Alcoholics Anonymous

karisma · karisma

anyone got any suggestions how to approach this? i seem to have a mental block and cannot seem to get started.

boomdookie · boomdookie

I have been in AA for two years. I quit going to meetings about a year ago. I felt like I was bored and joining a cult or something.I kept in contact with God and was doing great ,at least I thought. Gosh, was I wrong ! About a 6 wks. ago I got a bottle and I didn't stop for 3wks.I got in a fight with my...

Rick · Rick

Education should be the process of helping everyone to discover his uniqueness. --Leo Buscaglia We are each special, which means there is not another person just like ourselves. Nobody looks just like us. Nobody's voice sounds quite like our own. And nobody thinks through a story just like w...

Rick · Rick

Read your message down below. My phone is out. The Repair man was here but i was out , so he didn't fix it. I tested it and The problem is outside the house, so I guess he wanted to visit or something???????? God only knows what might go thru ones head.

Rick · Rick

Having realistic expectations. Sometimes we expect much too much of people and things. We will never be happy if we expect our doctor to work instant cures or if we blame our teacher for what we failed to learn. We need to examine what's realistic to expect of others and what we are responsib...

lynn · lynn

thanks for the real nice replies from befor. i dont have a new sponsor yet and i need to know somehting . i did my 5th step with a fellow AA that i trust which has lead me to start thinkin about the 9th one. but i cant ask them this questin cuz it might be stupid. when i make amends to ppl do i have to tell them WHA...

Phil · Phil

Patience is the ability to: Sit back and wait for an expected outcome without experiencing anxiety, tension, or frustration. Let go of your need for immediate gratification. Display tolerance, compassion, understanding, and acceptance toward those who are slower than you in develo...

asmith · asmith

I checked out of the detox center this morning and am celebrating my 4th day of sobriety! The first day was hell, but once I got the alcohol out of my system I started feeling better. They did not allow us to smoke at all and we were only allowed outside for 30 minutes a day which really&...

Phil · Phil

Your question about "Just saying sorry for all you did to that person, while you were drinking" keeps it pretty simple Lynn. I know there are still times, I hafta talk to a sponsor about things, and get a second opinion. Sometimes --2 heads are better then one.:)

Rick · Rick

Young man, the secret of my success is that at an early age I discovered I was not God. --Oliver Wendell Holmes Sometimes, in our families, we try to get parents or brothers or sisters to treat us the way we want them to, to do things we want them to. When they're upset or angry with us, we try to get the...

Phil · Phil

1.... Easy does it 2.... First things first 3.... Live and let live 4.... But for the grace of god 5....Think......Think.......Think 6....One day at time 7....Let go and Let God 8....Kiss---keep it simple stupid 9....Act as if......... 10....This too shall pass 11....Expect miracles 12....I ca...

nancyjo59 · nancyjo59

Its so nice to see your names again. Seem to have everyone on my mind these days. You are like my extended family. I see ya's posting right now and though maybe you would see my message. Doll you sure sound like you are doing good these days. So happy for ya. Nancy Jo Didn't intentionall...

herman · herman

I've been in the program for 18 months now. I had a brief relapse in July, I think, because I was white-knuckling it. Just like before I came to the rooms I like to be in control of everything. I want others to think I'm in control of everything. Deep down, however, I am terrifie...

nancyjo59 · nancyjo59

A 92 year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is full dressed every morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and shaved perfectly, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today. His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. Afte...

Rick · Rick

We believe in Human Ecology, the understanding and care of human beings as whole persons in light of their relationship to God, themselves, their families, and the society in which they live. --The philosophy of Human Ecology The philosophy of Human Ecology covers all three aspects o...

Rick · Rick

I will, I will accept myself With hope and fear and wonder And what I have joined together Let no man put asunder. --Dory Preven There is a wonderful freedom in acceptance. When we accept ourselves, with all our imperfections, we can then begin to accept others just as they are. This is especiall...

Phil · Phil

What is self-esteem? People with self-esteem: Hold themselves as worthy to be loved and to love others, worthy to be cared for and to care for others, worthy to be nurtured and to nurture others, worthy to be touched and supported and to touch and support others, worthy to be listened to and to li...

