Alcoholics Anonymous

Doll · Doll

1. You drink more coffee per day than Starbucks sells in one week. 2. Emails to your friends have "HALT" as the subject header. 3. You and your buddies get thrown out of espresso bars and teahouses for being "too rowdy." 4. Songs like "There's a Tear In My Beer" make you...

justme · justme

I feel a lot better today! My boyfriend drank 6 or 8 beers last night and I had a cup of hot tea! I feel better and better everyday! My appointment with my doctor is today and I am seeing my counsler tomorrow. I can do this I know I can.

Quetzal · Quetzal

Trust yourself. Trust what you know. Sometimes, it is hard to stand in our own truth and trust what we know, especially when others would try to convince us otherwise. In these cases, others may be dealing with issues of guilt and shame. They may have their own agenda. They may be immersed in denial. The...

soberdrunk · soberdrunk

You ever have to make a decision? Sometimes it hurts like hell. I've come to realize that this relationship I've been in for almost a year has become unhealthy. I've weighed the pro's and con's. Should be really simple right? Wrong......... When it comes to doing something that is hurtful to others I w...

Joseph1964 · Joseph1964

Hello, First, thanks for all the sharing in the posts I have read thus far. I have been lurking in the background for some time and registered today. The posts that I have read have been quite an eye opener for me. You see, I am wondering if AA is right for me. Let me say that I know for a fact that I am an alcohol...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Second, I am content to face the rest of my life without alcohol. I have made the great decision once and for all. I have surrendered as gracefully as possible to the inevitable. I hope I have no more reservations. I hope that nothing can happen to me now that would justify my taki...

jonijoni · jonijoni

Hi guys and gals!!! Missed you all!!! I am doing well. Almost finished with school, and i have 90 days smoke-free today. Whooppee!!! Still sober, and plugging along. I have missed everyone, and I would like to know how you are all doing!! (((((hugs)))))) jonijoni (formerly Jonibaloni)

Doll · Doll

TRUE TOLERANCE Finally, we begin to see that all people, including ourselves, are to some extent emotionally ill as well as frequently wrong, and then we approach true tolerance and see what real love for our fellows actually means. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 92 The thought occurred to m...

Quetzal · Quetzal

"When I began recovery from chemical dependency, I had to face my money mess stone cold sober, and I really had a mess," said one woman. "I wasn't able to earn much at first, and it was important to me to make amends. I had past due bills from years before. I needed to try to stay current wit...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Now that we have considered the obligations of real, working members of A.A., let us examine what the rewards are that have come to us as a result of our new way of living. First, I understand myself more than I ever did before. I have learned what was the matter with me and I know no...

justme · justme

I am still sober and feeling great. It is funny how the depression is starting to fade away. I think most of my problem was the stupid booze. I feel such clarity! I have realized a lot by watching my boyfriend booze it up. I don't ever want to be like that again. I will write more later. I have lots of things to...

Doll · Doll

NOTHING GROWS IN THE DARK We will want the good that is in us all, even in the worst of us, to flower and to grow. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 10 With the self-discipline and insight gained from practicing Step Ten, I begin to know the gratifications of sobriety -- not as mere abstinence from alcohol, but as recover...

Doll · Doll

A portion of the BB Chapter 11 4th Edition ~~~~~~~~~~~~ For most normal folks, drinking means conviviality, companionship and colorful imagination. It means release from care, boredom and worry. It is joyous intimacy with friends and a feeling that life is good. But not so with us in those last days...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ What am I going to do today for A.A.? Is there someone I should call up on the telephone or someone I should go to see? Is there a letter I should write? Is there an opportunity somewhere to advance the work of A.A. which I have been putting off or neglecting? If so, will I do it today?...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ For the past few weeks we have been asking ourselves some searching questions. We have not been able to answer them all as we would like. But on the right answers to these questions will depend the usefulness and effectiveness of the whole A.A. movement. It all boils down to thi...

Doll · Doll

AN OPEN MIND True humility and an open mind can lead us to faith . . . TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 33 My alcoholic thinking led me to believe that I could control my drinking, but I couldn't. When I came to A.A., I realized that God was speaking to me through my group. My mind was open just enough to...

