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"I'm Coming Back"
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I saw her walk in the room today just as the meeting started. I paid little notice, only that she was accompanied by another woman and they had a bag with large lunch sandwiches. When the meeting chair asked if anyone was new, she raised her hand and said, "I'm coming back." We yelled out our we...
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Today's Gift 12/3
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The Man, the Boy, and the DonkeyA man and his son headed to market with their donkey. A man on a horse passed them and asked, "Why aren't you riding your donkey?"The man placed his son on the donkey, and they continued on their way. They passed by a family working in their fields. A young girl sa...
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Sunrise Quote
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Any fact facing us is not as important as our attitude toward it, for that determines our success or failure. ~Norman Vincent Peale
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Today's Gift 12/4
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Our silence can keep us isolated."Still waters run deep" may be true for lakes and rivers, but in intimate relationships it is not necessarily true. Our silence can keep us isolated from ourselves and from those we love. In order to grow together, we must let each other know how we think and...
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Change of Person
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Hi All , I am in to my fourth week of sobriety. I am making day by day progress as suggested but I am concerned in the sudden distance between m and my partner. She also has stopped drinking but the closeness we had has somewhat evaporated. We used to spend a lot oftime drinking together where conversation...
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Fight! Fight!
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Well, the neighbors below us are at it again. They are so loud, you can hear some of what their disagreements are about. I work from home, it is sometimes very hard to focus on my work when it happens. It doesn't just last a few minutes, either. It can go on for hours and hours. They mo...
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vAAcation (Alcoholics Anonymous) in Costa Rica Dec.20th to Dec. 26th
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A custom tailored vAAcation (Alcoholics Anonymous) for you December 20th to December 26th. A vAAcation designed for people in sobriety with people in sobriety. Join us at our beautiful mountain retreat where you can relax, recover and rejuvenate. Be in a peaceful setting. Watch the Zopilotes...
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First Real Craving HELP
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I have been sober now for 2 weeks and 5days but today experienced something that was so uncomfortable I almost drank. I can only describe it as unbelivable anger anxiety scary thoughts I was so angry inside it hurt. I now believe this was probably my first severe craving any good advice. I do feel more co...
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Today's Gift 12/2
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He that knew all that learning ever writ Knew only this - that he knew nothing yet. --Aphra BehnIt's true that the more information we have about the world, the more clearly we see the shape of what we don't know. It's also true that we don't need to learn anything at all in order to deal fairly with others a...
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PEOPLE (places and things)
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Hi all! Finally have a decent amount of time. There are certain old friends from my previous life that are extremely active people who could end up in the rooms in 10-20 years (but that's not for me to presume, but you know what I mean).I have 2 people who text/call/email me multiple times a week wonderi...
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Today's Gift 12/1
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Carrying the MessageWhat we are always carries a stronger message than what we say. This is why we're sometimes turned off by people who seek to overwhelm us with charm. It's also why we can sometimes be drawn to people who are quiet and unassuming. However it works, there is a powerful message in one...
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Daily readings
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Hi .....I saw the daily readings when I first pulled up this site, but can not find them since I registered. Can u please tell me what I'm doing wrong. Thanks!
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New to online forums and I am looking for support
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im fresh out of treatment and for my after care I said I would seek out aa meetings online. Since where I am living there are no meetings. Just looking for tips and resources I can use. Feeling pretty lonely on my sobriety.
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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November 30, 2015Quote of the Week"God is the answer, so now, what is the questions?" When I was new, I had a hard time with the God part of the program. "Higher Power" made it a little easier, and at first the group of drunks (G.O.D.) in the meetings were my Higher Power because t...
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Today's Gift 11/30
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Love is something if you give it away, you end up having more. --Malvina ReynoldsThe abundant life appeals to us. Seldom do we want less money, fewer toys, clothes, or friends. In general, we want more of everything and still more - particularly of love. The truth is that the things we hoard or hide or fe...
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Today's Gift 11/29
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One way to become enthusiastic is to look for the plus sign. To make progress in any difficult situation, you have to start with what's right about it and build on that. -- Norman Vincent PealeBeginning our days with a positive mental outlook is a great depression chaser. Simply lifting our heads and l...
