Day one - step one: When you wake up, commit to the decision that, no matter how often or how strongly the desire to drink comes, you will not drink today, but will wait until tomorrow to have a drink.
Day two - step two: Repeat step one.
For further instructions on proper implementation of the above proceedures, please refer to the manual: http://www.aa.org/bigbookonline/
Unfair!! I thought I made it up. At the end of january I posted something along the lines of:
I've always had rules- for the most part they've kept me safe. One rule I have is a funny one: if I get the urge to drink, I am committed to waiting an hour and seeing if I still feel like having a drink. Usually the feeling has passed and I've gotten distracted. If it hasn't, I'm committed to waiting an hour and seeing if it's passed. Thus far it's worked. It's good to have rules.
It does seem funny and kinda tongue in cheek, but it actually works pretty well for me!
I remember the day that Kennedy was shot in the head during a parade. A horrible day it was, that showed us the real dangers of standing up for what is right in the face of real hatred. It, and the following assassinations of his brother, Bobby, and then Martin Luther King, Jr. affected us, as a nation, deeply. My heroes all died martyrs. We can expect the same for the same. I've had to wrestle with this reality. Evil does have it's day. How do we deal with it? Sell out? Make jokes? See them as fools? Funny, as I write this, the Abba song, 'Fernando' is playing. Now we look at what we're doing in Iraq,, atrocities that undermine our stated noble intentions. And we wonder? why fighting there is not working? Serious subject, this. Standing up nobly and with integrity, for a cause that is beyond getting our next high.
amanda
-- Edited by amanda2u2 at 10:31, 2007-02-16
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Yeah... ummm.. it was a joke. I didn't realise this forum was strictly for plaguerizing touchstone quips.
I've experienced my share of loss and pain and yet still managed to retain an ability to find levity in some of it, if for nothing else then in reaction to the hopelessnes of trying to be right and good and just.
In this life sometimes it does seem like good guys finish last, yet there are still good guys around. If everyone spoke in heart melting "wisdom to Know" quotations you'd have no way of knowing just how much better off you are.
John, we both cheated.. It's in the AA book "Living Sober", Chapter 3: "Using the 24 Hour Plan"... Got a feeling that Bill W. would endorse this type of plagiarism.
PS. Phil...as you can see, I now have my doppleganger's picture as my avatar...just like you! PS.PS. I almost think that I prefer our 25 degrees below zero in North Dakota to the 25 inches above the second floor window that you folks have been seeing out your way!
Well I may be remedial because mine is 24 minutes.
That totally freaked me out, by the way- you referring to me as "john". I didn't actually realise I had put my name on my profile here and hhad no idea how you did that. I thought maybe you were psychic until I looked at my profile. On top of that dont know what I was thinking putting "John". The name on my Birth Certificate is John but since I was a wee kid everyone has called me "Toby". I guess I'll need to change that.
Truth be told, the surf has been beautiful pretty steadily for weeks now. I've actually been down with the triple header of cold then flu plus sinus infection for the last week and in the afternoons I have my boy, so surfing is pretty much out right now. I'm living vicariously through my little brother and my daughter, however.