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Hopefulone, ...You There???
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I need a good recipe ... or from anyone else who's a cooking nut ... LOL ... I have a ton of Jalapenos from the garden and want to try deep fried 'Poppers' ... anyone got a good recipe??? ... The alcohol connection? ... yeah, having a garden is one of the 'by-products' of being sober ... one learns there's...
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Today's Gift 9/9
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Growth is the only evidence of life. --John, Cardinal NewmanWe should be thankful we can never reach complete serenity. If we could, we would never have the need to improve ourselves. We would stop growing, because there would be no reason to learn any more than we already know, and we would become bor...
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Anti-depressants
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Tried 'em back in '01, they didn't work for me. But I was drinking back then. I'm almost 15 months sober now, still depressed (it kinda comes in waves, but the norm is for me to be at least a bit depressed daily). Not suicidal though, and don't think I'm at too much risk to go back out right now since I am...
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MALE AND WOMEN WORKING TOGETHER
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show me in the BIG BOOK ???? I M A MALE ....ITS MOTIVES , THANK GOD 80 YEARS AGO YOU PEOPLE WERE NOT IN THE ROOMS, BEEN IN THE ROOMS SINCE 2000 . NEVER ASK FOR A WOMEN S NUMBER OR OUT ON A DATE. IF A WOMEN ASK ME TO SPONSOR HER , BECAUSE SHE WANTS A MALE . I M GOING TO SUGGEST A WOMEN. BUT NO WHERE IN THE BIG BOOK DOES IT SA...
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Today's Gift 9/8
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Life moves forwardThe past is past. Over. Finished. Our job is to move with the flow of the present. We are propelled by what went before, but we do not try to swim against the current of our present lives by regretting or yearning for old times.Each day of recovery releases us from the past and gives us a f...
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How To Conquer A Man At The Gym
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One of the best places to meet men healthy and attractive is the gym, but if you ever wondered how to conquer a man at the gym, don't read the following tips. Use perfume Find out what are the perfumes that men prefer and look for one that you like to use it whenever you are going to exercise in the gym. Your sc...
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Today's Gift 9/7
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When all else is lost, the future still remains. --Christian BoveeOurs is a program of hope. We sit in meetings and give each other hope. For no matter how long we have been sober - five days or thirty years - there will be times when we feel horrible. This is life. In everyone's life there are times of wond...
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Dave & th Derro's
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an Aussie 50s , 60s & 70s music group that I follow on facebook . put a song from this group up "Nice Legs Shame about the face" by Dave & th Derros. Reminded me of Bobby Bare's song "Never been to bed with an ugly woman" HEY Girls . I Suppose you Have your own sayings . Saw this o...
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Humor ... Nobody was Married
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JUST SAYING. It just dawned on me why Mayberry was so peaceful and quiet ....nobody was married.Here are the single people that come to mind. Andy, Aunt Bea, Barney, Floyd, Howard,Goober, Gomer, Sam, Ernest T Bass, the Darlin family, Helen, Thelma Lou, Clara...In fact, the only one married was O...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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September 7, 2015Quote of the Week"My recovery changed when I forever gave up the hope of having a different past." I have spent a lot of time thinking about my past. Alternately feeling sorry for myself or being outraged at the wrongs - real or imagined - that were done to me, a constant th...
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Today's Gift 9/6
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A single grateful thought toward heaven is the most complete prayer. --Gotthold Ephraim Lessing Thank you is one of the most important things we can say to anyone. Thank you packs a lot of meaning into two little words. Thank you says, "I see you. I see what you have done for me. You have been kind t...
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Joe and Charlie tapes
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I have been listening to Part One of the Joe and Charlie tapes. I listened to at least the Part One of these earlier on. This one has a glitch --keeps going to what Utube refers to an "Ad" and this guy (Joe???? Charlie????) cuts in and talks about alcoholism...not selling anything...just can...
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Today's Gift 9/5
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Change of scene has no effect upon unconscious conflicts. --Edmund Bergler, M.D.There's no running away from the internal strife. Whatever haunts us must finally be confronted and resolved if we're ever to grow and thus contribute to our world its due. When we keep secrets locked away, the secrets...
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Today's Gift 9/4
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A tip-off to an abusive family system is a situation in which nobody ever apologizes. -- Karen Shaud When we get a tip-off, we can open the door to a whole new way of looking at the world. The tip-off about apologies can help us learn to have a healthier family. It is hard to apologize, but with practice, it...
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Humor ... Question of the Day
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If Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner goes missing, will they put his/her picture on a carton of Half & Half??
