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Sunrise Quote
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Today see if you can stretch your Heart and expand your love so that it touches not only those to whom you can give it easily, but also those who need it so much. ~Daphne Rose Kingma
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Today's Gift 1/6
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Oh, what a tangled web we weave When first we practice to deceive. --Sir Walter ScottTo deceive means to fool people into believing things that are not true. As addicts, we did this in many ways. We lied. We hid facts. We were sneaky. While we were trying to fool other people, we also fooled ourselves. Ev...
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This is a Test...
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Just passing through -- Edited by MarcLacroix on Wednesday 6th of January 2016 01:01:31 AM
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Trust
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I have been in recovery for a short while 39th day. My dilemma is regaining trust which has been damaged by my alcoholism. I currently rent a house with my partner my name is not on the rent book and I would like to have a legal stand on tenancy. We also have a joint account which my salary goes in to but hers go...
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Today's Gift 1/5
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How beautiful it is to do nothing, and then rest afterward. --Spanish proverbThe beauty of the Third Step is that there's no real work for us to do. Making a decision to turn our will and our life over to the care of God requires no energy, no movement. We don't have to grit our teeth. It's only a decision an...
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All This God Stuff
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A woman I know was always bringing up that she didn't believe in God, nor did she have a Higher Power. Although I made it clear to her in the beginning of our "newly blossoming" friendship that I am a Christian therefore I do believe in God, it did not stop her from bringing up the subject during...
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What Other People Think of Me is None of My Business
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When I relapsed not long ago, I had decided I was not going back to AA the day I picked up again. I had "had enough" of sobriety. I allowed my depression and all over the place emotions get the better of me and I lost sight of what should have been my number one priority and that is to stay sober. Wit...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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January 4, 2016Quote of the Week"God can't give you anything new until you let go of the old." Oh how I love to hang on to what I think I know. I came into the program filled with opinions, ideas, resentments, attitudes, beliefs, etc., and even though many of them were literally killing me...
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Today's Gift 1/4
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Is there room in your day for the unexpected?Recovery works best for me when I'm open to what comes along each day. I used to set rigid schedules for myself, write long lists of things to do, and proceed through the day wearing the blinders of my preconceived scenario. Binges were my way of rebelling aga...
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Sobriety as A New Year's Resolution
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I like this article...so many good tips/points. I noticed that attendance for our New Year's Eve AA meeting went up quite a bit than it had been in months--we had a full house (and we have a fairly large meeting room). The number of people picking up chips was not very many, however at tonight's meeting,...
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Today's Gift 1/3
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Moral InventoryIt is fortunate that we can think in secret, because our thoughts would quickly get us in trouble if others could read them. In our thoughts, we can choose what we wish to reveal to others before we speak or act. In the long run, however, we do not really conceal our true thoughts and feeli...
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Sunrise Quote
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At the hour of death, when we come face to face with God, we are going to be judged on love-not how much we have done, but how much love we put into our actions. ~Mother Teresa
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My Three GirlFriends
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Hiya; Hope all is well with you all... Here is some food for thought for those of you contemplating a Step Four Sex Inventory. :) Adultery/Infidelity are not recognized as criminal activity in most states but when I examine my past behaviors I see that I had Three GirlFiends while I was married. I loved...
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Today's Gift 1/1
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Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves. --Rainer Maria RilkeWe carry problems and discrepancies within us, quandaries that are not easily answered - and we have bigger questions about life and the world. Why did I act as I did in my younger years? C...
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Today's Gift 1/2
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Learning new waysOnce we make a connection with our Higher Power, the ongoing problem is to hold on to it. Repeatedly we slip into our old ways of thinking and behaving. If not curtailed, eventually these will lead us back to that first fix, pill, or drink. We need only a word, thought, or familiar situa...
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Got any funny recovery sms text lately?
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Last week I was a bit concerned about a newcomer who had an over preoccupation with female newcomers. I sent him a text saying "under every skirt is a slip". His response was "Yes I know. Marriage is like a deck of cards. In the beginning all you need is two hearts and a diamond. By the end,...