Phil · Phil

Letting the Good Stuff Happen Before recovery, my relationships were lousy. I didn't do very well on my job. I was enmeshed in my dysfunctional family. But at least I knew what to expect! --Anonymous I want the second half of my life to be as good as the first half was miserable. Sometimes, I'm afr...

jimdadin · jimdadin

Good morning all! Especially good without the hangover or wondering what I might have said or done to hurt someone (emotionally) in an alcoholic haze. I would like to thank everyone for your caring words and responses to my very first post on this message board. I was a little worried that it might...

wagon · wagon

As we go through the day we pause, when agitated or doubtful, and ask for the right thought or action. We constantly remind ourselves we are no longer running the show, humbly saying to ourselves many times each day "Thy will be done." We are then in much less danger of excitement, fear, anger, worry, se...

Cabbageheadchris · Cabbageheadchris

Found this when I was doing some research for the job that I'm hoping to get on Wednesday. Never really thought about this before. It makes sence to me at least! (this isn't written by me and I don't have a name to credit it to). Give my sight to the man who has never seen a sunrise The day will come when my...

GammyRose · GammyRose

Goodmorning, I haven't been on for awhile...just got my PC moved to my Mom's yesterday and phone service the day before. So I'll get caught up on reading the posts. Today is going to be a busy day, I'm winding up the packing and my kids will be here tomorrow to help with thw physical moving.I'm so glad th...

Phil · Phil

Congradulations Catherine on 4 weeks-one day at a time. A big step forward. Nursing home hu? I operate a taxi company, and I pick these people up, and return them to the nursing home, after they roam the streets, and run out of power, with those electric carts. Some of these people dont need electri...

Phil · Phil

My Grandpappy used to say "Sometimes, it takes a bigger man, just to walk away from some people, and things,-- that can send us into oblivion, and reactive insanity." Easy to say-sometimes difficult to do. There are still things today, that Ide like to react to. Still situations, that Ide like...

Doll · Doll

~~FRIENDS WITHOUT FACES~~ We sit and we type, and we stare at our screens We all have to wonder, what this possibly means. With our mouse we roam, through the rooms in a maze Looking for something or someone, as we sit in a daze. We chat with each other, we type all our woes Small groups we do form, and gang up...

Doll · Doll

When I first came into the AA program I had no idea that it had such a spiritual foundation. When I realized this, I had no problem at all. I actually welcomed it. I've always believed in a loving, caring, forgiving God. He never turned his back on me, I turned mine on Him because of the shame and guil...

Doll · Doll

"We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us." BB pp 84 Call it what you will - trusting your heart, listening to your inner voice, going with your gut, relying on your intuition... any of these things. How do you feel about trusting your heart, or relying on your intuition...

Rick · Rick

Loving Truth Since it is truth that sets us free - free from our addiction and free from crippling fear - we come to love this truth, even when it hurts. It was mainly our fear that kept us from recognizing the truth about ourselves. We needed help and support from a Higher Power before we could face real...

Phil · Phil

The Faults of Anger There is nothing more destructive than anger. It destroys our peace and happiness in this life, and impels us to engage in negative actions that lead to untold suffering in future lives. It blocks our spiritual progress and prevents us from accomplishing any spiritual g...

jimdadin · jimdadin

I hope I'm doing the right thing by posting here. Truth is, I'm not real sure of anything I'm doing lately. But, I've learned that you can't get much help if you don't ask first. So, if you will, please hear me out and give any advice you may have. I am a 43 year old, married, father of 3: Jesse (26) who was...

Phil · Phil

Revenge No matter how long we've been recovering, no matter how solid our spiritual ground, we may still feel an overwhelming desire at times to punish, or get even, with another person. We want revenge. We want to see the other person hurt the way he or she has hurt us. We want to see life de...

wantneeda · wantneeda

Today is September 17, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! PEOPLE-PLEASING "I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure, which is try to please everybody." -- Herbert Bayard Swope Part of my recovery is not that I never "people-please" but that...

