Alcoholics Anonymous

dwallace_gm · dwallace_gm

hey all hung up on step 2. The back story. Born to a family with frequent drunken bar fights in the living room (kids included) strung out by 14 rehab at 17 A drunken, broke, emotionally bankrupt, disaster at 23 Surrendered worked the steps to the best of my ability, again and again, always had trouble wi...

MDC · MDC

Yep...it was ME! Pearl harbour, ME! 9-11, you guessed it, Mark! Did you burn your supper? me...Lover leave you? Who else??? Mark Caldwell. When did everyone's problems become my FAULT? Don't get me wrong, I AM more than willing to help people with their issues, but am I the "root cause&...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

The Missing Piece: The Spiritual Malady by Mike L., West Orange, NJ "Carry THIS Message" Group, West Orange, NJ From "The Doctor's Opinion" to the end of "More About Alcoholism" the Big Book discusses the first part of Step 1, which states, "We admitted we wer...

The Sword · The Sword

A much smaller meeting than normally, we had it in the kitchen around a big table. Maybe a dozen of us, and this meeting is usually 30-40+........ anyway, it was a really awesome meeting. I hadn't planned on going and 15 minutes before it started I just decided to go. So glad I did. My Christmas Miracle i...

soberjulie · soberjulie

Night Before Christmas - Big Book Style 'T'was the night before Christmas, we were all in the club,Enjoying a meeting, instead of a pub,The ashtrays were clean, and the coffee was made,The Big Books were out and we all had prayed.When out in the lot, there arose such a clatter,We all jumped up...

janet · janet

What do you do when you have some (2-3 yrs.) sobriety and then later... feel you are stuck? Things are going good, yet life is not all that. People are crazy, and YET you aren't all that either. Too often a relapse...once it has happened... you can never seem to get sobriety back? Question is: What do...

StPeteDean · StPeteDean

Got to cut out for a bit to play in the snow. There's no internets where I'm staying but I should get a chance to check in using the free wifi at the spa down the street. Happy new years in advance. Dean

soberjulie · soberjulie

sorry...this is a little late for a Christmas share, but it may come in handy for new years...or next monday or feb. 10....hehe, useful stuff for whenever. So, its copied and pasted from a blog called Mr. Sponsorpants. Check him out some time, remarkable stuff. Mr. SponsorPants Annual Holiday Su...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Second Reader for Alcoholics Anonymous(From Akron, Ohio - 1940)YOU HAVE BEEN a member of Alcoholics Anonymous for several weeks, Or is it several months? The bright, shining newness has started to dull just a little. The first glamorous flush of sobriety has started to wear off. There is, you know,...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

. . . . therefore the joy of good living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth Step. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 125 A.A. is a joyful program! Even so, I occasionally balk at taking the necessary steps to move ahead, and find myself resisting the very actions that could bring about the joy I want. I wou...

Kieran · Kieran

Hi all, reading the forum as general. i'am an alcoholic, and i am lost

msujmccorm · msujmccorm

Hello everyone. I am new to this program. Today is day 17. It hasn't been easy but with the help of about 24 meetings in the last 17 days, the message is starting to sink in. I have found a great "home" group where all the people seem to enjoy themselves and each other. The first meeting I expecte...

IsItPossible · IsItPossible

I can't imagine living without being able to "go out for drinks"...I know many have been there... I clicked on an intro post of another and gasped at the first words that I read as they mimicked my life... I'm a 30-something, divorced only child who's mother died in a single car accident...s...

nikki27 · nikki27

yes im new to this and Im only 3 months sober. It has been a long journey to get here though...I still havent made it to any AA meetings...but I am doing an outpatient program for treatment, i am almost done with that part and now its time to go out on my own like a bird just hatched from the egg of a drunk pool in...

johnphilip19 · johnphilip19

What is the difference between intentionally trying to kill yourself vs. the indifference to your own life? My opinion is that suicidal people are intent on killing themselves; indifferent people do things that are life threatening, value their own lives but do not seem to take the consequences o...