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Sad to notice the doorway getting narrower.
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More and more people are becoming aware of AA. What comes with that is a growing number of people who have become anti-AA. However, I have also noticed that most of them do not explain an alternative recovery program. Where I come from (Northern NSW, Australia) topic meetings are replacing identific...
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First time to reach out for help... wits end
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Hello,I'm reaching out tonight in hopes of any words of encouragement. I had my first drink at 13 and it was great - made me feel normal! I'm 45 now and have had a serious problem with alcohol for the past 8 years (although plenty of alcohol related drama many times before that), but the past two years ha...
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To ALL at MIP
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MY Wish for YOU This Year.
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i'm Partying this New Years!!
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I'm going to Party like crazy tonight... I just put a whole darn bag of popcorn in the microwave, made a ice cold Pepsi, and going to spend time with my sweet baby NF. (Netflix) until "the ball" drops. Bet I don't end up drunk doing stupid, or in jail having to ask someone if I can use the phone, or.... tomorr...
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Bat S@#t crazy and spiritually sick.
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If I make it to bed tonight without a drink, I'll have 7 months sobriety in the morning. I'm really not considering a drink, but I'm having a bad day and don't really want to talk about it at my home group tonight or to my sponsor, because I know I'm just being a weak snivelin' puss full of selfishness, self...
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Baba....
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Miracles In Progress
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As a member here on MIP, I've benefited so very much in make'n new friends and learn'n such a 'much deeper knowledge' of AA and it's principles, 'worldwide' ... I feel deeply indebted to John, MIP's owner, for start'n and maintain'n this web site ... he has done so mostly at his own expense ... and arou...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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December 28, 2015Quote of the Week"What other people think of me is none of my business." What a revolutionary concept this was the first time I heard it. So revolutionary, in fact, that I had a hard time believing it might be true. So much of my identity, how I felt about myself, my moods, a...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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December 21, 2015Quote of the Week"Don't forget that the world record is 24 hours." I remember when I was new watching people take cakes for 5 years, 7 years and more, and thinking that they had something I didn't - the ability to stay sober. When I shared about this, I was told that we all hav...
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Today's Gift 12/31
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May you live all the days of your life. --Jonathan Swift Tonight, at midnight, a new year will begin. None of us know what the new year will hold. But we can trust ourselves to hold on to the spirit of recovery as we go through the year. As a new year is about to begin, we can rejoice in our new way of life. We c...
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Sunrise Quote 12/31
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Success isn't how far you got, but the distance you traveled from where you started. ~Unknown
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Today's Gift 12/29
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You have to sniff out joy, keep your nose to the joy-trail. --Buffy Sainte-MarieNewcomer I heard an old-timer say, "You can be right, or you can be happy." What does that mean? When something is wrong, am I supposed to deny what I can see with my own eyes? SponsorThis program saying is not mea...
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Today's Gift 12/30
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I've shut the door on yesterday, And thrown the key away. Tomorrow holds no fears for me, Since I have found today. -- Vivian Yeiser LaramoreFeeling guilty or ashamed about the past - about what we did or did not do, about what happened to us, about who we were - can be our undoing. We must work long and har...
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Sunrise Quote 12/30
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The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention. ~Oscar Wilde
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Going back to school in my early 30s
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My last semester of college is something I'm less than proud of. I wasn't sober yet. I wish I had discovered the program in college, instead of right after college. I already have a great career, but I need to actually be a licensed with a masters to advance my career. I'm going to make that happen if that'...
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Today's Gift 12/28
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Taking the first step helps bridge the gulf between our dreams and our accomplishments.Whether the project is cleaning the garage, building a cathedral, or recovering from an addiction, plans must be translated into action. In order to arrive at our destination, we must begin the trip. We can read...
