"I can see why you are disturbed to hear some A.A. speakers say, 'A.A. is a selfish program.' The word 'selfish' ordinarily implies that one is acquisitive, demanding, and thoughtless of the welfare of others. Of course, the A.A. way of life does not at all imply such undesirable traits.
"What do these speakers mean? Well, any theologian will tell you that the salvation of his own soul is the highest vocation that a man can have. Without salvation- however we may define this- he will have little or nothing. For us of A.A., there is even more urgency.
"If we cannot or will not achieve sobriety, then we become truly lost, right in the here and now. We are of no value to anyone, including ourselves, until we find salvation from alcohol. Therefore, our own recovery and spiritual growth have to come first- a right and necessary kind of self-concern." -Bill W., As Bill Sees It, reading 81.
(I thought this was kind of coincidental, I read a page of that book before I go to sleep most nights, and this is the one that came up last night, after the topic was discussed on the board yesterday. He puts it pretty well I think-)
I see he doesn't call it 'selfishness' either.. he calls it 'self-concern' and also says the same as that if we don't take care of ourselves then we are no good to anybody else,, and that it does not exclude loving other people.
as far as the reading coming up for you coincidently... God works in mysterious ways, eh? maybe not coincidence. hmmm
thanks very much for posting it,
amanda
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