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Today's Gift 4/3
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Conflict can produce positive results.If our policy is to avoid conflict at all cost, we may impede our growth by trying to sweep important issues under the rug and refusing to deal with them. The issues don't disappear, however, and by sweeping them under the rug, we make them more toxic and unwieldy...
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Spiritual Things I OPractice Today
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No one has the moral right to deliberately hurt another either through acts of commission or ommision...that is not God's Will.....That must be left in the hands of God..and your job is to forgive..and NEVER retaliate or harbor resentment. God is LOVE My Sobriety is Contingent to my Spiritual well...
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Grapevine
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April 2 "Nothing is so bad that a drink won't make worse."
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Today's Gift 4/2
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Awareness, Acceptance, ActionDear God,Slow me down when all I do is try to fix and control things and people. Help me to first accept situations, as they are when I become aware of them.Slow me down in your stillness.Mark my awareness with unselfishness, my acceptance with humility, and my actions w...
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People who Prey Emotionally on Others in AA
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What causes women in AA to prey on other women who show vulnerabilities? You know, like people who use their share to "subtly" cut down the previous share of someone who hadn't sounded confident. Or people who try to get someone with trust issues to trust them, only to end up playing mind gam...
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Fooling myself
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I had some insight that I was drinking alcoholically before I ever admitted it out loud...I knew it wasn't normal to hide the bottles (and worry if they would be found). I knew it wasn't normal to lie about drinking. I knew it wasn't normal to plan my day around drinking and I definitely knew it wasn't nor...
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Grapevine
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April 1 "Sobriety is precious! A fact I didn't know until I had some."
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Welcome to MIP Augie Doggie
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Welcome Augie Doggie, ... I am positive we will enjoy and cherish your ESH here on MIP ... Please share frequently ... our support to each other is both needed and fulfilling, to know we have helped someone make the 'right' decisions ... ... ... Love ya brother and God Bless, Pappy
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Prayer request.
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Please pray for my newborn grandson, Nathanael. His heart stopped during birth and he had to revived. He is in ICU at our hospital. I had already built his cot, compactum and furniture for him. This was going to be my daughter's 1st baby and I am sober to witness it. Unfortunately we are under a life and de...
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Growing Along Spiritual Lines
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When I was a young child I'd wake up in the night crying...and complain to my mother that I had cramps in my legs...she told me that was because I was growing and getting bigger...She'd often take me down to Macy's in N.Y. where I was fitted with a new pair ofr Buster Brown shoes...the older ones didn't fit...
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Sunrise Quote
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For true success, ask yourself these four questions: Why? Why not? Why not me? Why not now?~ James Allen
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Today's Gift 3/31
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Whatever you may be sure of, be sure of this, you are dreadfully like other people. -- James Russell LowellSharing our many experiences with our friends in Twelve Step meetings helps us understand how very similar we all are. We are unique only in the sense that each of us has a special contribution to m...
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Grapevine
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March 31 "The unity of our Fellowship, the love we cherish for each other, the esteem in which the world holds us -- all of these are products of such integrity, as under God, we have been privileged to achieve. May we therefore quicken our search for still more genuine honor, and deepen its pract...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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March 30, 2015Quote of the Week"Anger and resentment are masks for fear." When I came into the program, I was pretty angry. With the alcohol and drugs gone, I very quickly got in touch with my feelings, and for me that meant my anger quickly turned into rage. Oh, and resentments - I had a lot...
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Abused married woman in need of guidance
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I don't even know where to start. I'm in crisis. Mainly due to my codependent marriage which is quite abusive. My husband runs me into the ground emotionally as hard as he can and enjoys it completely, like he delights in it. He is an alcoholic like me, and this has just become intolerable. I'm in the mids...
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Grapevine
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March 30 "I thank God for bringing me to Alcoholics Anonymous, but mostly I thank Alcoholics Anonymous for bringing me to God."
