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first sober new yrs
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there was an aa...all sober new yrs eve party...i figured...well ill go. not like i have a ton of plans any how.....let me back up to ten am this morning. i woke up and immedietly remembered what day it was and broke into tears....every one says "oh its just another day"....but to a pathetic a...
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Have a Happy Friggin' New Year's Eve!
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For the first time in 28 years I will not do one or more of the following this evening... Drive with one eye closed. Forget where I left my car. Get in a fight. Embarass anyone with my WhiskeyWit. Spend $$$ and have no idea where it went. Get frostbite on my fingers smoking dope in an alley behind a bar. Wake...
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Sober New Years
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Another Sober New Year is about to begin for Many of us. Help all you can in everything you do. Play it safe and watch out for others. Wishing Everyone a Sober New Year--may it be as sober as the last and keep on being Sober for many years to come.
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Happy New Year
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Just rang in the New year an hour ago with my son, sober, felt great, and so positive, wishing you all the best.
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Daily Reflections ~ First, The Foundation & 24hrs a Day
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Is sobriety all that we can expect of a spiritual awakening? No, sobriety is only a bare beginning. As Bill Sees It, p. 8 Practicing the A.A. program is like building a house. First I had to pour a big, thick concrete slab on which to erect the house; that, to me, was the equivalent of stopping drinking....
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New here
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I'm sober now 6 days. I have read these sites many times and finally decided to post. This is my third attempt at sobriety. I have quit for 3 years and then almost 2 years. However this last time has been the worse. I started getting depressed when drinking. I did not think I was a big drinker, always red win...
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Still stuck with weather conditions
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Guys, almost lost it this afternoon, as I am still housebound due to weather conditions, getting paranoid, not working the steps, but rang my sponsor and another member and feel like I am getting back on track, need prayers, and am looking forward to a convention the weekend after next, but keeping i...
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Just Whining, really
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Hey Friends, I'm sick...and I don't do sick well. I think Biker Bill once called The Common Cold "Man Flu". I'm there. Worst part about it for me is that usually before I even know that I'm sick I get hit with a huge wave of depression or some other irrational emotion. Bad stuff. Well, I just got...
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New to the Forum and AA
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Okay. I am a 55 professional who has lived and worked as an expat in various countries for the past 15 years. Life is good, but alas a lot of the social life centers on dinner parties, cocktail parties, banquets, etc. The wine flows at just about any business or social event. Right now, I have become a p...
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Daily Reflections ~ Daily Resolutions & 24hrs a Day
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The idea of "twenty-four-hour" living applies primarily to the emotional life of the individual. Emotionally speaking, we must not live in yesterday, nor in tomorrow. As Bill Sees It, p. 284 A New year: 12 months, 52 weeks, 365 days, 8,760 hours, 525,600 minutes--a time to consider dire...
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Help me please
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Let me first say that through the help of the NA program I was able to stay clean off narcotics for 6 years, so I know the program works. My problem is that I started to drink 4 years ago, thinking I could handle it. Well I can't. I'm in college now and just finished my first semester with a 4.0gpa. My Uncle cam...
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Handed a drink.
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At another holiday party tonight. The host is a friend of ours and was trying to be kind... Gave my husband a really good beer and handed me a glass of a good red wine. I held on to it for while, then set it down on a table. Watched it the rest of the night, passed through the room and made sure it was still there...
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runnergirl
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12 years, relapse, step 2, need help
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hey all hung up on step 2. The back story. Born to a family with frequent drunken bar fights in the living room (kids included) strung out by 14 rehab at 17 A drunken, broke, emotionally bankrupt, disaster at 23 Surrendered worked the steps to the best of my ability, again and again, always had trouble wi...
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I killed Lincoln
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Yep...it was ME! Pearl harbour, ME! 9-11, you guessed it, Mark! Did you burn your supper? me...Lover leave you? Who else??? Mark Caldwell. When did everyone's problems become my FAULT? Don't get me wrong, I AM more than willing to help people with their issues, but am I the "root cause&...
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The Missing Piece ~ The Spiritual Malady
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The Missing Piece: The Spiritual Malady by Mike L., West Orange, NJ "Carry THIS Message" Group, West Orange, NJ From "The Doctor's Opinion" to the end of "More About Alcoholism" the Big Book discusses the first part of Step 1, which states, "We admitted we wer...
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Christmas Night Meeting - Wow!
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A much smaller meeting than normally, we had it in the kitchen around a big table. Maybe a dozen of us, and this meeting is usually 30-40+........ anyway, it was a really awesome meeting. I hadn't planned on going and 15 minutes before it started I just decided to go. So glad I did. My Christmas Miracle i...
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The Sword
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The night before Christmas, Big Book style.
