We see so many people in meetings, and out on the streets, still stumbling around with the program, hurting, whining and crying, still all covered up with the Great 3 S's of our disease, Self-pity, Self-righteousness, and Self-Bullshit, and wondering why they can't get "IT" . . .
In every meeting the Prescription is read and heard and referred to, on the walls in posters. It is spelled out precisely in the BigBook on Pages 59 and 60.
Unwilling to disregard fear, and the 7 deadlies mentioned in the 12x12 on page 48, you know, pride, greed, lust, anger, gluttony, envy and SLOTH , people trouble themselves in vain to read the teachings. They see the prescription, but don't take the medicine --- How then can they do away with their illness?"
From the Big Book Page 72, Chapter 6, INTO ACTION . . .
"In actual practice, we usually find a solitary self-appraisal insufficient. Many of us thought it necessary to go much farther. We will be more reconciled to discussing ourselves with another person when we see good reasons why we should do so. The best reason first: If we skip this vital step, we may not overcome drinking. Time after time newcomers have tried to keep to themselves certain facts about their lives. Trying to avoid this humbling experience, they have turned to easier methods. Almost invariably they got drunk. Having persevered with the rest of the program, they wondered why they fell. We think the reason is that they never completed their housecleaning. They took inventory all right, but hung on to some of the worst items in stock. They only thought they had lost their egoism and fear; they only thought they had humbled themselves. But they had not learned enough of humility, fearlessness and HONESTY, in the sense we find it necessary, until they told someone else ALL of their life story.
As it was told to me, "Until someone in AA knows everything you know about yourself, you are nowhere."
WHY??? Because, until the steps are done thoroughly, and the garbage resolved and eliminated, the old thought system still has a basis for return.
And they still wonder why they are not Getting "IT"
"Half-measures availed us nothing!!"
On Page 98 of the Big Book, "Burn the idea into the consciousness of every man [and woman] that he [she] can get well regardless of anyone. The only condition is that he [she] trust in God and clean house."
The Steps of the Program are the Mops and Brooms to Clean House.
It isn't any secret, friends, it is all spelled out clearly. There are 12 things to do, and one to not do, no matter what.
If the steps are not done, and done thoroughly, then the individual must live with the consequences of that decision or lack of decision . . . Sorry about that, but that is the way it is, One Day At A Time.
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Thanks for this, Phil. Have just used it for a very much needed noon~time study. Thankyou for all of these consistent reminders. It shall sink in ~ Slowly! lol We're as well as we want to be =S Thanks for the constant input. I'll take this with me today. Yours & Everyone's in recovery & service, Danielle x
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This for me brought to mind a couple of past sermons by a priest at a Catholic church I attended while living in another town. The heart of the message was the importance of going to confession. There are many that misunderstand why in Catholism the members are urged to go and "confess" at least once a year. It is ASSUMED members are FORCED. WRONG THINKING/KNOWLEDGE. It is EXACTLY what AA encourages and when one looks closer into counseling/mental therapy it can be found that many of the suggestions given the patients are the same. We all as human HATE the thought that in anyway we have errored or could be in the wrong so "cleaning our own houses" is alot more difficult. It is assumed that when one confesses and is absolved that automatically life will be perfect. That is an erroneous assumption. First one.....acknowledges the error. 2nd-- they have to feel in their heart true sorrow for the mistake. When absolution is given, this is my take: after having admitted, the errors are now looked upon as things of the past. I know I have "screwed up" and say so. I am sorry and have the mind set that I will make every attempt to cease repeating the offense. I not only take responsiblity of admission, I too accept all consequences that my offenses have reaped for me. I must have the mindset upon making amends in as far as I am able. In some more than saying "I am sorry" may be required. Confession/absolution after having admitting, feeling sorrow, then gives me the "grace" to accept consequences, make those amends/restitutions and help me change those imperfections. "Grace" is acceptance of doing HP's way rather than my own. Centering mind around thoughts of how would HP do it. There came shortly after these sermons many comments. Conscensus was he was being rather hard upon the members. Personally it saddened me. It is much like what I have read here on some of the posts. People come for help. And in the words of your posts "come for the prescription.......don't take the medicine." It is very much what the priest was saying....... He was giving the congregation a choice. Pride stepped in and he was ridiculed in my opinion because many of the members thought they WERE PERFECT. No one is and that is why AA/Church consistently "SUGGESTS" ALWAYS each day to "work at" the steps they provide. It took repeated attempts for me to "see" many things when I came across this site. I was taking a sip rather than the dose of the prescription. The "immunity system" had to be built up by taking the dose.....each day. When that was realized........things got sooooo much better. Thanks for this days dose. Wanda