Alcoholics Anonymous

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

A.A. Thought for the Day In A.A. we must surrender, give up, admit that we're helpless. We surrender our lives to God and ask Him for help. When He knows that we're ready, He gives us by His grace the free gift of sobriety. And we can't take any credit for having stopped dr...

Quetzal · Quetzal

Anxiety is often our first reaction to conflict, problems, or even our own fears. In those moments, detaching and getting peaceful may seem disloyal or apathetic. We think: If I really care, I'll worry; if this is really important to me, I must stay upset. We convince ourselves that outcomes will be p...

Tuggboat · Tuggboat

I'm a bit tortured tonight. Simple really. My Mom 79 recently had a new hip 10 days ago. She has been in debilitating pain for about five years and it finally brought her to a stop and the conclusion that either no pain or death were her only options. For her it was a couragous option to try the surgery. We al...

Doll · Doll

THE IDEA OF FAITH Do not let any prejudice you might have against spiritual terms deter you from honestly asking yourself what they mean to you. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 47 The idea of faith is a very large chunk to swallow when fear, doubt and anger abound in and around me. Sometimes just the idea of doi...

Quetzal · Quetzal

When I meet people or get in a new relationship, I start putting all these repressive restrictions on myself. I can't have my feelings. Can't have my wants and needs. Can't have my history. Can't do the things I want, feel the feelings I'm feeling, or say what I need to say. I turn into this repressed, per...

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

A.A. Thought for the Day Sometimes we try too hard to get this program. It is better to relax and accept it. It will be given to us, with no effort on our part, if we stop trying too hard to get it. Sobriety can be a free gift of God, which He gives us by His grace when He knows we...

Doll · Doll

WEEDING THE GARDEN The essence of all growth is a willingness to make a change for the better and then an unremitting willingness to shoulder whatever responsibility this entails. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 115 By the time I had reached Step Three I had been freed of my dependence on alcohol, but bitter experi...

Doll · Doll

A LIFELONG TASK "But just how, in these circumstances, does a fellow 'take it easy?' That's what I want to know." TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 26 I was never known for my patience. How many times have I asked, "Why should I wait, when I can have it all right now?" Indeed, w...

Pse2313 · Pse2313

Hi all, Ive spent several hours reading the entire forum. There is a lot of good advice out there everyone here seems very supportive and open. To tell you a little about myself I am a 26 year old white male living in the sunshine state. I'm a college grad and have a decent job. This past friday night I had a m...

jc2008 · jc2008

I may have mentioned this, but I moved with my family to Florida from up north several months ago. I left behind a therapist who I had grown to trust. She was helping me deal with some terrible childhood abuse at the hands of my father (I won't elaborate in order to spare anyone who has gone through somethi...

Nisha · Nisha

I virtually did nothing over the weekend.Just slept off the whole day yesterday and today.I am on anti-depressant since last 4 days. It does make me go to sleep.But also leaves a feeling of lethargy for the next day.Needless to say I didn't do any work at home, all those files that I brought home stood st...

John · John

-- Edited by John at 03:12, 2008-03-04

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

A.A. Thought for the Day Having surrendered our lives to God and put our drink problem in His hands doesn't mean that we'll never be tempted to drink. So we must build up strength for the time when temptation will come. In this quiet time, we read and pray and get our min...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

While attending the wedding of my wife's neice yesterday I expereinced a range of emotions, of mostly the unpredictable kind. Along with the thoughts of wonder if this young marriage (I think they are 22, and 24) will last were thoughts of my expereinces past and oddly a culmination of feelings abou...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I've learned I can take care of myself, and what I can't do, God will do for me. -- Al-Anon member God, a Higher Power as we understand Him, is our source of guidance and positive change. This doesn't mean we're not responsible for ourselves. We are. But we aren't in this alone. Recovery is not a do-it...

jc2008 · jc2008

I grew up in a family of half-hearted Lutherans. We seldom went to church, and never talked about God. So it feels foreign to me to hear people talk about God or a higher power. I wonder sometimes, if one isn't raised to believe in God, can one come to it later in life? Over the past several years I've atte...

jonijoni · jonijoni

Here is the link if anyone is interested in attending Founder's Day in Akron, OH this year: http://shop.aafoundersday.org/ ...it is June 6th - 8th this year. Joni

lani · lani

Who is to Blame At Step four we resolutely looked for our own mistakes. Where had we been selfish, dishonest, self-seeking and frightened? Though a given situation had not been entirely our fault, we often tried to cast the whole blame on the other person involved. We finally saw that the inventory sh...

