seriouse my life just about evey one, And it has taken me 8 years to see this how mad is that . love Linda xxx
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Help!!
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I have been sober 14 years - November 26, 1993. I have never relapsed with alchohal or drugs, but have found my way to other addictions. Sex, internet, gambling, pornography, ect. I have become very lazy in my recovery. I have not gone to a meeting in about 6 months - I simply leave my house as if I am going...
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