Rick · Rick

Hope is the thing with feathers that perches in the soul And sings the tune without the words And never stops at all. --Emily Dickinson We often hum and sing to ourselves because it makes us feel content. It is the melody itself that makes us feel good--words and thoughts do not matter. Having h...

Rick · Rick

The sign must come like dawn. You cannot see its arrival, but know when it is there. --Diane Wakoski Let us take a break, sit by the river, and watch the current quietly flow. Let's just think, for a moment, about where the current is going, the shores it will brush on its way, the clouds reflected o...

wantneeda · wantneeda

Today is September 16, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! DENIAL "The worst vice of the fanatic is his sincerity." -- Oscar Wilde The disease of alcoholism is "cunning, baffling and powerful", and it manipulates us to believe "the lie". There is a point that we reach in our disease whe...

Rick · Rick

Taking an inventory helps us know who we really are. Before calling it a day, let's look honestly at who we were today. Were we thoughtful and courteous to our friends and lovers? Did we criticize them for not living up to our expectations? Did we put ourselves down for not measuring up to the...

TipsyMcStagger · TipsyMcStagger

Thank you all for your kind words and your support. I've decided that AA isn't for me...I feel pretty certain that I will be fine if I just use good judgement and self control. I know that probably sounds like a drunk who just wants to drink again but everyone is different and while some people must stop dr...

wagon · wagon

How many time people have said to us: "I can take it or leave it alone. Why can't he?" "Why don't you drink like a gentleman or quit?" "That fellow can't handle his liquor." "Why don't you try beer and wine?" "Lay off the hard stuff." "His will power must be weak." "He could stop if he wanted to." "She's such...

wagon · wagon

hi to all just a note things are good here off to work, oh ya, celebrating my eight months birthday today!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks to all of you here:: god bless u wagon

Doll · Doll

For about the last 3 weeks I want to do absolutely NOTHING but SLEEP! I never, my whole life, slept more than 6-7 hrs in a night. And only napped when sick (or hungover). Now, I can take a 2-3 hour nap every afternoon and still hit the bed by 9-10pm and sleep thru the night 8-10 hrs (depending on when I MUST set...

wantneeda · wantneeda

Thursday, September 15, 2005 Face life Fear is often much more destructive than that which is feared. Anxiety can often be far more harmful than those things about which you are anxious. Avoiding effort can be more difficult and time-consuming than the effort itself. Worrying about a negative...

wagon · wagon

More than most people, the alcoholic leads a double life. He is very much the actor. To the outer world he presents his stage character. This is the one he likes his fellows to see. He wants to enjoy a certain reputation, but knows in his heart he doesn't deserve it.

Phil · Phil

Sometimes, we cannot see a turn on our path, until we reach the bend. ------------ We must not worry about things which do not work. We must concentrate our energy on things which do work. -------------- Just because we have not experienced something, does not mean that something is not real...

Phil · Phil

Yu know guys--A week ago, I was at a dead end. That word "Hope" wasnt in the vocabulary. I wanted to drink. I wanted to drink bad!! And there some pretty negative thoughts going through this kids mind. The support from this board and the people on it, is something, I cannot even put into words....

Rick · Rick

felt frightened at being different from his brothers and sisters. It scared him to be different. --E. B. White How ugly and wrong it makes us feel to be different: to be tall when others are short, slow when others are fast, black when others are white. The miracle, and paradox, is that everyone is d...

Rick · Rick

As a sponsor, remember you can carry the word, but not the person. ***** When alcoholics are ready, you can't keep the program from them; when they're not, you can't give the program away. ***** I didn't get what I wanted from AA; I got what I needed. ***** It's a lot easier to stay s...

asmith · asmith

I am going to be checking into a detox center within the next couple of days. I am curious as to what to expect. I am a smoker and want to be able to get outside to smoke. I am scared and want some assurances that I will be comfortable. Can anyone who has gone trhough a detox program...

n2alanon · n2alanon

My husband will be celebrating his 1st birthday on October 10th and I want to do something very original and special for him...Any ideas will be much appreciated...

Rick · Rick

Something can't happen every day. You get up, go to work, come back, eat again, enjoy some leisure, go back to bed. Now that's plenty for most folks. --Ntozake Shange When we were all little kids, before we started school, the days felt so long it seemed like we had time for everything. But when...