Phil · Phil

And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing, or situation, some fact of my life, unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be...

Doll · Doll

OVERCOMING SELF-WILL So our troubles, we think, are basically of our own making. They arise out of ourselves, and the alcoholic is an extreme example of self-will run riot, though he usually doesn't think so. Above everything, we alcoholics must be rid of this selfishness. We must, or it kills us! AL...

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

A.A. Thought for the Day After we've made a surrender, the drink problem is out of our hands and in the hands of God. The thing we have to do is to be sure that we never reach out and take the problem back into our own hands. Leave it in God's hands. Whenever I'm tempted to tak...

Doll · Doll

ONE A.A. MIRACLE Save for the brief moments of temptation the thought of drink has never returned; and at such times a great revulsion has risen up in him. Seemingly he could not drink even if he would. God had restored his sanity. Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 37 The word "God" was fr...

Quetzal · Quetzal

While driving one day, a woman's attention focused on the license plate of the car ahead. The license read: B WHO UR. How can I? she thought. I don't know who I am! Some of us may have felt confused when people encouraged us to be ourselves. How could we know ourselves, or be who we are, when, for years, ma...

Tina · Tina

Just thought I'd drop in and say hi let you I'm doing fine, and the kids are well. Settin things up for my son to get back into school, and well next month will be 1 year for him beening clean of meth. i'm proud,,,,,. Daughter got 71.5 % on first semistier and well one day at a time. Bye now and check in soon. T...

jc2008 · jc2008

I can't believe I've made it this far. One week without drinking. I owe a lot to all of you here, and to the people from meetings who have given me their numbers. I've called someone every day. I've wanted to drink every day. It's only been the past two or three days that I haven't felt sick. The fact that i...

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

This is a video of a fellow on Oprah, who is dying. Very powerful messages in it. http://video.stumbleupon.com/#p=ithct48cqw

lani · lani

We Cannot stand still In the first days of A.A.. I wasn't much bothered about the areas of my life in which I was standing still. There was always the alibi: "After all," I said to myself, "Im far too busy with much more important matters." That was my near perfect prescription for...

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

A.A. Thought for the Day Over a period of drinking years, we've proved to ourselves and to everybody else that we can't stop drinking by our own will power. We have been proved helpless before the power of alcohol. So the only way we could stop drinking was by turning to...

lani · lani

True ambition-and False We have had a much keener look at ourselves and those about us. We have seen that we were prodded by unreasonable fears or anxieties into making a life business of winning fame, money, and what we thought was leadership. So false pride became the reverse side of that ruinous coi...

Doll · Doll

HOPE Do not be discouraged. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 60 Few experiences are of less value to me than fast sobriety. Too many times discouragement has been the bonus for unrealistic expectations, not to mention self-pity or fatigue from my wanting to change the world by the weekend. Discouragement...

Quetzal · Quetzal

I'm furious about my job. Another man got a promotion that I believe I deserve. I'm so mad I feel like quitting. Now my wife says I should deal with my feelings. What good will that do? He still got the promotion. -- Anonymous Our feelings at work are as important as our feelings in any other area of our li...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We go back and back and back...through the layers of fear, shame, rage, hurt, and negative incantations until we discover the exuberant, unencumbered, delightful, and lovable child that was, and still is, in us. -- Beyond Codependency You are lovable. Yes, you. Just because people haven't be...

Dave Harm · Dave Harm

I am a grateful alcoholic. Early in my recovery my HP gave me a therapist who was truly a "gift from above." She understood the power of the 12 steps and kept drilling it into my head that sobriety could never last without a strong foundation with the first three steps. And through almost a yea...

ChicknLittle · ChicknLittle

Hey y'all, The night I got my birds, I broke my computer... well, the power cord... I was lunging after my cat who was going after my birds, and I pulled the cord out of the computer, something messed up in the cord. I have 2 desktop computers I tried to get working, both are screwed up. So I've been goin...