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Night Before Christmas - Big Book Style 'T'was the night before Christmas, we were all in the club,Enjoying a meeting, instead of a pub,The ashtrays were clean, and the coffee was made,The Big Books were out and we all had prayed.When out in the lot, there arose such a clatter,We all jumped up...
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When one gets stuck
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What do you do when you have some (2-3 yrs.) sobriety and then later... feel you are stuck? Things are going good, yet life is not all that. People are crazy, and YET you aren't all that either. Too often a relapse...once it has happened... you can never seem to get sobriety back? Question is: What do...
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Going to Colorado tomorrow for a week of skiing.
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Got to cut out for a bit to play in the snow. There's no internets where I'm staying but I should get a chance to check in using the free wifi at the spa down the street. Happy new years in advance. Dean
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Holiday Survival Guide
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sorry...this is a little late for a Christmas share, but it may come in handy for new years...or next monday or feb. 10....hehe, useful stuff for whenever. So, its copied and pasted from a blog called Mr. Sponsorpants. Check him out some time, remarkable stuff. Mr. SponsorPants Annual Holiday Su...
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AA Second Reader
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Second Reader for Alcoholics Anonymous(From Akron, Ohio - 1940)YOU HAVE BEEN a member of Alcoholics Anonymous for several weeks, Or is it several months? The bright, shining newness has started to dull just a little. The first glamorous flush of sobriety has started to wear off. There is, you know,...
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Daily Reflections ~ The Joy of Living
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. . . . therefore the joy of good living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth Step. TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p. 125 A.A. is a joyful program! Even so, I occasionally balk at taking the necessary steps to move ahead, and find myself resisting the very actions that could bring about the joy I want. I wou...
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Hello
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Hi all, reading the forum as general. i'am an alcoholic, and i am lost
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New to all this.
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Hello everyone. I am new to this program. Today is day 17. It hasn't been easy but with the help of about 24 meetings in the last 17 days, the message is starting to sink in. I have found a great "home" group where all the people seem to enjoy themselves and each other. The first meeting I expecte...
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New...It's so obvious...but
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I can't imagine living without being able to "go out for drinks"...I know many have been there... I clicked on an intro post of another and gasped at the first words that I read as they mimicked my life... I'm a 30-something, divorced only child who's mother died in a single car accident...s...
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New...
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yes im new to this and Im only 3 months sober. It has been a long journey to get here though...I still havent made it to any AA meetings...but I am doing an outpatient program for treatment, i am almost done with that part and now its time to go out on my own like a bird just hatched from the egg of a drunk pool in...
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Suicide concept?
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What is the difference between intentionally trying to kill yourself vs. the indifference to your own life? My opinion is that suicidal people are intent on killing themselves; indifferent people do things that are life threatening, value their own lives but do not seem to take the consequences o...
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Oldie But Goodie
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Sitting here watching Mr. Magoo...........
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Hey All, Anyone remember "Mr Magoo's a Christmas Carol" with Jim Baccus as the voice of Mr Magoo? Alas..............The last time I watched this, I probably had on a pair of pajamas with feet in them!!! Its all good when you are sober!!! Tom
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Daily Reflections ~ Problem Solving & 24hrs a Day
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"Quite as important was the discovery that spiritual principles would solve all my problems." ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, p. 42 Through the recovery process described in the Big Book, I have come to realize that the same instructions that work on my alcoholism, work on much more. Whenever I a...
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Hi folks, hope it's ok if I unburden myself here a bit.
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I am a mess. Somehow, in the past 2 years, I went from being a devoted father of two beautiful little girls with a great job and a big house and plenty of money to an divorced, unemployed, slobbering drunken piece of shit. Where once I used to look forward to an occasional night out with the boys and knocki...
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Quick note of thanks
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Just wanted to offer a quick note of thanks to you all. What an amazing group of people really committed to helping others... While I've only been to a couple of AA meetings, I can see how the program really changes lives. I see the benefit of hearing other peoples' stories. Anyway, I wish I had more to o...
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Mele Kalikimaka
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That's how Merry Christmas is said in the Hawaiian Island...We're sunny and bright with the sun in low winter azimuth which means that the evenings will be chilly to cold. Never mind telling me how cold it is where you are because the perception is a relative. Where ever you are at be grateful for the g...
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A Very Merry Christmas... TIPSY
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Pretty sure I am speaking for each member here, and just wanted to wish you a VERY Merry Christmas, no matter what. Funny, I have on the inside thought of you like a breeze or a wind at times.....sometimes you blow in gently and say hi and then sort of like the Roadrunner.. Yep, just like that you are gone, b...