Rick · Rick

You have come a long way fast!! I thought u were a drunk yerk, F----ing with us. we care--now u care---just wanted to say good work and glad to have you aboard see how it works??????? See how we support and like each other ( we have never met...

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	fourth step (Preview) anyone got any suggestions how to approach this? i seem to have a mental block and cannot seem to get started.	karisma	3	494	Sep 20, 2005 by wantneeda
	Relaps (Preview) I have been in AA for two years. I quit going to meetings about a year ago. I felt like I was bored and joining a cult or something.I kept in contact with God and was doing great ,at least I thought. Gosh, was I wrong ! About a 6 wks. ago I got a bottle and I didn't stop for 3wks.I got in a fight with my...	boomdookie	4	510	Sep 20, 2005 by GammyRose
	today's thought (Preview) *Education should be the process of helping everyone to discover his uniqueness. --Leo Buscaglia* We are each special, which means there is not another person just like ourselves. Nobody looks just like us. Nobody's voice sounds quite like our own. And nobody thinks through a story just like w...	Rick	0	390	Sep 20, 2005 by Rick
	Phil (Preview) Read your message down below. My phone is out. The Repair man was here but i was out , so he didn't fix it. I tested it and The problem is outside the house, so I guess he wanted to visit or something???????? God only knows what might go thru ones head.	Rick	2	411	Sep 20, 2005 by Rick
	today's gift (Preview) Having realistic expectations. Sometimes we expect much too much of people and things. We will never be happy if we expect our doctor to work instant cures or if we blame our teacher for what we failed to learn. We need to examine what's realistic to expect of others and what we are responsib...	Rick	0	451	Sep 20, 2005 by Rick
	need an answer pleeze (Preview) thanks for the real nice replies from befor. i dont have a new sponsor yet and i need to know somehting . i did my 5th step with a fellow AA that i trust which has lead me to start thinkin about the 9th one. but i cant ask them this questin cuz it might be stupid. when i make amends to ppl do i have to tell them WHA...	lynn	6	465	Sep 20, 2005 by Doll
	Patience (Preview) *Patience is the ability to:* Sit back and wait for an expected outcome without experiencing anxiety, tension, or frustration. Let go of your need for immediate gratification. Display tolerance, compassion, understanding, and acceptance toward those who are slower than you in develo...	Phil	0	511	Sep 19, 2005 by Phil
	I am back (and sober)! (Preview) I checked out of the detox center this morning and am celebrating my 4th day of sobriety! The first day was hell, but once I got the alcohol out of my system I started feeling better. They did not allow us to smoke at all and we were only allowed outside for 30 minutes a day which really&...	asmith	7	493	Sep 19, 2005 by cheri
	To Lynn (Preview) Your question about "Just saying sorry for all you did to that person, while you were drinking" keeps it pretty simple Lynn. I know there are still times, I hafta talk to a sponsor about things, and get a second opinion. Sometimes --2 heads are better then one.:)	Phil	0	512	Sep 19, 2005 by Phil
	todays gift 9/18 (Preview) *Young man, the secret of my success is that at an early age I discovered I was not God. --Oliver Wendell Holmes* Sometimes, in our families, we try to get parents or brothers or sisters to treat us the way we want them to, to do things we want them to. When they're upset or angry with us, we try to get the...	Rick	1	537	Sep 19, 2005 by Phil
	108 AA Slogans (Preview) 1.... Easy does it 2.... First things first 3.... Live and let live 4.... But for the grace of god 5....Think......Think.......Think 6....One day at time 7....Let go and Let God 8....Kiss---keep it simple stupid 9....Act as if......... 10....This too shall pass 11....Expect miracles 12....I ca...	Phil	2	831	Sep 19, 2005 by Phil
	Gammy Rose and Doll (Preview) *Its so nice to see your names again.* *Seem to have everyone on my mind these days. You are like my extended family. I see ya's posting right now and though maybe you would see my message.* *Doll you sure sound like you are doing good these days. So happy for ya.* *Nancy Jo* *Didn't intentionall...*	nancyjo59	2	568	Sep 19, 2005 by GammyRose
