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Grapevine
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September 15 "I went to my former employer and made my amends. What started out as one of my worst days -- because I was so scared -- became one of my best days when it was over. Because I had trusted God, my sponsor, and AA that trinity had lifted the weight that was on my shoulders for so long. I felt s...
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The insanity
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"I went to my hotel and leisurely dressed for dinner. As I crossed the threshold of the dining room, the thought came to mind that it would be nice to have a couple of cocktails with dinner. That was all. Nothing more." I was thinking about insane thoughts a lot recently. Before three days I s...
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Today's Gift - 9/14
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You are the hero of your life.Each of us plays the starring role in the drama that is our life. We co-create the script, along with our Higher Power. Sometimes we forget our lines, and so we improvise as best we can. We are heroes, each of us, as we move through the events of the day, refining our character a...
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Today's Gift - 9/13
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He who requires urging to do a noble act will never accomplish it. --Kahlil Gibran The Third Step speaks of willingness. Willingness puts our hearts and souls into the task at hand. Willingness doesn't get rid of the fears, but it helps us find the courage to work through them. Willingness doesn't gi...
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ADVICE I GIVE MYSELF TODAY
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All God seeks from you is the devotion of your heart for all that is good Help from Above: Be steadfast on the path your feet have been guided...you will find the treasure of life a never ending stream of help, healing and happiness...YOU DO NOT STAND ALONE "Whatever your need it will be supplied&q...
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Just a prayer.
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For all my friends on the board, especially for Pappy who is not well. I pray that you heal really quickly. Special thanks to John for your contribution. Many blessings, Gonee.
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Sunrise Quote - 9/13
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We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.~ Charles R. Swindoll
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Are 12-steps right for me?
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Typical question, right? "What's a 12-Step program like?" Asked by someone who is simply ignorant of any but the most general aspects of, say, AA. Here's a nice Q & A about that. Doc does a nice job explaining. He's concise, informative and even-handed in his summary. Very realistic...
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Working the Steps
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you....Enjoy!http://www.barefootsworld.net/aaworkingthesteps.html
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Grapevine
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September 12 "In our Twelve Traditions we have set our faces against nearly every trend in the outside world. "We have denied ourselves personal government, professionalism and the right to say who our members shall be. We have abandoned do-goodism, reform and paternalism. We re...
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Welcome busablondie
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Welcome to MIP 'busiblondie', ... ... ... glad you found us and congrats on 'day 1' ... stick around, this is where we recover ... ... ...
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*Wanting* Recovery. For anyone reading this Board.
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When I came in these rooms I was so hurt and sick I was terrified. I was terrified it was the end and I could see nothing but a evil world. In the rooms I could feel a prescence of something "Godlike". I kept hearing at the meetings "Are there any burning desires to share" and after...
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Grapevine
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September 11 "A friend of mine told me about going to see the Statue of Liberty on a field trip with his grammar school class. He said that as they walked up the long spiral staircase, they all held hands in a line. He couldn't see the person at the beginning or the end of the line but he felt safe. H...
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Grapevine
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September 10 "I can recall that even as a small child I had allergic reactions to certain forms of reality."
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Focusing on others
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Other people have to live in their own skin. I like to hand out consequences and then it sucks to live in my skin. I owe an amends to my realtor for doing this to her last week. Karma is also a b**ch when I am. She kicked my butt today. Could have been worse. Could be drunk. Thanks for the ear xxxxo
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The Advice I give Myself
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One of the things that hit me recently, reading AS Bill Sees it The statement Guilt is the other side of the ruinous Guilt aims at self destruction. Pride aims at the destruction of others.. So guilt is the reason why so many people feel insecure or display inferiority. Then I realized forget it.. j...
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Advice I Give Myself Today
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THE STRONG ARE THE PATIENT ONES: Patience means holding back your inclination to the seven emotions: Hate- Adoration-Joy- Anxiety-Anger-Grief-Fear....If you don't give way to the seven you're patient. Then you soon understand all manner of things and be in harmony with Eternity... Makes sense...
