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Grapevine
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January 31 "We well know that our defects, as people and as a Society, have been and still are very great. And we hope that we shall never cease to rededicate ourselves to their correction."
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Today's Gift
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Perfection is expressing God's will enthusiastically.Sponsors tell us that this is a simple program we are prone to complicate. Reflecting on our lives, we probably would agree. Because we doubt that God will tell us how to handle the circumstances facing us, we aggressively move ahead, making de...
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Sunrise Quote
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Live your beliefs and you can turn the world around.Henry David Thoreau
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Today's Gift
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Expectations Higher Power, help me stop expecting so much from myself.I set unrealistic standards, and when they are not met, unhappiness follows.Help me be true to myself and only expect what I am capable of doing. As I grow in recovery and do my assignments every day, I am able to do more.Your will pr...
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Sunrise Quote
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If we are together nothing is impossible. If we are divided all will fail.Winston Churchill Bonus Quote: " The greater part of our happiness OR misery depends upon our dispositions, and NOT upon our circumstances." - Martha Washington
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Grapevine
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January 30 "I am finally learning really to live one day at a time and to appreciate and be alert to the beautiful, marvel-filled, albeit sometimes infuriating world around me."
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So now I have a few 24 hours
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I Have been sober 20 months and should be extremely grateful. I evaded death( Doctors gave me 18 mo), I have a good job, I beleive I am a good father. Yet as I still find days were I still feel lonely and without any purpose except to be a earner. I don't think of drinking I just miss the feeling of not caring. W...
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Grapevine
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January 29 "Up to now AA seems to have taken the right turning at each new crossroad. This could scarcely have been our doing alone. Our Fellowship has afforded a convincing proof of that wise old adage which declares that 'man's extremity is God's opportunity."
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Grapevine
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January 24 "I try to accept reality instead of trying to control it. When I make that adjustment, the struggle ends."
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Any Input on This??
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At the meeting I went to last night, we had a woman newcomer. It was her first meeting. I looked behind me where the AA literature was displayed because I wanted to get a "Where and When" book to pass around and get numbers for her to call. There were not any. A couple of other members looked for...
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Today's Gift
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Although the act of nurturing another's spiritual growth has the effect of nurturing one's own, a major characteristic of genuine love is that the distinction between oneself and the other is always maintained and preserved.--M. Scott Peck. M.D.Those we love must be free to love us in return, or le...
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Sunrise Quote
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Sometimes in the winds of change we find our true direction.Unknown
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How to deal with musicians and the music scene soberly
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I live in a major city and my passion and hopefully my eventual day job is music. I've played in bands and now I book bands. On Jan 18th I marked four months of sobriety. And I'm finding the more sobriety I have the more I feel disillusioned and annoyed by people on the music scene in my city. I don't want to gi...
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Great Movie (in my opinion) for Alcoholics My Name is Bill W.
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When I was in my first couple of months of sobriety (I really don't remember exactly which month due to detoxing, mental fog, etc.) I ordered the movie My Name is Bill W. It was made in 1989 and is about --who else? Bill W., the man responsible for starting AA. I enjoyed watching it and plan on watching it ag...
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Grapevine
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January 28 "Nothing improves if you drink."
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Overcoming the Fear of Reaching Out to Someone for Help
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When I was drinking I came to this board as well as a couple of others. I am sure I was drinking and/or drunk because I was an everyday drinker and I would feel remorseful even while drinking and especially the next morning when I would wake up and I would frequently tell myself "I am not going to drink...
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Today's Gift
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A spiritual life is naturalConscious Contact. Coming into what is clearly a spiritual program, we may have been fearful that our own unworthiness would hold us back. We may have believed that a spiritual life and a "conscious contact" with God are reserved for a few people with saintly q...