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Sunrise Quote
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Each of us has the freedom to choose how we will respond to the circumstances in which we find ourselves.~ Nido Qubein
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Today's Gift 3/30
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I usually just lived one day at a time. I never had a sense of where I was going. --Ruth CaseyDid any of us really know where we were going? We probably spent many hours, days, weeks even, making detailed plans for the people around us. These plans didn't usually suit others so they didn't often materiali...
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Emotional relapse.
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I lost my temper and became very angry with my wife recently. This has not happened in very many years. It was not pleasant at all. The emotional tragedy of alcoholism is one of the most dangerous thing for an alcoholic like me. Waves of self pity, resentment and anger plagued me for days. My outburst of a...
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Today's Gift 3/29
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I walked a mile with Sorrow, And never a word said she; But, Oh, the things I learned from her When Sorrow walked with me! -- Robert Browning HamiltonWe may think that forgetting the past is essential for growth and peace of mind. It's a tempting idea: we'll start over again, we think, fresh and new. But i...
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Long Term Sobriety---Keeping it Fresh
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As a member since 4/98, I am wondering how y'all keep your long term sobriety fresh. after 6 1/2 years I went out for 3 months in '03. I recommited myself and recently celebrated my 11 year anniversary on 2/20 this year. I am trying to reignite my program and having a hard time of it. Meetings are gett...
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Sunrise Quote
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Doing the right thing is more important than doing the thing right.~ Peter F. Drucker
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Today's Gift 3/28
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People-PleasingFor some of us, people-pleasing has become a way of getting our needs and wants met. But people-pleasing is manipulative and condescending. And it cheats us. When we are busy pleasing others, we are not being true to ourselves (nor those we are pleasing).Rather than manipulating p...
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Grapevine
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March 27 "I used to be a champ at unrealistic self-appraisal. I wanted to look only at the part of my life which seemed good."
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Today's Gift 3/27
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We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable. --Step One of Alcoholics AnonymousAccepting powerlessness is a prerequisite of recovery. As adult children, the very idea may seem puzzling or even laughable. Haven't we felt powerless all along? Shouldn't we b...
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March 26 "Having an honest relationship with my sponsor allowed me an honest relationship with myself and others."
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New Here
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Hi all I'm Katrina. As much as I hate to admit it, im an alcoholic. I never really had a problem handling it. I could out drink anyone. I hurt everyone I loved tho. I still remember the day that changed my life and thinking forever. My mama (also an alcoholic) had been begging me for a week to come b...
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Today's Gift 3/25
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In wildness is the preservation of the world. - Henry David ThoreauNature confronts us with its beauty in a flower or a furry animal. The awesomeness of nature is in a lightning bolt or a majestic mountain. Every variety of tree has its own uniquely textured bark. Each annual ring in a tree trunk is a na...
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Strength in a time of weakness
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Not long ago, I would've handled extreme stress and anxiety differently. I would've made an excuse to be by myself and drank myself silly, convincing myself that things were ok. I would've eventually passed out believing that my problem was taken care of.
Sober me knows better and the Serenity Pr...
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Sunrise Quote
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In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing. ~ Theodore Roosevelt
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Today's Gift 3/24
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Fantasies are more than substitutes for unpleasant reality; they are also dress rehearsals, plans. All acts performed in the world begin in the imagination. --Barbara Grizzuti HarrisonOur minds mold who we become. Our thoughts not only contribute to our achievements, they determine the postur...
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Just Pure Evil
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There was a great bar at the Panama Canal Yacht ClubI would drink ginger ale with my friend Scott and other sailors while watching football and baseball. Scott was a good sociable guy but he is now in prison for trying to smuggle one ton of cocaine in his boat into Canada.. There was this other acquaint...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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March 23, 2015Quote of the Week"We go to meetings for relief; we work the steps for recovery" It happens every time - I always feel better after a meeting. Regardless of what's going on, or what my mood is, after a meeting I always feel more centered, more connected, and more at peace. The o...
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Today's Gift 3/23
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Embracing virtues and new attitudesBecause of our addiction, our actions (and inaction) have fostered cynicism, futility, and distrust. How could we ever have hoped to succeed with attitudes like that? Now we are cultivating the virtues of understanding, love, and patience. It is often slow and...