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

A.A. Thought for the Day When I find myself thinking about taking a drink, I say to myself: "Don't reach out and take that problem back. You've given it to God and there's nothing you can do about it." So I forget about the drink. One of the most important part...

Quetzal · Quetzal

In recovery, we often discuss anger objectively. Yes, we reason, it's an emotion we're all prone to experience. Yes, the goal in recovery is to be free of resentment and anger. Yes, it's okay to feel angry, we agree. Well, maybe . . . . Anger is a powerful and sometimes frightening emotion. It's also a...

Nisha · Nisha

So its the 7th day, and also a friday.I have got 2 days ahead of me for myself, I have two choices: I carry work home, and pretend I am still in office and two, I sit in my own silence fighting the battle of refusing the drink.Cannot think of a third option at the moment.Perhaps it will come to me once I realise...

Doll · Doll

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose. Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled thre...

alev430 · alev430

This is my first time here. I looked for a message board like this and signed up promptly because I'm worried about tonight. I'm at a major party school and the main reason I came here honestly was because I knew there would be oceans of alcohol. I was right. I've made many friends (or at least a lot of dru...

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

A.A. Thought for the Day Getting sober was a long and painful journey, but we can truthfully say it was worth it. We know now that all we've been through led us to A.A. and was part of our spiritual journey. We found in A.A. what we had been vainly seeking in the bottle. We'...

jc2008 · jc2008

One minute I'm up, the next I'm down. Last night on the drive home (when I often used to drink, I'm ashamed to admit), I started feeling a lot of negative stuff. I was angry at my husband: after all, if he hadn't been such a meddler about my drinking, I wouldn't have been forced to hide it, right? It's no...

lani · lani

"Most of us thought good character was desirable. Obviously, good character was something one needed to get on with the business of being self-satisfied. Without a proper display of honesty and morality, we'd stand a better chance of getting what we really wanted. But whenever we had to choos...

Nisha · Nisha

Today is my first day at work after the turmoil.Am feeling little shaky.Pressing deadlines,my own nerves not just right, a big uncertain future.I tried not to think about negative things and about HIM last night when I reached home. But couldn't help remembering the time I had, felt lumps in my heart...

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

A.A. Thought for the Day We should be free from alcohol for good. It's out of our hands and in the hands of God, so we don't need to worry about it or even think about it any more. But if we haven't done this honestly and fully, the chances are that it will become our problem a...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Thankyou all for the love, patience & forbearance you reciprocated to my wanting to run around in the boundaries. There were thoughts of 'I'm not an alcoholic.. well I might not be.. I won't know unless I try.. I'm sure I could drink differently now.. I can be normal' yadda & so forth but really...

Doll · Doll

WHAT? NO PRESIDENT? When told that our Society has no president having authority to govern it, no treasurer who can compel the payment of any dues. . . . our friends gasp and exclaim, "This simply can't be . . ." TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 132 When I finally made my way to A.A., I cou...

Quetzal · Quetzal

We are slow to believe that which, if believed, would hurt our feelings. -- Ovid Most of us in recovery have engaged in denial from time to time. Some of us relied on this tool. We may have denied events or feelings from our past. We may have denied other people's problems; we may have denied our own pr...

ron70062 · ron70062

Hi everyone. Just popping in to say Im still sober. I have to be honest though, I havent been to a meeting since before Christmas. Didnt help that I was in a bad car wreck 2 week's before Christmas and destroyed my truck, (not my fault..gave me a good reason to fly to Houston and buy that 4Runner sport Ive be...

eastcoastscott · eastcoastscott

A.A. Thought for the Day When we came into A.A., the first thing we did was to admit that we couldn't do anything about our drinking. We admitted that alcohol had us licked and that we were helpless against it. We never could decide whether or not to take a drink. We alway...

Doll · Doll

A UNIQUE STABILITY Where does A.A. get its direction? . . . These practical folk then read Tradition Two, and learn that the sole authority in A.A. is a loving God as He may express Himself in the group conscience. . . The elder statesman is the one who sees the wisdom of the group's decision, who holds no r...