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Welcome Back to All Those Returning After Relapse
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Hi MIP Family: I just wanted to share some experience, strength, & hope, particularly with those who are returning after a relapse. I was the speaker at a recent meeting and a fellow AA member I've known for over a decade came up to me after the meeting and said this: "I was at a meeting about a...
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Guys, I need to vent,
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You've guessed it, I'm snowed in, almost an impossibility in Ireland, and unable to get to meetings, decisions I made while drinking are coming back to haunt me. I employed two people over a year in duration and they pretty much didn't do what they were supposed to, whose to blame? I blame me, but am now...
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gratitude
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I've been reading of a man who's wife is so very hard to please when it comes to gifts. This guy is at his wit's end. I suggested that he maybe could find some improving reading on a life of gratitude for her (and then watch the sparks fly!). Sometimes I can be a smart arse. Anyway i found this on t'internet. i...
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Christmas Wishes
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Hello All A Very Merry Sober Christmas To One And All, or For Some Happy Holidays. Please Remember All Those Who Are Still Out There Suffering, and May They Find Hope And Comfort Soon--Be It With Family Or Friends That Care. Also Keep in Your Hearts and Prayers Those in The Armed Services Far From Home.
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kld47
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One Day At A Time app for iphone!
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WOW. $1.99 bought the entire Big Book, 8 different meditations per day, prayers, promises, and a search function! How do they do that? Tom
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I have to get this off my chest
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I'm not in a comfortable place or a good frame of mind. I feel really upset and sort of kind of lacking in faith for the future. I've tried the gratitude list, I've tried the talking to God, I've tried the talking to people, I've tried listening for the answer and yet still I feel upset. So we're running up f...
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Still Amazed and Excited! 20 years later
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To celebrate an alcoholic that doesn't drink is like applauding a cowboy with hemroids for not riding his horse. When the darn things hurt enough and he has tried every way possible to ride without pain, he will finally stay off the horse. For me it took alot of pain to finally get sober and stay off...
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Merry Christmas family!
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They'll never ever be any rum in the egg nog again and the chestnuts will be 'roasting" not on fire(as I blacked out)I will enjoy fellowship with my God,my family and my friends coherently!There will be gifts because I didnt spend the Christmas cash on the 'next one'.My wife will hold me and tell m...
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Holiday's
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Heres wishing you all whatever kind of Holiday you desire. My bride and I were invited to a daughters place for christmas. All expenses paid. We said no thank you we would like to spend a quiet Christmas at home. Then a few days later she wanted to come to our place. No thank you we would like to spend a qu...
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Wish all of YOU, a very very Happy Holiday
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Hi To All, Just wanted to say a very warm and happy holiday to all, old, young, sober and still not sober (just waiting for the Miracle) a wonderful, and love filled holiday, and for those that are still waiting for that Miracle, a Prayer for Miracle for you, today. Was just reading the " Post your B...
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Just Toni
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Daily Reflections - The Rewards of Giving
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This is indeed the kind of giving that actually demands nothing. He does not expect his brother sufferer to pay him, or even to love him. And then he discovers that by the divine paradox of this kind of giving he has found his own reward, whether his brother has yet received anything or not. TWELVE STEPS A...
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Looking for friend of Matty K, NYC in the '80's
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My sister Esther K., a friend of Bill, is looking for Bill Dro---., who was a friend of Matty Kar---. in NYC (Living Now) around 82-89. Matty (now deceased) was heavily tattooed and he and Esther moved from NY to VA late 80s. If anyone knows of Bill. D., who was a contractor...in NY-NJ area, please ask him...
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Is This It?
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I have been sober for over a year and still suffering from the recovering alcoholics depression, if anything it is getting worse. To be honest I find everything boring since I stopped drinking and when it comes to the end of the working week instead of having drinks with work colleagues and friends I f...
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3RD Times a Charm
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This will be my 3RD attempt at permanent sobriety. First two times I tried to do it myself without telling anyone. Failed miserably. the drinking got worse and worse after each try. Yesterday had a close friend who doesn't drink come over and told him everything. He pledged to see me through this. Told...
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Joseph
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Back From Portland
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Hi everyone, Missed coming to MIP as often this month. For newcomers, YES, sobriety is great. I did my first sober roadtrip this weekend. Not like the roadtrips in the past and often depicted in the movies. In the past a out of town trip was often an anxiety filled occasion. Add family to that and you ha...
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angelov8
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Thirty Four Years Sober Today ~ Dean's Mum!!!
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Happy Soberversary, Eileen if you'll get to see this!! lol Dean tells me we share our bellybutton birthdays! Brilliant lol And you share your Sobriety date with a couple of our Longtimers here too. Esp John! Anyhoop, I hope you're enjoying this very special 24hrs. I'm grateful for your sobriety t...
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