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Today's Gift 9/3
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Practicing toleranceEveryone has a different opinion. No two people look the same. We all are different. Differences can cause us fear and set us apart from others, and we have no idea why.If addiction closes us down, recovery opens us up. In the program, we learn that we are all more alike than we are d...
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How To Get Through a Tough Sober Time
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http://sobercourage.com/2015/04/24/how-to-get-through-a-tough-time-sober/
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Today's Gift 9/2
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Do we manage ourselves to the best of our ability? Some of us are in the program because the drinkers in our lives are out of control and we feel crazy. Others of us come to the program certain that we are managing our lives very well but hoping to learn how to better manage someone else. For some of us, the a...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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August 31, 2015Quote of the Week"Live life today as though you knew you were dying." We've all heard sayings like this before, and for many years my reaction was, "Yeah but it's not my last day and the rent is due at the end of the month, and my relationship isn't getting better, and bla...
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Today's Gift 9/1
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Be aware of wonder. --Robert FulghumWe have days when we experience the small coincidences in life - our car breaks down and we run into an old friend at the service station; we're thinking about someone and she calls just because we've been on her mind; we ask ourselves a question and the answer appear...
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AA Killed On Way To Meeting
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Bad luck, this. RIP.Recovering alcoholic heading to AA hit and killed by drunk driver SOMERSWORTH, N.H. (MyFoxBoston.com) - A recovering alcoholic was hit and killed on the way to an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting by an allegedly drunk driver in New Hampshire on Monday.Reed Hindle, 61, of Fremont...
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Today's Gift 8/30
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Detachment doesn't mean denying compassion.Approaching life with detachment may seem cold at first. We are accustomed to offering lots of help to other people. Thus the first few times we back off from what has become our natural inclination we feel uncomfortable.Through this program we are lear...
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Today's Gift 8/29
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Be grateful for where you are now."It doesn't take as much faith to believe that everything happens for a reason as it does to embrace the belief that I am who and where I am now, today, for a reason - even if I don't know what that reason is and even if I don't particularly like who or where I am today,&q...
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Alcohol, the Fuel Of All Adventure, No Longer Works
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Heard a good story on NPR today of a drunk making it to sobriety. Woman by the name of Sarah Hepola. She authored the book Blackout: Remembering The Things I Drank To Forget. Sharp lady. Pretty honest account, 5 years into sobriety. She finally got off the party bus. Might be Worth a listen. http://www....
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Never been on here before
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DJ9110 and Snugsy---Our 2 Newbies....Hope you both are doing okay
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Where'd you guys go???? Would love to hear from both of you. Thinking about you. Have a great safe and sober weekend!
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Today's Gift 8/28
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I grew up knowing I had to be a success for others. --Sandy WarmanThe pressure of performance is daunting and extremely stressful. Some, like Sandy, were controlled by it their whole lives. Perhaps that was your experience, too. Are you free of it now?The desire to be successful never was a bad thing i...
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Need some comfort
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hey guys. I'm new here. Also new in recovery. I finished rehab this past Monday. Went to a meeting that night. My Mom took me to the beach for a short get away. Enjoying the beach so far But having cravings as I've always drank at the beach. Just wanted some helpful words from you guys. Thank you!
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Today's Gift 8/26
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A good scare is worth more to a man than good advice. -- E. W. HoweDo you let yourself be afraid of your illness? You'd better. Many of us were scared into sobriety. Often, a spiritual awakening directly follows a good scare. Fear seems to improve our vision. Are you smart enough to run from your addictio...
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Today's Gift 8/27
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Have you learned lessons only of those who admired you, and were tender with you, and stood aside for you? Have you not learned great lessons from those who braced themselves against you, and disputed the passage with you? --Walt WhitmanWouldn't it be grand if we could have everything our way! We'd ha...
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job search
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A company that places disabled people in Government and private sector jobs is trying to place me in a job. My resume probably was approved today. I am looking for a customer service or clerical job. they require knowledge of Microsoft office and good typing. I'm taking an online course for Micros...
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I have a problem...
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with people when they say "I'm so proud of you", for staying sober. Actually, I don't have a problem with the people who say it. I just have a hard time hearing it. Quitting the poison isn't something I'm proud of, because I never should have let it get that bad in the first place. So, people ar...
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Grateful for 27 years of AA sobriety.
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Thank you all members of this board both old and new. Many of you will never know how much you mean to me. My 1st entry into AA was on the 13 April 1988. I needed 4 months more to convince me that I was powerless over alcohol. I re-entered AA on 19 August 1988. Now I was ready to embark on the 12 step program, with...
