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Wisdom of the Rooms (A lesson that took me a long time to learn!)(Pappy)
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March 28, 2016Quote of the Week"We found we couldn't help ourselves, but we could help each other." Before recovery I did everything I could think of to get better on my own. I'd try to stop drinking during the week; then on Mondays through Thursdays. I'd join a gym and exercise a while, or I'd go on a...
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Today's Gift 3/28 (I Certainly went Through This Stage)(glad I got past it)
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The cause is hidden, but the result is known. --OvidWe know it's coming before we do it. Our boy[girl]friend dumps us and we devour the ice cream. We don't get the promotion so we head for the bar. We have a fight with our spouse and treat ourselves to a new leather jacket - at his or her expense. We decide th...
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Why Do People Drink?
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http://pbskids.org/itsmylife/body/alcohol/article6.html
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One of my Deep 'Thought Provoking' Emails ... thought I'd share here with my family ...
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1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady. During my second month of college, our professor Gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious studentand had breezed through the questions until I read The last one: "What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"Surely this was some ki...
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Welcome Jennad
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Welcome to MIP Jennad, ... glad you joined us here ... Please join in and share your ESH ... or share a problem you have if you have one ... we can help ... Love ya and God Bless, Pappy
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AAADD ... (a little more humor)
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AAADD KNOW THE SYMPTOMS.....PLEASE READ! Thank goodness there's a name for this disorder Somehow I feel better even though I have it!! Recently, I was diagnosed with A.A.A.D.D. - Age Activated Attention Deficit Disorder. This is how it manifests: I decide to water my garden. As I turn on the hose in t...
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Sent to Me in 2013 ... (wanted to share)(warning: religious content)
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Billy Graham's Prayer at 95 yrs old From a man the media has never been able to throw dirt on.....amazing! He has certainly hit the "world" on the head! (THIS MAN SURE HAS A GOOD VIEW OF WHAT'S HAPPENING TO OUR COUNTRY!) 'Heavenly Father, we come before you today to ask your forgiveness and to seek your d...
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Today's Gift 3/26
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Being willingPeople often ask, "How does the program work?" The how of this program is Honesty, Open-mindedness, and Willingness. Often we must pray for willingness; sometimes we even have to pray to be willing to be willing!We have very stubborn wills. If surrendered daily, however, they can a...
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Humor(humour) Anyone???
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Senior Citizen The other day I went over to a nearby CVS Pharmacy. When I got there, I went straight to the back of the store to where the Pharmacists' Counteris located and took out my little brown bottle along with a teaspoon and laidthem both onto the counter. The pharmacist came over smiled an...
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Two Days a Week!
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YESTERDAY, TODAY, AND TOMORROW.... There are two days in every week about which we should not worry, Two days which should be kept free of fear and apprehension. One of these days is YESTERDAY, With its mistakes and cares, Its faults and blunders, Its aches and pains. YESTERDAY has passed forever b...
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Where and how do we find God?...As you understand God.
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Hey Family, ... I was delete'n some old emails in an effort to clean up my crowded computer ... and I came across this old piece of materiel posted here years ago, sorry, I do not know who posted it ... but I thought it worthwhile to re-post it ... hope you like it ... Pappy Where and how do we find God? .....
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9000 Posts!
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9,000 POSTS!!! Congrats to Pythonpappy on achieving this noteworthy level of forum participation. Pappy has more threads, posts, and replies than ANY OTHER MEMBER OF MIP IN HISTORY!! And he's only been onboard for four years. Check the home page for MIP AA and one cannot but be impressed by how man...
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Today's Gift 3/25 ... This One is a Biggie!!!
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Yes, this is something that I needed in early recovery ... until I finished working the steps and created a 'solid foundation' for my recovery, every spare moment was dedicated to changing my think'n by go'n to meet'ns ... for me, that took right at 700 meet'ns in 700 days ... (the suggested 90 in 90 is a g...