Toad · Toad

turninggrey · turninggrey

Hey All, Anyone remember "Mr Magoo's a Christmas Carol" with Jim Baccus as the voice of Mr Magoo? Alas..............The last time I watched this, I probably had on a pair of pajamas with feet in them!!! Its all good when you are sober!!! Tom

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

"Quite as important was the discovery that spiritual principles would solve all my problems." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 42 Through the recovery process described in the Big Book, I have come to realize that the same instructions that work on my alcoholism, work on much more. Whenever I a...

bob cobb · bob cobb

I am a mess. Somehow, in the past 2 years, I went from being a devoted father of two beautiful little girls with a great job and a big house and plenty of money to an divorced, unemployed, slobbering drunken piece of shit. Where once I used to look forward to an occasional night out with the boys and knocki...

runnergirl · runnergirl

Just wanted to offer a quick note of thanks to you all. What an amazing group of people really committed to helping others... While I've only been to a couple of AA meetings, I can see how the program really changes lives. I see the benefit of hearing other peoples' stories. Anyway, I wish I had more to o...

Jerry F · Jerry F

That's how Merry Christmas is said in the Hawaiian Island...We're sunny and bright with the sun in low winter azimuth which means that the evenings will be chilly to cold. Never mind telling me how cold it is where you are because the perception is a relative. Where ever you are at be grateful for the g...

Just Toni · Just Toni

Pretty sure I am speaking for each member here, and just wanted to wish you a VERY Merry Christmas, no matter what. Funny, I have on the inside thought of you like a breeze or a wind at times.....sometimes you blow in gently and say hi and then sort of like the Roadrunner.. Yep, just like that you are gone, b...

BGG · BGG

Hi MIP Family: I just wanted to share some experience, strength, & hope, particularly with those who are returning after a relapse. I was the speaker at a recent meeting and a fellow AA member I've known for over a decade came up to me after the meeting and said this: "I was at a meeting about a...

newcomer · newcomer

You've guessed it, I'm snowed in, almost an impossibility in Ireland, and unable to get to meetings, decisions I made while drinking are coming back to haunt me. I employed two people over a year in duration and they pretty much didn't do what they were supposed to, whose to blame? I blame me, but am now...

bikerbill · bikerbill

I've been reading of a man who's wife is so very hard to please when it comes to gifts. This guy is at his wit's end. I suggested that he maybe could find some improving reading on a life of gratitude for her (and then watch the sparks fly!). Sometimes I can be a smart arse. Anyway i found this on t'internet. i...

kld47 · kld47

Hello All A Very Merry Sober Christmas To One And All, or For Some Happy Holidays. Please Remember All Those Who Are Still Out There Suffering, and May They Find Hope And Comfort Soon--Be It With Family Or Friends That Care. Also Keep in Your Hearts and Prayers Those in The Armed Services Far From Home.

turninggrey · turninggrey

WOW. $1.99 bought the entire Big Book, 8 different meditations per day, prayers, promises, and a search function! How do they do that? Tom

bikerbill · bikerbill

I'm not in a comfortable place or a good frame of mind. I feel really upset and sort of kind of lacking in faith for the future. I've tried the gratitude list, I've tried the talking to God, I've tried the talking to people, I've tried listening for the answer and yet still I feel upset. So we're running up f...

John · John

To celebrate an alcoholic that doesn't drink is like applauding a cowboy with hemroids for not riding his horse. When the darn things hurt enough and he has tried every way possible to ride without pain, he will finally stay off the horse. For me it took alot of pain to finally get sober and stay off...

mikef · mikef

They'll never ever be any rum in the egg nog again and the chestnuts will be 'roasting" not on fire(as I blacked out)I will enjoy fellowship with my God,my family and my friends coherently!There will be gifts because I didnt spend the Christmas cash on the 'next one'.My wife will hold me and tell m...