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	24 Hours a day - March 6 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day In A.A. we must surrender, give up, admit that we're helpless. We surrender our lives to God and ask Him for help. When He knows that we're ready, He gives us by His grace the free gift of sobriety. And we can't take any credit for having stopped dr...	eastcoastscott	0	349	Mar 6, 2008 by eastcoastscott
	Peace (Preview) Anxiety is often our first reaction to conflict, problems, or even our own fears. In those moments, detaching and getting peaceful may seem disloyal or apathetic. We think: If I really care, I'll worry; if this is really important to me, I must stay upset. We convince ourselves that outcomes will be p...	Quetzal	1	429	Mar 6, 2008 by Phil
	Should I tell her (Preview) I'm a bit tortured tonight. Simple really. My Mom 79 recently had a new hip 10 days ago. She has been in debilitating pain for about five years and it finally brought her to a stop and the conclusion that either no pain or death were her only options. For her it was a couragous option to try the surgery. We al...	Tuggboat	7	460	Mar 6, 2008 by Doll
	The Idea Of Faith - Daily Reflections - 3/6 (Preview) THE IDEA OF FAITH Do not let any prejudice you might have against spiritual terms deter you from honestly asking yourself what they mean to you. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 47 The idea of faith is a very large chunk to swallow when fear, doubt and anger abound in and around me. Sometimes just the idea of doi...	Doll	0	270	Mar 6, 2008 by Doll
	Be Who You Are (Preview) When I meet people or get in a new relationship, I start putting all these repressive restrictions on myself. I can't have my feelings. Can't have my wants and needs. Can't have my history. Can't do the things I want, feel the feelings I'm feeling, or say what I need to say. I turn into this repressed, per...	Quetzal	10	474	Mar 5, 2008 by StPeteDean
	24 Hours a day - March 5 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day Sometimes we try too hard to get this program. It is better to relax and accept it. It will be given to us, with no effort on our part, if we stop trying too hard to get it. Sobriety can be a free gift of God, which He gives us by His grace when He knows we...	eastcoastscott	0	1178	Mar 5, 2008 by eastcoastscott
	Weeding the Garden - Daily Reflections - 3/4 (Preview) WEEDING THE GARDEN The essence of all growth is a willingness to make a change for the better and then an unremitting willingness to shoulder whatever responsibility this entails. AS BILL SEES IT, p. 115 By the time I had reached Step Three I had been freed of my dependence on alcohol, but bitter experi...	Doll	1	343	Mar 5, 2008 by Phil
	A Lifelong Task - Daily Reflections - 3/5 (Preview) A LIFELONG TASK "But just how, in these circumstances, does a fellow 'take it easy?' That's what I want to know." TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 26 I was never known for my patience. How many times have I asked, "Why should I wait, when I can have it all right now?" Indeed, w...	Doll	0	299	Mar 5, 2008 by Doll
	New Guy here, wanted to introduce myself (Preview) Hi all, Ive spent several hours reading the entire forum. There is a lot of good advice out there everyone here seems very supportive and open. To tell you a little about myself I am a 26 year old white male living in the sunshine state. I'm a college grad and have a decent job. This past friday night I had a m...	Pse2313	14	857	Mar 5, 2008 by TenderheartsKS
	feeling very conflicted (Preview) I may have mentioned this, but I moved with my family to Florida from up north several months ago. I left behind a therapist who I had grown to trust. She was helping me deal with some terrible childhood abuse at the hands of my father (I won't elaborate in order to spare anyone who has gone through somethi...	jc2008	10	552	Mar 5, 2008 by TenderheartsKS
	Feeling Low (Preview) I virtually did nothing over the weekend.Just slept off the whole day yesterday and today.I am on anti-depressant since last 4 days. It does make me go to sleep.But also leaves a feeling of lethargy for the next day.Needless to say I didn't do any work at home, all those files that I brought home stood st...	Nisha	9	567	Mar 5, 2008 by Sobrietyspell
	Good Video I found... Ya might enjoy watching it. (Preview) -- Edited by John at 03:12, 2008-03-04	John	3	432	Mar 4, 2008 by StPeteDean