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Sunrise Quote
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Knowing where youre going is the first step to getting there.Ken Blanchard
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MUSING; AA IS A BIT LIKE A BENEVOLENT SLOT MACHINE
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If I put nothing in, I get nothing out. But....If I make an effort to contribute, I am rewarded tenfold. A bit like putting a dollar in a slot machine, and getting ten dollars back, everytime. It's a bit of a conundrum. We come to AA to get (help), and find the answer in giving (helping others), not receiv...
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What is "IT" ?
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If you have decided you want what we have and are willing to go to any length to get it-then you are ready to take certain steps.How it works pg 58What is this "IT" that they talk about? Pretty simple...."IT" is a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps.I sometimes feel li...
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FAMILY TIME
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My son coming in from New York to spend 12 days with us and him and his girlfriend coming back in May for 16 more day! We are blessed and enjoying the blessings of recovery a day at a time. My son in his 4th year of recovery from 7 years of Heroin addiction(allows me to share his story)...Our Family ,with Go...
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If I'm Drinking I'm Not Thinking
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It is just so nice to be able to think more clearly now. I lived in a state of numbness for so long. I still feel like this alien being came in and took over my mind and body. I feel so much differently, so much better than I used to when I was drinking. It is a hard lesson for me to realize that for most of the last s...
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How to Get Through Your First AA Meeting
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I thought this was a great site with some helpful info for the person who hasn't decided if they are alcoholic as well as the ones who have and are a bit intimidated to go to an AA meeting for the first time. I wish I had found it before my first meeting. It isn't lengthy and even has cartoon AA'ers, which is ki...
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Today's Gift
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In three words I can sum up everythingI've learned about life:It goes on.--Robert FrostMost of us are afraid of anything we can't control. Life is one of these things. During our drinking and drugging days, we had checked out of life. We were sitting on the sidelines, pretending we could get back into...
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Sunrise Quote
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There is no security on this earth only opportunity.Douglas MacArthur
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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January 27, 2013 Quote of the Week "My mind is like a bad neighborhood -I don't go in it alone." One of the dangers of being alone for me is that I start thinking. Now for a normal person that may be OK, but for an alcoholic like me that almost always means trouble. Colored by the disease of a...
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Sponsorship
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Hi folks. Hoping to hear some experiences on sponsorship. Have you maintained the same sponsor through your time in the program? If you have changed sponsors, what precipitated it? Thanks.
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My wild weekend night!
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Sitting at home with the dogs. Quit smoking and still sober almost two months not a drop and a little over two not smoking. Tonight I decided to be bad and got a pack of trident my favorite gum. I'm xylotol sensitive so it gives me horrific gas. One of my dogs just left the room the other is giving me evil look...
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Grapevine
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January 27 "I didn't need to learn how to meditate before meditating. It turned out to be one of those learn-as-you-go things -- just as learning how to stay sober is part of staying sober a day at a time."
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Today's Gift
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Being trueWe believe we can become beautiful people, free of addiction. With belief in a Power greater than ourselves, our Twelve Step program, and the fellowship, we don't have to stay where we were. Our purpose in life is to stay sober and clean. Our Higher Power knows our true purpose in life and wil...
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Sunrise Quote
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Success is ninety-nine per cent mental attitude. It calls for love, joy, optimism, confidence, serenity, poise, faith, courage, cheerfulness, imagination, initiative, tolerance, honesty, humility, patience and enthusiasm.Wilferd A. Peterson
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Stress
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Been a Bit Too Lazy and Really Needed That AA Meeting Last Night
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I had the flu the week before last and was unable to go to my meetings. That was a good reason for me not to go. I went to some last week and all was well. I had some other members ask me how I was, where I was --very concerned. I even got asked if I had a sponsor and haven't been asked that in quite a while. That's fi...
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A vision is not just a picture of what could be; it is an appeal to our better selves, a call to become something more.Rosabeth Moss Kanter
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Today's Gift
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Being able to be wrong We had to compete with everyone, sometimes subtly, sometimes less subtly. We always had to be right, to be wrong seemed unbearable. We could never seem to bring ourselves to say simply, "I was wrong." We were afraid of what would happen to us if we did. Our egos were very...