Toad · Toad

Heres wishing you all whatever kind of Holiday you desire. My bride and I were invited to a daughters place for christmas. All expenses paid. We said no thank you we would like to spend a quiet Christmas at home. Then a few days later she wanted to come to our place. No thank you we would like to spend a qu...

Just Toni · Just Toni

Hi To All, Just wanted to say a very warm and happy holiday to all, old, young, sober and still not sober (just waiting for the Miracle) a wonderful, and love filled holiday, and for those that are still waiting for that Miracle, a Prayer for Miracle for you, today. Was just reading the " Post your B...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

This is indeed the kind of giving that actually demands nothing. He does not expect his brother sufferer to pay him, or even to love him. And then he discovers that by the divine paradox of this kind of giving he has found his own reward, whether his brother has yet received anything or not. TWELVE STEPS A...

leeu · leeu

My sister Esther K., a friend of Bill, is looking for Bill Dro---., who was a friend of Matty Kar---. in NYC (Living Now) around 82-89. Matty (now deceased) was heavily tattooed and he and Esther moved from NY to VA late 80s. If anyone knows of Bill. D., who was a contractor...in NY-NJ area, please ask him...

Thanks · Thanks

I have been sober for over a year and still suffering from the recovering alcoholics depression, if anything it is getting worse. To be honest I find everything boring since I stopped drinking and when it comes to the end of the working week instead of having drinks with work colleagues and friends I f...

Joseph · Joseph

This will be my 3RD attempt at permanent sobriety. First two times I tried to do it myself without telling anyone. Failed miserably. the drinking got worse and worse after each try. Yesterday had a close friend who doesn't drink come over and told him everything. He pledged to see me through this. Told...

angelov8 · angelov8

Hi everyone, Missed coming to MIP as often this month. For newcomers, YES, sobriety is great. I did my first sober roadtrip this weekend. Not like the roadtrips in the past and often depicted in the movies. In the past a out of town trip was often an anxiety filled occasion. Add family to that and you ha...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Happy Soberversary, Eileen if you'll get to see this!! lol Dean tells me we share our bellybutton birthdays! Brilliant lol And you share your Sobriety date with a couple of our Longtimers here too. Esp John! Anyhoop, I hope you're enjoying this very special 24hrs. I'm grateful for your sobriety t...

SUSIE · SUSIE

Morning all....just wanted to throw something out there. I went to a meeting yesterday and as always loved being there with everyone and seeing the joy in the room. There is a guy who in the past has been very serious and doesn't like to see alot of happy, joyous and free at the meetings. After a few spe...

laynee · laynee

hello- I KNOW THAT IM NOT IN THE RIGHT CHATROOM BUT I WOULD LIKE TO EXPRESS MY STORY. THIS IS IN HOPES THAT PEOPLE THINKING OR DEBATING TO PICK UP THAT FIRST OR EVEN THAT LAST DRINK. MY 31 YR OLD ABF PASSED AWAY THIS SUNDAY DUE TO COMPLICATIONS FROM ALCOHOL ABUSE. THIS WAS BECAUSE HE WASNT STRONG ENOUGH TO NO...

Sacrifice · Sacrifice

Since I finally decided to become sober and stay sober 01/15/08, I have had the best 2 years almost of my whole life it seems. Sure there were times in my life where I did not drink. I drank off and on just for fun in the beginning and settled down when I became pregnant and all was good for a while. I'm not sur...

runnergirl · runnergirl

I'm curious how many of you participated in a treatment program. After speaking with the alcohol counselor again, she recommends I do an outpatient program. (Keep in mind that she works for a treatment program and they recommend everyone that has a drinking problem participate in either an inpatie...

slugcat · slugcat

I am sorry for the strange i guess post. i want some advice or people opinions please if someone had been drinking beer most of the day, not completely trashed or blacked out, just enough to be a tiny bit drunk. But drinking beers all day and then something happened to stop that consumption, and they felt...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

The way our "worthy" alcoholics have sometimes tried to judge the "less worthy" is, as we look back on it, rather comical. Imagine, if you can, one alcoholic judging another! THE LANGUAGE OF THE HEART, p. 37 Who am I to judge anyone? When I first entered the Fellowship I found tha...

