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Sponsor fail. Yikes
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OK, haven't posted here for a while. I see that some of you are still about, good for you and thanks. Sober 6.5 years now. Incredibly, I finally decided to give a shot at getting a sponsor. Met with him once a week for several months,, went through the steps, no real issues until he started prompting...
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Feelings of Insecurity in Recovery article
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I found this article very interesting and helpful. I hope it helps someone today :) Feelings of Insecurity in Recovery "It is an accepted reality that many people who attempt to give up an addiction will fail. Some of these people may manage to achieve a few months or even years of recovery but the...
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Today's Gift 1/21
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Man, like the bridge, was designed to carry the load of the moment, not the combined weight of a year at once. --William A. WardWhen trouble tumbles down on us, we are easily overwhelmed. We see problems facing us in the future, and mountains of work to do. We look at the past and see the pain and struggle o...
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The Origin of the Serenity Prayer...well kinda
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http://www.barefootsworld.net/aaserenityprayerorig.html
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Sunrise Quote
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We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give. ~Winston Churchill
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Today's Gift 1/20
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You've got to create a dream. You've got to uphold the dream. If you can't, go back to the factory or go back to the desk. --Eric Burdon We develop goals, priorities, and action steps. We feel energized and ready to move full speed ahead. But midway, as our momentum picks up, new thoughts enter our mind....
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Does Alcohol Make You Argue With Your Partner
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Interesting article. I didn't have to read it to know the answer as I did the most arguing I have ever done in my life when I was drinking. There is a page "Understand Your Drinking with a couple of "tests" and one is a drinking assessment test. Other articles on this site are: What are you...
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3 months today! - Thanks for the support
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Well, I woke up this morning with a clear head and feeling great. Today actually marks 91 days since my last drink. I'm feeling beyond blessed. Snow and slick roads may keep me from a morning meeting, but I still feel great. My work week also seems to keep me from many week day/night meetings, but I'm...
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Today's Gift 1/19
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Today was like a shadow. It lurked behind me. It's now gone forever. Why is it that time is such a difficult thing to befriend? --Mary CaseyEach passing minute is all that we are certain of having. The choice is ever present to relish the moment, reaping fully whatever its benefits, knowing that we are b...
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Do you think this dress makes me look fat?
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For years I obsessed about my weight.....even when I was in the 120's range, I thought I was "fat". I'm tall--5'7 (unless I shrunk some since I last got checked), so my weight at that time certainly wasn't overweight for me. My daughter used to tell me that she thought I had some kind of anorex...
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2nd Funnies
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The elderly priest, speaking to the younger priest, said, ''You had a good idea to replace the first four pews with plush bucket theatre seats. It worked like a charm. The front of the church always fills first now.'' The young priest nodded, and the old priest continued, ''And you told me adding a l...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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January 18, 2016Quote of the Week"If the grass is greener on the other side, it's because they are putting fertilizer on it!" I've spent a lot of my life envying what other people had, resenting I didn't have it too, and feeling I deserved it. I've always felt smarter, more talented, bet...
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Today's Gift 1/18
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The Horse and the MuleTraveling together, a horse sported a fine coat and a magnificent saddle with ornate decorations, while a mule was burdened with a heavy load. Its coat was matted and filled with burrs."Oh, how I wish I could be as beautiful and graceful as you are," the mule told the ho...
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Today's Gift 1/17
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There is no reality except the one contained within us. --Herman HesseClaude Gellee painted lovely pictures of the English countryside. Europeans loved his landscapes, with their blue hues and mild distortions. But when the people went for the carriage rides in the country, they were disappoint...
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This will take the "H" out of "HALT"
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An acronym in AA is H.A.L.T. which stands for Hungry, Angry, Lonely and Tired It did help me when I paid attention to it....and tried to take care of either the physical need or the emotional one I was going through. (I didn't take care of the "angry" one, I guess, a while back...which led to me...
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Meditation
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I haven't done enough meditating...tried it for awhile and just stopped. I have been hearing in AA and elsewhere how meditation has helped others. I am going to try it again. I also found this mantra I love.... "Every day in every way I'm getting better and better." It is by Emile Coue (1857-...
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Just so you know...
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I didn't win the lottery.
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Sunrise Quote 1/16
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Pure love is a willingness to give without a thought of receiving anything in return. ~Peace Pilgrim
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Sponsorship: The Great Unknown
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https://www.thefix.com/content/sponsorship-levels6010
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Today's Gift 1/16
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The self is a calm stable center surrounded by a continuous changing sea. Merge with yourself and be ready for any emergent sea. --Coretta Scott KingWise ones tell us to be true to ourselves. Being true to ourselves means daring to disagree with a loved one, even when we know it might cause painful tens...
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Step 9 work
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I have said some very immature things on this boad. I have mocked those who were struggling with flippant, sarcastic advice, I was disrespectful to others who offered me guidance and I said vile things to some who I felt unwarranted animosity toward. I am very sorry. I would have liked to apologize on...
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A Bit Unsettled......Rehab???? Pills?????
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Ok...I am really confused. Sponsor recently (in her words...)..."strongly encouraged" me going to rehab. (She told me this was her friend's suggestion actually--the one she shared my stuff with recently). I haven't picked up again since my relapse. She said with everything going on w...
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Funnies!
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One of the greatest secrets of life is having patience & wisdom!
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Medical Update
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I'm home, First surgery complete, home resting. Lymph nodes gone. Tongue surgery next wesnesday, please keep me in your thoughts and prayers.
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Sunrise Quote 1/15
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Begin somewhere; you cannot build a reputation on what you intend to do. ~James Russell Lowell
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Today's Gift 1/15
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I am living out my life in accordance with my faith. --Ruth CaseyDoes faith in God guide your actions as it does Ruth's? It's certain our actions are guided by some set of beliefs. If our memories of past situations are troublesome, maybe it's because we allowed our behavior to be controlled by certain...