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Sunrise Quote 3/24
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I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may learn how to do it. ~Pablo Picasso
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Sunrise Quote 3/23
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Always look at what you have left, never look at what you have lost. ~Robert H. Schuller
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Sunrise Quote 3/22
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There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them. ~Denis Waitley
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Today's Gift 3/24
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Blessed is he who has learned to admire but not envy, to follow but not imitate, to praise but not flatter, and to lead but not manipulate. -- William Arthur WardManipulation is not foreign to most of us. We have probably manipulated and been manipulated. Manipulators may or may not be aware of what the...
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Today's Gift 3/23
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Muddy water, let stand, becomes clear. --Lao-tzuA group of friends went swimming one day and one of them lost a ring in the bottom of the lake.Everyone started diving from different directions to find it until there was so much mud and sand stirred up that no one could see anything. Finally, they decid...
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Today's Gift 3/22
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We are only human . . . paying attention to our growthTrusting our partner has a lot to do with trusting ourselves. When we feel confused, unsure, or in conflict about our own direction, we may shift our attention outside ourselves. Even when we feel unsure about our self-worth, our negative feeling m...
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Stinking Thinking (lol)
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In an hour and a half I will again enter court, called there because I don't conform to local law. Local law is not Hawaiian Law...it is considered state law and state law is u.s. law. I have no need to be offensive to anyone and ask HP to remind me of that when the anger rises. Hawaii is not a state and has...
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Tough Spots
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Every rough spot I have gone through has added a muscle to my emotional constitution. Heard this today and just wanted to share.
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Time to Post
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Hi All, It has been a very long time since I have posted. I am still in sobriety November 8th 2015 was my last drink and I am proud of my achievements. I have started recently thinking about having a drink but I always quickly dismiss it and carry on. I have missed a few meetings as grew tired of some of the con...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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March 21, 2016Quote of the Week"I learn to stop trying hard, and learn to try different." We alcoholics are a stubborn lot. When I entered the program, there was only one way to do something - my way. And if that didn't work I would just try harder. Bolstered by a seemingly limitless supply...
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Sunrise Quote
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Gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul. ~Henry Ward Beecher
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Today's Gift 3/21
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Our Spiritual JourneyWe begin our spiritual journey at different times in our lives but most of us reach the same place eventually where we accept the guidance of a Power greater than ourselves. A Power that cares for us and accepts us just as we are. A Power that guides us, teaches us, and grants us just...
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Short Share
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"My eyes are ever toward the Lord, for He shall free my feet from the snare" Psalm 25:15 Peace, Mema
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Today's Gift 3/20
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If you have a dream, give it a chance to happen. ~DeVos, Richard M. on Dreams
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Today's Gift 3/20
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Love cures. It cures those who give it and it cures those who receive it. --Dr. Karl Menninger Love is no mystery, but its results are magical in many ways. It's generally accepted that many illnesses are psychosomatic. Because we often feel anxiously alone, lonely, fearful, and unloved, we expres...
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Sunrise Quote 3/19
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Never claim as a right what you can ask as a favor. ~Collins, John Churton on Advice
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Today's Gift 3/19
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Hope and patience are two sovereign remedies for all, the surest reposal, the softest cushions to lean on in adversity. --Robert BurtonIt is just as easy to think, "I can" as it is to think, "I can't." Both attitudes are habitual orientations to life that can become automatic w...
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Sunrise Quote 3/18
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We are here to change the world with small acts of thoughtfulness done daily rather then with one great breakthrough. ~Rabbi Harold Kushner
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Today's Gift 3/18
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You're never too old to grow up. --Shirley ConranA child's view of adults is that they have arrived at some fixed point where they are emancipated and have all the tools necessary for life. An adult knows that we never stop growing. Many of us have been stuck in an immature level of development. Our life...