Sobrietyspell · Sobrietyspell

Congratulations, Buddy. I know there's a couple of hours to go at the time of this post but I'm going to bed & I was too excited for you not to post before I went! LOL I hope you'll stay & enjoy yourself with us awhile. Have a fantastic 24hrs. You've been sober longer than I've been alive. There's ho...

Dodsworth · Dodsworth

We are all familiar with "One Day at a Time", the message of staying sober in small increments. I used to scoff at that and perhaps I will in an hour or so. I was pacing around my apartment earlier today giving myself a pep talk. I'm in that all-too familiar place of being between a drink and a lif...

pinkchip · pinkchip

Passed on to me from grandsponsor...The blessing is I remember hearing this little poem last year. I think maybe on this board. T'was the night before Christmas When I went on a bender, Not a creature was stirring, not even a bartender. The empties were stacked by the chimney just fine, In hopes that S...

John · John

Hello Fellow members! The outpouring of cards being sent to the MIP recovery homes, for the residents in them is absolutely amazing! The guys are so touched by what you have done. Every time I walk into one of the homes, someone pulls me aside to share one of the cards they have recieved. These are not...

Aquaman · Aquaman

and didn't drink, have a 'close call' or an overpowering urge. The one craving I had was when I went looking for a water glass and all the glasses were at the wine bar. The bottles of wine didn't jump out & bite my hand, although I was scared that they might. I did, however, burn a swath of merciless sn...

Jerry F · Jerry F

Aloha AA fellows and fellowettes...The consequence of practice in new found or in this case old found knowledge and awareness which is so supportive to ones recovery from the disease and its effects. I remember in early program reading from inside the ODAAT daily reader the wisdom of Dr. Harry Tie...