Snopup · Snopup

As several of you know, my wife kicked me out in mid Augest after coming home with our daughters after I've been drinking. She told me to get my sh*t together and maybe she'll let me come back, after she's convinced that I'm serious of course. Since then I've been going to AA several times a week and workin...

Ive had enough · Ive had enough

Hello. My name is Karen and I am a 34 year old mother from Australia and I am an alcoholic. In the past week my life has hit rock bottom. My husband is sick of my lies and deceipt and has decided to leave. Whilst I am devistated by his decision it has finally given me the strengh I need to make the changes I n...

mikey50 · mikey50

I would like to Thank all the Moderators here for the Great Job you have Done here ...Sick of Being Sick..Phil...Wren..Thank you for being of service .

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

My dear beautiful Sober~vibers. I have some feelings I want to share with you. I'm going, perhaps, through a transitional period & I want to move forward in a good way & not be driven by any unfortunate thoughts that may take me off on a path of possible self~destruction. I have been taught to sh...

Doll · Doll

SOLACE FOR CONFUSION Obviously, the dilemma of the wanderer from faith is that of profound confusion. He thinks himself lost to the comfort of any conviction at all. He cannot attain in even a small degree the assurance of the believer, the agnostic, or the atheist. He is the bewildered one. TWELVE ST...

Phil · Phil

And hello..to each and every one of you.... Another day....24 hours....one day at a time.... To be honest? I dont really know if I've ever had a handle on that one..:) Just wanted to share....as I have been doing..with a few...via email... That I still keep in touch with the board..on a daily basis...e...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Sometimes people we love do things we don't like or approve of. We react. They react. Before long, we're all reacting to each other, and the problem escalates. When do we detach? When we're hooked into a reaction of anger, fear, guilt, or shame. When we get hooked into a power play - an attempt to control...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Do I realize that I do not know how much time I have left? It may be later than I think. Am I going to do the things that I know I should do before my time runs out? By the way, what is my purpose for the rest of my life? Do I realize all I have to make up for in my past wasted life? Do I know that...

Wren · Wren

"It is always your next move."-- Napoleon HillThe great benefit of heightened awareness is that we have more choice in how we live our lives. At any moment, we can purposefully choose a new experience for ourselves. We can choose to pay attention, breathe more deeply, laugh, rest, play,...

cooncatbob · cooncatbob

I don'tknow what kind of Alcoholic you are, but when someone starts telling me what I should do instead of sharing what worked for them. My eyes glaze over and I get an annoying buzzing in my ears that kinda drowns out what they're saying. This condition dates back to my misspent youth when I thought I kne...

Quetzal · Quetzal

What's a codependent? The answer's easy. They're some of the most loving, caring people I know. -- Beyond Codependency We don't need to limit an inventory of ourselves to the negatives. Focusing only on what's wrong is a core issue in our codependency. Honestly, fearlessly, ask: "What's righ...

Doll · Doll

A. A.'S "MAIN TAPROOT" The principle that we shall find no enduring strength until we first admit complete defeat is the main taproot from which our whole Society has sprung and flowered. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 21-22 Defeated, and knowing it, I arrived at the doors of A.A...

Wren · Wren

When I politely asked Pam to try and keep her posting sensitive to the newcomer who may be scared off by hearing about Jesus Saves, I received an incredibly rude pm back. She has been asked several times to lighten up and has ignored it, instead responding with very un-Christian like attitude. Her wors...

Doll · Doll

It never ceases to amaze me how I hear what I need to hear when I hear it! I've been in chronic pain for quite some time, as most of you know. Next test is a bone scan next week - woo hoo! Anyway, I haven't had much sleep lately, so got myself some Advil PM and Damn! the dream I had that I was drunk! I woke up in a pani...

flumpy · flumpy

Wow, Long time no see! I hope your all getting on great, and I wish the world for each and everyone of you. Anyways, I'm posting as I do come in pretty much every day to have a read, and I've just read a post by a newby that has confused me. (nothing towards the poster of course) I'm still drinking a hell of alo...

lani · lani

Hi all: Well, just an upbeat message from me today to share why its so great to be an alcoholic....snicker, snicker... Yesterday had an interview at my old place of employment, looks promising (at least Im on the ok to hire back list), still havent gotten a call back but waiting... Have an interview tom...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Many of us feel like we need a rulebook, a microscope, and a warranty to get through life. We feel uncertain, frightened. We want the security of knowing what's going to happen, and how we shall act. We don't trust life or ourselves. We don't trust the Plan. We want to be in control. "I've made terri...