	Fear & Loathing (Preview) I've been in the program for 18 months now. I had a brief relapse in July, I think, because I was white-knuckling it. Just like before I came to the rooms I like to be in control of everything. I want others to think I'm in control of everything. Deep down, however, I am terrifie...	herman	6	843	Sep 19, 2005 by GammyRose
	Cool Way To Think (Preview) A 92 year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is full dressed every morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and shaved perfectly, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today. *His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.* *Afte...*	nancyjo59	1	611	Sep 19, 2005 by GammyRose
	today's gift 9/19 (Preview) We believe in Human Ecology, the understanding and care of human beings as whole persons in light of their relationship to God, themselves, their families, and the society in which they live. --The philosophy of Human Ecology The philosophy of Human Ecology covers all three aspects o...	Rick	0	475	Sep 19, 2005 by Rick
	thoughts (Preview) *I will, I will accept myself With hope and fear and wonder And what I have joined together Let no man put asunder. --Dory Preven* There is a wonderful freedom in acceptance. When we accept ourselves, with all our imperfections, we can then begin to accept others just as they are. This is especiall...	Rick	1	570	Sep 19, 2005 by Rick
	Self Esteem (Preview) What is self-esteem? People with self-esteem: Hold themselves as worthy to be loved and to love others, worthy to be cared for and to care for others, worthy to be nurtured and to nurture others, worthy to be touched and supported and to touch and support others, worthy to be listened to and to li...	Phil	0	810	Sep 18, 2005 by Phil
	Scary eh? (Preview) Letting the Good Stuff Happen Before recovery, my relationships were lousy. I didn't do very well on my job. I was enmeshed in my dysfunctional family. But at least I knew what to expect! --Anonymous I want the second half of my life to be as good as the first half was miserable. Sometimes, I'm afr...	Phil	3	491	Sep 18, 2005 by nancyjo59
	Thanks to all (Preview) Good morning all! Especially good without the hangover or wondering what I might have said or done to hurt someone (emotionally) in an alcoholic haze. I would like to thank everyone for your caring words and responses to my very first post on this message board. I was a little worried that it might...	jimdadin	3	555	Sep 18, 2005 by nancyjo59
	big book (Preview) As we go through the day we pause, when agitated or doubtful, and ask for the right thought or action. We constantly remind ourselves we are no longer running the show, humbly saying to ourselves many times each day "Thy will be done." We are then in much less danger of excitement, fear, anger, worry, se...	wagon	3	637	Sep 18, 2005 by nancyjo59
	Organ donation (Preview) Found this when I was doing some research for the job that I'm hoping to get on Wednesday. Never really thought about this before. It makes sence to me at least! (this isn't written by me and I don't have a name to credit it to). Give my sight to the man who has never seen a sunrise The day will come when my...	Cabbageheadchris	2	642	Sep 18, 2005 by nancyjo59
	Goodmorning all ... (Preview) Goodmorning, I haven't been on for awhile...just got my PC moved to my Mom's yesterday and phone service the day before. So I'll get caught up on reading the posts. Today is going to be a busy day, I'm winding up the packing and my kids will be here tomorrow to help with thw physical moving.I'm so glad th...	GammyRose	7	726	Sep 18, 2005 by Doll
	To Catherine (Preview) Congradulations Catherine on 4 weeks-one day at a time. A big step forward. Nursing home hu? I operate a taxi company, and I pick these people up, and return them to the nursing home, after they roam the streets, and run out of power, with those electric carts. Some of these people dont need electri...	Phil	1	560	Sep 18, 2005 by Doll
	I Read Your Post Chris (Preview) My Grandpappy used to say "Sometimes, it takes a bigger man, just to walk away from some people, and things,-- that can send us into oblivion, and reactive insanity." Easy to say-sometimes difficult to do. There are still things today, that Ide like to react to. Still situations, that Ide like...	Phil	2	723	Sep 17, 2005 by GammyRose
	~~FRIENDS WITHOUT FACES~~ (Preview) ~~FRIENDS WITHOUT FACES~~ We sit and we type, and we stare at our screens We all have to wonder, what this possibly means. With our mouse we roam, through the rooms in a maze Looking for something or someone, as we sit in a daze. We chat with each other, we type all our woes Small groups we do form, and gang up...	Doll	5	521	Sep 17, 2005 by catherine