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	12 years, relapse, step 2, need help (Preview) hey all hung up on step 2. The back story. Born to a family with frequent drunken bar fights in the living room (kids included) strung out by 14 rehab at 17 A drunken, broke, emotionally bankrupt, disaster at 23 Surrendered worked the steps to the best of my ability, again and again, always had trouble wi...	dwallace_gm	16	614	Dec 29, 2009 by jpmger
	I killed Lincoln (Preview) Yep...it was ME! Pearl harbour, ME! 9-11, you guessed it, Mark! Did you burn your supper? me...Lover leave you? Who else??? Mark Caldwell. When did everyone's problems become my FAULT? Don't get me wrong, I AM more than willing to help people with their issues, but am I the "root cause&...	MDC	10	554	Dec 29, 2009 by jpmger
	The Missing Piece ~ The Spiritual Malady (Preview) The Missing Piece: The Spiritual Malady by Mike L., West Orange, NJ "Carry THIS Message" Group, West Orange, NJ From "The Doctor's Opinion" to the end of "More About Alcoholism" the Big Book discusses the first part of Step 1, which states, "We admitted we wer...	Sobrietyspell	3	4132	Dec 29, 2009 by Just Toni
	Christmas Night Meeting - Wow! (Preview) A much smaller meeting than normally, we had it in the kitchen around a big table. Maybe a dozen of us, and this meeting is usually 30-40+........ anyway, it was a really awesome meeting. I hadn't planned on going and 15 minutes before it started I just decided to go. So glad I did. My Christmas Miracle i...	The Sword	2	1192	Dec 29, 2009 by Avril G
	The night before Christmas, Big Book style. (Preview) Night Before Christmas - Big Book Style 'T'was the night before Christmas, we were all in the club,Enjoying a meeting, instead of a pub,The ashtrays were clean, and the coffee was made,The Big Books were out and we all had prayed.When out in the lot, there arose such a clatter,We all jumped up...	soberjulie	12	3264	Dec 29, 2009 by StPeteDean
	When one gets stuck (Preview) What do you do when you have some (2-3 yrs.) sobriety and then later... feel you are stuck? Things are going good, yet life is not all that. People are crazy, and YET you aren't all that either. Too often a relapse...once it has happened... you can never seem to get sobriety back? Question is: What do...	janet	5	1236	Dec 29, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Going to Colorado tomorrow for a week of skiing. (Preview) Got to cut out for a bit to play in the snow. There's no internets where I'm staying but I should get a chance to check in using the free wifi at the spa down the street. Happy new years in advance. Dean	StPeteDean	7	766	Dec 29, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Holiday Survival Guide (Preview) sorry...this is a little late for a Christmas share, but it may come in handy for new years...or next monday or feb. 10....hehe, useful stuff for whenever. So, its copied and pasted from a blog called Mr. Sponsorpants. Check him out some time, remarkable stuff. Mr. SponsorPants Annual Holiday Su...	soberjulie	5	1179	Dec 29, 2009 by bikerbill
	AA Second Reader (Preview) Second Reader for Alcoholics Anonymous(From Akron, Ohio - 1940)YOU HAVE BEEN a member of Alcoholics Anonymous for several weeks, Or is it several months? The bright, shining newness has started to dull just a little. The first glamorous flush of sobriety has started to wear off. There is, you know,...	Sobrietyspell	1	791	Dec 28, 2009 by soberjulie
	Daily Reflections ~ The Joy of Living (Preview) . . . . therefore the joy of good living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth Step. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 125 A.A. is a joyful program! Even so, I occasionally balk at taking the necessary steps to move ahead, and find myself resisting the very actions that could bring about the joy I want. I wou...	Sobrietyspell	0	861	Dec 28, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Hello (Preview) Hi all, reading the forum as general. i'am an alcoholic, and i am lost	Kieran	12	1128	Dec 28, 2009 by carlasober
	New to all this. (Preview) Hello everyone. I am new to this program. Today is day 17. It hasn't been easy but with the help of about 24 meetings in the last 17 days, the message is starting to sink in. I have found a great "home" group where all the people seem to enjoy themselves and each other. The first meeting I expecte...	msujmccorm	12	922	Dec 28, 2009 by carlasober
	New...It's so obvious...but (Preview) I can't imagine living without being able to "go out for drinks"...I know many have been there... I clicked on an intro post of another and gasped at the first words that I read as they mimicked my life... I'm a 30-something, divorced only child who's mother died in a single car accident...s...	IsItPossible	14	1090	Dec 28, 2009 by carlasober
