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Monday morning..oh dear me!!!
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morning all, soz not been on since Friday, gutted...found myself with a miniature vodka Fri night, had a swig but then threw it away, have been torturing myself all weekend about this, but now im in the mind frame of 'i cant change what has happened in the past, so dont beat myself up', could of been worse...
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Today's Gift 9/22
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You can't cross a chasm in two steps. --Rashi FeinWhen a small child hides her eyes, she means, "You can't see me." We sophisticated grownups sometimes have trouble getting rid of magic thinking. We tear petals from daisies, one by one; we tell ourselves that anything we eat standing up ha...
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Letting Go of Urgency by Melody Beattie
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The following was written by my favorite author (of man made books anyway, LOL), Melody Beattie. I just love this woman! She is the most inspiring and beautiful writer I have ever read! She has a way with words that make me feel she knows exactly what I have been and am going through.....Letting Go of Urg...
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Tips for a good night sober sleep?
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Hey all. I've always suffered from anxiety that leads to insomnia. One part of the reason I started drinking was literally to knock myself out for the night (it's also why nights are the hardest part of the day for me. I would so be lying if I said I didn't miss just passing out...that's awful, isn't it...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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September 21, 2015Quote of the Week"I'm in the action business, and God is in the results business." I was at my local Starbucks last week, and I ran into a friend who is in the program. He asked me how I was doing and I told him how overwhelmed and scared I felt, and that's when he reminded me t...
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Today's Gift 9/21
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Accepting ChangeThe winds of change blow through our life, sometimes gently, sometimes like a tropical storm. Yes, we have resting places - time to adjust to another level of living, time to get our balance, time to enjoy the rewards. We have time to catch our breath.But change is inevitable, and des...
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Never heard this one before....
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Just bought a new lighter from 7-11....I told the cashier I wanted a cheapie.....she said, "I just love this one" and pointed to the words printed on it.... "I will be here to catch you if you fall... --Floor" Being a consistent faller for years as a drinker, I can confirm that the...
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Looking for a MUST DO LIST!!!
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'Ive been looking all day for the simplified "MUST DO's" list. The Mantra, "We must reach out ... W must not turn our backs on fellow addicts, we must do this, we must do that ... " I am NOT looking for the 103 must do's or the 82 must do's. I found a list of 82 and 103. I'm looking for t...
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Today's Gift 9/20
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In everyone's heart stirs a great homesickness. --Rabbi Seymour SiegelWe ask ourselves what drove us to do some of the things we did? We went to extremes even when we knew our actions were not rational. Still today, we are drawn to extremes. At times we still long for things that we know will hurt us. Are...
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New AA mobile App for group online meetings
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I am Ahmed El-Sharkasy Business Development Manager at Byte; a software company in Egypt offering unique web and mobile solutions. We are also building our own products that we are passionate about and that we believe will benefit great range of users.Our latest product is Step 10 for AA,this app he...
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Today's Gift 9/18
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Through These DoorsDear God, Please get me through these doors. A meeting is what I need. Remind me to leave my ego and intolerance outside. Help me to hear the strength and hope in everyone's words. We are the same but appear so different. I will remember that others' experiences will help my recovery...
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Today's Gift 9/19
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Procrastination is the thief of time. --Edward YoungWhen we have a problem with putting things off, we seem to add to our troubles by mentally flogging ourselves. We know we are losing time. We criticize ourselves for our irrational behavior. Whether we are putting off an important task in our lives...
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Week 2 and still going strong
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Day eight today and feeling ALIVE, just not having that fear when waking up as to where did i hide that last bit of vodka, where and when am i going to get my next lot, which shop shall i go to this time, then where can i hide it so nobody finds it...its absolutely bliss and i feel free. Looking forward to work a...
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Pics from Indonesia
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Hi all, if this works, there should be a few pictures from our current voyage. There is no limit to what you can do when you are AA Sober. Mike. They thought I was James Bond.
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Have You Hit Your Bottom Yet?
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I know I sure have. It took me a few "bottoms" and each time the one after was always worse than the one before. I am lucky to still be alive. Two newbies posted on here over the last few days. I am hoping both are still sober. When folks come on here I get hopeful for them that they will stay sober an...
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Today's Gift 9/17
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I wish I could keep in mind that God can provide, God will provide, and God does provide. -- Marie GubbelsRelying on God for the guidance to deal with our problems seems much too simple. We probably spent decades looking to alcohol, other drugs, and relationships for the solution to the ache that never...
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Today's Gift 9/16
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Self-interest is but the survival of the animal in us. Humanity only begins for man with self-surrender. --Henri AmielWhen we were lost in our addictive ways, we were driven by self-interest. We didn't necessarily like ourselves or want to be so self-centered. But we had no inner resources to help u...
