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Hello,
   
    I joined this forum a few months back because I felt like I did not want to go to face to face AA.  So I figured i'd turn to an online support group.  I never posted and I kept drinking.  I've been on a drinking binge for the last year or so.  I cannot remember the last time i've gone an entire week without drinking.  I keep saying to myself that "Today is the day when I am taking my life back".  I have yet to actually do this.  I woke up this morning with a hang over, disappointed with myself as usual for being so weak as to giving into the alcohol.  I have a pretty good life.  Most of the time I drink for the hell of it, or just to feel that buzz.  I cannot count the number of times i've made an idiot out of myself out in public because i've been so wasted.  I've lost life long friends because of the stupidity that has come out of my mouth.  I need help.  I have turned to the lord, praying to find the strength to give up and I always fall.  But I'd really like today to be a new day.  And this is part of my story.

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Hey..:)  Welcome to the big boat of Alcoholics Anonymous...


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The Fellowship of A.A.

If the newcomer is satisfied that he or she is an alcoholic and that A.A. may be able to help, then a number of specific questions about the nature, structure, and history of the movement itself usually come up. Here are some of the most common ones.

What is Alcoholics Anonymous?

There are two practical ways to describe A.A. The first is the familiar description of purposes and objectives that appears earlier:

"Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. A.A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics achieve sobriety."

The "common problem" is alcoholism. The men and women who consider themselves members of A.A. are, and always will be, alcoholics, even though they may have other addictions. They have finally recognized that they are no longer able to handle alcohol in any form; they now stay away from it completely. The important thing is that they do not try to deal with the problem single-handedly. They bring the problem out into the open with other alcoholics. This sharing of "experience, strength and hope" seems to be the key element that makes it possible for them to live without alcohol and, in most cases, without even wanting to drink.

The second way to describe Alcoholics Anonymous is to outline the structure of the Society. Numerically, A.A. consists of more than 3,000,000 men and women, in 150 countries. These people meet in local groups that range in size from a handful of ex-drinkers in some localities to many hundreds in larger communities.

In the populous metropolitan areas, there may be scores of neighborhood groups, each holding its own regular meetings. Many A.A. meetings are open to the public; some groups also hold "closed meetings," where members are encouraged to discuss problems that might not be fully appreciated by nonalcoholics.

The local group is the core of the A.A. Fellowship. Its open meetings welcome alcoholics and their families in an atmosphere of friendliness and helpfulness. There are now more than 105,000 groups throughout the world, including hundreds in hospitals, prisons, and other institutions.



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Welcome to MIP Marti. Judging from your post, you're taking a step in the right direction by posting here, but altho we are good support, there's nothing like face to face meetings. From what you said about losing friends, etc. you may want to think about if you're just drinking for the buzz or for the hell of it--or if you drink because  you need to now. Keep coming back, and I hope you glean something from us. Please dont rule out face to face. be blessed, Chris

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Just wanted to say welcome,

Your in the right place, hope you stick with it. When the time is right and you feel more comfortable, we're not here to judge we all have a common issue and that is alcohol.


Tina

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Hi Marti,

Welcome to MIP. It really is a great help to my sobriety and I try to pop here every day. I also get to face-to-face meetings regularly which help me enormously.

I do hope that you'll keep coming back and read and post as much as you want. Please let us know how things go for you, won't you?

Take care,

Carol



-- Edited by Quetzal at 16:56, 2007-02-21

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Hi Marti,
Welcome to the forum. I'm pretty new here too. There's great support and a wealth of knowledge here in the members--I know I've appreciated their support.
Take care,
Laura

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Congrats on taking this step. I am also pretty new here but just like laura said and everyone else has already posted we are all here to help eachother when your ready to help yourself and it looks like your already starting. hope to see more of you on here and let us know how your making out! When I started on here before I even got the courage to quit I would just read postings and it somehow got me alot closer to quitting and then I did. It is one day at a time!

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