	New... (Preview) yes im new to this and Im only 3 months sober. It has been a long journey to get here though...I still havent made it to any AA meetings...but I am doing an outpatient program for treatment, i am almost done with that part and now its time to go out on my own like a bird just hatched from the egg of a drunk pool in...	nikki27	9	902	Dec 28, 2009 by carlasober
	Suicide concept? (Preview) What is the difference between intentionally trying to kill yourself vs. the indifference to your own life? My opinion is that suicidal people are intent on killing themselves; indifferent people do things that are life threatening, value their own lives but do not seem to take the consequences o...	johnphilip19	11	1109	Dec 28, 2009 by Reffner
	Oldie But Goodie (Preview)	Toad	6	789	Dec 28, 2009 by angelov8
	Sitting here watching Mr. Magoo........... (Preview) Hey All, Anyone remember "Mr Magoo's a Christmas Carol" with Jim Baccus as the voice of Mr Magoo? Alas..............The last time I watched this, I probably had on a pair of pajamas with feet in them!!! Its all good when you are sober!!! Tom	turninggrey	5	800	Dec 28, 2009 by angelov8
	Daily Reflections ~ Problem Solving & 24hrs a Day (Preview) "Quite as important was the discovery that spiritual principles would solve all my problems." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 42 Through the recovery process described in the Big Book, I have come to realize that the same instructions that work on my alcoholism, work on much more. Whenever I a...	Sobrietyspell	1	575	Dec 27, 2009 by Jerry F
	Hi folks, hope it's ok if I unburden myself here a bit. (Preview) I am a mess. Somehow, in the past 2 years, I went from being a devoted father of two beautiful little girls with a great job and a big house and plenty of money to an divorced, unemployed, slobbering drunken piece of shit. Where once I used to look forward to an occasional night out with the boys and knocki...	bob cobb	14	1359	Dec 27, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Quick note of thanks (Preview) Just wanted to offer a quick note of thanks to you all. What an amazing group of people really committed to helping others... While I've only been to a couple of AA meetings, I can see how the program really changes lives. I see the benefit of hearing other peoples' stories. Anyway, I wish I had more to o...	runnergirl	5	869	Dec 26, 2009 by kkotz401
	Mele Kalikimaka (Preview) That's how Merry Christmas is said in the Hawaiian Island...We're sunny and bright with the sun in low winter azimuth which means that the evenings will be chilly to cold. Never mind telling me how cold it is where you are because the perception is a relative. Where ever you are at be grateful for the g...	Jerry F	3	868	Dec 26, 2009 by leeu
	A Very Merry Christmas... TIPSY (Preview) Pretty sure I am speaking for each member here, and just wanted to wish you a VERY Merry Christmas, no matter what. Funny, I have on the inside thought of you like a breeze or a wind at times.....sometimes you blow in gently and say hi and then sort of like the Roadrunner.. Yep, just like that you are gone, b...	Just Toni	3	793	Dec 25, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Welcome Back to All Those Returning After Relapse (Preview) Hi MIP Family: I just wanted to share some experience, strength, & hope, particularly with those who are returning after a relapse. I was the speaker at a recent meeting and a fellow AA member I've known for over a decade came up to me after the meeting and said this: "I was at a meeting about a...	BGG	6	2825	Dec 25, 2009 by Just Toni
	Guys, I need to vent, (Preview) You've guessed it, I'm snowed in, almost an impossibility in Ireland, and unable to get to meetings, decisions I made while drinking are coming back to haunt me. I employed two people over a year in duration and they pretty much didn't do what they were supposed to, whose to blame? I blame me, but am now...	newcomer	7	1226	Dec 25, 2009 by pinkchip
	gratitude (Preview) I've been reading of a man who's wife is so very hard to please when it comes to gifts. This guy is at his wit's end. I suggested that he maybe could find some improving reading on a life of gratitude for her (and then watch the sparks fly!). Sometimes I can be a smart arse. Anyway i found this on t'internet. i...	bikerbill	4	905	Dec 25, 2009 by Jerry F
	Christmas Wishes (Preview) Hello All A Very Merry Sober Christmas To One And All, or For Some Happy Holidays. Please Remember All Those Who Are Still Out There Suffering, and May They Find Hope And Comfort Soon--Be It With Family Or Friends That Care. Also Keep in Your Hearts and Prayers Those in The Armed Services Far From Home.	kld47	1	720	Dec 24, 2009 by Jerry F