	24 Hours a day - March 4 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day Having surrendered our lives to God and put our drink problem in His hands doesn't mean that we'll never be tempted to drink. So we must build up strength for the time when temptation will come. In this quiet time, we read and pray and get our min...	eastcoastscott	0	1436	Mar 4, 2008 by eastcoastscott
	Observations from a family wedding (Preview) While attending the wedding of my wife's neice yesterday I expereinced a range of emotions, of mostly the unpredictable kind. Along with the thoughts of wonder if this young marriage (I think they are 22, and 24) will last were thoughts of my expereinces past and oddly a culmination of feelings abou...	StPeteDean	13	716	Mar 4, 2008 by StPeteDean
	Higher Power as a Source (Preview) I've learned I can take care of myself, and what I can't do, God will do for me. -- Al-Anon member God, a Higher Power as we understand Him, is our source of guidance and positive change. This doesn't mean we're not responsible for ourselves. We are. But we aren't in this alone. Recovery is not a do-it...	Quetzal	0	364	Mar 4, 2008 by Quetzal
	made it through the weekend (Preview) I grew up in a family of half-hearted Lutherans. We seldom went to church, and never talked about God. So it feels foreign to me to hear people talk about God or a higher power. I wonder sometimes, if one isn't raised to believe in God, can one come to it later in life? Over the past several years I've atte...	jc2008	11	548	Mar 4, 2008 by Sept_19_2002
	FOUNDER'S DAY!!! (Preview) Here is the link if anyone is interested in attending Founder's Day in Akron, OH this year: http://shop.aafoundersday.org/ ...it is June 6th - 8th this year. Joni	jonijoni	0	298	Mar 3, 2008 by jonijoni
	As Bill see's it (Preview) Who is to Blame At Step four we resolutely looked for our own mistakes. Where had we been selfish, dishonest, self-seeking and frightened? Though a given situation had not been entirely our fault, we often tried to cast the whole blame on the other person involved. We finally saw that the inventory sh...	lani	0	532	Mar 3, 2008 by lani
	Acceptance (Preview) And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing, or situation, some fact of my life, unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be...	Phil	5	449	Mar 3, 2008 by Sobrietyspell
	Overcoming Self-Will - Daily Reflections - 3/3 (Preview) OVERCOMING SELF-WILL So our troubles, we think, are basically of our own making. They arise out of ourselves, and the alcoholic is an extreme example of self-will run riot, though he usually doesn't think so. Above everything, we alcoholics must be rid of this selfishness. We must, or it kills us! AL...	Doll	0	369	Mar 3, 2008 by Doll
	24 Hours a day - March 3 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day After we've made a surrender, the drink problem is out of our hands and in the hands of God. The thing we have to do is to be sure that we never reach out and take the problem back into our own hands. Leave it in God's hands. Whenever I'm tempted to tak...	eastcoastscott	0	709	Mar 3, 2008 by eastcoastscott
	One AA Miracle - Daily Reflections - 2/29/08 (Preview) ONE A.A. MIRACLE Save for the brief moments of temptation the thought of drink has never returned; and at such times a great revulsion has risen up in him. Seemingly he could not drink even if he would. God had restored his sanity. Alcoholics Anonymous, p. 37 The word "God" was fr...	Doll	4	500	Mar 3, 2008 by Quetzal
	Accepting Ourselves (Preview) While driving one day, a woman's attention focused on the license plate of the car ahead. The license read: B WHO UR. How can I? she thought. I don't know who I am! Some of us may have felt confused when people encouraged us to be ourselves. How could we know ourselves, or be who we are, when, for years, ma...	Quetzal	0	313	Mar 3, 2008 by Quetzal
	It's been a while (Preview) Just thought I'd drop in and say hi let you I'm doing fine, and the kids are well. Settin things up for my son to get back into school, and well next month will be 1 year for him beening clean of meth. i'm proud,,,,,. Daughter got 71.5 % on first semistier and well one day at a time. Bye now and check in soon. T...	Tina	4	397	Mar 2, 2008 by Sobrietyspell
	One week! (Preview) I can't believe I've made it this far. One week without drinking. I owe a lot to all of you here, and to the people from meetings who have given me their numbers. I've called someone every day. I've wanted to drink every day. It's only been the past two or three days that I haven't felt sick. The fact that i...	jc2008	16	700	Mar 2, 2008 by Sobrietyspell
