hey mate! are you mates with Mac? its just that I see you are using his web site on the above link! are you in derby? I have known mac for 2 years now a good bloke..
I was not able to open and save this file. My PC is not Mac compatible, so I got the message of "Action Cancelled, over twice" Would like to see it in Windows format, is that possible?
Have to go in a few minutes, but just want to add my two cents,
I have always felt very strongly about the role of Sponsor, being really only more of a Guide, helping us through the 12 steps, available for any and all questions regarding the "how to" of the Steps, and reframing from other discussions.
I had a few bad experiences with Sponsoring new People, when they would refuse to keep it on the Steps, wanted to talk about their own stuff, boyfriend stuff, family stuff, just a lot of co-dependency stuff, and re-directing them to the Steps was almost impossible.
Of course I would patiently listen, and when the conversation became endless, I would ask them to consider getting some extra outside help, if the issues were major. I remember telling one lady that I did not have any answers for her personal family problems, and she said she needed to find a new Sponsor, o.k., well she did not, she went back to getting Drunk.
Really pretty simple stuff to me, but that is really just my opinion.