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Today's Gift 2/22
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Keeping our motives honest Motives are important in dealing with other people. If we're frank with someone and that person gets upset, we might think he or she just can't handle our directness, our honesty. But "honesty" without love is more like brutal frankness. If we want to be confron...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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February 22, 2016Quote of the Week"R&R stands for rest and relaxation, not rehearse and rehash!" "If only my mind would leave me alone," I often think. I have what I call a "digging mind." Like a dog at the beach, it digs and digs and digs in a problem, a worry, or...
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Today's Gift 2/21
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Think in terms of depletion, not depression. . . . You can understand how a body can replenish itself, whereas it may be difficult to understand the way out of depression. --Claire Weekes Despair and depression may come over us suddenly, for no reason we can figure out. But if we stop and reflect, we may...
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AA Speakers!!
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We are in the process of adding a TON of new AA speakers on our YouTube channel. What's unique about these speakers is that they come from one man's extensive personal collection, and most have never been posted online before! You can find them here https://www.youtube.com/user/WeDoRecover12...
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Today's Gift 2/20
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Leave room for God to surprise you! --Ernie K.It is human to be disappointed when we don't get what we want. But when we dwell on our disappointment, as if we should have gotten what we wanted, then we forget to trust that God may have something different in store for us. Many of us pray, "Thy will be d...
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Today's Gift 2/19
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The twilight, in fact, had several stages, and several times after it had grown dusky, acquired a new transparency, and the trees on the hillsides were lit up again. --Henry David ThoreauThere are small candles of light we can bring into our lives to take away some of the darkness. These are the candle...
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Welcome PaulieBD
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Welcome to MIP Paulie ... glad you found us ... look'n forward to your share'n your ESH with us ... Love ya man and God Bless, Pappy
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Today's Gift 2/18
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Separateness Moving into wise and spiritual adulthood...At our worst we may be alert to what we want from our partner but blind to what our own role requires. No doubt we can always find accurate criticisms of our mate. In all lasting relationships we will find the weaknesses and the unattractive sid...
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Fyne Spirit, Check In Please
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Fyne Spirit, how are you all doing after the rumble yesterday? Tell us UR ok. (Hopefully.)
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Humor
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Your Collar Is Backwards A little boy got on the bus, sat next to a man reading a book, andnoticed he had his collar on backwards. The little boy asked why he wore his collar backwards.The man, who was a priest, said, 'I am a Father..'The little boy replied, 'My Daddy doesn't wear his collar like that....
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Sunrise Quote
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The important thing is not to stop questioning. ~Albert Einstein
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Today's Gift 2/17
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I wish to live without hate, whim, jealousy, envy, and fear. I wish to be simple, honest, frank, natural, clean in mind and clean in body. . . to face any obstacle and meet every difficulty unabashed and unafraid. --Elbert HubbardGrowing up, we learned there were many places to make wishes: the first s...
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Great news
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Im still sober. And that, my friends, is always great news. hope everyone is doing well.
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Today's Gift 2/16
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Without work all life goes rotten. -- Albert CamusMost would not think of work as a prize. That is often due to the concept we have of work.Work can be that of an artist, the work of creation. Such work is not the response to a whistle or the boring activity that follows a punched time card. Creative work is...
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Living in recovery: Not anonymous anymore
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I'm not down with the broad application of the idea of going public for those in recovery. Too many negatives, IMHO. It's an idea that seems to be getting a bit of support from various folks in or around recovery. To those who want voluntarily doff their anonymity, go right ahead. Just make sure you str...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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February 15, 2016Quote of the Week"For every nut in the program, there is a bolt." When I first entered the rooms of recovery, I was a little taken aback by some of the strange characters I heard share. Some had been to prison; some had lived on the streets; some had been prostitutes; some w...
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Today's Gift 2/15
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I didn't really have a plan for a career, but I learned how to run our business quite successfully one day at a time. --Joann ReedWhether we have a specific plan for how we anticipate our lives unfolding or we react to opportunities spontaneously, we have to take whatever comes in small increments anyw...