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Sunrise Quote 12/27
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And the joy of it all; when we count it all up; is found in the making of friends. ~Unknown, Source on Friends and Friendship
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Today's Gift 12/27
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You saved me once, and what is given is always returned. We are in this life to help one another. --Carlo Collodi, The Adventures of PinocchioAs the end of this year approaches, we think about endings and beginnings. This past year brought us both difficulties and happiness, both pain and healing. I...
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FIRST CHRISTMAS
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Good evening all, Looking for some tips for a sober christmas. I have been in recovery for 40 days today and I have just broke up for christmas until boxing day. Feeling out of sorts as all my collegues have gone on a night out this evening just felt it was to soon to put myself in that enviroment so opted ou...
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Donation Light is lite again, please contribute.
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Hi Everyone, I literally hate having to post this stuff but each year our bills come due again for the MIP site. The domain name registration, the web hosting, message boards, etc, cost money. If you can make a donation that will help offset some of the expense it would be gratefully appreciated. T...
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Do's and Don'ts of Choosing a 12-Step Sponsor
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http://www.promises.com/articles/relapse-prevention/choosing-a-sponsor/
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Been awhile
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I haven't posted anything for sometime, lately for some reason I been finding myself in here doing more reading, For me I am well and sober, life is good. Winter will soon be behind us again. I seen a robin the other day and it made me smile. It the little things that have change the most for me and that make m...
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Farewell Hopefulone
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Co-ed f2f meetings are not safe for young women
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I tell my sponsees this and I go to treatment centers and tell the ladies there as well. AA meetings contain the worst people from the bar, and only some have gotten healthy. In early sobriety, I once stayed for the NA meeting. I kicked off my heals and curled up with my coffee. Somebody in the meeting stol...
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Sunrise Quote
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Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experiences of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired and success achieved. ~Helen Keller
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Today's Gift 12/26
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Working todayAs we approach a new year, many of us feel fear. We look back on the past and worry about the future. But if we remember we only have today, we can work to make that future better. We have found true friends in our fellowship, and this is a time to be with them.Am I ensuring a fruitful future by wo...
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Sunrise Quote
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Sometimes our light goes out but is blown into flame by another human being. Each of us owes deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this light. ~Albert Schweitzer
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Questioning my decisionb
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I have had a sponsee for about 6 months now. She made it to 90 days and relapsed. Her behavior was showing way before the relapse, stealing from stores, having sex with any guy that paid attention to her, being kicked out of rehab. I would suggest many things and bring her right back to the book. Nothing...
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Merry Xmas
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Just wanted to wish everyone a merry Christmas, especially Dean, pappy, leeu, pinkchip, etc..
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Alcohol in cough syrup and other medicines
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I accidentally took night time flu medicine with alcohol in it. I experienced no cravings, but I got migraine headaches that felt like a hangover/withdrawal the next day. In early sobriety, I might have experienced cravings, but I took a small dosage and also have been sober for nearly 6 years. Beca...
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Today's Gift 12/25
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Reflection for the DayToday is a special day in more ways than one. It's a day that God has made, and I'm alive in God's world. I know that all things in my life this day are an expression of God's love the fact that I'm alive, that I'm recovering, and that I'm able to feel the way I feel at this very instant. Fo...
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Today's Gift 12/24
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How we treat other people comes back to us always.Offering others understanding and compassion changes how we perceive the world around us on a daily basis. Our acts of love inspire love from others. What we send out to the people who share our path changes, ever so subtly, the complexion of each life w...
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Merry Christmas All (But not too merry)
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Hi All, Christmas is upon us again and I would just like to wish you all a very happy time. I know it is a very difficult time for many, especially those having their first sober Xmas. I have been blessed in that area. Xmas was always the time of my biggest disasters, and I spoilt it for my family many times. S...
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New Year's Resolutions
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Whew! I am glad this year is almost over. Been some good stuff that has happened and some rough--bad stuff. It is funny/strange that I am the type of person who has always focused on the "bad". I cannot tell you hardly any of the "good" things which have happened over the last year,...
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