	One Day At A Time app for iphone! (Preview) WOW. $1.99 bought the entire Big Book, 8 different meditations per day, prayers, promises, and a search function! How do they do that? Tom	turninggrey	4	1844	Dec 24, 2009 by Just Toni
	I have to get this off my chest (Preview) I'm not in a comfortable place or a good frame of mind. I feel really upset and sort of kind of lacking in faith for the future. I've tried the gratitude list, I've tried the talking to God, I've tried the talking to people, I've tried listening for the answer and yet still I feel upset. So we're running up f...	bikerbill	18	1123	Dec 24, 2009 by bikerbill
	Still Amazed and Excited! 20 years later (Preview) To celebrate an alcoholic that doesn't drink is like applauding a cowboy with hemroids for not riding his horse. When the darn things hurt enough and he has tried every way possible to ride without pain, he will finally stay off the horse. For me it took alot of pain to finally get sober and stay off...	John	9	1182	Dec 23, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Merry Christmas family! (Preview) They'll never ever be any rum in the egg nog again and the chestnuts will be 'roasting" not on fire(as I blacked out)I will enjoy fellowship with my God,my family and my friends coherently!There will be gifts because I didnt spend the Christmas cash on the 'next one'.My wife will hold me and tell m...	mikef	7	845	Dec 23, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Holiday's (Preview) Heres wishing you all whatever kind of Holiday you desire. My bride and I were invited to a daughters place for christmas. All expenses paid. We said no thank you we would like to spend a quiet Christmas at home. Then a few days later she wanted to come to our place. No thank you we would like to spend a qu...	Toad	3	752	Dec 23, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Wish all of YOU, a very very Happy Holiday (Preview) Hi To All, Just wanted to say a very warm and happy holiday to all, old, young, sober and still not sober (just waiting for the Miracle) a wonderful, and love filled holiday, and for those that are still waiting for that Miracle, a Prayer for Miracle for you, today. Was just reading the " Post your B...	Just Toni	5	857	Dec 23, 2009 by Mike B.
	Daily Reflections - The Rewards of Giving (Preview) This is indeed the kind of giving that actually demands nothing. He does not expect his brother sufferer to pay him, or even to love him. And then he discovers that by the divine paradox of this kind of giving he has found his own reward, whether his brother has yet received anything or not. TWELVE STEPS A...	Sobrietyspell	0	703	Dec 22, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	Looking for friend of Matty K, NYC in the '80's (Preview) My sister Esther K., a friend of Bill, is looking for Bill Dro---., who was a friend of Matty Kar---. in NYC (Living Now) around 82-89. Matty (now deceased) was heavily tattooed and he and Esther moved from NY to VA late 80s. If anyone knows of Bill. D., who was a contractor...in NY-NJ area, please ask him...	leeu	0	590	Dec 22, 2009 by leeu
	Is This It? (Preview) I have been sober for over a year and still suffering from the recovering alcoholics depression, if anything it is getting worse. To be honest I find everything boring since I stopped drinking and when it comes to the end of the working week instead of having drinks with work colleagues and friends I f...	Thanks	11	1449	Dec 22, 2009 by Thanks
	3RD Times a Charm (Preview) This will be my 3RD attempt at permanent sobriety. First two times I tried to do it myself without telling anyone. Failed miserably. the drinking got worse and worse after each try. Yesterday had a close friend who doesn't drink come over and told him everything. He pledged to see me through this. Told...	Joseph	10	1157	Dec 22, 2009 by StPeteDean
	Back From Portland (Preview) Hi everyone, Missed coming to MIP as often this month. For newcomers, YES, sobriety is great. I did my first sober roadtrip this weekend. Not like the roadtrips in the past and often depicted in the movies. In the past a out of town trip was often an anxiety filled occasion. Add family to that and you ha...	angelov8	4	906	Dec 22, 2009 by Mike B.
	Thirty Four Years Sober Today ~ Dean's Mum!!! (Preview) Happy Soberversary, Eileen if you'll get to see this!! lol Dean tells me we share our bellybutton birthdays! Brilliant lol And you share your Sobriety date with a couple of our Longtimers here too. Esp John! Anyhoop, I hope you're enjoying this very special 24hrs. I'm grateful for your sobriety t...	Sobrietyspell	5	949	Dec 22, 2009 by Mike B.