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Today's Gift 11/28
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"I was lucky," a man explained to me. "One of my first mentors in life made me practice serenity. Whenever I'd call him in full-blown panic mode or with that frantic tone in my voice, he'd refuse to talk to me until I calmed myself down."'Go get centered,' he'd tell me. 'Then we'll...
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Doorbusters and Gifts from God
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I finally was able to go see my mom for Thanksgiving day. I had been telling her I was coming for the past few months and for different reasons, out of my control, I was unable to. I was open with my mom about my relapsing and am grateful that she still is wanting to be in my life. She has really been so very supp...
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Happy Thanksgiving!
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I hope everyone has a wonderful Thanksgiving Day. H1 (yeah...I like that abbreviation of my ID name better than the "HO" one)
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Today's Gift 11/27
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... satisfaction is a lowly thing, how pure a thing is joy. --Marianne Moore Our perfectionism generally dashes all hopes of self-satisfaction. But the program is here to show us that we can make progress. We can learn to believe that we are doing any task as well as we need to do it, at this time. Our job...
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Today's Gift 11/26
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OptimismWhat I think about surrounds me. What I allow to be entertained in my mind becomes a reality. If I think negatively, I will attract negativity in my life. On the other hand, if I concentrate on developing positive thoughts, I will attract positive people and events to my life. My potential wil...
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The Pickup Queen
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Well, some of you know I have been struggling. But I believe I hit bottom. I have been trying to get a fulltime job (I'm currently freelance and it is not going well). Every disappoint causes me to day drink (even after a morning meeting), I don't recall most of this past week, I don't know who I have spok...
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Today's Gift 11/25
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When I hear somebody sigh "Life is hard," I am always tempted to ask, compared to what? --Sydney J. HarrisWe've probably heard all the negative quotations about life. There was also probably a time when we believed them all. Based on the state of our lives at the time, it was probably no surp...
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The vitamin cure for addiction
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Hello all, I'm writing this in hopes that what has helped me can also help you. Like many of you I have tired and failed many times to quit drinking. I have enjoyed alcohol for 20+ years and it landed me in the hospital for 2 ½ months, suffering through a month long coma, a stroke, and sepsis. I have almost f...
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Today's Gift 11/24
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We will sabotage ourselves if we don't believe we deserve success.Maybe we could try a different approach - stop torturing ourselves for the things we have done wrong and then try forgiveness instead. We can make amends by doing service work a way of keeping that self-sabotaging guilt at bay. Someti...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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November 23, 2015Quote of the Week"Things might not get better for me, but I can get better despite things." When I was a newcomer, I was convinced that because I was now sober, things in my life would get better. I was sure my career would finally get on track, my relationships would impro...
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Today's Gift 11/23
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There is enough in the world for everyone's need, but not enough for everyone's good. --Frank BuchmanOurs is an illness of more. More! More! More! The greed of addiction decays the soul and leaves us to desperately try to fill the hole that is left behind, but there is never enough. The greed of addicti...
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There's Nothing on T.V.
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This has nothing to do with alcohol. Just taking a break for lunch and noticed T.V. Show Listings in my area at 1:00 p.m.....All in blue are crime-related. Amazing how many of them there are--makes me wonder--are all these crime shows really good for us? Is this one thing that is wrong with our world? So...
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Today's Gift 11/22
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One forgives to the degree that one loves. --La RochefaucouldWe all get hurt by other people sometimes. When this happens, we have choices. We can get angry and stay that way. We can act like it didn't hurt and try to forget it. We can act like a sad sack and hold a grudge. Or we can forgive.We first have to t...
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Today's Gift 11/21
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Slow motion gets you there faster. --Hoagy Carmichael"One of the hardest lessons for me to learn is patience," admitted a fellow. "I've been in a race all my life. I suppose I could compare myself to the hare in the fable of The Tortoise and the Hare.' I jump into things, rush at them, an...
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First AA Meeting
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I attended my first aa meeting yesterday what a brilliant experience. I have already been to other types of meetings but this really spurred me on. Day 11 today without a drink go me proud ofmyself one day at a time. Got the book and met some nice people who I felt really understood me and made me feel very w...