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Proud of my home group!!
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Wilmington, NC has a big film recording studio, and the film industry produces a lot of movies and TV series here and in the surrounding area. These are huge box office movies, like Iron Man with Robert Dowey Jr., and such. Well, its not really uncommon to see super stars in our area. They are flying i...
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Powerless over Alcohol and The Promises Which Can Come True
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I know that I am completely powerless over alcohol. I never have been a one or two drinks person. I drank until I was loaded. Just feeling a buzz from the effects of alcohol was not enough for me. I didn't know how anyone could just stop after a couple. I used to think, "why bother drinking at all?&quo...
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What CEOs Can Learn from Alcoholics Anonymous
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Rarely have we seen a firm fail which has thoroughly followed our path... What CEOs Can Learn from Alcoholics AnonymousBy Michael Lee StallardCEO AdvisorPublished August 21, 2014 Change is hard. It requires energy and effort. Some people relish change; most resist, consciously or unconsci...
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Grapevine
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September 8 "Alcohol robbed me of my adolescence. But I've learned to grow up in AA."
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Need Some Uplifting
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Anyone recommend any good, uplifting TV shows, movies, or albums for early recovery? Just fun, light stuff to get a person out of their alcoholic brain for a little bit :) I'm asking half for me and half because I feel like the board could use a little but of levity. Hope everyone is having a good weekend....
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letting go
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As a preamble....most members may know that I haven't had direct contact with my son for over eight years...he's 23 now.
I tried step nine and was told stay out of his life, which I have done.
I now find that recently he's changed his name....dropping the family name and using only his first three name...
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Oh Man!!!
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I see we have another piss'n contest developing here on the board ... sad ... I'd jump in but have lost the desire to 'push' my point of view ... and speak'n of piss'n contests, I'd loose ... since I have a big problem in that area anyway ... LOL I got diagnosed last week with 'advanced' stage prostate cance...
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Grapevine
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September 5 "Emotional balance is very much like balancing on a bicycle -- it is more a matter of what I don't do than what I do do ... Watch someone balance on a bike. It looks as if it would be difficult, but, in fact, it is a mindless and effortless achievement. Happiness, joy, and freedom are the...
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Question
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Okay, I have this situation. I talked with one alcoholic, who is in difficult period and I feel that I can't help him with anything. But I asked another alcoholic to help him and he told me that this is not only stupid, but it is offended. (my asking) And he told me never to ask him such things again and alone...
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Question About Sponsoring
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When I am sponsoring someone... How long should I continue to work Step 1 with someone who is not ready to admit that they are an alcoholic? A month? Three? Although their drinking history certainly sounds like they are, I know I cannot make that call and they have to be the one to do that. I just want to be s...
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2015 AA International Convention - Registration Begins Today!
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You can now register and get a hotel room for the international convention being held in Atlanta next July. A great time will be had by all. 65,000 recovering alcoholics (more or less) meeting to share their experience, strength, and hope. Come on along! AA.org to register.
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Grapevine
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September 4 "What I did need and need desperately, was not more knowledge about God, but, with God's help, a deep and penetrating knowledge about myself."
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Sponsorphobia---Fear of Getting a Sponsor
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I had sponsorphobia for several months after I was first sober. I put off finding a sponsor because I didn't feel comfortable confiding all my deepest darkest secrets to someone I barely knew. In my mind I thought this is what we pay therapists for and I sure didn't want to share some of the things I thoug...
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Grapevine
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September 3 "AA's message promises healing and wholeness for any alcoholic who will pay the price. The price is simply to accept the help that will save our lives."
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First AA Meeting Tips
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You can search online and get a list of meetings in your area. Nervousness is completely natural and from what I have heard from AA'ers, most of us are nervous especially when we first start going to meetings. No one is going to pass judgements on you or think bad of you. We are all alcoholics and there for...
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This is my experience...
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I absolutely agree with this way out for us.The tremendous fact for every one of us is that we have discovered a common solution. We have a way out on which we can absolutely agree, and upon which we can join in brotherly and harmonious action. This is the great news this book carries to those who suffer fr...