	Blessed with the disease fo Alcoholism (Preview) When I first came into the AA program I had no idea that it had such a spiritual foundation. When I realized this, I had no problem at all. I actually welcomed it. I've always believed in a loving, caring, forgiving God. He never turned his back on me, I turned mine on Him because of the shame and guil...	Doll	2	650	Sep 17, 2005 by Doll
	Trust Your Heart (Preview) "We will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us." BB pp 84 Call it what you will - trusting your heart, listening to your inner voice, going with your gut, relying on your intuition... any of these things. How do you feel about trusting your heart, or relying on your intuition...	Doll	5	650	Sep 17, 2005 by cheri
	Loving Truth (Preview) Loving Truth Since it is truth that sets us free - free from our addiction and free from crippling fear - we come to love this truth, even when it hurts. It was mainly our fear that kept us from recognizing the truth about ourselves. We needed help and support from a Higher Power before we could face real...	Rick	1	395	Sep 17, 2005 by Sick of being sick
	Used To Have A Lot Of This Crap (Preview) The Faults of Anger There is nothing more destructive than anger. It destroys our peace and happiness in this life, and impels us to engage in negative actions that lead to untold suffering in future lives. It blocks our spiritual progress and prevents us from accomplishing any spiritual g...	Phil	1	575	Sep 17, 2005 by Sick of being sick
	Please Help (Preview) I hope I'm doing the right thing by posting here. Truth is, I'm not real sure of anything I'm doing lately. But, I've learned that you can't get much help if you don't ask first. So, if you will, please hear me out and give any advice you may have. I am a 43 year old, married, father of 3: Jesse (26) who was...	jimdadin	8	898	Sep 17, 2005 by leejosepho
	Revenge (Preview) Revenge No matter how long we've been recovering, no matter how solid our spiritual ground, we may still feel an overwhelming desire at times to punish, or get even, with another person. We want revenge. We want to see the other person hurt the way he or she has hurt us. We want to see life de...	Phil	4	1082	Sep 17, 2005 by Cabbageheadchris
	its a great day for recovery-sept 17 (Preview) Today is September 17, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! PEOPLE-PLEASING "I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure, which is try to please everybody." -- Herbert Bayard Swope Part of my recovery is not that I never "people-please" but that...	wantneeda	0	540	Sep 17, 2005 by wantneeda
	thought (Preview) *Hope is the thing with feathers that perches in the soul And sings the tune without the words And never stops at all. --Emily Dickinson* We often hum and sing to ourselves because it makes us feel content. It is the melody itself that makes us feel good--words and thoughts do not matter. Having h...	Rick	0	395	Sep 17, 2005 by Rick
	todays thought (Preview) *The sign must come like dawn. You cannot see its arrival, but know when it is there. --Diane Wakoski* Let us take a break, sit by the river, and watch the current quietly flow. Let's just think, for a moment, about where the current is going, the shores it will brush on its way, the clouds reflected o...	Rick	1	505	Sep 16, 2005 by Phil
	yes,'tis a great day for recovery (Preview) Today is September 16, 2005 A Great Day for Recovery! DENIAL "The worst vice of the fanatic is his sincerity." -- Oscar Wilde The disease of alcoholism is "cunning, baffling and powerful", and it manipulates us to believe "the lie". There is a point that we reach in our disease whe...	wantneeda	2	683	Sep 16, 2005 by Sick of being sick
	today's gift (Preview) Taking an inventory helps us know who we really are. Before calling it a day, let's look honestly at who we were today. Were we thoughtful and courteous to our friends and lovers? Did we criticize them for not living up to our expectations? Did we put ourselves down for not measuring up to the...	Rick	0	528	Sep 16, 2005 by Rick
	Goodbye and goodluck... (Preview) Thank you all for your kind words and your support. I've decided that AA isn't for me...I feel pretty certain that I will be fine if I just use good judgement and self control. I know that probably sounds like a drunk who just wants to drink again but everyone is different and while some people must stop dr...	TipsyMcStagger	5	746	Sep 16, 2005 by Rick