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New beginning
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Morning all, in my first couple days of sobriety, yesterday seemed easy but this morning, first thing on my mind was i wanted a drink, feeling better now and staying strong. Just been out for a walk with my dog and husband. Any other new comers out there?
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SO is an alcoholic; having a hard time w/ my parents
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Hello everyone. I hope I am posting in the right forum. I really would like some advice. I would usually turn to my SO for stuff like this but I can't for fear of hurting her. My fiancee is an alcoholic (2.5 years sober) and in AA. She decided to become sober just a couple months after we started dating, and s...
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Today's Gift 9/15
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The most wasted day of all is that in which we have not laughed. --Sebastian R.N. ChamfortWhen we wallowed in the self-pity of obsession, we were sure we'd never laugh again. How easy it was to weep, alone and secretly, inspired by sad music like "Born to Lose" or "I'm So Lonesome I Coul...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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September 14, 2015Quote of the Week"People who try to figure it out, go back out." I like to think of myself as a pretty smart guy, and when I was new to the program, I kept trying to figure out how the program worked and why my sponsor wanted me to do certain things. For example, when he told me t...
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Today's Gift 9/14
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Almost everyone wants something for nothing. --Marsha SinetarBargains attract. Finding a good value excites us, and we share the news quickly. Wanting anything for free is human nature perhaps. However, we have had to learn again and again that you get what you pay for. This is true of human interac...
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Prayer.
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Dear God, I pray that you will heal my all friends who are not well at present. A special prayer for Dean and Pappy, that God restores them quickly. To all the newcomers on the board, I pray that you will embark on this recovery journey with us. To those who are burdened, I pray that God lightens your load to...
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Today's Gift 9/13
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Everything is funny as long as it is happening to someone else. -- Will RogersWe laugh when others do something silly. We're amused when something funny happens to them. But if the same happens to us and people laugh, we might give them the evil eye.Yet, when others laugh, it can free us. It frees us to se...
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Doctor's opinion.
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"They are restless, irritable and discontented, unless they can again experience the sense of ease and comfort which comes at once by taking a few drinks....." Doctor's opinion AA book. These 3 withdrawal symptoms are a package deal for alcoholics of my type and therefore abstinence al...
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4 Months Sober and Need Help
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Hello All, I had 18 years and relapsed a couple years ago. I now have 4 months, but I'm barely going to meetings. Every day I say I'm going to go and I don't. I did a lot of damage on this last run. I had a very full and amazing life prior to my relapse. I was so blessed. I gave back everything God blessed me with -...
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Today's Gift 9/12 ... Today's is Especially Good!
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Control robs us of serenity.The Serenity Prayer, when relied on, changes the very nature of our lives. The reality is that most of our troubles result from an unwillingness to give up controlling the many people we encounter. What they are doing is seldom relevant. We simply want them to answer to us!...
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Time for A Little Humor ... 'Arriving in Heaven'
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Subject: Arriving in HeavenWhen You Stop Laughing, You Stop Living!!~If You Rest - You Rust!!~Arriving in Heaven All arrivals in heaven have to go through a bureaucratic examination to determine whether admission will be granted. One room has a clerk, who inputs computerized records of what e...
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Today's Gift 9/11
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We don't always understand the ways of Almighty God - the crosses sent us, the sacrifices demanded . . . But we accept with faith and resignation the holy will with no looking back, and we are at peace. --AnonymousAcceptance of our past, acceptance of the conditions presently in our lives that we canno...
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script or receipt
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a "practicing alkie" Would see this as a receipt. -- Edited by Zoomtopz on Friday 4th of September 2015 04:32:30 AM
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Today's Gift 9/10
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Forgiveness is the key to action and freedom. --Hannah ArendtResentments keep us in the past, a past that can never be relived. Resentments keep a stranglehold on our mind. They keep us from appreciating the beauty of a moment. They stop us from hearing the loving voices of friends. We forget that we h...
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Hopefulone, ...You There???
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I need a good recipe ... or from anyone else who's a cooking nut ... LOL ... I have a ton of Jalapenos from the garden and want to try deep fried 'Poppers' ... anyone got a good recipe??? ... The alcohol connection? ... yeah, having a garden is one of the 'by-products' of being sober ... one learns there's...
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Today's Gift 9/9
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Growth is the only evidence of life. --John, Cardinal NewmanWe should be thankful we can never reach complete serenity. If we could, we would never have the need to improve ourselves. We would stop growing, because there would be no reason to learn any more than we already know, and we would become bor...
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Anti-depressants
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Tried 'em back in '01, they didn't work for me. But I was drinking back then. I'm almost 15 months sober now, still depressed (it kinda comes in waves, but the norm is for me to be at least a bit depressed daily). Not suicidal though, and don't think I'm at too much risk to go back out right now since I am...
