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As We See It
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"As We See It"March 11 Thanks to Walt for this morning's AWSI: For me insanity was not just doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results . . . . My experience with insanity is that I did the same things over and over again, KNOWING I was going to get the same result! Toda...
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Truth, the Liberator
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As Bill Sees It Truth, the Liberator, p. 70 How truth makes us free is something that we A.A.'s can well understand. It cut the shackles that once bound us to alcohol. It continues to release us from conflicts and miseries beyond reckoning; it banishes fear and isolation. The unity of our Fellowship, t...
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Letting Go of Confusion
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Sometimes, the way is not clear.
Our minds get clouded, confused. We aren't certain what our next step should be, what it will look like, what direction we are headed.
This is the time to stop, ask for guidance, and rest. That is the time to let go of fear. Wait. Feel the confusion and chaos, and then l...
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Meditation courses?
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Have any of you heard of this place, or taken any of their classes? http://www.bkwsu.com If so, I'm curious as to how you find them. They have a location where I live. I've done the introductory (meditation) course and will continue on with the intermediate and advanced. scott
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Daily Reflections ~ Today, It's My Choice
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. . . we invariably find that at some time in the past we have made decisions based on self which later placed us in a position to be hurt. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p.62 With the realization and acceptance that I had played a part in the way my life had turned out came a dramatic change in my outlook. It was at th...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 10th March 09
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A.A. Thought for the Day We also strengthen our faith by working with other alcoholics and finding that we can do nothing ourselves to help them, except to tell them our own story of how we found the way out. If the other person is helped, it's by the grace of God and not by what we do or say. Our own faith is st...
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Pocket Sponsor
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Pocket Sponsor QuoteOne way to tell how well you are practicing the principles in all your affairs is to notice how you treat people who can be of no service to you. I go out of my way to be kind to the very next person I encounter, regardless of what they can or cannot do for me.
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I'm really confused.
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I posted to the other board by mistake. I'm having a really difficult time. I want to get through this but I really need a friend. I've lost most of my friends due to the addiction. I feel like it's taken my personality from me, like it's taken almost everything from me. I'm 28 and I can't hold down a job. I am...
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Giving Without Demand
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As Bill Sees It Giving Without Demand, p. 69 Watch any A.A. of six months working with a Twelfth Step prospect. If the newcomer says, "To the devil with you," the twelfth-stepper only smiles and finds another alcoholic to help. He doesn't feel frustrated or rejected. If his next drunk resp...
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Keys to Sobriety
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AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)March 10, 2009Keys to SobrietyThe Twelve Steps as a way of life,daily prayer, and continuing work with new peopleare the keys to sobriety.I have observed over the yearsthat a lot of people can come in and stay sober for a year or two,and then they go away...
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Living with Families
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I was forty-six years old before I finally admitted to myself and someone else that my grandfather always managed to make me feel guilty, angry, and controlled. -- Anonymous
We may love and care about our family very much. Family members may love and care about us. But interacting with some members...
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looking for a member to email and share with me
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i am 20 months sober and just finished my 4th step for the second time. i was sober 13 years ago for 6 years and went back out. i am looking for someone who has longer sobriety to help me through all this. i am in north cyprus right now and i am moving to the virgin islands at the end of the month. i really am looki...
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Taking Care of Ourselves
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We cannot simultaneously set a boundary and take care of another person's feelings. It's impossible; the two acts contradict.
What a tremendous asset to have compassion for others! How difficult that same quality can make it to set boundaries!
It's good to care about other people and their fee...
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Renew Your Effort
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As Bill Sees It Renew Your Effort, p. 68 "Though I know how hurt and sorry you must be after this slip, please do not worry about a temporary loss of your inner peace. As calmly as you can, just renew your effort in the A.A. program, especially those parts of it which have to do with meditation and self...
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Thousands of "Founders"
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As Bill Sees It Thousands of "Founders", p. 67 "While I thank God that I was privileged to be an early member of A.A., I honestly wish that the word 'founder' could be eliminated from the A.A. vocabulary. "When you get right down to it, everyone who has done any amount of successfu...
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Daily Reflections ~ Surrendering Self-Will
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Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 34 No matter how much one wishes to try, exactly how can one turn his own will and his own life over to the care of whatever God he thinks there is? In my search for the answer to thi...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 9th March 09
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A.A. Thought for the Day If we had absolute faith in the power of God to keep us from drinking and if we turned our drink problem entirely over to God without reservations, we wouldn't have to do anything more about it. We'd be free from drink once and for all. But since our faith is apt to be weak, we have to s...