Wren · Wren

Compassion is the ability to see the deep connectedness between ourselves and others. Moreover, true compassion recognizes that all the boundaries we perceive between ourselves and others are an illusion. When we first begin to practice compassion, this very deep level of understanding may elu...

lani · lani

Good morning all! Praying we all have a great day! I just realized we haven't had our daily posting of "24 hrs a day" since 10/14!! I really enjoy reading it everyday and have missed it and Sobrieyspell. So hopefully Daniella, your doing well and have just been busy. Isnt it great how, at leas...

Doll · Doll

Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are such unfortunat...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Surrendering is a highly personal and spiritual experience. Surrender is not something we can do in our heads. It is not something we can force or control by willpower. It is something we experience. Acceptance, or surrender, is not a tidy package. Often, it is a package full of hard feelings - anger,...

Dona2 · Dona2

Any suggestions on how to deal with obsessing thoughts. My mind won't slow down. Same thoughts, same situation, lots of anger. I've talked on the phone, gone to meeting today, but thoughts keep whirling. Anyone else with same experience your sharing would be most helpful. Thank you.

elizabeth32 · elizabeth32

hello all... new to this page but have questions. first off i am 32, have a child, just got seperated from my husband. i know you cannot blame another person for addiction, but my husband was a great contributor to some problems i had. first off i am trying to figure a way to get past the withdrawls with out...

Doll · Doll

A DAILY TUNE-UP Every day is a day when we must carry the vision of God's will into all of our activities. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 85 How do I maintain my spiritual condition? For me it's quite simple: on a daily basis I ask my Higher Power to grant me the gift of sobriety for that day! I have talked to many a...

lani · lani

In other words...Oh my God!Hi all, its your spaztic friend here checking in...Put in a ton of applications finally for a new RN job. I have an interview with my previous employer of 15 years. It's actually with the nurse recruiter to see what might be availbale, but I am so nervous!!(cant tell can ya, I c...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Sometimes it helps to understand that we may be receiving a payoff from relationships that cause us distress. The relationship may be feeding into our helplessness or our martyr role. Maybe the relationships feeds our need to be needed, enhancing our self-esteem by allowing us to feel in control or...

ChicknLittle · ChicknLittle

Well, I got my phone hooked up on Monday.... got an AOL free trial disk, which apparently isn't free because they billed me for it lol so I gotta call and straighten that out now lol But anyway, I'm back online.... but am going to start trying to practice a bit of self-discipline and try to not stay o...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Our relationship with ourselves is the most important relationship we need to maintain. The quality of that relationship will determine the quality of our other relationships. When we can tell ourselves how we feel, and accept our feelings, we can tell others. When we can accept what we want and nee...

Doll · Doll

THROUGHOUT EACH DAY This is not an overnight matter. It should continue for our lifetime. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 84 During my early years in A.A. I saw Step Ten as a suggestion that I periodically look at my behavior and reactions. If there was something wrong, I should admit it; if an apology was nec...

Quetzal · Quetzal

No good work comes from unrest. Unrest, fear, anger, or sadness may motivate us. These feelings are sometimes intended to compel action. But our best work emerges after these feelings have been replaced by peace. We will not accomplish our task any sooner, or any better, by performing it out of a sens...

Doll · Doll

MY CHECKLIST, NOT YOURS Gossip barbed with our anger, a polite form of murder by character assassination, has its satisfactions for us, too. Here we are not trying to help those we criticize; we are trying to proclaim our own righteousness. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 67 Sometimes I don't...

Doll · Doll

A PROGRAM FOR LIVING When we retire at night, we constructively review our day. . . . On awakening let us think about the twenty-four hours ahead. . . Before we begin, we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives. ALCOHOLIC...

Wren · Wren

What Is Love? Throughout recorded history, love has burned in the hearts of composers, writers, painters, and playwrights, and smoldered in those of parents, children, and friends. Love, primal, passionate, and pure, has been dissected, revered, praised, and derided. It has been called comple...