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Loose use of the term, Nazi
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My suggestion is that the word, Nazi, which refers to the political party that under Adolf Hitler was responsible for genocide, not be used so loosely. It demeans the true experience and atrocities committed by the Nazi party.
Love,
A Jewish Alcoholic
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hello.....my head is a shed
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So I'm going to get it out of my head. For 35years and 50days I had a label of BT Bill on my shirt. Now..... well maybe I'm on a gap year. Being on a gap year means I get to go to loads of meetings, get to work with loads of others, get to talk with loads of alcoholics. I can even smile and grin at the odd evangelist t...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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September 1, 2014Quote of the Week"People have the right not to recover." The first time I heard this saying I thought it was cruel and insensitive. I had been in Al-Anon about six months and was still convinced that I not only could help other people in my life recover, but that it was in fac...
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It is sobering
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Finally admitted to myself and my wife that I am an alcoholic. Last night something potentially very dangerous almost happened. I knew I had a drinking problem but I didn't realize how bad it was. I have been searching for meeting groups in my area and will be attending tomorrow. I have lost God and my tr...
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Grapevine
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August 28 "When I've examined a situation all ways from Sunday, and the only thing I can see are bad consequences, then I can say, 'God, I don't have the least idea what to do.' That seems to be the magic phrase for me. Then something happens, and it is usually an action I hadn't thought of doing, an...
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Working the Steps....as suggested
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Hi to everyone, I've been off the Board for a while, since this computer has been down, but it appears that there has been some controversy, and a bit of talk about "Step-Nazi's" here. With that in mind, I hope you'll allow me to share an experience I had at a 12 Step retreat several years ago:...
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Grapevine
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September 2 "In the first six months of my own sobriety, I worked hard with many alcoholics. Not a one responded. Yet this work kept me sober."
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Sunrise Quote
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There is a difference between happiness and joy. Happiness is a changing emotion. JOY is a choice you make every day.~ Author Unknown
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Today's Gift - 9/1
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A.A. Thought for the DayAnyone can fight the battles of just one day. It is only when you and I add the burden of those two awful eternities, yesterday and tomorrow, that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives us mad. It is the remorse or bitterness from something that happened yest...
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Hi
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So its been a year since I broke my 8 month non drinking spree. I quit for the entire month of june but I went back to it again. I like to drink vodka in the morning and beer throughout the day and im sick of this nightmare circus and would like some helpful advice. Im assuming this is the place where people lik...
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Weekly Thought --- (religious concept)
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Weekly Verse The Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. Romans 8:26 Weekly Quote For the Holy Spirit is prayers great Helper. We are incapable, of ourselves, to translate our real nee...
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Today's Gift - 8/31
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Differences . . . with no hidden cutting edge.The respect and dignity a couple shows each other set the table from which they are nourished for all other activities in their lives. Any feeling can be expressed in respectful or disrespectful ways. Anger is one of the most difficult to express respectf...
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Powerlessness
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Hello, can someone help me with examples of things that I might be powerless over. Thank you
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Sunrise Quote - 8/26
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In the middle of every difficulty comes opportunity.~ Albert Einstein
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Wink From God
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Last week, I had two days in a row that were just awful. I'm currently coming to terms with the reality that much of my life has consisted of running from a God that I fear into the arms of alcohol, which has been warm and welcoming in times of crisis and anxiety. So what does it mean to turn my will and life ove...
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One Year relapse after 10 years sober - 60 days back - where do i fit?
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hello, I was a very active member and stayed sober for 10 years (and this was not the first time, took many tries before that too). eventually life got really busy and I slowly took less commitments and less service and focused (obsessed) on work, travel, money etc. As they say...anything you will pu...
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Grapevine
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August 27 "In the fear of accumulated wealth and bureaucracy, we should not discover an alibi for failure to pay AA's legitimate service expenses. For fear of controversy, our leadership should not go timid when lively debate and forthright action is a necessity."
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