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Wiling to go to ANY length
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Thinking back, I did some outrageous things to drink. I hid my drinking, hid bottles of booze, lied about money spent on booze, got in trouble at work, made excuses or created situations where drinking would be acceptable. I was ashamed of myself. I didn't like myself at all.
Getting sober (with he...
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Sunrise Quote
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It was only a sunny smile and little it cost in the giving, but like morning light it scattered the night and made the day worth living.~ F. Scott Fitzgerald
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Sunrise Quote
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A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.~ Anonymous
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Gratitude
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Gratitude is...
Being sober, just for today!
Sitting here on the floor of an empty trailer with my cat, and realizing the trailer is my temporary home...and it's so full of love it isn't empty at all!
Gratitude is walking away from a lavish life with nothing and finding I have more than I ever had...
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Today's Gift 3/21
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Even if you understand and follow all of the rules for more effectively engaging manipulators, life with them is not likely to be easy. --George K. Simon Jr.Sometimes they want something. Sometimes they want someone to give them something or to feel a particular way. They want power in some way, shap...
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Time for a Funny!!!
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Don't talk to the parrot Wanda's dishwasher quit working so she called in a repairman. Since she had to go to work the next day, she told the repairman, "I'll leave the key under the mat. Fix the dishwasher, leave the bill on the counter, and I'll mail you a check. Oh, by the way don't worry about my...
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New online member, not new to recovery
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Hello,
My name is Jerricka and I'm an alcoholic. I'm here with an attitude of gratitude...so thankful to have found AA recovery/fellowship, through my phone, of all things! I live in a one-horse town that doesn't even have one horse...and a meeting only once a week. I finally made it to the meeting l...
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Spiritual Lessons That I Remind Myself Today
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There is no vindication in hatred. Besides we are ALL PRODUCTS OF OUR OWN DEVILS. Hate kills the spirit. Don't waste your time on vengence. Vengence is depressing...Better to forget your enemies than to invite madness. Humor feeds the soul. If the soul is starved, so does the conscience and your cons...
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Today's Gift 3/20
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I have been impressed with the urgency of doing. Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Being willing is not enough; we must do.~ Leonardo DaVinci
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Today's Gift 3/20
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F.I.N.E.[I'm] Frustrated, Insecure, Neurotic, EmotionalF.E.A.R. Face Everything And RecoverN.U.T.S. Not Using The StepsE.G.O. Edging God Out.D.E.N.I.A.L. Don't Even Notice I Am Lying.H.A.L.T.[Don't get too] Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired.H.O.P.E. Happy Our Pro...
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Grieving
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I haven't been on the board for quite some time, but decided to come on and check in. I've been going through a grieving process since late November when my sponsor passed away unexpectedly. I've certainly been here before, since I have had three sponsors in the 29 years I've been in A.A., and each of t...
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Support and Hope
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Well, the struggles of my teens(2) drug use has worn me down. I removed my daughter from my house on 1/1/2015. For sons(16) use progressed to a daily basis. The symptoms are all there: lying, isolating, anger and his world getting smaller. He can't wait for me to go to a meeting or leave the house so he ca...
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Pot shop approved near AA chapter
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Interesting development. Interesting issues.http://www.durangoherald.com/article/20150317/NEWS01/150319611/Marijuana-shop-approved-to-open-near-AA-chapter-
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Sunrise Quote
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Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.~ Brian Tracy
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I've developed feelings for my sponsor
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This is my second time around getting sober. After my relapse I decided to get a new sponsor. Sometime after doing my 5th step I noticed a shift in the way I saw my sponsor. I have worked the 12 step and continue to work them with her. She has an amazing insight of recover and I've grown tremendously fro...
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Today's Gift 3/19
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It's an esteemable act to stop and smell the roses.For years I diligently and faithfully read my daily meditations. I worked them into my routine activities, just as I shower, brush my teeth, and press my clothes. After each reading, I'd stop and digest the material, allowing myself to mentally inte...
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