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Today's Gift 3/17
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You have three choices: keep on fighting, ignore each other, or make up and be friends. --John KnoblauchOnce there were four sixth-graders - two boys and two girls - who started to fight even though they'd been friends for years. One morning at the bus stop, the boys started playing keep-away with the...
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Remembering Why?
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I've spent a decent portion of my life accompanied by a pretty wicked urge to drink. I had an angry at myself, disgusted with the world, sick of it all, drink to die sort of urge. The universe was doing a fine job demonstrating a serious lack of control even without my participation, and when I wasn't doin...
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Ever hit the stage where you just can't get drunk anymore?
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Where you can drink a 26oz of hard liquor yet you feel basically sober? It's an expensive proposition for anyone wanting to continue getting drunk.
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Today's Gift 3/16
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I've started to realize that waiting is an art, that waiting achieves things. Waiting can be very, very powerful. Time is a valuable thing. If you can wait two years, you can sometimes achieve something that you could not achieve today, however hard you worked, however much money you threw up in the ai...
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Why does Shit Happen?
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Well, ShitHappens because Forrest Gump said so... But that ain't reason enough to go get drunk, now is it? I'm glad you agree. :) Was bored and felt like posting something silly. Marc
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Great moderator Pappy.
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Sunrise Quote
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If you are losing a tug-of-war with a tiger, give him the rope before he gets to your arm. You can always buy a new rope. ~Max Gunther
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Today's Gift 3/15
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On any journey, we must find out where we are before we can plan the first step. --Kathy BoevinkOur lives in all aspects are a journey toward a destination, one fitting to our purpose, our special gifts, and our particular needs. Each day contributes to our journey, carrying us closer to our destinati...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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March 14, 2016Quote of the Week"God's message to me is 'stay out of the way, but be ready!'" This quote made no sense to me for many years. I mean, in the beginning the whole concept of "turn it over" and "surrender" was as foreign to me as speaking another language. I fo...
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Today's Gift 3/14
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I always entertain great hopes. --Robert FrostIn our honest journey, we must admit life is often difficult and painful. But these facts do not describe all of life, and they do not determine how we respond. The sun rises warm and bright after a cold and dark night. The open, generous smile of a small chi...
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"How old were you when you had your first drink and/or became an alcoholic?"
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This is a question I always got asked by the nurses at the detox and rehab facilities and by the doctors when seeking treatment at the chemical dependency center. I would say 4 years old. They'd look at me as if they didn't believe me. Until I explained. Yes, 4 year old alcoholic (unless you count in the...
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Largely Anonymous...
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Recently, I was hired on as a contractor with a local firm. Actually, it's more of a liaison position than actual contracting work. I'm kind of like a mediator of sorts or what they call a go between, if that word still exists. Anyway, I do a good amount of traveling for work. So a few times each month I pack...
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Sunrise Quote 3/13
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You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however. ~Bach, Richard on Dreams
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Today's Gift 3/13
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We wonder, "How can I ever say this?"We need to be free to talk about anything in our intimate relationships. Some things are very hard to say - an old secret we have never told before, a feeling or an observation our partner does not want to hear, a mistake we made that calls for confession. We...
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Sunrise Quote 3/12
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A true friend reaches for your hand and touches your heart. ~Heather Pryor
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Today's Gift 3/12
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Comparing my insides to other people's outsides causes me problems. --Joan RohdeFor most of our lives we felt inferior. Others seemed smarter, wittier, and more attractive. We felt inadequate every time we compared ourselves to others. Getting sober hasn't freed us from this behavior, at least n...
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Binge drinking
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I'm new, only two weeks sober. It's hard for me to admit that I'm in alcoholic because I can go for weeks or months without drinking. I can go out to dinner and have one or two glasses of wine with my friends and be satisfied. Then once in a while, I'll go out and have nine drinks, blackout, pass out, & e...
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Sunrise Quote 3/11
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All the great things are simple, and many can be expressed in a single word: freedom, justice, honor, duty, mercy, hope. ~Churchill, Winston on Simplicity
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