Wren · Wren

I've decided to step down as a moderator for the forum here. My life is getting busier and busier, and honestly, I take moderating so frickin seriously that I read each and every post trying to make sure that this place stays safe. Things have been going smooth for some time now, and I think that with the f...

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	You know you are in recovery if........... (Preview) 1. You drink more coffee per day than Starbucks sells in one week. 2. Emails to your friends have "HALT" as the subject header. 3. You and your buddies get thrown out of espresso bars and teahouses for being "too rowdy." 4. Songs like "There's a Tear In My Beer" make you...	Doll	5	518	Oct 23, 2007 by TLH
	No hangover!!! (Preview) I feel a lot better today! My boyfriend drank 6 or 8 beers last night and I had a cup of hot tea! I feel better and better everyday! My appointment with my doctor is today and I am seeing my counsler tomorrow. I can do this I know I can.	justme	9	599	Oct 22, 2007 by TLH
	Holding Your Own (Preview) Trust yourself. Trust what you know. Sometimes, it is hard to stand in our own truth and trust what we know, especially when others would try to convince us otherwise. In these cases, others may be dealing with issues of guilt and shame. They may have their own agenda. They may be immersed in denial. The...	Quetzal	1	404	Oct 22, 2007 by justme
	Standing at the turning point (Preview) You ever have to make a decision? Sometimes it hurts like hell. I've come to realize that this relationship I've been in for almost a year has become unhealthy. I've weighed the pro's and con's. Should be really simple right? Wrong......... When it comes to doing something that is hurtful to others I w...	soberdrunk	7	550	Oct 22, 2007 by jonijoni
	Am I Crazy?! (Preview) Hello, First, thanks for all the sharing in the posts I have read thus far. I have been lurking in the background for some time and registered today. The posts that I have read have been quite an eye opener for me. You see, I am wondering if AA is right for me. Let me say that I know for a fact that I am an alcohol...	Joseph1964	9	552	Oct 22, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 22nd Oct 07 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Second, I am content to face the rest of my life without alcohol. I have made the great decision once and for all. I have surrendered as gracefully as possible to the inevitable. I hope I have no more reservations. I hope that nothing can happen to me now that would justify my taki...	Sobrietyspell	0	316	Oct 22, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	jonibaloni here... saying Hi :o) (Preview) Hi guys and gals!!! Missed you all!!! I am doing well. Almost finished with school, and i have 90 days smoke-free today. Whooppee!!! Still sober, and plugging along. I have missed everyone, and I would like to know how you are all doing!! (((((hugs)))))) jonijoni (formerly Jonibaloni)	jonijoni	7	438	Oct 22, 2007 by Doll
	Daily Reflections 10/22 (Preview) TRUE TOLERANCE Finally, we begin to see that all people, including ourselves, are to some extent emotionally ill as well as frequently wrong, and then we approach true tolerance and see what real love for our fellows actually means. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 92 The thought occurred to m...	Doll	0	318	Oct 22, 2007 by Doll
	Financial Responsibility (Preview) "When I began recovery from chemical dependency, I had to face my money mess stone cold sober, and I really had a mess," said one woman. "I wasn't able to earn much at first, and it was important to me to make amends. I had past due bills from years before. I needed to try to stay current wit...	Quetzal	2	400	Oct 21, 2007 by Quetzal
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 21st Oct 07 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Now that we have considered the obligations of real, working members of A.A., let us examine what the rewards are that have come to us as a result of our new way of living. First, I understand myself more than I ever did before. I have learned what was the matter with me and I know no...	Sobrietyspell	0	344	Oct 21, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Still sober (Preview) I am still sober and feeling great. It is funny how the depression is starting to fade away. I think most of my problem was the stupid booze. I feel such clarity! I have realized a lot by watching my boyfriend booze it up. I don't ever want to be like that again. I will write more later. I have lots of things to...	justme	4	468	Oct 21, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections 10/21 (Preview) NOTHING GROWS IN THE DARK We will want the good that is in us all, even in the worst of us, to flower and to grow. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 10 With the self-discipline and insight gained from practicing Step Ten, I begin to know the gratifications of sobriety -- not as mere abstinence from alcohol, but as recover...	Doll	0	327	Oct 21, 2007 by Doll