	Wow, this is heavy.... (Preview) This is a video of a fellow on Oprah, who is dying. Very powerful messages in it. http://video.stumbleupon.com/#p=ithct48cqw	eastcoastscott	7	600	Mar 2, 2008 by Sobrietyspell
	As Bill see's it (Preview) We Cannot stand still In the first days of A.A.. I wasn't much bothered about the areas of my life in which I was standing still. There was always the alibi: "After all," I said to myself, "Im far too busy with much more important matters." That was my near perfect prescription for...	lani	8	502	Mar 2, 2008 by Tuggboat
	24 Hours a day - March 2 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day Over a period of drinking years, we've proved to ourselves and to everybody else that we can't stop drinking by our own will power. We have been proved helpless before the power of alcohol. So the only way we could stop drinking was by turning to...	eastcoastscott	1	454	Mar 2, 2008 by lani
	As Bill see's it (Preview) True ambition-and False We have had a much keener look at ourselves and those about us. We have seen that we were prodded by unreasonable fears or anxieties into making a life business of winning fame, money, and what we thought was leadership. So false pride became the reverse side of that ruinous coi...	lani	0	321	Mar 2, 2008 by lani
	HOPE - Daily Reflections - 3/2 (Preview) HOPE Do not be discouraged. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 60 Few experiences are of less value to me than fast sobriety. Too many times discouragement has been the bonus for unrealistic expectations, not to mention self-pity or fatigue from my wanting to change the world by the weekend. Discouragement...	Doll	1	288	Mar 2, 2008 by lani
	Feelings about the Job (Preview) I'm furious about my job. Another man got a promotion that I believe I deserve. I'm so mad I feel like quitting. Now my wife says I should deal with my feelings. What good will that do? He still got the promotion. -- Anonymous Our feelings at work are as important as our feelings in any other area of our li...	Quetzal	0	320	Mar 2, 2008 by Quetzal
	You Are Lovable (Preview) We go back and back and back...through the layers of fear, shame, rage, hurt, and negative incantations until we discover the exuberant, unencumbered, delightful, and lovable child that was, and still is, in us. -- Beyond Codependency You are lovable. Yes, you. Just because people haven't be...	Quetzal	4	397	Mar 1, 2008 by Tuggboat
	The Power of the 3rd Step Prayer (Preview) I am a grateful alcoholic. Early in my recovery my HP gave me a therapist who was truly a "gift from above." She understood the power of the 12 steps and kept drilling it into my head that sobriety could never last without a strong foundation with the first three steps. And through almost a yea...	Dave Harm	1	919	Mar 1, 2008 by Tuggboat
	My computer's broken still (Preview) Hey y'all, The night I got my birds, I broke my computer... well, the power cord... I was lunging after my cat who was going after my birds, and I pulled the cord out of the computer, something messed up in the cord. I have 2 desktop computers I tried to get working, both are screwed up. So I've been goin...	ChicknLittle	0	297	Mar 1, 2008 by ChicknLittle
	24 Hours a day - March 1 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day When I find myself thinking about taking a drink, I say to myself: "Don't reach out and take that problem back. You've given it to God and there's nothing you can do about it." So I forget about the drink. One of the most important part...	eastcoastscott	1	397	Mar 1, 2008 by lani
	Letting Go of Anger (Preview) In recovery, we often discuss anger objectively. Yes, we reason, it's an emotion we're all prone to experience. Yes, the goal in recovery is to be free of resentment and anger. Yes, it's okay to feel angry, we agree. Well, maybe . . . . Anger is a powerful and sometimes frightening emotion. It's also a...	Quetzal	1	358	Mar 1, 2008 by Phil
	Day 7 (Preview) So its the 7th day, and also a friday.I have got 2 days ahead of me for myself, I have two choices: I carry work home, and pretend I am still in office and two, I sit in my own silence fighting the battle of refusing the drink.Cannot think of a third option at the moment.Perhaps it will come to me once I realise...	Nisha	8	486	Mar 1, 2008 by Nisha
	Are you Coffee... (Preview) A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose. Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled thre...	Doll	3	359	Mar 1, 2008 by learning