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religous shampoo
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Catholic shampooTwo nuns were shopping at a 7-11 store. As they passed the beer cooler, one nun said to the other, "Wouldn't a nice cold beer or two taste wonderful on a hot summer evening?" The second nun answered, "Indeed it would, Sister, but I would not feel comfortable buying b...
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Step 12
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I believe that back in the day when people were first 12 stepping... they were literally ripping people off bar stools and out of hospitals. There was some serious gusto and guts involved. Some real 'in your face' sort of stuff. I'm 35, I dunno what this really looked like as it's been watered down treme...
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Time for a Joke ??? .... (has sexual overtones)
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Senior motel moment!Last week, she checked into a motel on her 65th birthday and she was a bit lonely. She thought, "I'll call one of those men you see advertised in phone books for escorts and sensual massages." She looked through the phone book, found a full page ad for a guy calling himsel...
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Going to meetings.....
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I gt to meetings and I get lots of help. I have a small share I want (need) to share here.... I only go to open meetings......know why.......if I go to closed meeting they will I know I have a drinking problem. I have a sickness that I hide, even at meetings. BUT....I want to go to closed meetings...I just...
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'Nother Joke!
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A woman went to a pet shop and immediately spotted a large, beautiful parrot. There was a sign on the cage that said $50.00. "Why so little?" she asked the pet store owner. The owner looked at her and said, "Look, I should tell you first that this bird used to live in a house of prostituti...
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LEST WE FORGET!
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William Griffith Wilson (November 26, 1895 January 24, 1971), also known as Bill Wilson or Bill W., was the co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), an international mutual aid fellowship with over two million members belonging to 100,800 groups of alcoholics helping other alcoholics achieve a...
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Today's Gift
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Example is the lesson that all men can read. -- Gilbert WestPatterning our lives after others is familiar. Maybe as kids we emulated "toughies" or the teacher's pet. As we grew, the criteria changed, but we sought role models, nonetheless. The career we chose and the family relationship...
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Sunrise Quote
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If you neglect to recharge a battery, it dies. And if you run full speed ahead without stopping for water, you lose momentum to finish the race.Oprah Winfrey
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AA and our program is what we make of it.
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A kid opens his lunch box and looks inside. "Ah $HIt", he goes to the kid sitting next to him... PB&J AGAIN! "Why don't you ask your Mom to make you something else"? Says the other kid. "I make my own lunch". He says. How's your lunch lookin?
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The Barber Shop
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The guys at the barber shop asked me what actress I would like to be stuck in an elevator with.I told them the one who knows how to fix elevators.I'm old, tired and need to pee a lot!
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Sobriety Birthday Today
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Just wanted to share that today, on January 24th, God has blessed me with 26 years of sobriety. I'm grateful to all those who have helped me through the years. Blessings, Mike D.
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Thank you StPeteDean ... ... ... AGAIN!!!
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For those of you that haven't been around for a year or two, Dean made a recommendation to me a year or so ago that included the use of Neti pot and some Zinc ... ... ... Okay, the rest of the story, LOL ... Yesterday I got up with some nasal congestion that was irritating at best ... by the end of the day, I kn...
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Words
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What we say is important. Our vocabulary should be filled with words of hope and dreams. Be known as someone who speaks positively.Recently I saw a sign under a mounted large mouth bass. It read, "If I had kept my mouth shut I wouldn't be here." How true! Don't jump into trouble mouth first. L...
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The Freedom to Think for Myself
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I haven't had control over my own thinking for years and years. The alcohol was my Higher Power and I did everything it told me to do while I was under its influence. Also, I have been a people pleaser most of my life, and because of this, I have allowed myself to be in controlling relationships where I was t...
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New and looking for help
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I have ebbs sober for 22 days from alcohol and was unable to get funding together to go to treatment for drugs a nd alcohol I start counseling tomorrow but am just looking for direction
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