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Sunrise Quote
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My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry, to get my work done, and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return. ~Angelou, Maya on Hope
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Today's Gift 2/14
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The more you love, the more love you are given to love with. --Lucien PriceWith love comes promises of sentiment as rapturous as fall's splendor of color and as delicate as a crystal of snow. Love empowers us to handle the struggles that bind us, the struggles that stretch us to grow. The familiar sight...
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Today's Gift 2/13
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Ordinary moments ... they in turn enrich our livesOur spiritual life is on the same plane as our everyday relationships. It's not just something within our mind or feelings, and it's not just lofty and in the clouds. Spirituality is between people and in all relationships. Its growth depends on the w...
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Could He be One of Us?
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WINONA, Minn. (AP) A man has a pretty good excuse for why he crashed his car into a utility pole in Winona: his dog puked on him. The Winona Daily News reported police found the car unattended last Thursday morning against an Xcel Energy pole. Witnesses told officers they saw a man leaving the area and wa...
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AA Prospect Attends First Meeting
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So, this is how it is to go to a first AA meeting in the year 2016, eh? Alcoholics Anonymous: not just for Hollywood By Gretchyn Kaylor | Published 01/25/16 1:26pm | Updated 01/25/16 1:26pm Hi, Im Gretchyn and Im in the same boat. I butchered the widely known mantra.Were not a cult, was one of the firs...
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Today's Gift 2/12
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Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life. --Herbert OttoThe rewards of our new life are apparent to us because of how we feel, and apparent to others by what they can see. Many of us had reached our bottom point, and we...
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"Good Orderly Direction" and other problems I'm having with the program
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Hi, I've been recently considering going back to AA meetings. I have went in the past after being sober for a month and it seemed to cause my relapse. Although I still feel responsible for my own actions, the constant talk of alcohol and drinking was too much to not trigger me, even when told as horror s...
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Daughter was born Feb 4th.
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It is a blessing that I was there to be a part of it, and sober. 8 months sober the day after her birth. I can't believe I've made it through this sober. ODAAT!!
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Today's Gift 2/11
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Do, or do not. There is no "try." --Yoda, in The Empire Strikes BackTrying is what we do when we aren't willing to make a commitment. We say, "I'll try," when our heart isn't ready to give a full effort. It's what we say when we can't admit that our resolve is wimpy. And it's the lie t...
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Today's Gift 2/9 'Coping with Families'
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Coping with FamiliesThere are many paths to self-care with families. Some people choose to sever connections with family members for a period of time. Some people choose to stay connected with family members and learn different behaviors. Some disconnect for a time, and then return slowly on a dif...
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Today's Gift 2/10
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If we let things terrify us, life will not be worth living. --SenecaA panic attack is feeling a sudden burst of anxiety and fear for no reason. We all experience anxiety from time to time but it can usually be traced to a cause. A true panic attack happens out of the blue. Once we may have reacted to panic at...
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OUTSIDE ISSUE: REGARDING TROLLS...
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This board, unfortunately, seems to be a ripe target for trolls. It is an unpleasant fact that such pathetic people exist to push buttons and infuriate folks to the point of leaving. Don't get me wrong, I know that some have left because of clashing egos and opinions, but anyone with message board savv...
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Sunrise Quote 2/9
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Birds sing after a storm; why shouldn't people feel as free to delight in whatever remains to them? ~Kennedy, Rose F. on Adversity
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4 months!
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Well, yesterday was 4 months sober for me! I woke up this morning without a headache and feeling great. I just keep praying daily, working on the steps and hitting a meeting or two a week. Did you know that they can play the Super Bowl without me drinking? I didn't know that!
