Jeannie, Welcome to the board, I'm glad you have found us. I read your other posts. The way you add a pic is to click on User details.. then edit profile. You will find a box that says Avatar library, just veiw those, you might find one you like.I don't really know how to get one from some other place .
And you are right , I've been without in my life and as long as I had a goal, something to keep me occupied, someone or some cause to keep me busy and concerned about, a project to be enthusiastic about, life was better. It seems for me when I get into self to much, "the woe's me's" , which I was good at those at one time in my life, just weigh me down and I feel as though I'm sinking. I have had much and I have had little, but since I've been sober and worked through my past in the program, the 4th and 5th steps, I can get through anything...today. I live in this 24 hours..and today is good.