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Hi everyone,

My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I attend alanon. I have been here a few times in the past and have gotton much needed advice and honest opinions. I just wanted to give you an update on my circumstances.

Well, my bf continued with his binges, every weekend, whenever he had money really. I did what I had to do and I got out. I now have a nice place for myself to live, and I chose to live alone for now. He has a room in a shared apartment. He's doing okay, still drinking I think though.

He's convinced I'm having an affair because I left. This is absolute rubbish. He won't talk to me because I refuse to show him my new place. He thinks I'm hiding something.
Maybe I am. I'm hiding my peace and quiet. I'm afraid to risk it. If he knew where I lived he wouldn't leave me alone.

I still love him dearly and miss him so much. I wonder if he knows this really. He seems to think this is easy for me.

I just did what I had to do for both our sakes. I found the strength and consider this a miracle indeed. Please pray for us both. I think we need your prayers!

Thanks for listening
AM

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Hey:)............. Looking up...


Your doing what you hafta do for you....thats a biggy gal..


Youre removing yourself from the insanity...


And yup...you will likely get all kinds of insane thinking and reactions from the other side..


The best part about it all? You dont hafta react, or be in it...


And what happens...happens..


Hugs to yu..from the Alanon side...Phil


 



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