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Promise
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if I win the 1.5 billion dollar lottery, I promise to up my financial contributions to AA, and, to help John out paying for this board. Matter of fact, if I win, I will just pay the yearly fees for this board for the rest of my life. just letting you all know in advance. It's The least I could do. (now com'on,...
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Sunrise Quote 1/14
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The meaning of life is to find your gift; the purpose of life is to give it away. ~Pablo Picasso
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Today's Gift 1/14
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I believe there has been a grand plan for my life; so much has happened that I hadn't counted on. --Louise JeromeWhat Louise believes might offer great comfort, particularly to a mind that is fraught with fear and uncertainty. But it's not all that important whether or not we believe that God has plann...
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How to Choose an AA Sponsor
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http://alcoholrehab.com/addiction-articles/how-to-choose-an-aa-sponsor/
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Time To Be Blunt With Myself - Help?
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Hello folks! Let's face it, I'm 22 and trying to grow up. Here's my deal: alcohol. I'm not even worried about ciggies...I've found them completely unappetizing but nevertheless, the easier of the the two. Now I've only been drinking for 2 years. Pretty heavily after diagnosis with type 1 diabe...
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Sunrise Quote 1/13
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You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments that stand out, the moments when you have really lived, are the moments when you have done things in a spirit of love. ~Henry Drummond
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Today's Gift 1/13
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The adventure of connection is to speak out. . .The feeling of connection we yearn for with our partner comes when we speak what is on our mind; we have to stop guessing what each other feels and stop guarding against all offenses. A relationship with vitality is not so guarded that we constantly have to...
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Today's Gift 1/12
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Getting people to like you is merely the other side of liking them. --Norman Vincent PealeWhat does it mean to like other people? It means giving respect and attention to their opinions and perspectives on life. It means respecting their feelings, attitudes, and values without passing judgment or...
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Phobaphobia...Fear of Fears
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I have lived most of my life being fearful.....I have hated going anywhere in the car for fear of getting in a car wreak. I have hated meeting new people for fear of what they would think about me. Any job I have managed to have I have had a fear of doing something wrong and getting reprimanded or fired. (And...
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Sunrise Quote
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The greatest gift that you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance. ~Brian Tracy
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Today's Gift 1/11
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I can still remember my mother clutching her heart, threatening to have a heart attack and die, and blaming it on me. --AnonymousFor some of us, the idea that we were responsible for other people's feelings had its roots in childhood and was established by members of our nuclear family. We may have bee...
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Wisdom of the Rooms
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January 11, 2016Quote of the Week"God will never give you more than you can handle - but life will." Before recovery, life was pretty overwhelming. It seemed that no sooner had I put out one fire that two more started. Without a Higher Power in my life, it was up to me alone to handle everyth...
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Grateful for my sense of humor....
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My sponsor called me yesterday. We were supposed to meet at 1:00 for our meeting. She said it turned out to be such a nice day (it has been raining a lot here lately) that she wanted to take her dogs for a walk and she had a commitment at 4:00 so she wasn't going to have enough time to do those things and meet wit...
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George A Little 1948 Article -- The Non-Alcoholic Who Started AA in Canada
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Very interesting..... http://www.barefootsworld.net/aagodconcept.html
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Today's Gift 1/10 ... Good One!
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Love is a positive feeling and if one cultivates this feeling in their life, they will surely free themselves from any unbalanced condition that surrounds them. --Syd BanksAnger, whether unfocused or triggered by a troubling experience or a hostile person, discolors our perspective through an a...
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A Good One for this Board as Well As Everywhere....
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"I have the right to have a different opinion from someone else and to feel at ease with this." This is from the Al-Anon Bill of Rights, which I stumbled upon. I am going to be working on this one because I have had problems with it. Think I already shared about me feeling like I had to agree, say...
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Today's Gift 1/9
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Today I will review the goals I've set for myself.Have I met some of them? Do some of them seem out of reach? If so, I will consider how I can simplify them by breaking them down into smaller goals.If one of my goals is to live in a nicer house, I'll look at ways I can begin to work toward that goal. Do I already k...
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The Latest
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I am at a loss.....my sponsor told me from the beginning that everything I shared with her was completely confidential. Then last night I get an email message from her informing me that she shared something of a sensitive nature with her best friend and someone she "uses as a co-sponsor" so...
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Today's Gift 1/8
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Suffering is a journey which has an end. --Matthew FoxPain is part of life. To live a spiritual life, we need a way to understand the suffering we sometimes endure. Looking back at other difficult times can give us a better perspective of the pain we feel today. All of us can recall a loss or a sudden diffi...
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Found Some Advice for a Friend
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Sunrise Quote 1/7
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To be one's self, and unafraid whether right or wrong, is more admirable than the easy cowardice of surrender to conformity. ~Irving Wallace
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Today's Gift 1/7
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We don't want to live in the past, but we do need to learn to live comfortably with it."We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it." This is a promise of the Twelve Step program.One of the most useful tools we have for learning to live with our past is the Fourth Step inventory. Onc...
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Quotes Worth Remembering
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I need to print out these and super glue them to my nose for my eyes to see and my brain to remember. Most of my "issues" have had to do with not being able to accept the things I cannot change and not working hard enough to change me instead of hoping/trying others will change. So I have a huge ego-...
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The "Right" Way to Say That is....
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When I was a kid I had a problem. I was teased unmercifully for it by other kids because I could not say words correctly. Some kids and adults tried to "teach" me how to say the words correctly. This made me feel embarrassment and shame. It wasn't until I was in fifth grade that a speech therapis...
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