	A Vision For You (Preview) A portion of the BB Chapter 11 4th Edition ~~~~~~~~~~~~ For most normal folks, drinking means conviviality, companionship and colorful imagination. It means release from care, boredom and worry. It is joyous intimacy with friends and a feeling that life is good. But not so with us in those last days...	Doll	0	322	Oct 20, 2007 by Doll
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 17th Oct 07 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ What am I going to do today for A.A.? Is there someone I should call up on the telephone or someone I should go to see? Is there a letter I should write? Is there an opportunity somewhere to advance the work of A.A. which I have been putting off or neglecting? If so, will I do it today?...	Sobrietyspell	2	400	Oct 20, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 20th Oct 07 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ For the past few weeks we have been asking ourselves some searching questions. We have not been able to answer them all as we would like. But on the right answers to these questions will depend the usefulness and effectiveness of the whole A.A. movement. It all boils down to thi...	Sobrietyspell	0	324	Oct 20, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Daily Reflections 10/18 (Preview) AN OPEN MIND True humility and an open mind can lead us to faith . . . TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 33 My alcoholic thinking led me to believe that I could control my drinking, but I couldn't. When I came to A.A., I realized that God was speaking to me through my group. My mind was open just enough to...	Doll	2	873	Oct 20, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Comin' Home (Preview) As several of you know, my wife kicked me out in mid Augest after coming home with our daughters after I've been drinking. She told me to get my sh*t together and maybe she'll let me come back, after she's convinced that I'm serious of course. Since then I've been going to AA several times a week and workin...	Snopup	7	489	Oct 20, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Hello from Australia (Preview) Hello. My name is Karen and I am a 34 year old mother from Australia and I am an alcoholic. In the past week my life has hit rock bottom. My husband is sick of my lies and deceipt and has decided to leave. Whilst I am devistated by his decision it has finally given me the strengh I need to make the changes I n...	Ive had enough	6	375	Oct 20, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Thank You (Preview) I would like to Thank all the Moderators here for the Great Job you have Done here ...Sick of Being Sick..Phil...Wren..Thank you for being of service .	mikey50	4	420	Oct 20, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	I am upset & concerned (Preview) My dear beautiful Sober~vibers. I have some feelings I want to share with you. I'm going, perhaps, through a transitional period & I want to move forward in a good way & not be driven by any unfortunate thoughts that may take me off on a path of possible self~destruction. I have been taught to sh...	Sobrietyspell	8	554	Oct 20, 2007 by lani
	Daily Reflections 10/20 (Preview) SOLACE FOR CONFUSION Obviously, the dilemma of the wanderer from faith is that of profound confusion. He thinks himself lost to the comfort of any conviction at all. He cannot attain in even a small degree the assurance of the believer, the agnostic, or the atheist. He is the bewildered one. TWELVE ST...	Doll	0	461	Oct 20, 2007 by Doll
	Its Been A while..:) (Preview) And hello..to each and every one of you.... Another day....24 hours....one day at a time.... To be honest? I dont really know if I've ever had a handle on that one..:) Just wanted to share....as I have been doing..with a few...via email... That I still keep in touch with the board..on a daily basis...e...	Phil	13	690	Oct 20, 2007 by Cabbageheadchris
	Detaching with Love (Preview) Sometimes people we love do things we don't like or approve of. We react. They react. Before long, we're all reacting to each other, and the problem escalates. When do we detach? When we're hooked into a reaction of anger, fear, guilt, or shame. When we get hooked into a power play - an attempt to control...	Quetzal	0	318	Oct 20, 2007 by Quetzal
	24 Hrs a Day ~ 19th Oct 07 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day ~ Do I realize that I do not know how much time I have left? It may be later than I think. Am I going to do the things that I know I should do before my time runs out? By the way, what is my purpose for the rest of my life? Do I realize all I have to make up for in my past wasted life? Do I know that...	Sobrietyspell	2	702	Oct 19, 2007 by StPeteDean