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Fourth Dimension of Existence p.25
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Nobody got rocketed anywhere in the physical world until the 1960s. So, the writer in the 1930s who wrote we have been rocketed into a fourth dimension of existence wasnt referring to transportation, he was referring to transformation. It is easy for us who have seen men walk on the moon to miss that...
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Those who laugh - last
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March 9, 2009 Quote of the Week "Those who laugh - last." I remember hearing the phrase, "We are not a glum lot" when I was new in recovery - I didn't believe it. I mean, here I was sentenced to attending meetings, prohibited from partying, and forced to believe in God. Things loo...
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Advice
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Hello everyone, i'm new. I basically am after some advice, as I know I have a serious drink problem, and have made my families lives a living hell. I haven't plucked up the courage to visit a meeting, but I will do and very soon. I need to know if a meeting is going to help me.
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New member here...
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Hi, to everyone.. do not know where to exactly start but I let the stress of daily life get to me and I drink just about everyday, after work, but I have quit (11 days now)... I really dont crave a drink but I feel lonely and nervous. Boy I feel dumb writing this... but I do want to become free of the hab...
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Meeting- She questioned my faith.
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Went to Celebrate Recovery. Went to small group for chemical dependency. In the meeting we discussed our experience and I talked about how I had gone away from God after growing up in church. I talked about how I am finding my way back and rediscovering my faith. One of the girls inthe group spoke up...
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Sorry about last post
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My apologies for the comments on religion. I crossed a boundary by mistake and I am sincerely sorry.
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AA Thought for the Day
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AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net) March 9, 2009 Uncover, Recover, Discover I must look squarely at the unhappiness I have caused myself and others.By uncovering my emotional deformities,Step Four led me to discoverthat spiritual principles would solve my problems.- Anonymous T...
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Surrender
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Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God, as we understood Him. -- Step Three of Al-Anon
Surrendering to a Power greater than ourselves is how we become empowered.
We become empowered in a new, better, more effective way than we believed possible.
Doors open. Windows...
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Daily Reflections ~ Turning It Over
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Every man and woman who has joined A.A. and intends to stick has, without realizing it, made a beginning on Step Three. Isnt it true that in all matters touching upon alcohol, each of them has decided to turn his or her life over to the care, protection, and guidance of Alcoholics Anonymous? . . . Any will...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 8th March 09
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A.A. Thought for the Day We must go to A.A. meetings regularly. We must learn to think differently. We must change from alcoholic thinking to sober thinking. We must reeducate our minds. We must try to help other alcoholics. We must cooperate with God by spending at least as much time and energy on the A...
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Giving Back
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Just wanted to Drop in, I'm doing a little better today, little bit more energy!! For the past few months since September 2008, I've volunteer some of my time to The Heart and Stroke Foundation. And Enjoyed it with passion.... I volunteered to become a canvasser for the month of Febraury 2009, that in...
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Experience, Strength and Hope
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AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)~ Scroll down for share ~March 8, 2009Experience, Strength and HopeThe people in the rooms understood exactly how I was,and accepted me anyway, defects and all.They are teaching me how to relate to reality without the bottle.My first drink was deadly...
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The flu wants me to drink
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I'm on day 5 of the flu and I feel like crap, my head hurts, I'm nauseous, achy and sore. I'm grumpy and as miserable to be around as a rabid badger. All I want to do is crawl into a hole and bite anyone who bothers me. This is exactly how I used to feel after a big bender when I was seriously hungover. For som...
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Just sharing
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Hi everyone,
I have just got back from a fantastic meeting held at a half-way house. Oh boy, did it ever remind me just how far I have come in AA and of all of the things that I have to be grateful for. There were people there who were shaking so bad through alcohol and/or drug withdrawal; people who keep tr...
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Does anyone believe that an alcoholic is always an alcoholic.
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Hi, There is an saying in AA meetings and from others that an alcoholic is always an alcoholic?.
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Glad Ive found you
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I have not been diagnosed as an alcoholic but have certainly got a problem, I started drinking heavily three years ago . Prior to that I would drink regularly but never every day. During the week I only ever drink on an evening, and any times at weekend but usually again on a evening. I have recently gone 9...
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Resentment
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I went back to my home group last night for the first time since my relapse, and that was really, really tough. I was so full of resentment and fear I wanted to RUN the hell out. It meets three nights a week, and I think I am going to trim my attendance down to 1 night a week (Monday night, the 12/12, the quiet...