	First Post--Struggling as a college student at a top party school (Preview) This is my first time here. I looked for a message board like this and signed up promptly because I'm worried about tonight. I'm at a major party school and the main reason I came here honestly was because I knew there would be oceans of alcohol. I was right. I've made many friends (or at least a lot of dru...	alev430	11	742	Mar 1, 2008 by learning
	24 Hours a day - Feb 29 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day Getting sober was a long and painful journey, but we can truthfully say it was worth it. We know now that all we've been through led us to A.A. and was part of our spiritual journey. We found in A.A. what we had been vainly seeking in the bottle. We'...	eastcoastscott	0	293	Feb 29, 2008 by eastcoastscott
	roller coaster (Preview) One minute I'm up, the next I'm down. Last night on the drive home (when I often used to drink, I'm ashamed to admit), I started feeling a lot of negative stuff. I was angry at my husband: after all, if he hadn't been such a meddler about my drinking, I wouldn't have been forced to hide it, right? It's no...	jc2008	9	529	Feb 29, 2008 by Quetzal
	As Bill see's it (Preview) "Most of us thought good character was desirable. Obviously, good character was something one needed to get on with the business of being self-satisfied. Without a proper display of honesty and morality, we'd stand a better chance of getting what we really wanted. But whenever we had to choos...	lani	1	312	Feb 29, 2008 by jonijoni
	Letter to a Member After Returning back from Hell (Preview) Today is my first day at work after the turmoil.Am feeling little shaky.Pressing deadlines,my own nerves not just right, a big uncertain future.I tried not to think about negative things and about HIM last night when I reached home. But couldn't help remembering the time I had, felt lumps in my heart...	Nisha	6	472	Feb 29, 2008 by Nisha
	24 Hours a day - Feb 28 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day We should be free from alcohol for good. It's out of our hands and in the hands of God, so we don't need to worry about it or even think about it any more. But if we haven't done this honestly and fully, the chances are that it will become our problem a...	eastcoastscott	1	267	Feb 28, 2008 by lani
	The Petulant One Returneth (Preview) Thankyou all for the love, patience & forbearance you reciprocated to my wanting to run around in the boundaries. There were thoughts of 'I'm not an alcoholic.. well I might not be.. I won't know unless I try.. I'm sure I could drink differently now.. I can be normal' yadda & so forth but really...	Sobrietyspell	14	604	Feb 28, 2008 by lani
	Daily Reflections 2/28 (Preview) WHAT? NO PRESIDENT? When told that our Society has no president having authority to govern it, no treasurer who can compel the payment of any dues. . . . our friends gasp and exclaim, "This simply can't be . . ." TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 132 When I finally made my way to A.A., I cou...	Doll	0	314	Feb 28, 2008 by Doll
	Letting Go of Denial (Preview) We are slow to believe that which, if believed, would hurt our feelings. -- Ovid Most of us in recovery have engaged in denial from time to time. Some of us relied on this tool. We may have denied events or feelings from our past. We may have denied other people's problems; we may have denied our own pr...	Quetzal	0	292	Feb 28, 2008 by Quetzal
	Still sober (Preview) Hi everyone. Just popping in to say Im still sober. I have to be honest though, I havent been to a meeting since before Christmas. Didnt help that I was in a bad car wreck 2 week's before Christmas and destroyed my truck, (not my fault..gave me a good reason to fly to Houston and buy that 4Runner sport Ive be...	ron70062	21	667	Feb 27, 2008 by Tuggboat
	24 Hours a day - Feb 27 (Preview) A.A. Thought for the Day When we came into A.A., the first thing we did was to admit that we couldn't do anything about our drinking. We admitted that alcohol had us licked and that we were helpless against it. We never could decide whether or not to take a drink. We alway...	eastcoastscott	0	1738	Feb 27, 2008 by eastcoastscott
	A Unique Stability -- Daily Reflections - 2/27 (Preview) A UNIQUE STABILITY Where does A.A. get its direction? . . . These practical folk then read Tradition Two, and learn that the sole authority in A.A. is a loving God as He may express Himself in the group conscience. . . The elder statesman is the one who sees the wisdom of the group's decision, who holds no r...	Doll	0	358	Feb 27, 2008 by Doll
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