My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I attend alanon. I have been here a few times in the past and have gotton much needed advice and honest opinions. I just wanted to give you an update on my circumstances.
Well, my bf continued with his binges, every weekend, whenever he had money really. I did what I had to do and I got out. I now have a nice place for myself to live, and I chose to live alone for now. He has a room in a shared apartment. He's doing okay, still drinking I think though.
He's convinced I'm having an affair because I left. This is absolute rubbish. He won't talk to me because I refuse to show him my new place. He thinks I'm hiding something. Maybe I am. I'm hiding my peace and quiet. I'm afraid to risk it. If he knew where I lived he wouldn't leave me alone.
I still love him dearly and miss him so much. I wonder if he knows this really. He seems to think this is easy for me.
I just did what I had to do for both our sakes. I found the strength and consider this a miracle indeed. Please pray for us both. I think we need your prayers!