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MALE AND WOMEN WORKING TOGETHER
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show me in the BIG BOOK ???? I M A MALE ....ITS MOTIVES , THANK GOD 80 YEARS AGO YOU PEOPLE WERE NOT IN THE ROOMS, BEEN IN THE ROOMS SINCE 2000 . NEVER ASK FOR A WOMEN S NUMBER OR OUT ON A DATE. IF A WOMEN ASK ME TO SPONSOR HER , BECAUSE SHE WANTS A MALE . I M GOING TO SUGGEST A WOMEN. BUT NO WHERE IN THE BIG BOOK DOES IT SA...
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Today's Gift 9/8
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Life moves forwardThe past is past. Over. Finished. Our job is to move with the flow of the present. We are propelled by what went before, but we do not try to swim against the current of our present lives by regretting or yearning for old times.Each day of recovery releases us from the past and gives us a f...
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How To Conquer A Man At The Gym
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One of the best places to meet men healthy and attractive is the gym, but if you ever wondered how to conquer a man at the gym, don't read the following tips. Use perfume Find out what are the perfumes that men prefer and look for one that you like to use it whenever you are going to exercise in the gym. Your sc...
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Today's Gift 9/7
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When all else is lost, the future still remains. --Christian BoveeOurs is a program of hope. We sit in meetings and give each other hope. For no matter how long we have been sober - five days or thirty years - there will be times when we feel horrible. This is life. In everyone's life there are times of wond...
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Dave & th Derro's
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an Aussie 50s , 60s & 70s music group that I follow on facebook . put a song from this group up "Nice Legs Shame about the face" by Dave & th Derros. Reminded me of Bobby Bare's song "Never been to bed with an ugly woman" HEY Girls . I Suppose you Have your own sayings . Saw this o...
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Humor ... Nobody was Married
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JUST SAYING. It just dawned on me why Mayberry was so peaceful and quiet ....nobody was married.Here are the single people that come to mind. Andy, Aunt Bea, Barney, Floyd, Howard,Goober, Gomer, Sam, Ernest T Bass, the Darlin family, Helen, Thelma Lou, Clara...In fact, the only one married was O...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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September 7, 2015Quote of the Week"My recovery changed when I forever gave up the hope of having a different past." I have spent a lot of time thinking about my past. Alternately feeling sorry for myself or being outraged at the wrongs - real or imagined - that were done to me, a constant th...
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Today's Gift 9/6
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A single grateful thought toward heaven is the most complete prayer. --Gotthold Ephraim Lessing Thank you is one of the most important things we can say to anyone. Thank you packs a lot of meaning into two little words. Thank you says, "I see you. I see what you have done for me. You have been kind t...
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Joe and Charlie tapes
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I have been listening to Part One of the Joe and Charlie tapes. I listened to at least the Part One of these earlier on. This one has a glitch --keeps going to what Utube refers to an "Ad" and this guy (Joe???? Charlie????) cuts in and talks about alcoholism...not selling anything...just can...
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Today's Gift 9/5
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Change of scene has no effect upon unconscious conflicts. --Edmund Bergler, M.D.There's no running away from the internal strife. Whatever haunts us must finally be confronted and resolved if we're ever to grow and thus contribute to our world its due. When we keep secrets locked away, the secrets...
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Today's Gift 9/4
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A tip-off to an abusive family system is a situation in which nobody ever apologizes. -- Karen Shaud When we get a tip-off, we can open the door to a whole new way of looking at the world. The tip-off about apologies can help us learn to have a healthier family. It is hard to apologize, but with practice, it...
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Humor ... Question of the Day
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If Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner goes missing, will they put his/her picture on a carton of Half & Half??
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Today's Gift 9/3
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Practicing toleranceEveryone has a different opinion. No two people look the same. We all are different. Differences can cause us fear and set us apart from others, and we have no idea why.If addiction closes us down, recovery opens us up. In the program, we learn that we are all more alike than we are d...
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How To Get Through a Tough Sober Time
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http://sobercourage.com/2015/04/24/how-to-get-through-a-tough-time-sober/
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Today's Gift 9/2
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Do we manage ourselves to the best of our ability? Some of us are in the program because the drinkers in our lives are out of control and we feel crazy. Others of us come to the program certain that we are managing our lives very well but hoping to learn how to better manage someone else. For some of us, the a...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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August 31, 2015Quote of the Week"Live life today as though you knew you were dying." We've all heard sayings like this before, and for many years my reaction was, "Yeah but it's not my last day and the rent is due at the end of the month, and my relationship isn't getting better, and bla...
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