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Fulfillment
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Everything I need shall be provided today. Everything. Say it, until you believe it. Say it at the beginning of the day. Say it throughout the day.
Sometimes, it helps to know what we want and need. But if we don't, we can trust that God does.
When we ask, trust, and believe that our needs will be met, o...
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A Selfish Program
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AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net)March 7, 2009A Selfish ProgramAA is often referred to as a selfish program, but it has nothing to do with being selfish in the traditional sense. In its original and most common usage it meansthat when we help others we are, in reality, helping ourselves...
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For Emergencies Only?
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As Bill Sees It Pg. 66 For Emergencies Only? Whether we had been believers or unbelievers, we began to get over the idea that the Higher Power was a sort of bush-league pinch hitter, to be called upon only in an emergency. The notion that we would still live our own lives, God helping a little now and then,...
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Hi just droppin in
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Hi all Just wanted to drop in and hope all is well with everyone. Things have been rough the last 2 weeks and I haven't been feeling the great either (Health wise). So I decided to go see my family Doctor. As it turns out I have to go get some blood work done, to find out what is making me feel so BLAH, Diebet...
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I must stop drinking today!
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I think I've hit the bottom. I feel lousy. I drink every night. I am destroying my family. I must stop drinking and reclaim my life. I hope i have the fortitude to do this. Tonight will be the first night in many months without booze. I hope I can take it day by day and end my drinking forever. Any suggestion...
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AA Thought for the Day
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AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net) March 6, 2009 WillingnessAlcohol is a formidable opponent: much stronger than we are when we're at our weakest! But with God's help, we can stand against it. When we are willing to do what we have to do to stay sober, we will stay sober! (Big Book, pp. 58-...
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As Bill Sees It
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As Bill Sees ItPg. 65 Growth By The Tenth Step In the years ahead A.A. will, of course, make mistakes. Experience has taught us that we need have no fear of doing this, providing that we always remain willing to admit our faults and to correct them promptly. Our growth as individuals has depended upon t...
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Daily Reflections ~ The Idea of Faith
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Do not let any prejudice you might have against spiritual terms deter you from honestly asking yourself what they mean to you. ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 47 The idea of faith is a very large chunk to swallow when fear, doubt and anger abound in and around me. Sometimes just the idea of doing something dif...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 6th March 09
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A.A. Thought for the Day In A.A. we must surrender, give up, admit that we're helpless. We surrender our lives to God and ask Him for help. When He knows that we're ready, He gives us by His grace the free gift of sobriety. And we can't take any credit for having stopped drinking, because we didn't do it by o...
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Peace
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Anxiety is often our first reaction to conflict, problems, or even our own fears. In those moments, detaching and getting peaceful may seem disloyal or apathetic. We think: If I really care, I'll worry; if this is really important to me, I must stay upset. We convince ourselves that outcomes will be p...
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Daily Reflections ~ A Lifelong Task
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But just how, in these circumstances, does a fellow take it easy? Thats what I want to know. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 26 I was never known for my patience. How many times have I asked, Why should I wait, when I can have it all right now? Indeed, when I was first presented the Twelve Steps, I was...
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24 Hrs a Day ~ 5th March 09
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A.A. Thought for the Day Sometimes we try too hard to get this program. It is better to relax and accept it. It will be given to us, with no effort on our part, if we stop trying too hard to get it. Sobriety can be a free gift of God, which He gives us by His grace when He knows we are ready for it. But we have to be re...
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Dealing with Disagreeable People
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Dealing with Disagreeable People has been brought up here a time or two and it can be a frequent topic of a couple of my friends. It also comes up pretty regularly in AA meetings I attend. The problems - dealing with disagreeable people. Whether they are spouses, ex-spouses, parents, siblings, nei...
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AA State Convention - Columbia, S.C. 4th-6th April 2009
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http://area62.org/area62/convention/09SC62Cflyer1.pdf-- Edited by Sobrietyspell at 22:41, 2009-03-04
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Denial
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AA Thought for the Day (courtesy AAOnline.net) March 5, 2009 Denial It's often said, "Denial is a symptom of the disease of alcoholism." Of course, it's one thing to deny being an alcoholic when one has never had a drink. It's an entirely different story when one denies it while wondering w...
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Iam facing the Liquor of Death
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Hi Iam Gary age 39. I started drinking from the age of 24yrs. At first it was just an half a glass of beer which sent me spinning , but it was not often it was once in 2-3 months at first. Then it became once in an month then twice , thrice in an month. It never really did borther me much that I will become an alcho...
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