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Today's Gift 8/25
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If you want to change who you are, change what you do. ***The Big Book is like a cookbook - you can read it all day long and starve. You have to take the action. ***If you stay humble, you will not stumble. ***Our neighbor's window looks much cleaner if we first wash our own. ***Yesterday is a canceled check...
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South Park - Bloody Mary
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Hi, I'm a miserable alcoholic. But I'm even more miserable sober. Now that we've gotten that out of the way, I've read through a few posts here and I have to say I see now where you people are coming from. It's not how much you drink, or how occasional it might be, but how you obsess over it. If you have to worr...
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Wisdom of the Rooms --- (Boy, Did I Need This One!!!)
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August 24, 2015Quote of the Week"Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in God's world by mistake." Lately, things haven't been going my way. Both small things as well as big, scary health related issues have come up that are definitely not what I wanted and can't be good for me. As I cli...
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Today's Gift 8/24
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When folks have allotted themselves a task and work together in unison, they escape unhappiness. --Emile ZolaWe may have been loners in the past, preferring solitude to the company of others. We may have spent time as children buried in books instead of outside playing with other children. We may ha...
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Today's Gift 8/23
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As the twig is bent, the tree inclines.A positive self-image is critical to our recovery. Why? Because it is the glasses through which we look, the gloves with which we touch, the door by which we enter into a relationship with life. Self-image is not who we really are, but a combination of what we wish w...
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Update 8/13
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1st of all, thank you to all those who have kept me in their prayers ... this is the first day in a long time that I've felt good enough to post something other than gibberish ... The Dr's visits and testing continues ... please keep the prayers going ... I have missed you guys more than you know ... Love y...
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Today's Gift 8/21
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Seeking growthWe are where we are for a reason. As long as that reason remains, we remain where we are. If we aren't where we think we should be, working the program will help us get to where our deepest self longs to be. This is growth. And growth is work. We must be willing to do the simple things that our ne...
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Today's Gift 8/22
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I have one request: may I never use my reason against truth. --Elie WieselHonesty with ourselves is a great asset in every situation we confront. The skill to look reality square in the face and call it what it is takes us a good distance toward coping with it. However, many of us also have the skill to spi...
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Show Me an Easier Softer Way To Stay Sober and I'll Try It
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OK....the two videos--which I suspect are the same video-- were not removed from this site by the owner/a moderator as of yet. Okay. I get it...everyone has a right to have their own opinion...free speech. Well then, so do I and this post should not be removed either. I am in AA to not only save my own life...
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My Name is Roger and I am an Alcoholic rogerebert site
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http://www.rogerebert.com/rogers-journal/my-name-is-roger-and-im-an-alcoholic
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Today's Gift 8/19
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Unconditional love corresponds to one of the deepest longings, not only of the child, but of every human being. --Erich FrommFeeling the need to be perfect to ensure we'll be loved is as familiar as the robin's whistle heralding spring. Am I too fat to be loved? Do people think I'm dumb when I speak out?...
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Staying on Course
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My meeting the other week with my sponsor went great! I really dreaded it because I had written out a situational 4th Step for actually several resentments which I had been carrying with me. What this person and that person had done to upset/hurt me. Of course it was not nearly as many as when I first did m...
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Feeling "Spiritually Fit"
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Hi, I have been wondering lately what does "spiritually fit" mean to everyone here? I know for me it begins and ends with the 4 absolutes. Honesty, Purity, Unselfishness, Love. Also, for me the word HONESTY means the most to me. I wonder, though, if anyone has seen this video? https://...
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Today's Gift 8/20
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We believe in Human Ecology, the understanding and care of human beings as whole persons in light of their relationship to God, themselves, their families, and the society in which they live. --The Philosophy of Human Ecology The philosophy of Human Ecology covers all three aspects of our recover...
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Letting Go of Shame Melodie Beattie August 19
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LETTING GO OF SHAME AUGUST 19From The Language of Letting Go, Melody Beattie Shame is that dark, powerful feeling that holds us back. Yes, shame can stop us from acting inappropriately. But many of us have learned to attach shame to healthy behaviours that are in our best interest.In dysfunctional...
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Valuing This Moment August 18 Melodie Beattie
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Language of Letting Go - August 18 - Valuing This MomentYou are reading from the book The Language of Letting Go Valuing this Moment Detachment involves present moment living - living in the here and now. We allow life to happen instead of forcing and trying to control it. We relinquish regrets over th...
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Today's Gift 8/18
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What is obvious to me is that we did not create ourselves... life is something inside of you. You did not create it. Once you understand that, you are in a spiritual realm. --Virginia SatirWe do not belong to ourselves, but to the universe. No one planned to come into existence; we just happened to find o...
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