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Sunrise Quote
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The good old days were never that good, believe me. The good new days are today, and better days are comingtomorrow. Our greatest songs are still unsung. ~Hubert Humphrey
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Today's Gift 11/20
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Going EasyGo easy. You may have to push forward, but you don't have to push so hard. Go in gentleness, go in peace.Do not be in so much of a hurry. At no day, no hour, no time are you required to do more than you can do in peace. Frantic behaviors and urgency are not the foundation for our new way of life.Do not b...
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Day of reflection and a miracle
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Veterans day is one of those days that gets me gloomy and messes with my emotions. I planned to hibernate at home but went to a restaurant for free lunch. In the very long line, a lady saw my hat and said her mom had the same patch. (This is the part you'll want Kleenex)
She said her moms name and asked if I kn...
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Today's Gift 11/19
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Whoever is happy will make others happy too. He who has courage and faith will never perish in misery. --Anne FrankAcknowledging our gratitude for the blessings in our life releases the happiness that we sometimes keep hidden within our heart. And happiness can be contagious. We all know people who...
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Sunrise Quote 11/18
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Do more than you're supposed to do and you can have or be or do anything you want. ~Sands, Bill on Excellence
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Today's Gift 11/18
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When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. --Franklin Delano Roosevelt NewcomerInitially, I was excited about recovery. I felt better for a while. I hate to say it, but now that I'm not at the beginning any more, everything seems worse. I feel more cynical than ever.SponsorWhat you're...
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Newcomer
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Hi I am new to site I am on last day of of community detox librium. It has been such an emotional week been very tearful. Feel like there is such a void in my life any advice would be helpful
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Sunrise Quote 11/17
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It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure. ~Joseph Campbell
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Today's Gift 11/17
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Reflection for the DayIt's time for me to realize that my attitude - toward the life I'm living and the people in it - can have a tangible, measurable and profound effect on what happens to me day by day. If I expect good, then good will surely come to me. And if I try each day to base my attitude and point of vi...
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Newcomer
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I'm needing to find an online sponsor! I'm tired of the life I'm living
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How to Stay Sober and Sane at Thanksgiving
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http://www.recoveryranch.com/articles/alcohol-abuse-alcoholism/how-to-stay-sober-and-sane-at-thanksgiving/
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Sunrise Quote 11/16
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Breakdowns can create breakthroughs. Things fall apart so things can fall together. ~Unknown, Source on Adversity
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Freaks
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we are not freaks. We aren't "out of place" in this world. We're not bad people. We're not weak. And, we're no more selfish and self-serving than anybody else. We just let our drinking get out of control. There are lots of people who let their vices get out of control, too. Sex freaks. Drug fre...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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November 16, 2015Quote of the Week"Problems are solutions in training." This was definitely not the way I used to look at problems before recovery. My problems used to overwhelm me; they had no solutions, and there was a long list of them. I would bounce from one to the other, and as I tried...
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Today's Gift 11/16
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Fair play is primarily not blaming others for anything that is wrong with us. --Eric HofferIt's tempting to blame others for our problems. Recovery asks us to answer for our actions. Admitting we are powerless over our alcohol and other drugs is a start. Each of the Twelve Steps asks us to answer for ou...
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Hi, I'm Pete...I'm an alcoholic...also a newcover
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Hi, everyone! My name is Pete. I'm an alcoholic. Going on 72+ hours sober. I've been a daily drinker for about 5 years (only beer). What began as just a few beers for years got really bad the past few months to the point that I need to drink throughout the whole day the past few weeks. I wanted to give up, but t...
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Today's Gift 11/15
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I can't handle it, God. You take over. --AnonymousThe life we lived in the dark world of our disease was a terrifying one. It was as if we were perched on a tiny ledge thousands of feet up the side of a mountain. The drop was straight down. We never dared to look up or down because we so desperately feared fal...
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Motivation
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so, I quit smoking recently. And, there's this commercial on NPR. It's this lady talking, and she says "my biggest weakness is when I'm driving. That's when I really want a cigarette. So, I keep a picture of my daughter up on the sun visor, to remind me that I lost my mom to lung cancer, and I don't wan...
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Hitting Stumbling blocks with service- I need some advice
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So I live in a small city but we have a pretty robust AA community. I tried to get involved in service earlier this year by joining an events committee for the roundup but everytime I volunteered to help the person would say great, take my number, and then just get their friend to help. This happened with 3...
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