Yu know how..yu can be in a problem sometimes...and yu just hafta step outside the problem ...and
look at solutions..? Like easy does it....and dont analyze the crap out of it?
The best reaction is no reaction..
Live and Let Live..
...and Let Go stuff? A mirror helps..(smile)
And when one is only running on 2 recovering alky brain cells....that sometimes is not an easy thing
to do. :) It takes a bit of time...
Every time theres a meeting, with the 2 of them...Serenity and Peace of Mind is impossible...
Sooooo.....I put them in separate rooms..with a computer...and they can email, each other...:)
My dear departed Grammy used to say..."Keep your eyes on your own fries...and share a few with your freinds."
Anyway....Hope you are all doing AOK....and wishing you a good Wednesday night...
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Enjoying the Good Days
Good feelings can become a habitual part of our life.
There is absolutely no virtue in the unnecessary suffering, which many of us have felt for much of our life. We don't have to allow others to make us miserable, and we don't have to make ourselves miserable.
A good day does not have to be the calm before the storm. That's an old way of thinking we learned in dysfunctional systems.
In recovery, a good day or a good feeling doesn't mean we're in denial. We don't have to wreck our good times by obsessively searching for or creating a problem.
Enjoying our good days doesn't mean we're being disloyal to loved ones who are having problems. We don't have to make ourselves feel guilty because other people aren't having a good day. We don't have to make ourselves miserable to be like them. They can have their day and their feelings; we can have ours.
A good feeling is to be enjoyed. More than we can imagine, good days are ours for the asking.
Today, I will let myself enjoy what is good. I don't have to wreck my good day or good feeling; I don't have to let others spoil it either.
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Life is short..Live it sober to the fullest...One day at a time...
hey phil!!! Been wonderin where u wuzz missed ya!!! ty for that I needed to read that isint it strange how situations like this can occur right at the time when u need it.......is it conicidence or God's will??
Good to see you back, Who said that old saying? "we are about as happy as we make up our minds to be". Can't remember the author, but that thought stays with me, well most of the time, haha.
missed ya!!! ty for that I needed to read that isint it strange how situations like this can occur right at the time when u need it.......is it conicidence or God's will??