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Am I being selfsh to ask my visiting sister not to get drun around me
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My sister has come to visit me for a few months. She sometimes wants to go out to bars for fun and wants me to go with her. (she lives in a small town that's not much fun and wants to cut loose while she's here) Its not that I want to drink but it annoys me when she gets drunk. She has always been more social and...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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February 8, 2016Quote of the Week"Directions to recovery: Just go straight to hell and make a U-turn." When I was new to the program, I heard a word I didn't know the definition of. The word was perdition. As the fog began to clear my, sponsor recommended I look it up, and when I read its mea...
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Sunrise Quote 2/8
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The balanced man is he whose thoughts soar on the wings of vision - but whose feet remain on the rocks of reality. ~J.A. Rosenkranz
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Today's Gift 2/8
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Disappointment and FrustrationMany of us, whether we are conscious of it or not, create much of the unhappiness we experience. Our disappointments are the result of our own negative or limited thoughts about ourselves and our world. What are some of those limiting thoughts, those subconscious be...
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Sunrise Quote 2/7
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Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase. ~Martin Luther King Jr.
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A Higher Power problem
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I am a religious person. What that religion is doesn't matter. In the 12 step program, God can be anything you want it to be. It's a god of your understanding. The problem here is that all the qualities ascribed to the 12-Step God only describes one God in the history of theology: the Protestant Christi...
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Finally went to an AA meeting but FAILED my first 24Hours UGH
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So I have been heavily drinking lately, for a long time actually and talking to my Head Doc she finally got me to go to an AA meeting. Well I decided to because I really do want this crap to end. So long story short, I went last night and afterwards I had to go shopping (about 3 hours later) and what do you know,...
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Today's Gift 2/7 (One of my Favorites)
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In music, in the sea, in a flower, in a leaf, in an act of kindness... I see what people call God in all these things. --Pablo CasalsThe Third Step refers to "God as we understood Him." The pathways to meeting our Higher Power and to our spiritual awakening are all around. Every tree and every l...
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Sober housing in Atlanta, Georgia
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I'm fresh out of a 90 day treatment program in Michigan and moving back to my home in Atlanta. Does anyone know the best way to find sober housing in Atlanta? Thanks
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Help 2 of us in Playas Ecuador
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Please let us know if you know of any AA meetings in Playas Ecuador we are from WI living here for 2 months. Please let us know on our e mail at tolson4one@yahoo.com
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Sunrise Quote 2/4
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Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. ~Paul Boese
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Fellow AA lying about sober time
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I have a situation that I don't now how to handle. Would like to hear from anyone that went through this and how it worked for them. The fellow AA is my husband, therefore I have inside information on this. Bottom line, he is coming up on 2 years sober (according to what he tells me and everyone) after 3 ye...
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Today's Gift 2/4
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Reflection for the DayToday I'll try to settle for less than I wish were possible, and be willing to not only accept it but to appreciate it. Today, I'll not expect too much of anyone - especially myself. I'll try to remember that contentment comes from gratefully accepting the good that comes to us, an...
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Today's Gift 2/3
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Did you ever get a punch card from a coffee shop? If you buy nine coffees, you get the tenth free. Even though you're not paying for it, you know this purchase isn't free. The price was factored into earlier purchases. But still, getting something free is sweet. We feel like we deserve what's handed to us...
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Hitting a Wall in Sobriety article
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https://www.thefix.com/content/hitting-a-wall-in-sobriety-10051?page=all
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Testing, testing, 1,2,3.
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just seeing if I got an Internet signal. I haven't had one in a while. still with you all, still batting on your team. You can't get rid of me that easy.
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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February 1, 2016Quote of the Week"Anger is one letter away from Danger." When I came into the program I was so angry, but I didn't realize how much. For years I had used drugs and alcohol to numb these feelings, to manage and hide them. When these were taken way, my anger quickly turned to ra...
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Today's Gift 2/1
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Action carries us in the direction we choose.Recovery involves doing - going to meetings working our program, reaching out to others. We don't get a job by sitting at home thinking about it, and we don't get a degree by looking at college catalogs. It's true that we need to reflect; we need quiet times w...
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Dry Drunk article
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https://www.discoveryplace.info/dry-drunk-depth-explanation-dry-drunk-recovery
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