	A angry AA person (Preview) Morning all....just wanted to throw something out there. I went to a meeting yesterday and as always loved being there with everyone and seeing the joy in the room. There is a guy who in the past has been very serious and doesn't like to see alot of happy, joyous and free at the meetings. After a few spe...	SUSIE	18	2005	Dec 22, 2009 by Avril G
	pls read my story..... from a non alcoholic (Preview) hello- I KNOW THAT IM NOT IN THE RIGHT CHATROOM BUT I WOULD LIKE TO EXPRESS MY STORY. THIS IS IN HOPES THAT PEOPLE THINKING OR DEBATING TO PICK UP THAT FIRST OR EVEN THAT LAST DRINK. MY 31 YR OLD ABF PASSED AWAY THIS SUNDAY DUE TO COMPLICATIONS FROM ALCOHOL ABUSE. THIS WAS BECAUSE HE WASNT STRONG ENOUGH TO NO...	laynee	10	812	Dec 22, 2009 by Avril G
	Sometime things just throw you for a loop (Preview) Since I finally decided to become sober and stay sober 01/15/08, I have had the best 2 years almost of my whole life it seems. Sure there were times in my life where I did not drink. I drank off and on just for fun in the beginning and settled down when I became pregnant and all was good for a while. I'm not sur...	Sacrifice	5	1080	Dec 22, 2009 by Avril G
	Outpatient, inpatient, or "just" AA (Preview) I'm curious how many of you participated in a treatment program. After speaking with the alcohol counselor again, she recommends I do an outpatient program. (Keep in mind that she works for a treatment program and they recommend everyone that has a drinking problem participate in either an inpatie...	runnergirl	9	1627	Dec 22, 2009 by Bob K
	experinence cravings (Preview) I am sorry for the strange i guess post. i want some advice or people opinions please if someone had been drinking beer most of the day, not completely trashed or blacked out, just enough to be a tiny bit drunk. But drinking beers all day and then something happened to stop that consumption, and they felt...	slugcat	14	1030	Dec 22, 2009 by johnphilip19
	Daily Reflections ~ Principles, Not Personalities & 24hrs a Day (Preview) The way our "worthy" alcoholics have sometimes tried to judge the "less worthy" is, as we look back on it, rather comical. Imagine, if you can, one alcoholic judging another! THE LANGUAGE OF THE HEART, p. 37 Who am I to judge anyone? When I first entered the Fellowship I found tha...	Sobrietyspell	0	705	Dec 21, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
	- UnkaBud - 35 Years Sobriety Today! - 12.21.09 - (Preview) Congratulations, Buddy. I know there's a couple of hours to go at the time of this post but I'm going to bed & I was too excited for you not to post before I went! LOL I hope you'll stay & enjoy yourself with us awhile. Have a fantastic 24hrs. You've been sober longer than I've been alive. There's ho...	Sobrietyspell	7	785	Dec 21, 2009 by unkabud
	A Lifetime/An Hour - (post is long and contains redundancy and boredom) (Preview) We are all familiar with "One Day at a Time", the message of staying sober in small increments. I used to scoff at that and perhaps I will in an hour or so. I was pacing around my apartment earlier today giving myself a pep talk. I'm in that all-too familiar place of being between a drink and a lif...	Dodsworth	15	1111	Dec 21, 2009 by Dodsworth
	12th step visit from Santa (Preview) Passed on to me from grandsponsor...The blessing is I remember hearing this little poem last year. I think maybe on this board. T'was the night before Christmas When I went on a bender, Not a creature was stirring, not even a bartender. The empties were stacked by the chimney just fine, In hopes that S...	pinkchip	4	847	Dec 20, 2009 by angelov8
	Holiday Amazement! - MIP Residents (Preview) Hello Fellow members! The outpouring of cards being sent to the MIP recovery homes, for the residents in them is absolutely amazing! The guys are so touched by what you have done. Every time I walk into one of the homes, someone pulls me aside to share one of the cards they have recieved. These are not...	John	1	713	Dec 20, 2009 by angelov8
	Went to a party tonight... (Preview) and didn't drink, have a 'close call' or an overpowering urge. The one craving I had was when I went looking for a water glass and all the glasses were at the wine bar. The bottles of wine didn't jump out & bite my hand, although I was scared that they might. I did, however, burn a swath of merciless sn...	Aquaman	8	1017	Dec 20, 2009 by angelov8
	old lesson revisited... (Preview) Aloha AA fellows and fellowettes...The consequence of practice in new found or in this case old found knowledge and awareness which is so supportive to ones recovery from the disease and its effects. I remember in early program reading from inside the ODAAT daily reader the wisdom of Dr. Harry Tie...	Jerry F	2	787	Dec 20, 2009 by Sobrietyspell
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