	big book (Preview) How many time people have said to us: "I can take it or leave it alone. Why can't he?" "Why don't you drink like a gentleman or quit?" "That fellow can't handle his liquor." "Why don't you try beer and wine?" "Lay off the hard stuff." "His will power must be weak." "He could stop if he wanted to." "She's such...	wagon	1	643	Sep 16, 2005 by wantneeda
	mornin (Preview) hi to all just a note things are good here off to work, oh ya, celebrating my eight months birthday today!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks to all of you here:: god bless u wagon	wagon	5	564	Sep 16, 2005 by Rick
	too many Zzz's (Preview) For about the last 3 weeks I want to do absolutely NOTHING but SLEEP! I never, my whole life, slept more than 6-7 hrs in a night. And only napped when sick (or hungover). Now, I can take a 2-3 hour nap every afternoon and still hit the bed by 9-10pm and sleep thru the night 8-10 hrs (depending on when I MUST set...	Doll	5	823	Sep 16, 2005 by Rick
	face life (Preview) Thursday, September 15, 2005 Face life Fear is often much more destructive than that which is feared. Anxiety can often be far more harmful than those things about which you are anxious. Avoiding effort can be more difficult and time-consuming than the effort itself. Worrying about a negative...	wantneeda	5	1313	Sep 16, 2005 by wantneeda
	big book (Preview) More than most people, the alcoholic leads a double life. He is very much the actor. To the outer world he presents his stage character. This is the one he likes his fellows to see. He wants to enjoy a certain reputation, but knows in his heart he doesn't deserve it.	wagon	2	647	Sep 16, 2005 by Doll
	Hey:) Eh? (Preview) Sometimes, we cannot see a turn on our path, until we reach the bend. ------------ We must not worry about things which do not work. We must concentrate our energy on things which do work. -------------- Just because we have not experienced something, does not mean that something is not real...	Phil	0	575	Sep 15, 2005 by Phil
	Lost For Words (Preview) Yu know guys--A week ago, I was at a dead end. That word "Hope" wasnt in the vocabulary. I wanted to drink. I wanted to drink bad!! And there some pretty negative thoughts going through this kids mind. The support from this board and the people on it, is something, I cannot even put into words....	Phil	7	825	Sep 15, 2005 by Phil
	today's thought (Preview) *felt frightened at being different from his brothers and sisters. It scared him to be different. --E. B. White* How ugly and wrong it makes us feel to be different: to be tall when others are short, slow when others are fast, black when others are white. The miracle, and paradox, is that everyone is d...	Rick	1	461	Sep 15, 2005 by Phil
	today's gift (Preview) As a sponsor, remember you can carry the word, but not the person. *** When alcoholics are ready, you can't keep the program from them; when they're not, you can't give the program away. * I didn't get what I wanted from AA; I got what I needed. *** It's a lot easier to stay s...	Rick	1	446	Sep 15, 2005 by cheri
	Detox - What should I expect? (Preview) I am going to be checking into a detox center within the next couple of days. I am curious as to what to expect. I am a smoker and want to be able to get outside to smoke. I am scared and want some assurances that I will be comfortable. Can anyone who has gone trhough a detox program...	asmith	7	649	Sep 15, 2005 by nancyjo59
	Help Please (Preview) My husband will be celebrating his 1st birthday on October 10th and I want to do something very original and special for him...Any ideas will be much appreciated...	n2alanon	5	668	Sep 15, 2005 by Rick
	today's thought (Preview) *Something can't happen every day. You get up, go to work, come back, eat again, enjoy some leisure, go back to bed. Now that's plenty for most folks. --Ntozake Shange* When we were all little kids, before we started school, the days felt so long it seemed like we had time for everything. But when...	Rick	1	561	Sep 14, 2005 by Sick of being sick
	Hey Tipsy (Preview) You have come a long way fast!! I thought u were a drunk yerk, F----ing with us. we care--now u care---just wanted to say good work and glad to have you aboard see how it works??????? See how we support and like each other ( we have never met...	Rick	9	611	Sep 14, 2005 by Doll
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