	Choose Differently Today (Preview) "It is always your next move."-- Napoleon HillThe great benefit of heightened awareness is that we have more choice in how we live our lives. At any moment, we can purposefully choose a new experience for ourselves. We can choose to pay attention, breathe more deeply, laugh, rest, play,...	Wren	1	286	Oct 19, 2007 by Doll
	Sharing Experience, Strenght and Hope or just Preaching. (Preview) I don'tknow what kind of Alcoholic you are, but when someone starts telling me what I should do instead of sharing what worked for them. My eyes glaze over and I get an annoying buzzing in my ears that kinda drowns out what they're saying. This condition dates back to my misspent youth when I thought I kne...	cooncatbob	7	564	Oct 19, 2007 by StPeteDean
	Our Good Points (Preview) What's a codependent? The answer's easy. They're some of the most loving, caring people I know. -- Beyond Codependency We don't need to limit an inventory of ourselves to the negatives. Focusing only on what's wrong is a core issue in our codependency. Honestly, fearlessly, ask: "What's righ...	Quetzal	1	344	Oct 19, 2007 by lani
	Daily Reflections 10/19 (Preview) A. A.'S "MAIN TAPROOT" The principle that we shall find no enduring strength until we first admit complete defeat is the main taproot from which our whole Society has sprung and flowered. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, pp. 21-22 Defeated, and knowing it, I arrived at the doors of A.A...	Doll	0	271	Oct 19, 2007 by Doll
	Nobody Is "Under Fire" (Preview) When I politely asked Pam to try and keep her posting sensitive to the newcomer who may be scared off by hearing about Jesus Saves, I received an incredibly rude pm back. She has been asked several times to lighten up and has ignored it, instead responding with very un-Christian like attitude. Her wors...	Wren	12	1403	Oct 18, 2007 by Wren
	Drinking/Drunk Dreams (Preview) It never ceases to amaze me how I hear what I need to hear when I hear it! I've been in chronic pain for quite some time, as most of you know. Next test is a bone scan next week - woo hoo! Anyway, I haven't had much sleep lately, so got myself some Advil PM and Damn! the dream I had that I was drunk! I woke up in a pani...	Doll	5	1313	Oct 18, 2007 by TenderheartsKS
	Firstly Hello :o) But I'm now confused. (Preview) Wow, Long time no see! I hope your all getting on great, and I wish the world for each and everyone of you. Anyways, I'm posting as I do come in pretty much every day to have a read, and I've just read a post by a newby that has confused me. (nothing towards the poster of course) I'm still drinking a hell of alo...	flumpy	11	557	Oct 18, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Great day to be in AA (Preview) Hi all: Well, just an upbeat message from me today to share why its so great to be an alcoholic....snicker, snicker... Yesterday had an interview at my old place of employment, looks promising (at least Im on the ok to hire back list), still havent gotten a call back but waiting... Have an interview tom...	lani	4	306	Oct 18, 2007 by Simple
	Throwing Out the Rule Book (Preview) Many of us feel like we need a rulebook, a microscope, and a warranty to get through life. We feel uncertain, frightened. We want the security of knowing what's going to happen, and how we shall act. We don't trust life or ourselves. We don't trust the Plan. We want to be in control. "I've made terri...	Quetzal	0	345	Oct 18, 2007 by Quetzal
	Compassion (Preview) Compassion is the ability to see the deep connectedness between ourselves and others. Moreover, true compassion recognizes that all the boundaries we perceive between ourselves and others are an illusion. When we first begin to practice compassion, this very deep level of understanding may elu...	Wren	0	3363	Oct 18, 2007 by Wren
	Where is sobrietyspell? (Preview) Good morning all! Praying we all have a great day! I just realized we haven't had our daily posting of "24 hrs a day" since 10/14!! I really enjoy reading it everyday and have missed it and Sobrieyspell. So hopefully Daniella, your doing well and have just been busy. Isnt it great how, at leas...	lani	1	377	Oct 17, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	How It Works.... (Preview) Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are such unfortunat...	Doll	1	265	Oct 17, 2007 by Phil
	Feelings and Surrender (Preview) Surrendering is a highly personal and spiritual experience. Surrender is not something we can do in our heads. It is not something we can force or control by willpower. It is something we experience. Acceptance, or surrender, is not a tidy package. Often, it is a package full of hard feelings - anger,...	Quetzal	1	711	Oct 17, 2007 by Dona2
	Hi, I'm new - Silver chip today (Preview) Any suggestions on how to deal with obsessing thoughts. My mind won't slow down. Same thoughts, same situation, lots of anger. I've talked on the phone, gone to meeting today, but thoughts keep whirling. Anyone else with same experience your sharing would be most helpful. Thank you.	Dona2	8	479	Oct 17, 2007 by Dona2
	Coping with withdrawl options (Preview) hello all... new to this page but have questions. first off i am 32, have a child, just got seperated from my husband. i know you cannot blame another person for addiction, but my husband was a great contributor to some problems i had. first off i am trying to figure a way to get past the withdrawls with out...	elizabeth32	5	478	Oct 17, 2007 by elizabeth32
	Daily Reflections 10/17 (Preview) A DAILY TUNE-UP Every day is a day when we must carry the vision of God's will into all of our activities. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 85 How do I maintain my spiritual condition? For me it's quite simple: on a daily basis I ask my Higher Power to grant me the gift of sobriety for that day! I have talked to many a...	Doll	1	345	Oct 17, 2007 by lani
	O>M>G> (Preview) In other words...Oh my God!Hi all, its your spaztic friend here checking in...Put in a ton of applications finally for a new RN job. I have an interview with my previous employer of 15 years. It's actually with the nurse recruiter to see what might be availbale, but I am so nervous!!(cant tell can ya, I c...	lani	6	530	Oct 17, 2007 by Doll
	Payoffs from Destructive Relationships (Preview) Sometimes it helps to understand that we may be receiving a payoff from relationships that cause us distress. The relationship may be feeding into our helplessness or our martyr role. Maybe the relationships feeds our need to be needed, enhancing our self-esteem by allowing us to feel in control or...	Quetzal	1	439	Oct 16, 2007 by StPeteDean
	Hey y'all (Preview) Well, I got my phone hooked up on Monday.... got an AOL free trial disk, which apparently isn't free because they billed me for it lol so I gotta call and straighten that out now lol But anyway, I'm back online.... but am going to start trying to practice a bit of self-discipline and try to not stay o...	ChicknLittle	5	435	Oct 16, 2007 by StPeteDean
	Being Honest with Ourselves (Preview) Our relationship with ourselves is the most important relationship we need to maintain. The quality of that relationship will determine the quality of our other relationships. When we can tell ourselves how we feel, and accept our feelings, we can tell others. When we can accept what we want and nee...	Quetzal	1	375	Oct 16, 2007 by Snopup
	Daily Reflections 10/16 (Preview) THROUGHOUT EACH DAY This is not an overnight matter. It should continue for our lifetime. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 84 During my early years in A.A. I saw Step Ten as a suggestion that I periodically look at my behavior and reactions. If there was something wrong, I should admit it; if an apology was nec...	Doll	0	254	Oct 16, 2007 by Doll
	Letting Go of Chaos (Preview) No good work comes from unrest. Unrest, fear, anger, or sadness may motivate us. These feelings are sometimes intended to compel action. But our best work emerges after these feelings have been replaced by peace. We will not accomplish our task any sooner, or any better, by performing it out of a sens...	Quetzal	1	321	Oct 15, 2007 by psychoktty
	Daily Reflections 10/15 (Preview) MY CHECKLIST, NOT YOURS Gossip barbed with our anger, a polite form of murder by character assassination, has its satisfactions for us, too. Here we are not trying to help those we criticize; we are trying to proclaim our own righteousness. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 67 Sometimes I don't...	Doll	0	297	Oct 15, 2007 by Doll
	Daily Reflections 10/14 (Preview) A PROGRAM FOR LIVING When we retire at night, we constructively review our day. . . . On awakening let us think about the twenty-four hours ahead. . . Before we begin, we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives. ALCOHOLIC...	Doll	1	302	Oct 14, 2007 by Pam P
	A Wealth of Feeling (Preview) What Is Love? Throughout recorded history, love has burned in the hearts of composers, writers, painters, and playwrights, and smoldered in those of parents, children, and friends. Love, primal, passionate, and pure, has been dissected, revered, praised, and derided. It has been called comple...	Wren	3	383	Oct 14, 2007 by Sobrietyspell
	Hey Guys (Preview) I've decided to step down as a moderator for the forum here. My life is getting busier and busier, and honestly, I take moderating so frickin seriously that I read each and every post trying to make sure that this place stays safe. Things have been going smooth for some time now, and I think that with the f...	Wren	10	569	Oct 14, 2007 by StPeteDean
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